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Donxavier: bros, you own a lady if you have done all these to her. Let me list this to you so that you understand well . She owes you her life and whoever it is she has become. You are her sponsor/benefactor.

Flight ticket
Work visa
Will send her to Uni
Employee in his own business
Accommodation, feeding and bills

You are unmarried. Both of you roll together. You are are mentor. And she's with you for 5 years. Coupled with that you are about 20 years older, brov...... Look at it now

She can't possibly refuse anything the man says. It's Yes Sir. Besides since the parents agree am sure that will make her like it plus the man is rich and will take care of her.

How can she possibly choose freely?

Am I the only one seeing all these or is everybody playing devil's advocate

Permit me to say this is slavery mentality!

Back to my earlier argument, so is it only married people that is allowed to help?

You Nigerians sef.....if the man no help una go complain...

Now he help....na motive dey behind

Donxavier: Miss please......

after he already owns her. if she loved him without him having an investment in her that's an entirely different case. Not after she already

Miss Please..........

You can't prove it

laplace12: I hate double standard.

You hid ma post probably for being provocative, yet you posted this pics

Did she not warn you not to quote her

Then you replied her with abuse....what do you expect 'Red Carpet'

jennylove7575: hello I am Cindy Jennifer's friend. She gave me her phone to reply any of "Vincent" that's was the name he gave us. Mentions..I don't get it, are you threatening her?She is being cyber bullied by gowonabacha2 aka vincent..because of gowonabacha2 Jennifer had her whatsapp deactivated because he wouldn't give up..gowonabacha2 has gone too far.

Try and read what I wrote again

carefreewannabe: I agree with you but the girl's family made their own decision and this is their business.
The girl wasn't forced, was she?

Not forced o but I think the OP has hidden agenda for the chick and they shipped her off to SA

Donxavier: You are playing devil's advocate right .....I hear you. You must be the female Coogar

Would you allow your daughter such?

Each to their own.......

That's why I work day and night so no one can offer me bull crap like this

carefreewannabe: I was joking.

I wouldn't want my daughter to leave with a man much older at 19 either but the family's decision is not my business. I see no reason to judge them.

See you getting me wrong.

Just because 18 is legal age doesn't mean at that age they can move to a mans house but then again it depends on the upbringing

jennylove7575: .

Post any of those chats again and see what happens

If you don't have any new information to post then stop spamming the thread with the same information

Thank you!

carefreewannabe: You can marry her off when she is 16.

Sure....to a dead man

Me wanting her to learn about life without me doesn't mean I want her to go slaving for some man outside of the country

Donxavier: Offcourse not, this just looks like a classic case of wife grooming

Prove it!

carefreewannabe: If that's your concern, I recommend a boarding school at the age of 12.

She is in boarding alrdy.....but I am still not free yet

I want total freedom

Toby77: I mean she's not yet properly mature to make this kind of life decisions on her own. It's the parents that should be blamed for placing her in a situation where she owes her life to a 'so called wealthy business owner'. the best possible outcome is if the man is a genuinely upright man and fears the Lord truly, otherwise it's not the best. This is what poverty causes, why place the training of your kids on another man because he has the money, thereby mortgaging the young girl as an investment hoping it all turns right.

The question is......how do you know he is not going this good deed genuinely?

carefreewannabe: Are you ok with this classification?

Of cus yes.....

I can't wait for my daughter to turn 18 sef so I can ship her off to uni and throw her out of my house so I can walk around the house naked

carefreewannabe: I have. I am interested in what you think now.

I don't know how they work it out in Nigeria but on my side of town -

At 16 you are partly classed as a Young Adult

At 18 you are legally an Adult 100%

Donxavier: Bros, maybe because you are a big man ......It's still hard for me to comprehend ......follow the story

He is unmarried, Picks up a young girl, Gets her a 5 year work visa, Bought her a new phone, Changed her wardrobe, Will send her to University, She's with him, he feeds and houses her

Inshort, he's already her Olori Owo ....... he's grooming a wife

Again still not a big deal!

So doing good is only limited to married people

carefreewannabe: When is someone an adult?

Read what the OP said!

Toby77: Like I have said above, the issue isn't a problem with me since the parents are cool with it. It's most likely an arranged marriage situation that her parents aprprove off, so that's not the issue.

she's not an adult, she's still naive and inexperienced. Why would a parent put his own child in a position where she's indebted to any man? she hasn't even gone to Uni sef...If the girl had graduated from University then made the decision on her own that's a different case. The parents hold more responsibility here for outsourcing and putting their child at the mercy of this helper/Sponsor.

