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Enegod: so, you are indirectly begging people to like your profile pic....smh

Not at all, just wondering what others think of this. I posted a thread, attempting to learn how to ask for forgiveness and say sweet things in Igbo.Out of nowhere and completely unrelated to my thread, a woman said that she knew my profile picture wasn't my own, and it just left me perplexed as to why she would even think that.I realized it probably because its more commonly than I thought.

passionate88: You sabi am jare. And na them sabi curse nd yab ppl pass o. @op, you fine o. I like that. NL girls make una dey put una pic na, see Nadia, Nomskio, Shaanteel, etc? Plus including Rokiatu

I have no idea what you said.I really need to work on my pidgin/brokin.I did understand the compliment though.Thanks.

Mondisweets: I was thinking about it just now. At the end of the day it will be the beautiful girl you are pretending to be that will be complimented and given then attention and not the person behind the username

Well ofcourse. We all know that what you experience online, is unrelated to real life experience. If your being complimented on beauty that is not yours, that gratification will not carry on in your physical day to day life.

No, its not possible.Some women say they can feel the sperm penetrate the egg, but I doubt that.Technically , she not really "pregnant" until the fertilized egg travels down her fallopian tube and implants in her uterus. This is called implantation, and this a woman CAN feel.But it takes 6-12 days for this to happen after sex/conception.
If she is infact pregnant, it occured before you guys were intimate.

Why do women post fake profile pictures

Social media has created a communication platform for people from all walks of life and all corners of the earth.It has also created a avenue for people to lie about who they are, what they do, and pretty much decieve people into to thinking they aren't who they really are.

Telling someone false information about yourself is one thing.But posting a picture that is not your own is a whole other thing.
I don't understand why women steal pics from other beautiful women,and post them as they're own.

I've had someone on NL accuse me of having fake pictures, but she had no reason in doing so.She just assumed from looking at my profile pic , that I couldn't be the same person.I made her look stupid by posting a picture of myself holding a piece of paper with her username on it.Needless to say, she now knows the face on myprofile does belong to me
Before I never realized how commomn it was for women to post fake pictures as their own.

What do you think is the cause of this?
Is it insecurity, identity protection, or what?
Tell me your thoughts NL

Akposy: 10/10
Lust filled gal

Lust is not a factor.He's a handsome , well dressed man.Giving credit where its due.
From your profile picture I'll give you 7/10.Very cute face, beautiful skin.I'm sure when your "Dressed to Impress" your a 10/10 as well

I truly appreciate your response.Unfortunately my love is a Cancer, not a Leo.His birthday is July 10th

SQURA: Girl go fo it. My verdict is an Excellent relationship but with effort from you too.

You are Aries and he is Leo

If you havent started kicking it with him, it will be pretty soon, because there is an instantaneous, and fiery attraction between an aries girl and mr leo. Hmm there is also intense passion and absorption in each other, you and your guy. you guys might even forget what the world looks like when two of you are inside the (let me reserve my comment). But watch out, trouble could spring up because he longs for constant and continous admiration and also been seen as the KING of your castle, because you are not naturally demonstrative. If you love him, and i mean real love, please dont resent his love for praises and flattery, because that is his weak/strongest point. Aim at being his greatest admirer and he will never leave you. But he has a tactful way to handle your restlessness and need for mental stimulation. Though he might be occasionally arrogant and patronising, those traits are part of his personality, and he would let you know.
He enjoys sex and is very adaptable, but when he takes the lead, you will love it. Make him open minded to suggestions you will make though.
For real, this is one hell of a love affair.

SQURA: You are Taurus (no mistake this time) and he is Aquarius

Let me give you my verdict before i begin. Its a relationship to be avoided whenever possible.

But why?

