₦airaland Forum

Ur words r so encouraging thank you very much, I'm loved everywhere I go that's why sometimes I wonder wat I really did to my family dat makes dem so mad at me, I ve been speaking with few friends and dey ve been so encouraging too, I know I ve an hidden potentials inside of me bt due to my depressed state I ve nt been able to discover them, I ve decided to stay away from d people that talks me down. There is a song I listen to wenever I'm down Hero by maria carey and miracles by maria carey, listen to d lyrics it will go a long way, same goes to every depressed persons' believe me I know it would go a long way. I love u all and I know there is someone out there that cares a lot abt u too, never give up, we will fight dis together and I knw we will come out successful

I ve learn a lot from dis thread bt in my own situation each time I feel like I ve gotten my life back my family pull me back to my depressed mood and say hurtful words at me, I ve tried suicide bt d thought of going to hell won't let me pls wat do I do?

I read this topic on my facebook wall and I decided to share with my fellow nairalanders

I spent money on her, I paid her rent, school fees and yet she left me...

I taught him how to be a man, he was a nobody before me, now he married another girl after making it big...

Don't think because you spent your life savings on a girl/boyfriend they owe you marriage.....or else you are going to get the biggest heartache of your life....

There is nothing wrong in helping your lover, but do it because you loved them.....don't do it because you feel it will score you a wedding....

Marriage is a serious commitment, don't enter into it as a way of paying someone back for a good deed rendered you if you don't love that person....you will regret it, you will grow to resent the person.

Don't marry someone out of pity....it will not work, you will grow to hate the person, you will lose out on your true love because you have tied yourself down in a loveless marriage,,,,,even the person you married out of pity will not be happy, because deep down they know it was not love but pity that tied you to them.....and no matter how long you hide it.....the pity will show out one day....one day out of frustration...it will come out that after all I only married you out of pity...

If you owe someone, there are ways to pay them back besides marriage...

If you feel that the only way a person can pay you back for all you did for them is to marry you....hmmm, don't you think that you deserve real love and not pity payback love? Why are you setting yourself up for an eventual devastating heartbreak.....

Think on it.

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