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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 16 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Rafiquie: 10:26am On Oct 16, 2022
Abeg make person fund my 1xbet even if a 3h

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 6:30am On Oct 10, 2022
luvyaself95:
How is this Going

I spoke to two new people last week, one was in a taxi I boarded, I opened her with her sneakers, said they were tiny and pink like my younger sister's, she laughed. It was easier talking to this one, seems like she's that kinda person.

The second one, was a sale girl in her shop, I came in to buy some packaging bags and while her subordinate took care of my orders I told her I found her neck piece intriguing (it looked handmade, turned out she made it herself) she caught the hook but it seemed her environment wasn't helping because about every few minutes, her boss would leave his office and stop to stare at both of us from down the hallway.

I intend to talk to as many people as I can this week too.

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Romance / Re: Yahoo Saved Me From Depression. My Story by Rafiquie: 7:18am On Oct 07, 2022
Nomanlike:
It is what it is

Boss, I'm a professional graphic designer, I can get you anything you can imagine on paper, account statement, Id cards, logos...any bleeping thing! HMU if you ever need me, also if it's not too much of a bother I'd like you to put me through online, 3 minutes a day of your time would be worth everything.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 8:07am On Sep 29, 2022
Pukkalolo:



But when in proximity with a lady, the difference between the alpha guy and the wussy guy is what they do next once they start experiencing that anxiety.



Thanks for your input bro

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 3:49pm On Sep 28, 2022
ubunja:


And as counterproductive as it may seem, Go in with a blank mind. No questions pre-loaded, no topics prepared. Create space for a conversation to grow organically and naturally.


Thanks for the advice ubunja, especially the two sentences I quoted.

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Romance / Re: I Was Drugged At A Party by Rafiquie: 4:19am On Sep 28, 2022
ublight:



Finally, someone that can pitch tent well

Here's a picture of my system

Romance / Re: I Was Drugged At A Party by Rafiquie: 4:12am On Sep 28, 2022
ublight:



Finally, someone that can pitch tent well

grin you are hilarious
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 12:58pm On Sep 27, 2022
Smartb0y:

Oh sorry my man,i got distracted.

So you weren't talking about women and relationship initially.

That's what we discuss here but i like the diversion.

Still typing...

Hopefully, you'll eventually type out an open ended casual question to start a conversation.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:39pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:


What's the end product of this said casual conversation starters?
I'm going to ask you some series of questions in order to assert some useful questions that'll be beneficial to you

Are you ready?

Gone mute?? Alright bro, my battery is low when you think of something else to say the floor is all yours, have a beautiful night cheesy let's talk tomorrow.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:32pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:


What's the end product of this said casual conversation starters?

To "casually" (get the keyword smartty) talk to as many people as I encounter, build a larger social network, engage possible clienteles for my business.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:27pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:


We have been conversing,did you find it difficult?

Now do the same with those girls wink

This is not a casual conversation, this is me asking a direct question, demanding a direct answer...which you clearly do not have...casual conversation starters anyone??
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:21pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:

*Sighs* all this research just for women.
Too much work I'd say grin

Spontaneity is one of the perks of Igraining the redpill into your DNA.

You're welcome to join if you want unlimited questions, na skip that.. ...

You're welcome to join if you want to unlock what's between her legs wink

Research is literally what this whole thread is about, it's literally what the entire concept of the redpill is all about cheesy you seem like one of those fan boys, one of those people who are quick to attach the alpha male tag to their butts and strut the street with a false sense of pride. Do you or do you no have any casual open ended questions I could use to strike up a conversation??

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2022
If you have any other open ended questions tho I'd appreciate them better Smartb0y

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:06pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:


Smartb0y once said
You don't enable someone to fail.
You enable someone to overcome.


Tips won't save you.
Your current path is too SIMPle



Lol, finally found someone to pick on?? I've already thanked you for your input haven't I? What more do you need?? A standing ovation?? grin

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 10:01pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:

You don't know your ailments my man,if you did you wouldn't be asking such question.

Alright Smartboy, alright cheesy

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2022
i926:



I use situations/things around me to create conversations or even ask questions to know her thoughts. It is always not a planned conversation for me. If she doesn't respond, just ignore. You have to be bold and confident. I don't ask for name or phone number.








You're probably the only person who really understands the whole point of my question, "use situations/things around me to create conversations" ...very fair point, I'll try this out within the week.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2022
Agelastus:


Miguel de Cervantes said "Deal with the CAUSE and the EFFECT ceases". Problems are completely eradicated only when you identify the root cause and deal with it.

"Approach anxiety" is more often than not due to issues with your confidence and self esteem. Improving on those should be your sole aim. Once you've done that, you're less likely to have this anxiety anymore.

I was once at this stage. I began my journey with the books "Awaken the giant within" by Anthony Robbins and "No more Mr Nice Guy" by Robert Glover.

