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RomanceRe: How Do I Deal With A Frigid Woman? by Queendera(f): 7:10am On Mar 16, 2023
Skyfornia:
All you are concerned is putting your preeq inside an innocent girl.. where is your moral?
can you swear on your life that you've not fornicated before? undecided
RomanceRe: How Do I Deal With A Frigid Woman? by Queendera(f): 7:09am On Mar 16, 2023
siofra:
Oh so you think what he's doing is not attention seeking? Why attack me first, missy?
he asked a valid question and the only thing that came to your mind is to insult him?

You probably don't even know this guy. Abeg you can do better.
RomanceRe: How Do I Deal With A Frigid Woman? by Queendera(f): 7:02am On Mar 16, 2023
siofra:
Leave that girl alone. It's not by force, you goddamm rapist angry
stop being childish. All this attention seeking is annoying 🙄🙄

@op

The ball is in your court. I think you should try talk to her.

She's probably trying to make sure you don't see her as a LovePeddler or a loose woman.

You know women are always scared of that and being her first man, she'll want to be extra careful not to show that she enjoys sex too much thereby giving you the idea that she's morally loose.

Again if this is the problem only talking to her might be the solution. Try telling her how much you don't judge her and stuff.

If you don't have long term goals with her, hmm, you better start creating an exit now. Please give her a soft landing eh. Abeg
TravelRe: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Queendera(f): 11:26am On Mar 15, 2023
ChybuzzDD:
I still don't understand why Nigerian guys do these kind of things to their fellow men abroad

How can a sane man be intentionally doing what can cause irreparable harm to his fellow man's marriage huh

What happens to going after the single and searching ladies their?

In fact ehh, if i hear at any time in the future that you sent people to c*t that idiot's throat, i won't blame you for any reason.
I hate it when people intentionally look down on or harm others, and i believe such people shouldn't be allowed to go free.
the problem is not the guys but the married women.

A single guy is not under any obligation or oath to love and cherish.

He's not bound by any law and made no promises.

It is the women who should honor the contract of marriage. So she's to blame.

Honestly, I can't blame a single guy in this situation but the married women who have lost all respect for their marriage and home.

I mean, her marriage is only worth a few handbags?
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 4:57am On Mar 15, 2023
Kobojunkie:
You are kidding, right? undecided

If when dating a man and are allowed to lust after her meaning no sexual intercourse whatsoever, how would you go about figuring out whether you are both sexually compatible or not? Or are you insinuating that it is possible to figure out sexual compatibility without lusting after him in any way? undecided
I am saying sexual satisfaction is a thing.
Stop creating imaginary arguments
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 4:13pm On Mar 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Wrong about what exactly? You can't have God who says lust after a one you aren't married to is sin, and demand sexual compatibility at the same time. It is impossible. undecided
this is wrong.

Lust and sexual satisfaction is different.
CrimeRe: UNICAL Professor Felix Akpan Found Dead In His Apartment (Photo) by Queendera(f): 12:25pm On Mar 14, 2023
Jennyclay:
If he's among those lecturers that normally demand sex for grade, may he rest in pieces.
why not just type rest in peace and move on?
Nairaland GeneralOne Thing Nairaland Need To Implement Right Now by Queendera(op): 12:24pm On Mar 14, 2023
Nairaland has recently made some progress in the last few months.

Now we can use our normal emojis instead of being restricted to the ones here.

Small change. But great.

Another thing we need is the ability to up vote posts and comments.

The like and share features basically have no use.

Especially the share feature. It's almost useless.

Instead this should be replaced with an up vote button.

The more people up vote a comment, the more the comment should rise to the top.

This way, we get to read the best comments first.

Thanks.
RomanceOne Foolish Thing We Do In Africa by Queendera(op): 10:29am On Mar 14, 2023
We judge everything by the Bible or the Quran.

"This is what the Bible says"

"that is what the Quran says"

Never seen people without identity as much as Africa.

In a war, the Christians are supporting Isreal while the Muslims support the Muslim countries.