Toby77: Like I have said above, the issue isn't a problem with me since the parents are cool with it. It's most likely an arranged marriage situation that her parents approve off, so that's not the issue.

she's not an adult, she's still naive and inexperienced. Why would a parent put his own child in a position where she's indebted to any man? she hasn't even gone to Uni sef...If the girl had graduated from University then made the decision on her own that's a different case. The parents hold more responsibity here for outsourcing and putting their child at the mercy of this helper/Sponsor.

19yr old in not an adult

Welcome to civilisation boss

Donxavier: Hmmmn, he would also send her to University and train her in higher education...All these massive investment just from the goodness of his heart

Well, maybe there are still some very selfless men left on earth.

Still don't see a big deal in it.......

If the man is blessed and decides to bless a less privileged family is it a crime?

Kachisbarbie: lol...you said my mind sweetie.
Very-very questionable comments...I never believed that was her on her dp though
...but we can never be so sure, she gats clarify this issue.

There is no law on Nairaland that says picture on your profile has to be yours........

It's left to you if you want to believe its her or not

Why does she have to prove to anybody if she is male or female

Is he/she begging or looking for marriage or love on Nairaland?

Donxavier: Brov, honestly am slpit . It's really hard to believe a man will come all the way from SA to do this without anything in it for him. What is so special about this lady . I dunno but It's hard to believe he's only doing this from the goodness of his heart.

because think of it, he's not her uncle or even a distant relative and he's unmarried. He's wealthy, are you telling me there are no nigerian employees in SA that he prefers to come back to nigeria to pick a girl? I dunno sha

Trust me he might be doing it from the goodness of his heart.......it's his money so he can go to Gambia to find employee if he wants.

Depending on the kind of business he does, appearance might be a factor and that's why he changed her wardrobe and give her the latest technology. At least OP didn't say they took her there to work as housemaid!

So maybe he has seen some potential in her and he feels the right thing to do is invest on her.

Donxavier: Hmmm, but why the latest phone? Samsung galaxy 4 we talking about here. Are there no other lesser phones that can do the work? Let me agree with you she needs it. He is feeding her and is under his care. This is someone recommended to him by his grandmum, he is also unmarried . He has so far done everything for her, got her a work visa, processed it for her, bought her flight ticket and most importantly will train her in University....all these for free

Are there still good men on this planet like that without no strings attached. like i said at the very least he would sleep with her

So are you saying the only reason you think there is more to it is because of the latest phone

GowonAbacha2: Thanks temigracie, ur comments are so charming. Its high time I left this thread and deapexboy, you can hit me up on bbm, check ur mail. Whatever the blackmail from any fraud or online scammer, [b]gowonabacha will forever remain gowonabacha as far as NL is concerned. [/b]Also, frauds like jennylove and banega as well as miss britney will continue to be exposed. I dont have any hands in this but I'll let karma do its job. Temigracie thanks once again.
Best regards dear.


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Oh no you won't so you better start thinking of a new user name!

temigracie: Well, all I can say is that you shouldn't have jumped to conclusions like that about her or him.....What if she prove you wrong now??...What if she upload lots of picture about her now??.....Even if she lied about that too.....You ll be banned from this forum for a long time....

You made a mistake by jumping into conclusion....you made a mistake by opening a thread cos of her....You made a mistake by threatning and insulting her personality....She or he can decide to fire back at you anyway.....

There are many others doing this stuff you are complaining about...exposing one wont make the others stop...You should have reported the issue to the MODS (with evidence) and the rest doesnt concern you again...

And if you noticed that the MODS turned a deaf ear to the report....You ll then try as much as possible to avoid future re-occurence.....

God bless you sweetie.

He sent me an email since yesterday and I asked for proof which I am still waiting for till now....

Let me play along with him for now but I am sure he will not like the result at the end of the day

EfemenaXY: ^^

Is that a low-lying toilet? Or shower cubicle? Or a two-in-one, low cost, double functioning, shower/toilet faucet??

Don't know the English buy we call it shalanga in Nigeria even though this is a fancy one.

Not a shower cus it's a restaurant. I don't think people go restaurant to bath now lol......

Funny thing is, it's two in there so two people can go in there at the same time

Deapexboy: Come! gowonabacha if that is not ur whatsapp or bbm I.D then mail me d real one....