Wishing you success on your journey.

Thanks for the input, do you have any open ended questions I could start a conversation with tho?

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2022
Smartb0y:

You don't have anxiety issues, you have lack of self worth issue.

You place too much value on a woman instead of yourself.she's just a human being like you.

Until you get to that stage when you don't see the opposite sex with a crown on their head, you have some serious unlearning to do.

No amount of advice or tips will help you overcome it, only you can help you.

Understand that you're the prize,so stop drooling over every pussy you find attractive.

There's nothing special about her, that's the first trick to talking to women.
Just have it at the back of your mind anytime you start drooling, you'll be surprised just how easy it is to talk to anyone,not just women.

Lol, you are in no position to tell me my ailments, I know what problems I have and I have clearly stated them. Thanks for your input tho, if you have any open ended questions I could break the ice with tho it'll be more appreciated. wink

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rafiquie: 6:49pm On Sep 26, 2022
Hey guys, I need a little help here, I've been drowning in the REDTruth for a while now and getting introspective I've come to realize I have 'approach anxiety', here's where I need y'all, could you give me a few open ended questions i could use to begin a conversation in places like a mall, the street or even a taxi. Id really appreciate the help.

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Romance / Re: The Red Truth by Rafiquie: 6:48pm On Sep 26, 2022
Hey guys, I need a little help here, I've been drowning in the REDTruth for a while now and getting introspective I've come to realize I have 'approach anxiety', here's where I need y'all, could you give me a few open ended questions i could use to begin a conversation in places like a mall, the street or even a taxi. Id really appreciate the help.
Romance / Re: I Was Drugged At A Party by Rafiquie: 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2022
Boss abeg I'd really appreciate it if you helped a brother, I'm a professional graphic designer and as of last month the screen of my PC broke. I'd appreciate as much help as you can give and even if you don't want to help me for free you could employ my services so I can raise the funds to fix my screen.
Art, Graphics & Video / Expert Graphic Designers Opinion Needed. by Rafiquie: 7:07am On Sep 24, 2022
Hello, long story short, it's one of my short term goals to build my own portfolio, I really need your opinions as to what and what would make for a great graphic design portfolio.
Romance / The REDTRUTH by Rafiquie: 8:13pm On Sep 22, 2022
So this past few days I've spent my time reading up on Dpsychologist 's #REDTRUTH...the entire 4 volumes and all I felt was anger, sadness and pity (lol definitely not at myself) at a point I realized how painful knowledge can be and why so very simple people would choose to live in the messy mirage they were born into. In as much as I see the truth in his words I can't help but think...feel rather that virtually all the traits listed in that book...or those books rather are shared by both genders. What do you think??
Family / Re: My Parents Destroyed My Life In Guise Of Love, I'm Now Depressed Daily by Rafiquie: 9:20am On Sep 20, 2022
LINSAR:


I have same story.Only male and last born.
Except I'm younger and not suicidal.

I have improved myself greatly but I'm boring and not fun to be with. I don't know what to say when talking to the female folks.
Any ideas?

You need to learn game, go mgtow for about 3 months and during that period read up on game, frames and mindset. Use the next 3 months to practice, expect to fail in a few places (a lot of places lol) but keep your resilience...it'll pay.
Jobs/Vacancies / N-power 2022 by Rafiquie: 8:46pm On Sep 16, 2022
I want to enquire if registration for the 2022 N-Power program has begun. Inputs appreciated.
Religion / Re: Is Heaven Made For Christians Only? by Rafiquie: 6:13am On Sep 12, 2022
Christianity is just one single path in a million to the light of consciousness.
Romance / Re: I Just Cheated On My Girlfriend And I Don't Have Peace by Rafiquie: 11:04am On Sep 11, 2022
No matter what happens, no matter how bad or guilty or ashamed or afraid you feel DO NOT LET HER KNOW THAT YOU CHEATED, try to make it up to her subconsciously...and if you really need to, try to keep you dick underhand (literally lol)...all the feelings will pass eventually and you'd get used to it too, chances are you might cheat again...so check your lists out, remind yourself what is worth what.
Religion / Re: Faith In God. by Rafiquie: 12:58am On Sep 04, 2022
MaxInDHouse:


Billions around you have tried to make things happen for them but failed woefully because the race doesn't belong to the swift! Ecclesiastes 9:11 smiley

I think this is one of those metaphorical lines you're not supposed to read direct meaning to.
Religion / Re: Faith In God. by Rafiquie: 12:56am On Sep 04, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Well, when one comes to a realization based on knowledge, it is ones mind talking to one, right? undecided

As for the supposed message, I don't believe that is a universal truth. I lean more towards the "que Sera Sera" side of things. Whatever will be will be, whether you like it or not.undecided

Beautiful pov, requires a lot of faith.

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