Right or wrong doesn't matter.

In all these, where is your "father"?
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Military Ranked 36th Globally, 4th In Africa By Firepower Index by Queendera(f): 10:24am On Mar 14, 2023
Metaphor44:
What were the parameters deployed in this ranking?
a sign that you don't read.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 10:21am On Mar 14, 2023
DonroxyII:
Maturities is the Most Important Aspect of Marriage follow by Sexual Amorous Relationships!
a matured hungry man will throw dignity away and beg for help.

A matured angry man will break with the right conditions in place.

Sex break people. Let's stop sugar coating things.

Many mature men here start considering cheating or are advised to get a side chic because they are not satisfied.

Sex is important. It has nothing to do with maturity.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 10:18am On Mar 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Indeed they are critical, so what I don't understand is why people who obviously have no need for God feel they must definitely carry God for head go do wetin God talk say"Thou shall not"? undecided

Leave God alone and embrace sexual compatibility in relationship abeg! undecided

Surely, anybody who carry God for their head should accept by that that sexual compatibility in marriage becomes of no importance by that choice to carry God for head. undecided
you are wrong. But continue
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Oooh
The dude has a clear figure of him leaving this world
I think it was he was to kick the bucket because he was having sex with bonny girls on an empty stomach grin
seems you love cracking dry jokes.

See me laughing 😒😒😒
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:30pm On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
if everyone becomes polygamous who becomes GO and Bishop?
those who wants to be.

Not everyone will become polygamous. But no matter how much of the truth they tell you, you'll somehow find a loophole to return to your chains.

Monogamy is not biblical. Polygamy is not a sin to God. Any teaching that differs from this is a lie
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:28pm On Mar 12, 2023
blesdman:
We are so serious analysing what colonial masters gave us to think about instead of asking questions about how to improve our traditional systems. We were colonised to think that everything traditional is diabolic and evii. Let's wise up
gbam.

Funny how the book given to us by those who killed mercilessly, and steal godlessly has become the standard with which we judge ourselves
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
If it is not any of those things
Then it is not important
your opinion.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
grin
You never see case study that is why you are misinforming people.
Here in bonny rivers state a boy went on a sexual enterprise with an empty stomach.he was rushed hospital ward to collect blood
hunger in that sentence is figurative not literally.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:23pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Really
So sex is food like rice,beans,tomatoes
Sex is a house that will accommodate human beings against the elements
Sex is a cloth you will wear
it is not any of those things.

But it is as important as them
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:19pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
What is more important as food,clothing and shelter?
sex
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:14pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Good to know that you understand that sex is not the most important
it is as important as the most important things.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:13pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Is sex food like rice,beans,water?
yes.

It's a lot like rice, beans,... It can fill you up when you are hungry. And too much of it can make your "stomach to pain you".
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:11pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Can you explain how?
i can. But won't.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:07pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Lack of Sex and poverty or sickness

Sex ,prosperity or good health
Which of the 6 carries weight
all.

All are intricately connected.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 12:06pm On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:
Define sexual urge?
you don't have a dictionary?
RomanceHow Can You Explain This Money Missing From Her Account? by Queendera(op): 11:57am On Mar 12, 2023
So, an older woman called me today that money is missing from her account.

The amount is 7k but that means a lot to her. Besides, she's now afraid of keeping money in her account.

Here's what happened as she explained it to me.

She went to a POS agent on the 26th of February to withdraw money.

On getting there after giving them her card and at the point of entering her pin, she discovered that she was with her GTB bank atm card.

She doesn't have any money on that card and besides the card has long expired, it expired about a year ago.

She later came back home without making any withdrawal.

On getting home, she discovered that 7k has been withdrawn from her Zenith Bank account.

Not sure how that is possible or even possible.

All this happened on the same date.

She went to the bank to print her statement of result.

It showed that the withdrawal happened on that same date and with that same POS agent because their name was on it to show the debit.