You Bf hates formality and does not recognise superiors, unless they have earned his respect. Security and material things, that are very important to you is not just important to him, at all. He likes to talk with people who are very intelligent, at least an intelligent conversation, and i doubt you can live up to that hype. He loves work, you love home. He changes job frequently (if he is already living a job life) and that you dont like. You may have noticed your emotional outbursts doesn't deter him or change him, he wants differences to be discussed in a cool way and with much honesty, and that you may lack. Emotion will impair his sense of judgment, well thats how he feels.
But You are the jealous type, especially when he spends time trying to help a friend in his problem or trying to do something to help the community or the world. But bad for you, there will be no sympathy in this direction. You only need to accept his unpunctuality, his hatred for routine and discipline and live with him inspite of all that.
Sex is on a low place on his list of necessities, though the need is there oh, but this attitude may make you annoyed. You may just become over demanding in his eyes.

Give me insight on what it is you see for my Suitor and I.My birthdate is March 31,1989.His is July10, 1987

@Skillbobralph

A handsome man with poise a style.......10/10

Swash042: loving this thread lyk madt #TeamQueenR.A.W

#TeamQueenR.A.W....... . I like that, lol, has a ring to it

Bigflamie: Obu nani gi k'nwere n'uwa (I have only you in this world)
Nwoke Oma m (my handsome man)
Afuru gi n'anya nke nkwu (I love you so much)
And please don't mind those phucking biatches as you are matured enough to know what you want.Cheers!!!

Thank you so much. I really appreciate you help.

anthoniosp: So na Babes stay here they finish themselves??... Any way.. Am supporting queen raw... Chai... She is beautiful...

Lol....Thank you.

Honestly I've never "hit on" a guy nor have I attempted to approach a man and ask him out or for his contact info.I was taught that Men are natural hunters, and will appreciate what they work for more than what is handed to them.With that being said, I've always felt that if a man was truly interested in me he would approach me.

Who needs a boyfriend like that .Too many options to settle for such a man.

baralatie: dat means u dnt know the level.i know a girl dat was serious.fam had to get her a car and a personal female chafeur.

I think it also depends on where you reside.Where I live , there's an abundance of beautiful women. Beautiful faces, beautiful bodies.Some with both, some with one or the other. A beautiful younglady, not a woman, but someone still seen as girl, may need such protection.A Grown woman, especially in the state's, must learn how to deal with such unwanted advances on her own. Unless you have a stalker, its really not that serious.

From my experience, I've always recieved a lot of attenetion, so I see the validity in your issue.However, the beautiful women I know, myself included, are used to the attention and know how to diplomatically turn down and put a stop to unwanted attention.Plus most men wont approach a beautiful woman, being that a well presented, confident woman , who happens to be beautiful as well, is not easily approached.Most men don't have the confidence nor gall to approach a gorgeous women, assuming that he is out of her league. And married men are aware that unless they are already goingto leave their wive or have a lot of toasting money, they have no chance with such a beautiful woman. Unless its a woman with low self esteem.
I've also come to notice that really beautiful women do not recieve alot of compliments, because most men assume she's heard such compliments a million times and will not be fazed nor impressed with his compliments.Men looking and staring is one thing, but if you are constantly being approached, that is another. What makes these men feel as if they even have a chance to be with you? Do you live in a place with a lot of plain looking people?

special_zobo: ...nice picture, you guys looks good 2gether...pls don't take what those bitchess say serious.some 9ja women are like that,especially the single and lonley ones..they envy their fellow women alot.#i like the way you replied their messages it shows you don't give a fucck to der opinion...enjoy ur man

I thsnk you for the compliment. .These women are not to be taken seriously.They have their real lives, as do i, away from the internet.Regardless I pity people who are so overwhelmed with personal negativity that they feel compelled to share it with other.

I don't remember sharing any relationship qualms nor issues, let alone asking for any relationship advice.Unless you are married and have been for a decade or more, you are not worthy of doling out relationship advice.In my opinion atleast
The purpose of this thread is to find different ways to express my love in the native language of My Eze.Learning his language is part of embracing his culture, and its mandatory that I do so.I dont want my in laws nor my future children speaking a language I can't even begin to understand.

