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ok let me think about it

His points are salient.

If the fulani herders cannot build their own Ranch.

Almost all states have parks, they get revenue from these parks, market. Government build things to generate revenue..

The governor of various states can decide to Build these ranch, and charge the users of the ranch levies. its possible, no matter what state or tribe you come from, you can ranch your cattle so long as you have the money.

Let us make money from ranching, even private individual can build ranch for rent.

Rent out the ranches to who ever wants to rare cattle, everybody will be happy, states and private citizens make money building the ranches.

That is why landlords built houses to rent, and make money, we can rent out ranches to herders no matter the tribe, landlords love tenants that can pay and I believe fulani herders can pay.

I am now an atheist

Fantachapman:
The girl I am engaged to and want to marry told me today that i love her more than she loves me. What does this mean?

tell someone you want to marry and she said I am taking it too far.

Please am I making a mistake to want to marry her? Does she love me? Or am I taking her statement too far like she said?

.dear op

if everything written here is true, I have just one advice for you. Follow the bible

men.
1. Respect his judgment
A man deeply needs the woman in his life to respect his knowledge, opinions, and decisions—what I would call his judgment… many men wished their mate wouldn’t question their knowledge or argue with their decisions all the time. It’s a touchy (and difficult) thing in these liberated days, but what it really comes down to is their need for us to defer to them.
Several men confessed that they felt like their opinions and decisions were actively valued in every area of their lives except at home. Some men felt that their comrades at work trusted their judgment more than their own wives did. Also, while a man’s partners or colleagues will rarely tell him what to do (they ask him or collaborate on the decision instead), more than one wife has made the mistake of ordering her husband around like one of the kids.
2. Respect his abilities
Another strong theme that emerged was that men want—even need—to figure things out for themselves. And if they can, they feel like they have conquered something and are affirmed as men. For some reason, spending hours figuring out how to put together the new DVD player is fun. Problem is, we want to help them—and guess how they interpret that? You got it: distrust. (It’s a wonder any relationships work and that the human race didn’t die out millennia ago!) And, of course, our attention is not all benign. Sometimes we truly don’t have confidence that our man can figure something out on his own.
The little things equal one big clue
We don’t realize that the act of forcing ourselves to trust our men in little things means so much to them, but it does. It’s not a big deal to us, so we don’t get that it’s a big deal to them. We don’t get that our responses to these little choices to trust or not trust—or, at least, act like we do!—are interpreted as signs of our overall trust and respect for them as men.
A man might think of it like this: If she doesn’t trust me in something as small as finding my way along a road, why would she trust me in something important, like being a good breadwinner or a good father? If she doesn’t respect me in this small thing, she probably doesn’t really respect me at all.
The next time your husband stubbornly drives in circles, ask yourself what is more important—being on time to the party or his feeling trusted. No contest.
3. Respect in communication
Women hold an incredible power in the way we communicate with our men (both husbands and sons) to build them up or to tear them down, to encourage or to exasperate. Some things just push a man’s buttons. This goes beyond what we say—such as questioning a man’s judgment or his abilities—and into how we say it (and where we say it, which is the subject of the next section).
The disconnect
In my interviews, a large number of men said something like this: When my wife says something disrespectful, I often think, I can’t believe she doesn’t know how that makes me feel! I had to reassure these men over and over that their wives probably didn’t mean to disrespect he’s absent
Having seen how important public respect is to men (it is almost impossible to overstate), I have become incredibly sensitive to how often we might talk negatively about them behind their backs. The effects are much the same even when a man isn’t present: The women’s disrespect of her husband becomes even more deeply embedded as she harps on it, and those in listening range may begin to feel the same!
5. Respect in our assumptions
Unfortunately, in one area men have every right to read something into what we say—and that is when we have jumped to negative conclusions about them. When we really examine our communication, we’ll be astounded at how often it assumes something bad about the man we love. See if this assumption rings a bell.
We assume, “He needs to be reminded”
To us, repeatedly asking “Have you done it yet?” is probably not a big deal. But inherent in the question is our assumption that the guy needs the reminder—that he is either incapable of remembering on his own or that he remembers just fine but needs our prodding to do the job. What they are accurately hearing is, “I don’t trust you.”
Just realize that his reason for not doing it may be different from yours. Remember, half the men in the survey indicated that sometimes they just have
Shaunti has more great insight into the respect needs of men. This article on how to read your husband’s “disrespect Women ForWomen Only, Revised and Updated Edition: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men Image Only by Shaunti Feldhahn “A man’s highest need is to feel respect, whereas a woman’s highest need is to feel loved.”

