₦airaland Forum

Dtruthspeaker:
Marriage is the end product of all that attention. Now if she is married and she lost that attention, then married people know to ask her what did she do? And we already know all the things she did.

Then, for the op, every fair married person will tell you that the op is not married but wants to marry and is looking for one seempul man that will fall for her trap

You keep saying she's not married. How do you know? See below

Kalulu44:
You are still making some mistakes, let's even say the voodoo's are working for them girls.
Do you think it's only for marriage, their own is to meet big dudes that will sponsor their lifestyle. That's why I said provided Musk and Dangote and co are still banging, they're likely to meet those kind of girls and help in funding their lifestyle and their aim of using voodoo to them is working. It's not only about marriage you know

Who do you see Musk or Dangote sponsoring? Even that Lady that exposed the backside of Dangote on her bed was because he wouldn't give her some "small" amount of money. Rich guys stay rich because they don't spend all their monies sponsoring girls.
Just believe me, that crap doesn't work or you'll be seeing wonders all over. Not to be confused with a man genuinely falling in love with some lady (and usually likely a lady who doesn't want anything from him!)

kiddaz:
I just tire for them. Anyways I'm not surprised at all as k0b0-wtv has always been against happiness in marriage. I only meant for her to shift focus from seeking validation from her loveless marriage and partner who is emotionally absent to herself. Her own emotional, mental and physical well-being. She never said her man was abusive but negligent and emotionally absent and from her comments he doesn't seem to want to be fixed. So she should nurture her own emotions, pursue her passion without any inhibition or fears and also accept she's not responsible for fixing what's broken if the other person isn't willing to work things out for good. Of she has kids all the better. Extend that love towards them and let them inspire her. This is real self love and when she treats herself this good who knows, it might rub off on him and create a reset or not. Anyways it's a win for her. There's nothing outside but more pains, regret and rejections but a lot of today's women are just too ignorant of the truth only to find out when it's already too late. Then they blame all but themselves for making and taking wrong permanent decisions over a temporary situation.

Very well articulated. Nothing to add.
Kobojunkie @Kobo take note

Dtruthspeaker:
That your old women speak is to bend and deceive you young men like the op has done because you people do not know what is going on and that many bad things have women that is as a result of their fault.

Experienced and married people see through their bull defication

I don't know what the heck you're talking about.
Women get lots of attention when younger and as they get old the attention goes away.
What's your obsession about marriage in that??

Kobojunkie:
Just so you know, loving yourself means being honest with yourself. This honesty may lead to you leaving that marriage, which you think you need. Are you ready to begin now, loving yourself —centering yourself —above all else? 🥱🥱

ufy4success:
Thank you for telling her the truth that loving herself would mean her leaving that marriage because it seems she knows the hard truth but refusing to accept it. When peace dies, bitterness sets in...

You people are not taking into account the social disadvantages of being a single old woman. An old woman whose husband has neither abandoned nor beating, you're advising her to leave her marriage! Leave it into what exactly?

Dtruthspeaker:
You are obviously not married so, you don't know that this op is not married

What does married or not married have to do with the fact that old women say they become increasingly invisible into old age while remaining essentially the same person inside??

Fenrir:
😂 he blocked me and does regularly

It freaks him out that an atheist talks about religion and doesn't insult it

He cant lable me

I don't get you. How is that relevant to your discussion? Or are you already tired of your discussion. By the way, the names "Sky Wizard" or "Flying Spaghetti Monster" are implicitly insulting!

Fenrir:
Did I say you insulted or anyone insulted?

I said I posted here because I knew no one would insult it

Well, u r wrong. Pepple insult here all the time and tempers get very hot. Ask other Atheists. But I don't know what that has to do with the discussion you're trying to have

Willie2015:
Oga . na US u dey.. .. this is Africa

Meaning what? You have no idea where I am. I am in Kuala Lumpur but what has that to do with anything?

Fenrir:
I posted on here because if you dont insult religion Nigerian dont insult for discussing religion

Its 1 of the things you are always happy to discuss and think about from different angles and perspectives

Culture on the other hand you ONLY LIE ABOUT

Sorry, still don't know why we're having discussion about insults. Ask MaxInDHouse, they're always insulting him in this section, always calling him Mad Max. Don't know what any of this has to do with "Sky Wizard". Why not just tell us what led you to becoming an atheist or if you were born that way

Willie2015:
. It seems u never reach the top.. To stay at the top is always the toughest. D most important thing is to stay protected always...irrespective of the reason.

Almost all the top richest people in the world are from US. Do you know any babalawo from US? New York CITY has ten times more billionaires than entire African CONTINENT, yet all the babalawos are in Africa!

yemmit90:
How could their voodoo attract billionaires when they are not in the same circle? To be at the spot light or near a place billionaires roams to get attention, you have to be a rich girl or billionaire daughter yourself.

Voodoo to attract rich men works when they have encounter with them. If Dangote has encounter with those diabolic girls, he might be their biggest cash out ever.

You're talking crap. So billionaires only sleep with billionaires, they don't sleep with poor girls and hookers and they don't have househelps. All those Abuja oloshos who are number one in fetish, who do you think are their number one customers?