These very same photos can be found on my social media accountants.Being that those are public, I have no reason to be shameful and no desire to hide them.If my Man approves of them there, I see no reason for him to be upset at their presence here.

drnairalov: biko...why all dis hate on the Op show some love nah ...haba, OP i wish u well in ur relationship ok

Thank you. I appreciate your well wishes and positivity.

HisRib: In all this, you still think I'm the fool?

As the other chick mentioned, a couple of months down the road, you'll be back here with a sob story.

I made NO assumptions about your supposed relationship. I simply made an assessment based on your behavior on this forum, and gave you constructive criticism.

As I mentioned above, I'm all African. Born in Africa and raised by Africans. If you want to keep that your Igbo man, learn how to respect yourself.

Sure, whatever you say lady.African or American.A fool is a Fool.I do not take advice from fools.

HisRib: Looks like I have a stalker. Wonderful. Unlike you, I will not post pictures of myself on a public forum to create uncessary attention and embarrass my man.

I gave you constructive criticism. If you want to keep your man, change your ways.

Stalker, never.This is a public forum, this thread is available for all to see, Im simply commenting on a post that interest me..I posted pictures that can already be found by simply typing in my username to google.I don't need to hide or conceal who I am.As for your constuctive criticism, who made you the relationship guru? I don't see where your input is to be taken to heart or to take heed to.

HisRib: Lol! I find it quite interesting that you're calling me bitter, while I'm in a happy & healthy relationship, you are here begging people to teach you how to ask for forgiveness in a language that is not your own.

I will not speak prematurely about your relationship. I can't say your man is using you because I do not know the details of your relationship. But, as an AFRICAN woman, I know my African men quite well.

A girl who comes on a public forum arguing with strangers and posting half naked photos of herself is not one an African man can take seriously.

I suggest you enjoy this relationship while it's still alive because based on your behavior & attitude, that man will run as soon as he finds someone better.

Just so you know, Africans care too much about what people think of them. Nigerian men are full of pride. If any of his friends/family were to run into this post and see how you're making a complete fool out of yourself, he would be devestated.

Oh, and while you're here giving yourself a headache to learn a foreign language and being an internet gangster, his family is preparing a beautiful igbo bride from his village for him to marry.

If you want to win the heart of an African man, learn how to respect yourself.

Deuces!

Regardless of you nationality, your are still a Fool.You make so many assumptions, and feel entitled to sharing them.You have stated nothing of value, and your response was a waste of time.I don't have the energy nor time to even read such rubbish.....whatever you say lady, whatever makes you feel good about yourslef or helps you sleep at night.

HisRib: I am so tired of men trying to date me, especially married men. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so pretty. It's so frustrating.

Genuinely Beautiful women usually don't complain of such, nor do they ever say things like "I wish I wasnt so pretty"........I wonder why mainly men who are attached, men with wives who only have room for side pieces and second fiddles are interested in you. ..hhhmmm.... something to ponder.

pasqal09: The summary of the whole tin is that, these ladies are jealous of the Op.

I'm not sure if that's the case, but they have some issue or another.It seems like some internal issue that ultimately has nothing to do with me.

HisRib: Either these photos are not yours or you're not really dating a Nigerian man. No Nigerian man, or any man, wants pictures of his woman plastered all over a public forum. Naija men, especially Igbo, can be quite controlling. They don't like unruly women.

You are here putting his name on blast , posting images you claim are of you and making a complete full of yourself by arguing with strangers.

What happens if someone who knows your man runs into this forum? Can you just imagine the embarrassement you're gonna cause him?

Please get yourself together.

I will make one with your name on it as well.....LoL...posting photos that do not belong to me.Such comedy.

HisRib: Either these photos are not yours or you're not really dating a Nigerian man. No Nigerian man, or any man, wants pictures of his woman plastered all over a public forum. Naija men, especially Igbo, can be quite controlling. They don't like unruly women.

You are here putting his name on blast , posting images you claim are of you and making a complete full of yourself by arguing with strangers.

What happens if someone who knows your man runs into this forum? Can you just imagine the embarrassement you're gonna cause him?

Please get yourself together.