bad condition

nigeria is sitting on a keg of gunpowder

that first picture na meme

JOINING THE NIGERIA ARMY IS JUST PLAIN SUICIDE
IMAGINE THE PAIN THE WOMAN IS GOING THROUGH

BRUTAI MUST SURELY REAP FROM HIS WICKEDNESS


Joining the Nigerian navy should be considered suicide

where is our young female pilot

she died sara

I know you wake up sometimes in the morning and don't care about Nigeria, or it's news.

You don't expect anything good from the country, they have disappointed you so many times.

when you were in secondary School u believed that things will be better before you graduated

you had all these wonderful dreams until reality knock your head.

The politicians will not change and there is nothing you and I can do to them,

For me, I have left everything for God to handle.

delerx:
Lies . This is not Ekiti, this is not Nigeria. This cows does not even look like the regular cows we see in Nigeria

my brother I understand you, sometimes I say stupid things too, just to sound controversial, just to get attention, just to be mention, to feel among too.

But brother you are overdoing it now.

You for do small research before u counter anybody, don't worry I read the link below

https://allafrica.com/stories/200811110919.html

congratulations

BruncleZuma:
Ceylon still exists just like Swaziland.

please don't misinform people

Vardanes2:
Greek demcoracy was nothing like the democracy of today..it wa quite restrictive.

Only free men could vote, and not all free men. Women and slaves had no right to vote. And men meant men above a certain age...no under 20's....

I mean one that is mordern. updated version of Greek democracy. with universal suffrage and everything. Pick the best of all forms of democracy, combine it, experiment with it. Come on

We are just stuck with this American version of democracy.

There is no country that is a shinny example of democracy, it can be manipulated by just any dunce.

We have an alternative, don't believe that hogwash that there is nothing that can be done

Vardanes2:
We are living under a direct [/i]democracy. Buhari did not chose your leaders for you, you [i]chose them yourself.

The problem is, we all go home after the election...and sit at home and do nothing after the fact. Only a few of us bother to put some heat under the chair of our leaders and company.

(Besides, earlier, you were saying that democracy has failed...so what's with the sudden liking for direct democracy? Democracy has not failed?)

The thing is, in Nigeria democracy does not work because we love being armchair critics....rather than active participants. (Kind of like the mice in Aesop's fable about belling the cat). The other day someone opened a thread and announced he was running for councillor on the platform of one of the parties. Most of the comments made mocked the guy.

Democracy can only work with active participation. (yes, I know, I myself am not an active participant, but at the same time my not activley pariticpating means I don't get much of a say...at least I am realist enough to accept the truth )..not by sitting down and writing treatsies on Nairaland and the news sites.

ok sir, I have heard you,


so let us wait for my fellow Nigerians to wake up to their responsibility.

be reminded that Nigerians expect democracy to work like an automation without any added effort.

I prefer something like the ancient Greek direct democracy, There will be no leader, critical decision are decided by referendum.

Vardanes2:
Yes, it is a failed and flawed model

But , as Winston Churchill said...the other models are worse.

We tried dictatorship in this country, first under the pre-colnial rulers, then the Brits, then millitary rule. Harsh, terrible and did not work.

Democracy is a flawed system. But if you like, we can live under a dictator. Tomorrow, you people will be complaining that your rights have bene taken away.

Are we really free or living under an illusion of freedom.

When the idea of democracy was born, technology was low then, they didn't have internet, and all these stuff we have today,

We can modernize democracy, I chose direct democracy and not this representative democracy instead

Vardanes2:
Change beigins when we realize that democracy is hard work.

If you are honest with your self, you will know that democracy is a failed model around the world.

