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Joavid: Are you refering to her looks? If yes~»


Seriously?

you uploaded your pix on this forum some time ago, girl,I have never seen anything worse than your face.
Your skin is so dirty,a plastic surgeon would have a hard time fixing you up,and if he ever manges to fix you,you probably won't look half as good as that girl.

Did I also mention you are shapeless?
Yes dear you are. Amoeba has hope when compared to you!

Too harsh.Almost sounds like you have personal issue

I looked Harbosede02 pics and I don't see any of whats mentioned above.Not a super clear picture, but its clear you have a great shape!

Joavid, you should post your photo.It sounds like only a insecure person, beautiful or not, would say such things to someone .And in defense of the silly unattractive white girl in the photo at that.

Is she your sister.?
Are you the girl in the photo?

I'm just curious as to what made you lash out on Harbosede02

y-fo:
*whispers*..dont let them know our secrets na#

*clears throat* madam raw, this innocent dude is still waiting for your friend(s) o..

lol...too funny

I think its a nice gesture.They are obviously kids, I couldn't imagine adults doing such a thing.
Its sweet.
They both look silly though, and it has nothing to do wih the sign.

I know a little of the process of Engagement, Introduction, and Ceremonail Traditions of Nigerian Marriages.

One thing that came up in a conversation with a friend recently was the subject of Bride Price.

We pondered how things would work out if an American Woman's family requested a Bride Price for her hand in marriage.

What do you guys think?

Snoggy: First of all, OP, do you know the reason why they pay bride price?

I don't, yet would love to learn.

What is bride price for ?
How did it come about?
Ive read a list before, but how much does one commonly spend on bride price? $$$?

xp17: most americans dont anything aside d scope of their disciplines or local comunities. just ask an average american graduate d meaning of FIFA or anything relating to eurpean football?


this has notin to do with school, its just d pride in knowing abt others

I disagree. I know many Americans, Black and White alike, who are well versed in international affairs, well travelled, and culturally aware.

Regardless of where they are from, some people are oblivious, some simply uneducated, about the "world" outside of their own .
Knowing about football in another country is one thing.But knowing about the Geographical layout of the EATRH that We ALL live on is a whole other thing.

Im American,and we learn very early about the Earth,different continents and countries, etc.Wether you truly retain that info, is a personal choice, but if I met someone inmy country who didnt know that Africa was a continent,I'd assume they never had any formal eduaction.Which is required legally in America.

Sounds like a yoi came across a very dumb American.Or one who never went to school. Its one thing to not know about Benin City, or Naija.But to think that Africa is a Country, and not a Continent .......idiot akata woman

So I guess timbros won.

Idowuogbo: Aha! No wonder! I like the brows


Uwc! Miss Feisty

Lol....no wahala.just clarifying my stance.Thank you again for the compliment

Idowuogbo: U cute!!! But, go easy on the make up.

Thanks for the compliment.In regards to the make up,I'm an MUA, and my own face is my biggest advertisment.Plus its personal preference.Ill wear as much makeup as I please, Thank you.

This made me realize we need to take more photos.My Eze&I

I've heard the opposite.Were I'm from, it is beleieved that a woman carrying a girl will be ugly, being that the girl is soaking up all her beauty while she's in her mother womb.With the the boy child, the woman is at her most beautiful, because the boy does not need his mothers beauy.

SpcAgtOko: No.. The opposite

initially I was confused hy your statement.After taking a while to think it over, I see your point, and its validity

Chinboli: WoW. . . .U dont mean it. . . Tanx Dear. . But hw can i get d remaining 1.5. . . Watz left to be done. . . .

More photos

Nigerianlover: ı just cant believe how some people can be cruel in this forum... they call me scammer.one said i only enjoy sleeping with Nigerian guys! come on now!!! am not that kind of gurl.. i really want to get marry a nigerian guy if i find a decent one and am so serious about that...

