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9182736455O1999:
I just checked my balance and i see 0.00NGN.
I was owing N200. This is wonderful.

Jesus have paid all our debts 😩

Magnoliaa:
Will you get this BS out of my front?!

Are you another man abi where are your kind coming from? Two fùcking times in a week? What exactly in my comments is drawing you people to it? Is everything okay bayi?

who tf are you?

Tonero5200:
I don't know why I feel bad, but I do feel bad..I am human. She refused to give birth out of wedlock unless I go see her parents and do the necessary which is very okay by me, because I know I am not yet ready and where she's from I heard just the traditional rite alone can start a building foundation to lintel level...
we have tried breaking up because of this but one way or the other she still find her way back to me..My withdrawal game is good if not the count would have been more than that, but no matter how pro you are they must be some accidental discharge unknowingly most times.
I have advised her from the bottom of my heart because of the love we share that what she's doing it's not good and might affect her in the future with her family which might be me or some other guy. The thought of this is killing me and I am ready to call it off by the end of this month with no looking back.

I hate insulting people.

But boss, honestly, you're stvpid and worst, you have no one to tell you.

There is condom. There are post pills. There are other methods of preventing pregnancy.

Most girls are naive and this becomes worst when in love especially when they trust you.

You are more or less taking advantage of that poor girl.

Why try making it your duty to prevent her pregnancy for God's sake? Always use a condom and give her postinor after sex.

But better still why not go see her parents? If you've given her 8 belle, I see no reason why she might not be good for you as a wife.

Please do something right for her sake.

Magnoliaa:
Just look at the way you narrated this in such a benign manner when it really could have been a stressful experience for the girl!

You literally stalked someone to her house just to get her number? Really?!

You winked at her, whispered that you wanted her number, alighted after her and persistently followed her 'till she got to her house and you're still harassing her with calls and text messages? All you the while you were a stranger to her? And not to talk of age gap that may be visibly seen between the two of you?

this is wrong though. He did nothing wrong.

Mode4:
There is this girl I met today while I was returning from somewhere. She was in the same tricycle with me. She wore her NYSC wear; obviously a corp member. I sat close to her and immediately began to fancy everything about her.

I am not in the habit of wooing or 'toasting' women because nearly all the girls I have dated in the past actually just became my girlfriends just like that. We met, developed strong feelings and voila! dating started without me uttering any statement like like 'would you be my girlfriend?" bla bla blah.

Fast forward, while we were inside the taxi, I actually winked at her and whispered to her hearing that I needed her phone number which she declined.
By the time she alighted I decided to stop as well even though I didn't get to my destination.

I approached her while she walking down the road, spoke nicely and she gave me her number after I had followed her almost to her house. I called the number immediately and her phone rang. However, she told me she doesn't pick calls or respond to text messages which I thought was a joke. This girl should be like 23 or 24 years old.
I am actually 30. This evening, I tried to call her several times but she keeps ending the call without picking. I even sent a text and there is no response.

I actually like this girl. I mean, her appearance ticks all the boxes but my problem is how to get her attention without offending her or acting desperate. Please, can someone help me with any clues on what to do. I actually don't want to bombard her with too many calls though.

two issues here:

1. You called too many times.
2. You sent a text after you know that she's purposely declining your calls. She knows that you knew. We all know.

Both of these acts screams desperation and unseriousness. Or someone who is hot and only looking for a relieve.

Here's something you should do from now henceforth.

Only ring her line once a day. Do this alternatingly with text messages.

Some days, call her once or other times, drop a text.

Your text shouldn't be anything romantic or proving that you love her. You just met her.

Instead, make it a little casual like you really want to or are interested in getting to know her.

"wasup. Just wanted to check in on you today. Hope you are having a wonderful day? Would be awesome to hear your wonderful voice again"

Just simple casual texts but all with a hint to show that you actually care.

You might want to consider my book on dating guide for guys especially the Texting aspects of it.

Karmar03:
then get ready for your love ones to die
They are gonna wreck marriages and destroy your brothers and sisters

Monster unleashed

what monster exactly?

Those chewing gum boys??