Right now I have no idea what to say to her.
RomanceMeme Thread. Something To Make You Laugh Today. Highly Homophobic � by Queendera(op): 11:35am On Mar 12, 2023
Can't post pictures because of this "checking for security" nonsense seun has going on here 🙄🙄😏😏
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 11:21am On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
You are dead wrong. Hunger is different from taste or recreational change of taste for fun of it.
lolz.

We are talking about sexual satisfaction not kinks.

Sexual appetite is much the same as hunger appetite.

Looking for a partner with the same appetite shouldn't be discouraged or seen as acquired taste.

Because not everyone gets the same sexual appetite or the need to sex every other hour.

Again, you are dead wrong.

And hunger is also a product of taste. Not necessarily acquired.

No matter how much you drink Coke, you'll still thirst for water.

Same way, people often wanna try different styles of sex because of their imagination even if they've never seen it before.

Heck, a virgin who has never had sex before, naturally will understand what to do in the first instance and will continue to make adjustments until they are satisfied.

These adjustments can either be for the good or the detriment of their partner. This becomes their preference which may not be suitable to their partners.

In any way, you want to argue it, sexual satisfaction has nothing to do with sleeping around. It's your natural sexual preference. And you'll do well to find a partner that's compatible with that.


Sexual satisfaction is not a derivative of only acquired taste, it's much as natural as hunger.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 11:11am On Mar 12, 2023
Dottore:
The idea of monogamy is a western culture not African culture not biblical. I wonder how the white man convinced you people that polygamy is sinful and abominable but homosexuality is tolerable and human right.
All the biblical patriarchs were polygamists and it was never mentioned anywhere that anyone was punished by God for Polygamy infact God even promised David that he could have given him even more women if he hadn't slept with Uriah's wife. David had 8 wives and many concubines yet God still refers to him as a man after God's heart. Abraham slept with his maid and still had a concubine called Kethura. God even promised to bless Ishmael just for the mere fact that he's Abraham's blood. I don't need to mention Solomon. Jacob married 2 sisters and was fvcking their maids: Bilhah and Zilpah yet God used him to establish the nation Israel.

We all pray to God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but we don't want to follow their foot steps. Haba.

Only Bishop's and General Overseers were instructed to be husbands of one wife.
people rather preach "norms" and say it is the truth.

Here is an undebatable truth.
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 11:04am On Mar 12, 2023
Moh247:
Sex is just an aspect of marriage
the most important aspect
RomanceRe: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Queendera(f): 11:02am On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
Sexual satisfaction is an erroneous and evil idea. There is nothing like sexual satisfaction in reality. It is just a phrase to help package and launder premarital and extramarital affairs.
According to Gods plan, one man knows one woman sexually, how will you be dissatisfied with something you have never tasted another version of? You aren't suppose to taste more than one flavour. If you taste more than one flavour out of mistake, as a matured person, self-control is a key part of maturity.
this is totally wrong.

Hunger does not come because you eat different types of food.

Hunger comes because it is natural.

Sexual satisfaction is a thing because there's something called sexual urge which is natural.

You as a human have sexual urge not because you've slept around but because you are human and a biological living being.

Our sexual urge and needs divers.

Stop downplaying critical issues with trivial and nonsensical arguments
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Do This On Social Media? by Queendera(op): 1:03pm On Mar 09, 2023
Soifra:
U dey form but offline na you be poórnstar
undecided
RomanceWhy Do Guys Do This On Social Media? by Queendera(op): 12:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
Some things are beyond childish. I mean, there are certain things that even children will see them as foolish and stupid.

As such, kid's wouldn't even be caught doing them.

Yet, some fully grown men with hairs in their a*ss crack will be doing them on social media.

Like, how do you as a full grown man send a girl a friend request on Facebook and the next thing is to send her a pic of your d*ck?

Like do you actually think that will arouse her and suddenly she'll want to f*ck you?

Common man, get yourself a little sense even if it's hard for you, try to reason a little.

Some will even be sending porn videos to you like what am I supposed to do with that?

Porn is only sexy when you are in the mood for it, other than that it's disgusting.
Please if you do this, you will never ever ever ever get any woman.

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