Once again, why would these photos not be my own?Do you not see the photo with FlowerPowers name in it? Being that they are my photos,Why would I not be truly dating a Nigerian Igbo man?In these modern times it is not common for people to share photos of themselves on social media sites such as facebook, instagram , twitter etc.Are those sites not just as public as this forum?As mentiond in a previous statement, many of these photos can be found under the same username you see here for such social media accounts. Where do you see me putting his name on blast? Do you know how many Onyedikachukwus exist? Who said that was his first last, or middle name?
In no way am I being "unruly" .I'm simply pointing out Flower Powers obvious stupidity.None the less you are entitled to your opinion, no matter how miniscule it may be to me.My Man has no reason to be embarrased.If I choose to utilize Someones stupidity for my own entertainment, that is my choice and my right. What is with all these bitter women spreading their lack of purpose and negativity.

Do you know how to translate Love Messgaes from English to Igbo? If not then why are you here? Please refer to the original post.If you have nothing to contribute to that, then you have nothing to contribute here.Other than Flower Powers Hater Brigade.

FlowerPower: See you in a few months...

Where should I expect to see you?In the Mall, Howard Hughes,At Ikechis Cafe, at St.Eugenes,IcC , Dockwieler,My Boyfriends Hospital, My studio or cosmetic counter,, the grocery store?? Do you live in the same state let alone the same city? Wher shall I see you and how willI recognize you?please inform me
I'm still waiting for you to reveal these "Red Flags " you repeatedly mentioned.I keep responding hoping that you will exihbit some logic or foundation to your claims.I think I'm waiting in vain .Its seems as if logic and the talent of articulation are not your stong suits.

oko-omoge:
Most ladies of nowadays don't know how to keep the home front, so look closley before you leap. Otherwise, you will hate going back to your house after COB daily.

for the unmarried single dude out there, my 2 cent below:

1. Ensure your wife to be(not fling girlfriends) does some home made cooking in your house. You don't end up married to a woman who cooks rubbish or go and buy soup at shoprite;
2. Look closely at hygenie, don't mind all these marykay rubbish or the expensive JLO/Beyonce perfume they wear. You don't want to end up with a woman who dispose her sanitary pad in the bathroom bin and leave it in there for days or unwashed panties in the bathroom;
3. Let her spend the weekend with you and watch closley how she keep the bathroom/toilet clean and the bedroom;
4. Watch closely how she arrange your fridge, when she comes visiting;
5. You should on-purpose during one of visit to your house, suggest washing the dishes after you guys have had a meal and watch her reaction to this;
6. A man need to be neat but you should on purpose scatter your house when you know she is coming over and see what effort she makes to arrange things. Mind you your kids will scatter your house once you are married.

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All very valid points.I agree with everything said.In addition if a Woman you may be consider marriage to can't cook, how will she feed your children, let alone you on a daily basis.Can a woman who can't cook really have a family, run a household, and possibly work or run a business? I doubt it.

I think its ok to showcase your cooking skills and domestic abilities to your beloved.OCCASIONALLY. ......however do not Cook and Clean as if you live there, or as if you should be compensated for it , like a Maid.I do not think its wise to prematurely award a man with privleges he has not earned.Doing wifely duties, when you have not become someone's wife, is a mistake in my mind.That doesn't mean You don't have to display such abilities, just don't make it a regular occurence.

oko-omoge:
Most ladies of nowadays don't know how to keep the home front, so look closley before you leap. Otherwise, you will hate going back to your house after COB daily.

for the unmarried single dude out there, my 2 cent below:

1. Ensure your wife to be(not fling girlfriends) does some home made cooking in your house. You don't end up married to a woman who cooks rubbish or go and buy soup at shoprite;
2. Look closely at hygenie, don't mind all these marykay rubbish or the expensive JLO/Beyonce perfume they wear. You don't want to end up with a woman who dispose her sanitary pad in the bathroom bin and leave it in there for days or unwashed panties in the bathroom;
3. Let her spend the weekend with you and watch closley how she keep the bathroom/toilet clean and the bedroom;
4. Watch closely how she arrange your fridge, when she comes visiting;
5. You should on-purpose during one of visit to your house, suggest washing the dishes after you guys have had a meal and watch her reaction to this;
6. A man need to be neat but you should on purpose scatter your house when you know she is coming over and see what effort she makes to arrange things. Mind you your kids will scatter your house once you are married.