Jennylove....proof urself by uploading another profile pix on NL....defend urself and stop to copy and paste stuff.....

And how does this solve the mystery

GowonAbacha2: Remeber how banega was busted, this one was also busted too yesterday on a particular thread but got deleted by the mods if ot I would have shown you. Rather than admitting, his best option to fight back was to blackmail the people who exposed him. Same thing the poor fellow did for one other guy too. Just check out the flaws in the message he fabricated.. How will I ever uses this same gowonabacha2 moniker on nairaland. If the fellow wants to be freed, its better he gives a concrete proof of his/her identity. S/he refused to give a facebook I'd, s/he was also told to upload a new picture of hers which s/he has never before used so as to avoid the old likes stuff on nairaland but s/he refused. The person behind that moniker can never dispute the fact that he's a male looking for victims to prey on. Until he /she does any of the stuff mentioned above, s/he 'll continue to be accused for fraud and blackmail.

That's not what I asked you sir!

Again, the question is........how did he/she defraud you?

GowonAbacha2: No I don't, s/he was busted as a male on a particular forum yesterday. That. Number is as strange as it can be. I'm in nigeria and not in pakistan or wherever he got that number from. Check the what's app message the dude fabricated, check the name on it which says gowonabacha2. How is it ever possible I use that same name both on nairaland and whatsapp. Even if I wanted to use such on whatsapp, wouldn't it have been just plain gowonabacha (without the 2). He thinks he's a master of blackmail but he still has a long way to go.

So how did he/she defraud you?

GowonAbacha2: U know you don't have to deceive people with the whatsapp message you fabricated. Just see where u fall your own hand, how is it ever possible I uses the same gowonabacha2 monike I use on nairaland and still use that same gowonabacha2 moniker on whatsapp . If u thing ur a master of blackmail, think again. Ur still a learner mr man. I wonder when you'll ever agree to your own flaws, you can keep deceiving people if you like. But just get something upfront which u don't know, blackmail is a vrey serious offence and it can end you up in jail. Go get a job mr man.

Answer my question Mr man and I am still waiting for the reply on the email I sent you...

GowonAbacha2: That's phone number is not mine. How's should I ever use that kind of strange looking number.
Just check what she used to fabricate a writeup on whatsapp or something. How is it ever possible I use gowonabacha on another platform when that's not my real name. Its all blackmail .

Is this your number 002348171798241?

Do you talk to her on whatsapp or BBM?

GowonAbacha2: You can just imagin the level of your stupidity @ the bolded. You say what you think. All these your false accusations will just land you in prison if I decide to sue you. Temigracie, rozzay, mizmycoli shey u can see what I was talking about earlier on. God knows I'm in nigeria so there's no way I'll be using that number. By the way you don't have to advertise urself here for unsuspecting people who you think you can pray on. I know what ur trying do is put that number there so that guys who you think don't already know ur a scammer will pick that shït up and give you a call. Anybody reading this that wants to be sure whether the little dude is blackmailng me or not can try pick up that shìt and confirm. May God take his time to punish you all the days of your sorry and wasteful life. May the sorrows and pains of people you've scammed on this forum continue to haunt you for eternity even in death. May you never know peace. You've shown the whole nairaland community that ur a big failure in your yahoo business and by such, may success continue to run away from you. You will beg for success but may you continue encounter failure.
You will never enjoy your night rests. Its 1:40 am and may your night rests continue to be worse all the days of your life. Don't dare quote me again and quit spamming my mentions or I'll make you regret the day you came out between ur mother's legs little boy. I'm now fully convinced of ur identity. You can never dispute the fact that ur a male scammer.
Badbye.

You have 24hrs to prove how you are scammed by this lady or you thread goes to the bin and you will be banned from Nairaland for a very long time.

She has already posted something indicating you asked her for money and you have not provided nothing to prove her wrong. The phone number she posted, is it yours or not?

What's new

EfemenaXY: Jenny moi

I think I've found the perfect budget holiday for you, somewhere in the Big Apple. It's a 0-Star hotel, guaranteed to make your money stretch really farrrrr....

Note: The guy going "ooohhh" at the toilet must be our dear R231 in the middle of releasing his famous made-in-China-Stink-Bomb

Enjoy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zvlO9Yw7IY

Only in yankee

I went to a restaurant in China with something similar anyway.......

That one na shalanga .....I don't even know where to start