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^^^GO KILL URSELF! ppphmmmftttt!

^^^Yes, I agree. I told my fiance about it and he handling it.

I agree, there nothing wrong with admiration and telling someone they are pretty or whatever, but GOING TO THE POINT OF actions where the lines should be drawn.

I asked because I didn't know if I was making it a big deal out of what it is or I was actually doing right to make a noise about it. The last thing I need for my fiance to start lecturing me about in Nigerian, a fiance or a wife shouldn't be this and that, HE WILL GO ON AND ON!

Thanks!

^^^^^LMAO!


Beside the fact he a babysitter for the dead people, HE SOUND LIKE HE IS DECENT. Don't let your happiness be destroy based on his occupation. I mean that man works unlike SOME OF THESE MOFOIN MEN ON HERE, but anyway, HE WORKS, that is a plus girl!

I mean graveyard can be a place you can him can romancize you know, I mean if you start feeling cold hands, then I WILL RUN!

If you don't want him, I GOT A SISTA WHO WOULD APPRECIATE HIM. She always hollerin she tired of JOBLESS MEN!

Thanks girl,

I thought I was trippin for a minute, It appalls me A MARRIED MAN would even be thinking like that and disrespecting his wife at the same time. I don't roll like that I even told him, YOU OUGTHA BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF.

Okay, good to know I am not the only one with some SENSE!


Yes, Plat, A BIG BOOTY AND A PRETTY FACE TURN A DOG ALOOSE!

Hmmm, men into marrying hookers?  I thought men say you can't turn no hooker into no housewife?  So, if I dress like a hooker why am I being asked to marry them?

Maybe it that Nigerian thing I don't know nuffin about.  Cos where I am, HOOKERS DON'T GET ASKED IN HAND OF MARRIAGE,


But, I digress, thanks for the comment though!

My fiance ain't interested in white women, HE ACTUALLY THINK THEY LOOK AND SMELL LIKE A WOLF,

I guess I am tripping huh?

Okay, the first STRANGE CHIT,

One of my colleagues showed me a text message of one of the guy that we works with. He is a married man and is JEALOUS of the fact that I am seeing someone. He wrote in text to my colleague that if he wasn't married, he would have approached me long time ago. He feel that he is the only man for me.

Now my question to you is, WHAT THE FUGG IS HE DOING THINKING ABOUT ME AND HE IS MARRIED? Why is he jealous with a WIFE?

Okay, the second strange chit,

My next door neighbor is a single man who is focused entirely on his career and has no girlfriend. He brother, who is in the military just came to visit him for the break. My neighbor knowing I am engaged and in a relationship, HAD THE GALL to ask me to tell my fiance that I am not interested in him and pushed me toward his brother! Mind you, his brother commented me on my look and my body saying "I am fiooone with a big booty". I simply asked him do you have any respect to someon's wife or fiance? He responded, not when that wife or fiance should be mine.

Is that strange chit or am I tripping?

If you married your wife PURELY BASED ON HOW SHE LOOKS AT THAT MOMENT then you got another thing coming. LOOKS FLUCUATES LIKE WEIGHT, sometimes you look your WORSE AND SOMETIMES YOU LOOK YOUR BEST.

Men often assumed that women are satsified with a man that provides and protects neglects their bodily appearance hence taking the woman for granted. Just like you want a good looking woman so does your wife wants a good looking man. Looks SHOULD NOT BE THE DECIDING FACTOR of your happiness, but what the contents the person posesses.

Cheating has nothing to do with looks, body appearance, and faults. It has alot to do with the person morality and judgement call. IF your morality is of a piss bucket of course you will cheat. If you don't respect yourself, you will demean yourself. People thinks that if they cheat on their spouses that they are ONLY disrespecting their spouses, but REALLY YOU DISRESPECTED YOURSELF, you spread yourself thing as the way you think of yourself.


My grandma always say people do exactly how they think of themselves, if they do shitty things, they think fo themselves shitty.

Nawl, IF SHE AINT CALLING, SHE AINT INTERESTED!

You know what Violent, I was thinking the same thing, HOW CAN A SECURITY GUARD BE RICH?!!! Hell doctors don't even make that much money, I KNOW DAMN WELL SECURITY GUARDS DON'T!

Well, maybe he is rich compared to the men she used to dating, I DON'T KNOW,

The problem with men is they don't pursue with CONFIDENT. When you are chasing a girl, YOU MUST BE CONFIDENT that you will get the girl. Girls like a confident man! We feed off of that. IF you are scary, WE CAN SENSE THAT AND NOT BECOME INTERESTED.

My baby got me because he was confident and HE TOLD ME I WAS HIS WIFE TO BE. See confident is the key. Now, don't get me wrong, sometimes you can be confident and not get the girl, BUT NINE OUT OF TEN, if your DIIICK PICK THE RIGHT ONE, you will end up a winner!

So basically, THE GIRL AIN'T INTERESTED!

He working right? WHY COMPLAIN? Okay, he babysits dead people, IS THAT A DEAL BREAKER?

Hee Hee

Common sense would tell anyone that if you have someone that spends all the money and you are married to a saver, THERE WILL BE ISSUES AND A CHANCE OF DIVORCE.

BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, TALK ABOUT MONEY SHOULD BE THE LIST OF COMMUNICATION TOPIC.

What are your spending habits? How much should we both have in petty cash? How much should we save for raining day? Joint accounts with BOTH SIGNATURE NEEDED TO WITHDRAW? There are countless of questions about MONEY, but if you BOTH ON one accord about how the money will be management, THERE WILL NOT BE AN ISSUE.

Chea!

Like the old folks used to say in my area, LOVE CAN'T PAY THE LIGHT BILL OR THE GAS BILL.

I truly believe that when you love someone, TRULY LOVE SOMEONE MONEY IS NOT AN ISSUE, but do not become lazy and not work simply because a person love you despite of. You have to be realistic and know that bills have to be paid. I am not saying that you have to have a truck load of money, but have some KIND OF STEADY INCOME.

My friends and I had this discussion before SOME of us said we would date a blue collar man and MOST OF THEM SAID they ONLY DATE WHITE COLLAR men. The problem with alot of marriages that ends on MONEY ISSUES, It has nothing to do with BECAUSE SOMEONE IS BROKE OR JOBLESS. It has alot to do with THE EXPECTATION regarding to money.

For example,

If you are a spender and your mate is a saver. You will have problems because the money management is not IN CORRELATION. You must come to some kind of agreement regarding to money.

A man's lips and full set of teeth is attractive to me. He must moisturizes his lips on a daily basis because chapped lips are signs of CRACKHEADISH!

I wanna sex you up, BY COLOR ME BADD

Damn, BLACK WOMEN THAT BAD THAT YOU HAVE TO GO TO LONDON TO GRAB A HONKEY?

My back, my neck, and my kitty kat by Khia