.

All very valid points.I agree with everything said.In addition if a Woman you may be consider marriage to can't cook, how will she feed your children, let alone youn on a daily basis.Can a woman who can't cook really have a family, run a household, and possibly work or run a business? I doubt it.

I think its ok to showcase your cooking skills and domestic abilities to your beloved.OCCASIONALLY. ......however do not Cook and Clean as if you live there, or as if you should be compensated for it Maid.I do not think its wise to prematurely award a man with privleges he has not earned.Doing wifely duties, when you have not become someone's wife, is a mistake in my mind.That doesn't mean You don't have to display such abilities, just don't make it a regular occurence.

boofydon: Woke up this midnight and still angry because of the kind of food have been eating lately! My gfrnd food hardly taste nice, I do use water to swallow my uncle's new wife's food as though am taking panadol!
My friends do complain of dere various experience too, one of dem even said his brother's wife only cook rice, spag n beans all through d week and its only stew she prepares no local dishes lol! So tired, guys do you have similar experience

Wow.......Women who can't cook.I always say cooking is a skill.Its one thing to know how to cook something so that its edible, and suitable for consumption.Its another thing for it to TASTE GOOD, and to please the palette.In my family, a woman who can't cook should be shameful to call themselves women as opposed to girls.Being able to cook does not determine a Womans value, or how much of an asset she can be as a GF or Wife, but its a valid factor in making such determinations.

FlowerPower: I'm not lonely and there is no "hating". I have plenty of suitors, but only one has my heart . At this point, I have teased her enough, but I sincerely don't want her to up used and abused by a foreign man. I have seen several women devastated to the point they wanted to hurt someone physically. I know someone who was so angry she called ICE every chance she could trying to get the man deported. The issue I have is with her first two posts and the red flags she is choosing to ignore. She is a beautiful girl, but often big girls are fooled into taking anyone because they don't think they can do better. Hopefully this man is sincere and does not deceive her.

Lady, your delusional. SURE your beautiful and thin.I guess well have to take your word for it.Honestly it doesn't matter what you look like, you have the intellect of a goat.I'm still lost as to how you come to such conclusions about me as if you know me personally.Are you clairvoyant
Do not assume to know who I am, What I do, nor how I feel.Dont use your experiences , nor your 2nd hand occurences to predict what's going on in my life.What of these supposed "Red Flags" , you speak of, yeat have failed to elaborate upon? Please do point them out if your intent is positive.

OTHERWISE , move on with life.You've embarrased yourself enough.My thread is mainly aimed to those who speak IGBO.Not for people with spare negativity , time and opinions that no one requested nor care to recieve.You dont even know the difference between Pidgin and Igbo.......Wait....Who are you........Why are you here again??

FlowerPower: LOL. Guuurrrl. Let me break it down... The point was for you to show a full body photo. I knew that you were "overweight" and wanted to prove it. Not only did you show that you are "big girl" you even posted yourself in lingerie. Have some decency and get some self esteem. However I hope this has helped your inbox fill up with Nigerian men .

Ok And? I'm overwieght, I'm plus sized, I'm a big woman.Im not ashamed of that, and Ive never portrayed myself to be anything other.Your pointYou didnt prove anything other than showcasing your lack of self esteem, comprehension, and common sense.So your skinny, but you have an ugly face? If chosen, I could lose wieght boo.You have to buy a new face.The photos posted here can be found anywhere under my name.You see me in what appears to be a bra, yet I'm not exposing anything.You are a pathetic useless woman.You have repeatedly madeinvalid comments, unsupported opinions, and have simply exposed yourself as an inscure woman who probably resembles a donkey.You forsure sound like one..Once again, abeg "Get Yo Life" and do not attempt to envelop yourself in mines.
You are no longer entertaining me.