Y'all should go and die abeg

citizen202:
Dear Nairaland
Please be advised that the individual with username Queendera is infact a fraudster and real name is MATTHEW KAYODE OCHE and also has many other numerous names and numbers they use for cheap websites and scripts for 10k /40k . This is a warning to anyone dealing with them he is a scam, I have so far acquired all the information I need , all jobs recruiting firms , all companies, all embassies, police unit worldwide , all social media, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook will carry your image , name and image with attached screenshot of your fraud activities, I
For the next one year non stop you will read about yourself in all platforms.
Be warned everyone avoid these names Queendera, these numbers
+2349152119090
0808 137 1756

receipt pls

This is how slavery starts...

What does it matter how aboki perceives you as?

Bunkbars:
i do wonder how you boys feels disguising as a girl.

it feels wonderful

She's pretty.

Trizyd:
Nice. And they where forming to us before. Had to be using VPN to access it.

na why I no fit ever pay them be dat.

Same with Netflix

Nothing.

qwertyboss:
No!
It's a give away I thought

lolz. No be steal I steal oga

qwertyboss:
50k

you dey whine me?

Hello guys


Recently received this as a gift and then got another better one.

So I want to sell this off and spend the money 😜😅😅.

I need the cash abeg. I never too big to dey use two smartphones.

70k only.

Men and women see things from a very different perspective and that's one of the reasons why I feel the two genders tend to have issues from time to time.

As a woman, if your man should cheat, most times, you can easily wave it aside.

But for men, it's a lot different.

A friend explain it to me like this:

A woman cheating on a man is the same hurt and betrayal a woman will feel if her lovely baby prefers another woman's breast milk to her own.

Now I'm no mother yet. But it'll be an irreparable damage to think that my child will want another person to breastfeed them instead of men.

Can't imagine what I'd feel at the thought of that.

So, obviously you know someone is a scammer.

He falls into your trap, would you scam the person?

More like stealing from a thief. Is that wrong?

Go see a doctor. Eye no be wetin you go use play

Masterviolence:
The digital world is here.

Nations around the world are either planning or are already implementing their CBDC.

But the down side of this is that the government have easy control over your money.

So get ready to be controlled.

stop talking nonsense.

No one has accepted or is planning to accept anything.

Samantha124:
What would you be doing in the first place checking your partner's phone?

I mean before I could use my partner's phone, I ask him first, unless if it's an emergency and his phone is the only one nearby for me to use.

what sort of nonsense is this?

Why won't you he at liberty to check your partner's phone?

VeryWickedMan:
How are European nations with their pee pee above any Black nation?

Kuku put China and Japan na.

The white man's insecurity is worse than Boko Haram.

does anyone really believe this crap

tesppidd:
Perhaps you are too young to understand this.
Even Before Buhari tribalism was the order of the day.
Even in your communities, in your companies, in your street, in your church.

Stop acting like Buhari created nepotism and tribalism in Nigeria.

The construction even prescribes sharing of power across regions and ethnic groups..

Here you are Mr Know it all, talking about people not talking about competence.

What zone has no competent people?

That aside, Buhari did not cause anything.

The typical Nigerian man is inherently and naturally tribalist and nepotistic.

Stop accusing Buhari for your bad behavior.

every zone has competent people. But clearly no one is concerned about that

When is the cost of governance going to be reduced?

Everything concerning the masses is getting increased except their salaries.

But no one is touching our politicians 'plate of rice'

tesppidd:
So now, Buhari's nepotism infected Tinubu?
Just like the HIV virus?

Wow!

Just wow!

no.

Buhari's nepotism infected all of us. Look at Frontpage.

Two different threads based on the religion and state of origin of the appointees.

The nepotism "virus" (as you rightly called it) has spread beyond Aso Rock and has now infected all of us.

A few years back only buhari was appointing based on ethnicity and state of origin. Today, we are all celebrating Tinubu's appointment based on that and no one seems to be asking if these hands are competent.

So no, this virus has not affected Tinubu but the nation itself. The core of the nation, it's very citizens.

Like you trying to defend Tinubu at all cost without even understanding what I'm talking about.

Like a robot, once you see Tinubu and nepotism used in the same sentence, you swing into defensive mode without even understanding the context.

That is the nepotism virus I'm talking about. We citizens are supposed to defend our democracy but no, we rather defend our ethnic group.

Who then shoulders the responsibility of defending the collective? None.