From your original post it seems as if this man is not interested, in which case you should not chase him, yet just move forward with out him.
.Dont mind all the negative things these people are speaking of you, they don't knoe you.You also put yourself out there to recieve such coments.

I have a question though? Why are you so interested in being with a Nigerian man?

I understand that you opened this thread in regards to one man, but you stated above that you want to marry a Nigerian man if you find a decent one..It sounds like your enthralled with the thought of being with a Nigerian Man, as opposed to falling in love with a specific man, who happens to be Nigerian.
Trust not all Nigerians are the same.From different Tribes, different states, to individual family upbringing.The may share a Community culture, yet are all vastly different internally.

I'm not judging you.Afterall, what originally brought me to NL was curiousity about the culture of a man I fell in love with, and am still with today.I love the culture, but im only interested in my Oga Eze.If we whre to break up, I would only date another Nigerian if i just happened to come across someone who captures my attention.Not because of my previous enjoyable experience with one of the same nationality.Just making an observation curious about the true intent behind your interest with Nigerian Men.

Chinboli: Alrite. . . . Natural Me. . . . . . .. . .

8.5/10

Take her to the Salon or Spa to get pampered, and pay for her to get it waxed along with other services like her hair, or mani and pedi.This way she's distracted by your generosity, yet will be keen to pleasing you and obliging to the waxing.

Men will f^^k anything, especially if its easy and free.Girls who seek attention and meaningless connections are always flocked by men who are willing to provide it.But these are not " Marriage material" type of women, and men will simply use them for fun, not long term commitment.

Good, Decent, Responsible women are the ones who are taken home to Mumsy and Popsy, are recipients of marriage proposal, and eventually become wives.
However in order to keep your man from wondering off to those "Sexy Hot" Women, you must be one yourself.
I'm not saying to be indecent in public nor dress like a harlot.I am saying to keep your man satisfied with spontaneity &variety, so he doesn't seek it else where.The saying "Lady in the streets, yet freak in the sheets describe it best.

So be that Decent Respectable,Honorable, Good Girl to your man, but Make sure your also that Sexy, Fiya Hot, Twerk Sumthin , Freaky , Bad Gal when necessary for his pleasure.

PrettySpicey: Had a look at your profile, must say you look quite pretty. @ Topic, I guess they prefer the face they put there to their own .
And others just love the privacy. No way am I ever putting my pix on NL. Never.

Thanks.
I see your point, and respect your choice.

I guess the core of it lies within personal experience and how that affects your choices and actions.Wether you put a Real pic, Fake pic, or some other random pic, we all have our individual reasons.

PrettySpicey: Because some bridges are unbridgeable. Some hearts are un-mendable. Some hurts unforgettable. And some people...simply undeserving.

^^^^^^What she said.^^^^^^
Futhermore,
I think lack of communication, lack of trust, pride/egos, unwillingness to compromise, as well as UnEQUAL Desire and Effort to persevere, are causes to ending relationship.

SisterCaro: This Adabeke girl sef u don't get tired of stealing people's pics and getting busted late time u used some black American socialite now who is that girl in the yellow dress?

Is this TrueI hope not. I recently opened a thread asking opinions on what caused people to use fake profile pics.
https://www.nairaland.com/1547914/women-w-fake-profile-pictures

fijiano202: Wow i never knew you are a BBW,you profile pic and ur full pics tells diff story,i thought you were kinda slim but its all good you are Cute and yummy,Secondly, concerning the pic with the writing i honestly almost doubted it but i had to cos of the hardwriting,PC aint got that kinda font,though it look kinda of edited but who cares,if you say its you then its you ,i dont need to doubt anyone ,am just here to laugh and learn another aspect of people

Honestly I dont personally identify with the term BBW.It has too large of a range as far as weight , height and proportion.That doesn't mean my body type has not been classified as such by some though.I more so consider myself as Plus Sized.

