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Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

I was in your shoes some few years ago. I have now progressed and striving to achieve. I advise you :
i. Read the book "Quiet" by Susan Cain. The book will help you to discover your powers as introvert, and where to improve
ii. If you're a masturbator, please quit it because it will isolate you from people further. Follow this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread
iii. If you are financially buoyant, join a good Toastmasters club around you. This will help you improve your communication skills and network with people
iv. Get yourself engaged in a worthwhile job where you can interact with others
v. Exercise frequently. It will improve your self confidence

Just my few kobos. Cheers

Sss

Hmmmm. Most atimes when you hear such, they're probably doing secret recruitment/replacements

Okolo625:
Please who has idea about when Train from Abuja to Kaduna leaves? And what's actually the cost, pls

Check this link
https://nrc.tps.ng/time-tables

Eyyah. Poor chap. He deceived himself thinking that he's invincible. Why will you escape to a country like UK where all your movements can be tracked? It's just for the Nigerian govt to establish rapport with UK, and voila!, extradition. He should have tried Chile or Panama.

I advise you to refrain from posting developments from that front because of the precarious security situation. You'll not be only exposing yourself, but your employer and the general public.

Jack005:
Apc as Party is not up to 22 years na.. Or am I not getting something right here?

What it means is that it's the opposition(APP, ANPP, CPC) that has been winning the seat there when the ruling party was PDP. When APC took over the state in 2015, it still clinched the seat until it was declared vacant by INEC this year.

An Anambra-based cattle dealer, Chibuike Okafor, has cried out that he has lost over 50 cows in the recent slaughter of cows by the Igbo agitators against Fulani herdsmen. Okafor, who made this known when he met the Secretary to the State Government of Anambra State today, June 8, Professor Solo Chukwulobelu, said that most of the cows in the Southeast are owned by Igbo businessmen. He said that over 50 of his cows were set ablaze by an angry mob at Kwata junction, Awka, Anambra State. Okafor said that it was wrong for the hoodlums to believe that all the cows coming to the South-East from the North belong to Northerners and must be destroyed, with little or no provocation. “Your Excellency, I would want to tell you that almost all, if not all the cows you see in the South-East are owned by Igbo traders. What happens is that if we go there to buy the cows, we use the vehicles owned by the Northerners to bring them down here. Even some of us have our vehicles for the transportation of these cows to south east.” “We’ve had a long-time cordial relationship with them in this business. It will be wrong for our people to have wrong impression about the Northerners. They are good people generally speaking, especially in business” he said. Responding, the Secretary to the State Government assured the protection of every Nigerian in the state. “We understand that our people hae been in a long-time cordial joint business partnership with the north in this trade and we must not destroy this relation built over the years ” he said. He assured that he would take back all the information he had gathered to Governor Willie Obiano for appropriate action. The meeting held after an angry mob set ablaze a truck transporting cattle from the north to the southeast. The mob went wild after the truck killed eight persons in an accident.

https://emergencydigest.com/2021/06/09/how-ipob-mistakenly-slaughter/?fbclid=IwAR3j4Bfbj99rmmPUWt5X_YFv2zpT1yGFiJh1nU3wQ-R7vZvApdF77hxcnOo#

I won't miss it at all. It's the number 1 browser i dislike

I didn't support the new COAS's appointment earlier. However, looking at antecedents from 1999,i think PMB might not be wrong. Jonathan never appointed a northern muslim as COAS neither did OBJ. Yaradua never appointed a southern christian too. That's to tell you that natural kinship matters in such critical roles, especially in a divisive country like ours. I learnt that Ahanotu is a competent hand, but that doesn't mean he's the only competent in the league of generals. His being 2ic to Attahiru is not a yardstick too. GEJ skipped more than 30 generals to appoint Minimah, and they had to go.
Before some bigots come for my head, I believe in fair representation of all regions in government, and it's my firm submission that PMB's skew is towards the north not because of tribalism but elitism. As it stands, the northerners don't give a damn too about those appointees. What people want is peace and prosperity

Newton85:
Just shut the Bleep up, dimwitted cretin! What "consequences" are those with baby mamas ruing that married people aren't ruing? Is it not married people divorcing and beating each other to death every now and then? Leave people with baby mamas alone and face your own miserable life, bloody moralism Nazi!

So you can't argue without resorting to insults? Poor soul

Newton85:
Shut up, moralism police. What's your frigging business if people want to keep baby mamas and not marry?

Oya go and do your baby mamaism. You'll rue the consequences in years to come. People just abuse freedom they've got. But for every action, there's a reaction.

The upsurge in moral depravity nowadays is appaling. We live in a society where people decide not to marry but keep baby mamas. The primary unit of the society, family, is abused and scattered. This is what happens when people decide to throw away their religious and cultural values and adopt negative foreign ones.
For me, the best thing is to educate your children, give them a good moral upbringing and marry them off on time before the Devil lures them to succumb to their urges. Staying chaste is becoming more difficult due to allure of modern life. Guard yourself, Guard your home, Guard your society

Good

Bought polystar AC. Temperature can't be controlled. AC not that cold too

longetivity:
Nice gesture, but why build mosque inside a military school

Because the muslim staff and students need it. Even in the military barracks, there's a provision for 1 mosque and 2 churches(catholic and protestan)