Read books like "why democracy dies"

To those who can hear me, I say - do not despair. The misery that is now upon us is but the passing of greed - the bitterness of men who fear the way of human progress. The hate of men will pass, and dictators die, and the power they took from the people will return to the people. And so long as men die, liberty will never perish. …..
Soldiers! don’t give yourselves to brutes - men who despise you - enslave you - who regiment your lives - tell you what to do - what to think and what to feel! Who drill you - diet you - treat you like cattle, use you as cannon fodder. Don’t give yourselves to these unnatural men - machine men with machine minds and machine hearts! You are not machines! You are not cattle! You are men! You have the love of humanity in your hearts! You don’t hate! Only the unloved hate - the unloved and the unnatural! Soldiers! Don’t fight for slavery! Fight for liberty!
In the 17th Chapter of St Luke it is written: “the Kingdom of God is within man” - not one man nor a group of men, but in all men! In you! You, the people have the power - the power to create machines. The power to create happiness! You, the people, have the power to make this life free and beautiful, to make this life a wonderful adventure.


Then - in the name of democracy - let us use that power - let us all unite. Let us fight for a new world - a decent world that will give men a chance to work - that will give youth a future and old age a security. By the promise of these things, brutes have risen to power. But they lie! They do not fulfil that promise. They never will!
Dictators free themselves but they enslave the people! Now let us fight to fulfil that promise! Let us fight to free the world - to do away with national barriers - to do away with greed, with hate and intolerance. Let us fight for a world of reason, a world where science and progress will lead to all men’s happiness. Soldiers! in the name of democracy, let us all unite!

Final speech from The Great Dictator Copyright ©

Bashir is 29.

Is it his political age or what

This guy looks like 40. I still like this guy, he is intelligent, a polygot who can speak 5 foreign language plus Mandarin

Nigerians will change, one-day

I will not carry Nigeria matter like gala on my head

I believe that if nigeria does not make it in my own generation, it would get it right in the future.

Our life span is just 80years, Nigeria is not flesh and blood, Nigeria can exist for millennium. It is not a must that all the changes must happen in this my present lifetime.

Why do I even want Nigeria to be great? What would it add to my pocket. The Nigeria that soldiers fight for today, may not even exist centuries from now. Then they would have died in vain.

Countries that exist today may not exist tommorow, USA may even be no more, Where is USSR today?

Where are Neutral Moresnet
,Republic of Salò,
Tibet,
United Arab Republic,
Sikkim,
Ceylon,
Czechoslovakia,East Germany ,


Just take life easy and contemplate on life sometimes, Africa that has been written off may become world leader tommorow, so just don't sweat it

Nigerians will change, one-day

I believe that if nigeria does not make it in my own generation, it would get it right in the future.

Our life span is just 80years, Nigeria is not flesh and blood, Nigeria can exist for millennium. It is not a must that all the changes must happen in this my present lifetime.

Why do I even want Nigeria to be great? What would it add to my pocket. The Nigeria that soldiers fight for today, may not even exist centuries from now. Then they would have died in vain.

Countries that exist today may not exist tommorow, USA may even be no more, Where is USSR today?


Just take life easy and contemplate on life sometimes

, Africa that has been written off may become world leader tommorow, so just don't sweat it.

Mokason288:
Congratulations Reno ,come back to Nigeria

For the naming and christening

Of your new born baby

I’m sure Buhari will be glad to see you



I HOPE I MADE SENSE

You made zero sense

if you ever made sense, it's by mistake

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GeneralPula:
Did you delete your comment yourself?

either the mod or bots
I don't care

anibi9674:
even ibanise did not survive.

it was worst for ibanise boat.
they can't tamper with the NLNG boats

brandsoncharlie:
Who crown dbanj a billionaire, oh you're the one .
Go to forbe list and see who a billionaire is, their source of wealth is legit not all these political attachments and corner kicks.

Dbanj is worth 15billion

Elzakzaky:
Your point is noted but who dash Dbanj billionaire title?

he is a billionaire in naira sir

why do we make a mountain out of a mole hill

kini big deal.

this is a generation of amebo and rumor mongers.

I think this generation has too much time in their hands. technology has made the world easy. if you were to go up a hill to fetch firewood, water etc walk long distance you will have zero time for reacting to every stupid thing.

That is why I moved out of an estate at Abuja, the housewives of the big men were idle gossip, what do they do?


Please stop this rubbish lifestyle. you hate it when others gossip behind your back, so why do it to others

later you come to Facebook and complain about your invisible enemies

cute

baddest

xenry are you a bitter soul