Dude
Who has time to edit photos?
Its not that serious
Thanks for the compliments.

adabeke12: ah ah that is to harsh! i see nothing wrong in someone making an effort to learn their boyfriendz language. personally i do not see anything wrong with her picz and i doubt his family is preparing any village igbo girl for him.

Mrs R.A.W, plz do not pay pessimistic ppl any mind. you are absolutely beautiful, you should use all this hate as motivation to even learn more about his culture, language and how to cook our local dishes. You are a making an effort and that is what matters. You have young nigerian girls who don't even know shiat about their culture and are not interested in learning either. You and your eze looks good together so please do not listen to the naysayers.

I appreciate your positivity.Those birds definitely didn't affect me in any way.Thank you for your kind words.


Btw I looked at your profile.Ihave a feeling we want the same thing for our birthday...lol

xp17: ur arrogance made u forgot d topic heading, pls read well b4 u comment. It's not a debate, "typical nija ignorance" (using question to answer a question). u always see life 4rm a negative perspective hence, guilty conscience wud keep hurting u wherever u go , until u re-define life in a suitable way 4 urself.
Most times silence is more eloquent Dan words, don't write if u re clueless on a topic ,back off and let reasonable ppl comment.


To the topic:
Its inferiority complex that wud Mk smone 2 use anoda persons pic in a profile . Ur profile is inaccurate if every data on it isn't true, hence that mks it a baloney

Team real,
Team luv urself,
Team proud of urself,
Team happiness.

You are completely correct.I feel this is one of the sole reasons people do this.Thanks for your contribution.

Adamskuty: ahahhha! Crack da ribs

this missy bad goon

flawless viiiiictory

lol

Mrs.Chima:
He said Americans as in plural.

Yes, I know.Im Americqn, shes American.Thats 2 Americans.More than one is considered plural.He's referring to her negative/assumptions comments about my relationship, and appearance, in which she was exhibiting Hater tendencies.

I wouldn't say its a trends for AA women to hate on eachother.I will say that as a community Affrican American/Black Americans lack unity, as a whole.

pickabeau1: Came from the fake pic thread

You are a beautiful woman,... dont let no one tell you otherwise

Fake pic thread When did this thread recieve that titile Lol......Thank you for your kind words.

Nadia_SA1: wa ooo so much drama on that thread!!


Powerflower crazy thou

I have no idea ehat yhe issue was with that woman.It made for a good laugh and an entertaining thread.

Adamskuty: i must say this,u look extremely gorgeous babe,i fell in love with u at first sight ,i feel like giving u a kiss on ur lips

I appreciate the compliments.I am taken though.

Nonso23: Personally, it's a total turn off, better not upload any at all than upload someone else's pic! I'm not judging though and yes! its very rampant on here.

Anyone saying it's not wrong do not know the implications of being convicted as an Identity thief because that is exactly what they are doing.
How would you feel knowing someone out there is posing as you online?
When I notice such people though, I just keep it to myself. Who knows what psychological battles they have raging within them; best not to compound it with such onslaught on their nice 'e-reputation'. Everyone has their problems.... theirs might be severe psychological/self-esteem issues.

I agree 100%

SpcAgtOko: Because the person they are online they don't want to admit to being in reality..

Ive always put my own pic or none. Its stupid to put somebody elses picture claiming it as their own.

Do you mean they dont want to admit to being who they really are in reality , online??

fijiano202: snap a pic of u holding cardboard with the Word Go and Die azholes maybe they will believe,it seems ur bored cos i think you enjoy reading and replying to irrelevant comments by people

Your correct in a way, Im usually on Nairaland when I have free time.Nairaland is a source of entertainment and sometimes insight to me.I'm not Nigerian, yet I'm interested in the culture, and here I can learn from and interact with those who are.

As for this picture you proposed.I've done that already to another person who accused me of such on NL.You can view the thread if your interested https://www.nairaland.com/1528312/need-plead-love-him-igbo/2 don't have time nor interest to repeat that stunt.