Fenrir:
Thats what I just said
You didn't see what I wrote as an insult
And you didn't insult over it

And your jew question, Christians and Muslims argue with atheists all the time

Do you ever hear of a jew arguing with an atheist? Nope because jews take free will seriously

I still don't get you. I was saying NT doesn't exist for Jews who supposedly wrote OT, yet you're lumping the two stories together in Sky Wizard.
I don't know how it became a discussion about insults!

Fenrir:
Thats the thing about Nigerians and Nairaland.

I didn't insult religion did i? And YOU dont see it as offensive or you would have been insulting about it

Don't get you. Where do you see or infer insult?

Own land?
Will you help with build on the land and omonile?

Fenrir:
And you think i care? Atheist, I wrote it for myself and just posted it because here its saved in digital form forever

I mean, the people who supposedly wrote OT don't accept NT

Fenrir:
You will get that answer in the next installment
The Serpent arc

This is one side of the story

Fenrir:
And fyi, if Jesus is god
Then in human form he can logically pray to himself same principle in my version but wait for the next half

And who wrote the Sky Wizard story? You realize the Jews don't accept NT. The story ends with OT for them!

banku:
In 2010, it was a minority of Black African Diaspora.

Today, it is worse. It is minority of Africans that do not want to be called African.

I guess you have not heard about Nepo-African children. Their parents do not even speak African languages to them. They lecture their parents that just as their parents like to be called African because they were either born there or grew up in Africa.

Nepo Children love being called European or American for the same reason their parents love being called African. The only time they come to Africa is on short vacation or when one of the parents die!

You are TOTALLY WRONG!!! Exactly the opposite, especially as adults. Nobody is more proud to be African/Nigerian than adult Nepo Children. They'd even say they're Nigerian (omitting the American part). From AJ to Geofrey, same story.
Unless you're talking of small kids being bullied in school!

So who was the Sky Wizard praying to and calling Father?

Dtruthspeaker:
Would you not ask what she did for her husband to cut her off, if truly she is married?

Of which I do not believe that she is married. It looks like she is crying and dying to be married but she just bent it so that one guy would come and fall for her trap of tears

Why do you like commenting on things you know nothing about? This has been the mantra of old women since forever - becoming invisible romance-wise while inside they're still the same person they were while younger, desiring the same affections

Musically, Davido and Burna may be greater (not Wizzy tho), but generally as a man, you can't compare any of them to Fela!

jaxxy:
So what is the advantage? many short women are not intimidated by their taller husbands.

Then u said u wanted to restrain her. Lol

The advantages are multiple and stated right there, starting with the intimidating appearance.
Add to that, if restraining is called for (for any reason) you can easily do it!
Be a gentleman and accept u lost this one. Good luck next time.

Willie2015:
And who told you those billionaires dey waka empty.. everyone get where he dey enter for nite.

Top billionaires no dey enter anywhere for night. Na struggling "rich men" they enter and they no dey enter because of marriage!

But that was 2010. Today is a different story.

Kalulu44:
I'm not in support of the voodoo talk o, but asking why are Dangote and Elon Musk still single? Musk has 14 children, he's single but still dey f*ck. Dangote has 3 children, did they fall from the sky? And is it not some years ago Dangote almost naked butt was shown in an abroad hotel. What was he doing there.
They're single yes, but are they still f*cking yes.

😅
So you make my point. No one has been able to voodoo them into marriage!
And by the way who told you poor single people don't also f*ck?

But then people like MaxInDHouse will say the last quote actually reads:

"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was A God."

They comfortably have more than one God while claiming monotheism - they want to have their cake and eat it too!

jaxxy:
where fid it say it guarantee respect? So throwing ur toxic or psycho girlfriend or wife out is a good sense of security??

I don't think u understand what u have been arguing about. Lol

The argument is simple. You made a statement that there are no advantages in a man being bigger (and stronger) than his wife. When Just the intimidating appearance alone in itself is an advantage. Now Google has told you same thing.
Relax, you won't be the first to lose an argument!

jaxxy:
Listen to urself? Lol who and who's marriage needs physical retraining? we don't deal with such behaviour over here. Size doesn't guarantee respect and has little advantage beside height preference of ur partner. Nobody is restraining any psycho.

Stubborn guy who won't collect his L and gently walk away. I'll let Google tell you what I've been trying to tell you.
YOU LOST!😅

BigYash:
Ok.. I don't rate juju ,cux what I believe in, is bigger than juju. But that doesn't mean juju doesn't exist...

Juju exists but not the way people think. God did not create this world to be scatalogocal. A girl's dirty pant in itself will not make anybody rich. There are rules to how things happen in the universe. Juju exists in the sense that cell phone is Juju if you don't know the LOGICAL reasoning why it works!

BigYash:
Ok. I don hear,you can go and sleep now

I'm not yet sleepy.
Juju is either very weak or totally ineffective

ajalawole:
no mind the weyrey...
How did the pastor know if was the ex girlfriend. Which sickness did the pastor heal.
Why dangote ex and musk ex no swear for am. Abi swear Na onky poor man e dey catch.

No mind am. If voodoo attracted wealthy men all these billionaires will be married to Babalawo daughters!

BigYash:
Even if they date the two guys you mentioned,na their money them dey after. They don't need marriage

If black magic can be used to attract wealthy men, all these billionaires will be in deep doo doo