My loves name is saved under "Papa Bear"....
He is 6'5, stocky with a line backer build, so it suits him.

osile2012:



I know ladies love those. ..

they are the easy ones for us non igbo speakers

hmmm.. kinda sound like you're deeply in love with him. lol.



but I know you'd definitely prefer your kids to be light skinned and not dark. tell me I'm wrong.

I am, and honestly its quite the opposite.I love darkskin, and as odd as it might sound I would love to have darker skin.
I would love to have children whose skin is rich with Melanin, I would love them regardless of color..... Fortunately both of our mothers are dark, and his father is dark aswell, so when we produce, the children can come with any color from light yellow to Milk chocolate brown.

I'm light, but my Mom is dark so I've always appreciated deeply toned skin....USed to Love Dark Brown skin, until I met the love of my life who is a Perfect Medium Brown.....like to toasted almonds ....He's darker than me, but light enough to have freckles all over, and I love it!!!!!

Team Brown Skin all the way

Eze'm
Obi'm
Nna

Wow...beauty standards and percwption are vastly different here in the states...
Op does not have a pointed nose, but she gives that illusion by posting photos from the side of her face as opposed to the front......
But your looks are nothing to brag about....

I dont even consider myself to have a pointed nose

What happened to women who flaunt their education and accomplishments .

My fiance can cook extremely well, and I love it. IM American, and before I met him,I hadn't eaten let Alone cooked any Nigerian or Igbo food. Before introduction to his Mom and sisters, he taught me how to make Stew,Suya,Moi Moi,Chin Chin and some soups......After meeting NNe,she taught me how to make it perfectly,but was impressed with what I already knew.....

He loves cooking,but expects me too cook most of the tI me.Atleast I know in the future ,I can count on him to make a decent meal at least twice a month.

Males: Okikechukwu,Azike, Eze,Emeka
Females; Onyiyechukwu,Onyeka, Anneka, Azuka
I plan to have 6, and hopefully twins within that 6

I'm 5'10.I love being tall, and heels accentuate that.My bf is 6'5 , so unless my heels are 6 inches or more, I'm still shorter than him.It all works out

InZA:

Ladies and this type of trumped up self motivation advices... Really, this would not work... In the first place you don't even know why she wants to stop loving him, you only addressed it on the basis of if he hurt her, what if he didn't, what if he's the sweetest thing since pounded yam and oha... Maybe she's loving the guy from a distance and the guy doesn't even have the faintest whiff of her existence.. Maybe she doesn't want him to know she loves him because she feels he would turn her down hence she just wants to drown the whole in love feeling.

maybe you should read agsin....from your comment it foesnt seem as if you took the time to fully read and comprehend what I wrote.
I did not make any assumptions of her situation......if you read carefully you'll see that I only addresed him hurting her as an 'IF' and did so After the bold section......
Regardless of the circumstances, Loving yourself is the best way to get over loving someone else.

I choose myself...lol..
I can't choose, they are all beautiful in their own fashion......if I had to pic, it would be Rozzay.....her facial features fit my ideal of beauty

Fall out of Love with him by fallng back in Love with yourself......Focus on your goals, your dreams, your desires.Remind yourself everyday how fabulous you are, how beautiful and smart you are, and how he will no longer be able to experience you greatness.If he did something to hurt you, REMEMBER IT.Dont dwell, yet whenever you feel those love pangs, let the pain he caused to remind you why you DONT love him.

Not ugly, but not fine......

Wouldn't consider her fat, maybe chubby, but it doesn't look like she's shapely which sometimes negates a persons size if they are proportioned well

marieolae: ok dear, I see where your coming from. I guess people have different prospectives of being "fair" or "light skinned". But I totally understand where your coming from. So what would u consider me to be then? Your very pretty btw

Im sure the different perspective relate to our environments, the range of skin color in said environments, and how skin shades are percieved.In the states you can be black and be as light as a white person.Here, there are Asian, Hispanic, and Middle eastern people who are darker than many black people.
I would definitely consider you medium brown, like the man im photographed with.Not dark, but not light either.......funny enough I've heard a few Igbo ppl refer to him as light skinned.

Thank you for your compliments

marieolae: darling, one is fair one is dark. So what's your defintiong of a fair person then. Albino abi?

I don't see it.One is more so medium than dark......from your profile pic, I wouldn't consider you light either........ you can see others have commented , in agreement that neither lady in that pic is "light" or "fair"

This is light skin.Atleast where I'm from this, a few shades warmer, and lighter is what we consider lightskin. The man in the pics is probably considered "light" by your standards, but I would say he's medium

Where the lightskin?.......I see 2darker skin girls, but ones is deeper complected

Fulaman198:

You misread my statements. I said that one of the reasons some Nigerian women go after Oyibos is due to the constant degradation of women on these forums. Therefore, Nigerian women get the false perception that an Oyibo man will treat them better even though it is just a small portion of Nigerian men talking foolishly.

thank you for clarifying....I did misunderstand

Fulaman198:

Very true, don't mind some of these Naija male sellouts. Degrading their women like mumus and they sometimes wonder why Nigerian women go after Oyibo men despite the degrading.

I'm curious about your statement regarding Nigerian women dating oyibo men, despite the degrading........uonestly I've seen a lot of Nigerian women suffer degradation at the hands of men of their own country and tribe.....what makes you think being with a white man is degrading?

Joenice: Hey girl, ugly Mexican girls can be classified pretty in Nigeria. You need to see these Mexicans. Though I haven't been in a relationship with any but my friend did. The only problem is that they're high maintenance and you must take them to night club every weekend, even sometimes weekdays, their lives really suck. I don't like that kind of life style. Too much clubbing is bad. So I declined to have one.

uhhhhh ok o....I don't see the relevancy of your comment.but whatever

Joenice: Obviously, there is. Brazil, Mexico, Russia are some of the countries. Yes, I know there are some hot women, but that does not mean they would be interesting, fun, sexy or make a good girl-friend even wife. I think this is what you're trying to say.

toi make a good point....but that is NOT what I'm saying.I'm speaking strictly about looks.There are ugly women and beautiful women EVERY WHERE.....There may be some places who produce women who are generally thought of as esthetically pleasing, but they still have their ugly ducks as well.I'm simply stating that there's is no way to say one country has more beautiful women than the other.

There are beautiful and unattractive women in every country, of every culture, and of every ethnic background..........there is no comparison of one countries women to the next....
Though to be honest, my sister in laws and mommy in law are the only beautiful nigerian women I have seen in person here in the states.....yet I haven't seen Every nigerian woman here

Odor....regardless of where its coming from
Another ......... somene who is only concerned with their own pleasure

Danhumprey: Well,you are back!

Sonewhat...lol

mayapop: Hmmmmm

Was this directed to my post?

Since only a handful of people want to post, but 33 pages worth of comments

Brilliant

He wants to know if you two are headed in a similar direction in life.You can't cook egusi, but he's more so concerned if you can fulfill the duties are atleast his expectation for of a wife.
He's trying to see where your head is at, and if you two are on the same page, figuratively speaking

Mental Illness

*Mental, Emotional, Physical, and Verbal abuse

*Habitual, Hurtful lies

*Lack of Loyalty

*Laziness

*Selfishness

Andyblaze:

why the face Andy?