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Omg! Horrible

It will become an unexpected orgy soon, so you better quit

Kceefresh19:
Lol same here. A few years ago; when i was in Jss3, I played a prank on the girl i had a crush on via 2go .. Told her i met a girl at the beach and asked the "girl" out but she refused.
I asked her to guess why. And the girl i had a crush on said its because I'm fat. Since then I've never thought of even looking at any girl because i have that mentality.
And being an introvert doesn't help with it because i find it hard to express my feelings.. I'm still 20 though, so i might get over it

Awww, I’m sorry you felt that way, but you can’t let what one girl told you to determine anything, you are still young and got time to talk to other Girls. You will get over it, just try to put yourself out there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G556sYkqoAk

New body -Kanye west ft Nicki Minaj and Ty Dolla Sign.

I don’t know why Kanye never release this song tho, Nicki bodied her verse.

ToyinDipo:
I am just listening to the song, and I am gradually getting addicted to it

LOL yeah that happens when you start listening to LANA.

Kiddler:
This song is a mood.

Big Mood.

sounwave:
Yeah...
Do you know she's releasing a new album this year?..
White Hot Forever?...

oh wow! I didn’t know . I never heard her mention it, it’s probably gonna be this Summer, that’s when she always drops an album.

sounwave:
I personally prefer this to born to die...
To me, it is her magnum opus...
Well, to each his own right?...

Yes! it's really her best work of art, because she showed a different vulnerability of her, that was relatable, But “Born to die” is a classic on its own.

OkpanachiMax:
But I never treated her badly, I never looked down on her

But you friend-zoned her, she never expected it. She’s gonna feel weird being around you, unless she gives you the opportunity to talk about it and mend the issues.

Um I don’t understand , you blatantly hurt her feelings and you expect her to be cool with you?

sounwave:
One of my best on the album...

same here. Literally her best album after “Born to Die”.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCYmJDO2_IE

Lana del Rey-cinnamon girl.

Heavy on the list on here are

Eyelashes

Make up

Long nails. Bruh! Give it a break.

So sad that she had to end her life.

Liliantalks:
when I was in primary school people use to call me fat, make fun of me , I was really a sad little girl back then ,, took me years to overcome it , I totally got over it when I realized men were into me. Started loving myself , got into Instagram and had likes . That really boosted my self esteem.

That’s awesome . I had the same similar experience, I was called ugly by some girl and she went ahead and spread a bad rumor, that let a hole in me, all throughout high school but I got over it. Now I know that I’m a very beautiful girl then and now. She can’t tell me s.hit now. Lol

You both are better off not being together. If you have some much love for yourself, you wouldn’t need his validation. He likes empathy for you and you’re probably vulnerable from all his BS, so just let it go.

I mean do you have money? Lol I feel like if you did, she won’t mind you marrying her, but 5 years? Damn!

Swtbabyvee:
Anxiety is only an indicator of underlying disease when feelings become excessive, all-consuming and interfere with daily living.

Self-esteem is an individual's subjective evaluation of their own worth.

Depression is a group of conditions associated with the elevation or lowering of a person's mood, such as depression or bipolar disorder

Note: extrovert ain’t super humans , they just make a conscious efforts , they can choose to lay in their beds in self pity but they hv decided not to. there r challenges everyday and we have no choice but to defeat them n move on with our happy lives.

I don’t agree that all introverts are this way , depressed, anxious and hv low self esteem, I hv met a few , some introverts r even better fighting life challenges better than I do , some even get me over a sad mood cause I am an over thinker. Most are just overly very shy n don’t speak up much .

Lastly babe no matter what u hv gone through isn’t worth holding on to forever , and darling u are too beautiful to even have self esteem issue and u seem intelligent also. Depression is a very serious situation try ur possible best to over come it and get some fresh breeze of freedom . If u believe u don’t need to , then that’s the development that guy is talking about .

Sis, I’m talking about chronic anxiety that can be debilitating and lead to irrational thoughts like suicide and fears all the time that interferes with your life everyday. It’s not your regular anxiety of giving a presentation or worrying about when you can pay the next bills. I’m talking about the one that leads to self harm, ghosting people for weeks. LOL extroverts can’t go a week being depressed, they can get over it within two days because they can’t be alone for two long in isolation. Everyone is different quite frankly, but I think that Most introverts find it hard to express themselves or rather what they are feeling at the moment, that’s why introverts have small circle of people they can talk to that understand them or sometimes be in our inner world and figure it out, but Extroverts will always get feedback from everybody.

Also the self-esteem part is really part of that inner thought that comes during the depression, it won’t go away, especially if one has been through some experiences that has to do with body image, it’s hard to fight it too. All these is a process and most people still go through this but they try to hide it or deal with it.

Also, lol don’t make this about me, I’m just sharing my opinion based on my own part and other people in general. I’m not depressed anymore like I used to be . Thanks tho.

ToyinDipo:
A favour to a fellow introvert

I’m open to talking on here till I feel ready to reply my DMs, if that’s cool

Swtbabyvee:
do u guy’s honestly think extroverts don’t go through depression, anxiety or low self esteem at times? If many of you hear stories of many extrovert u guys will be baffled, infact many introverts haven’t experienced half of it , The problem is making It part of ur being.

Yes, everyone goes through depression and stuff, we are human, but for extroverts it’s more a phase of a situation that they are dealing with at the moment. I’m talking about literally lingered with it your whole life, but as you get older you get to understand why.

TheExclusive:
Hi guys, I have been reading comments here about introverts and I have a general observation to make.

What I seen here so far are young people that have not taken personal responsibility to develop themselves to the point where they can engage in social interactions with other people. Personal development is something that improves your self esteem and enables you interact with people without "feeling intimidated" or "introverted" as some of you have called it.

I hardly see people that are among the best in their field within any locality exhibit any form of introversion even though some of them are introverts. Because they have developed themselves to the point that they can engage in any form interaction with people and feel nothing.

There is very thing line between being introverted and not developing oneself to fit in to the society.

Being an Introvert doesn’t necessarily mean that we don’t engage or that we diffident ourselves from social interaction. You are just laying a judgement saying that we have not taken a personal responsibility about it, Trust me when I say that we have done all that. The traits of being an introvert doesn’t go away, it comes with a lot of baggage, For example Depression, Anxiety, low self esteem. When one goes through that it’s really hard, because some of us might have been going through that at a young age and couldn’t figure it out.

Also most introverts are not shy to engage in social interaction and we do have some elements of extroversion in our personalities. It just that we know how to handle our feelings and when it’s get too draining we back off to recharge.

ToyinDipo:
I am an introvert too, introverts roll together
Do you reply PM?

Lol. No I barely

Oluwasaeon:
With the way you described yourself

Oh cool. I’m laidback

I love simple perfume. My fave is “Sweet like candy” by Ariana Grande and “Not a perfume” by Juliette has a gun.

Oluwasaeon:
My kinda person ❤️

How am I your kinda person?

simplelex:
eeyah.. Look on the bright side.. No teenage pregnancy

Yeah, Thank God.

Beats solo3. It’s been a year and still sounds good. I got it for $250 during Black Friday.

OsuIgboIpob:
Start with yourself first