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They always lose in the end

What manner of nonsense is this?

He stole 1.1 billion naira.

But get only 7 years jail term or an option to pay 200 million naira.

How does paying 200 million naira is justice for stealing 1.1 billion naira?

Just how?

canada123:
Can’t tell my siblings or open up to them because I came from a Christian home. My Dad and mum are pastors. And have religious siblings too.

you have too much free time on your hands.

Try finding something productive. Like take a course but in a real classroom not one of those online courses.

Or hit the gym, take part in a community platform.

Just try find things that will take you out of your apartment for the better part of the day.

For the onlyfans, it's better you start thinking twice about it.

Someone once said something, "saying you don't have control over your sexual urge is a useless excuse. If at the point of sleeping with a woman and you discovered she's HIV positive, would you say, you can't control your urges and must go on with it?"

Of course not. Your sexual urge is within your power to control. You just are taking the easier way out.

Start making changes. Keep a diary for a week and keep track of the things you do everyday.

Find where you spend your lonely times and see how you can utilize those times for other gainful activities.

rabankonchas:
Order controls chaos.

no sir.

Rules control chaos. This control brings order.

Rules expressed on chaos = order.

We live by rules laid out by no one but the shadows of our past to control our lives.

Why can't we break out of these rules?

HellVictorinho7:
love can keep marriage too

lols.

Marriage have no bearing on love. Love does not need to keep marriage. Love needs to be expressed that's all

A lot of times we accept and do things not with any other intentions but mainly because it feels like the acceptable thing to do.

Or is the thing that is next in line.

Take for instance, when you graduate primary school, the next typical step is to progress to secondary school and then next to university.

Very few and I mean really few people ever stopped to think if this is actually the next step for them.

I mean, may acquire more than enough education to live their life at the secondary level but due to societal pressure and this sort of "natural progression" they just have to do it.

We live our lives on this basis day in and day out.

Many of the things we do in life are really not thought out or reasoned out for necessity. But instead on the basis of progression and the next right thing to do.

We want to finish school, get a job, get comfortable, start a family and then, uhm, wait till we die.

An unbreakable vicious cycle.

What if you stepped out?

I'll tell you what will happen, everyone, virtually everyone will come for your neck?

You want to drop out of the university? Hmm, your parents will nearly disown you?

Ha, it's time for marriage and you don't want to marry? It's unthinkable, an abomination.

The society will fight you with insults, ridicules and so on.

Our lives have been set in concrete from the day we are born with no option to even alter it.

And we'll live in this rigid life, with happiness on our faces and sometimes sadness in our hearts wishing we could do otherwise.

But that's by the way.

So this evening I talked about the uselessness of marriage when it comes to sex and so many people are already on my neck.

Sex regardless of how you want to paint it is still sex. It is not clean or dirty. It is just sex.

The rest is just your perception of it.

You can believe that sex before marriage is dirty and a sin.

It doesn't change the fact that the end product of that sex is the same as the one after marriage.

Marriage does not make sex clean, sweeter or better.

It has no effect on it.

Rather, you are just following the way the society has been progressed to make you have sex.

Simply because you prayed over your food doesn't make the food clean or dirty.

But I'm open to your logical ideas on how important marriage is to sex and the family.

You can start your family once you pick a woman that loves you and you love her.

That's how nature designed us to be. Not this fanfair and religious incantations we keep heaping on it to make it sound grand and beautiful.

You do understand marriage does not add any "sugar" to sex?

Try two people who don't love each other, let them get married and have sex and see if there will be any love.

Sex happens because of love. Love doesn't happen because of sex.

So why so much emphasis on sex?

Marriage is a archaic and dying institution. Anyone who is open minded can see it.

Fewer and fewer people are willing to get married and it'll continue to decline as the years go by.

Can't imagine why something as gathering of people and eating food is significant to sex.

Please be calming down eh.

Thought you've created your last and final thread?

Iamgrey5:
Toyin is one of Edo person I like.

She grew up in Ibadan and respect Yoruba culture.

Unlike one Igede boy on this forum.

Very strong lady.

wetin de igede guy do you?

siofra:
Why are you supporting him so much?

This is suspicious. I don't think you're female. A female nairalander will rarely, if never, support something like this.

support him?

I hate the hypocrisy that's all.

siofra:
Ah don hear. I'll continue insulting him and all the men on nairaland.

never cared. Just find it distasteful