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DigitalSignal:
We're all human and are affected by the same circumstances and go through the same ebbs and flows of life.

We all have our foibles and different emotional slants.
But on a general level when you compare the behavior of guys to that of girls' with respect to sex, your mind would not be bereft of thoughts that guys are cheaper!

Take the case of an average girl/lady who's constantly battered by male attention all in an attempt to get her laid, yet she's able to put up some resistance and sometimes resistance strong enough to ward off the invasion of the ever desiring attention of guys!

Now, this is not easy for them from the perception that we all want to be appreciated and made to feel good. Saying “No” to someone who makes you feel wanted, loved and appreciated may require strength of character!

Coming to an average guy, a girl does not have to go to such length as a guy would go to get him in his birthday suit!

In my opinion, guys can't resist girls as much as girls can resist guys and if guys could get half of the sex-laden attention ladies are getting and there was something equivalent to a prostitute and it's also considered acceptable for ladies to approach guys for intimacy, many a man would be designated exactly that…the equivalent of a prostitute!

The reason they would be so termed is that in a perfectly unbiased society, where ladies can equally approach guys, the guys wouldn't have the emotional strength to resist the ladies as much as the ladies can!

Their case wouldn't even be out of a desire to make money or make both ends meet as girls do, but sheer lack of emotional strength to say “No” to an advancing intimate desire projected from a lady's mental closet!

This is my opinion and if you feel differently, let's read yours...thanks.

at OP, I was patient enuf to go thru ur write up several times over because I dint want to mk any uninformed contribution about ds thing. and as it is my nature, I hardly comment on stuff. I prefer to read and learn and smtimes just laugh some silly stuff off. but ds case, mehn..its kinda touchy if not dwnright insulting to d menfolk. m prety sure u b male going by ur argument up there. m sorr to say u hv it all wrong and twisted. no insult bo.

d truth of d matter is that we may be all human, bt there's vast differences btw hw men nd women are genetically made up or wired wen it comes to love and attraction. men r not cheap! women arent cheap either! we men r polygamous by nature. we r d he-goats and as a consequence, we r intrinsically disposed to wanting to get laid. 99% of men have highly sexed nature.
a lot of us who r very open to ladies advances do so out of lust. yes lust. we r highly hot, awake, hot. so we always wanna do it!

nw, ifu thnk we that silly,open and cheap wen it comes to womens love advances, let the gurls flock around him wen he is about to choose a marriage partner. I bet, I wont let my guard dwn......nt easily... then we bcme wise, modest and clingy. nw, ladies wud sense we take so seriously who we wanna d rest of our life with. u wudno we aint cheap.
as 4 d women being d stronger side, I dn know nd I cnt speak 4 em.

DigitalSignal:
We're all human and are affected by the same circumstances and go through the same ebbs and flows of life.

We all have our foibles and different emotional slants.
But on a general level when you compare the behavior of guys to that of girls' with respect to sex, your mind would not be bereft of thoughts that guys are cheaper!

Take the case of an average girl/lady who's constantly battered by male attention all in an attempt to get her laid, yet she's able to put up some resistance and sometimes resistance strong enough to ward off the invasion of the ever desiring attention of guys!

Now, this is not easy for them from the perception that we all want to be appreciated and made to feel good. Saying “No” to someone who makes you feel wanted, loved and appreciated may require strength of character!

Coming to an average guy, a girl does not have to go to such length as a guy would go to get him in his birthday suit!

In my opinion, guys can't resist girls as much as girls can resist guys and if guys could get half of the sex-laden attention ladies are getting and there was something equivalent to a prostitute and it's also considered acceptable for ladies to approach guys for intimacy, many a man would be designated exactly that…the equivalent of a prostitute!

The reason they would be so termed is that in a perfectly unbiased society, where ladies can equally approach guys, the guys wouldn't have the emotional strength to resist the ladies as much as the ladies can!

Their case wouldn't even be out of a desire to make money or make both ends meet as girls do, but sheer lack of emotional strength to say “No” to an advancing intimate desire projected from a lady's mental closet!

This is my opinion and if you feel differently, let's read yours...thanks.

at OP, I was patient enuf to go thru ur write up several times over because I dint want to mk any uninformed contribution about ds thing. and as it is my nature, I hardly comment on stuff. I prefer to read and learn and smtimes just laugh some silly stuff off. but ds case, mehn..its kinda touchy if not dwnright insulting to d menfolk. m prety sure u b male going by ur argument up there. m sorr to say u hv it all wrong and twisted. no insult bo.

d truth of d matter is that we may be all human, bt there's vast differences btw hw men nd women are genetically made up or wired wen it comes to love and attraction. men r not cheap! women arent cheap either! we men r polygamous by nature. we r d he-goats and as a consequence, we r intrinsically disposed to wanting to get laid. 99% of men have highly sexed nature.
a lot of us who r very open to ladies advances do so out of lust. yes lust. we r highly hot, awake, hot. so we always wanna do it!

nw, ifu thnk we r that silly,open and cheap wen it comes to womens love advances, let the gurls flock around him wen he is about to choose a marriage partner. I bet, I wont let my guard dwn......nt then.. then we bcme wiser, modest and clingy. nw, ladies wud sense we take so seriously who we wanna spend d rest of our life with. u wud realize we aint cheap.
as 4 d women being d stronger side, I dn know nd I cnt speak 4 em.

imas:
Because their shelf life is short, if you know what I mean.

yep, I codedly get watcha mean! they grow pretty old real quick and they find that a lill scary, bah?

major466:
Ladies are generally excited about marriage. No big deal. Its a genetic makeup embedded in their blood. Reason why Women are natural home makers. A man can build a house, but a Man can never make a home. Don't mess with the heart of a woman.

nyc 1 bro..u on point!

Mskrisx:
@ op if u feel she is only good enough for shag and not for keeps,then,I suggest you let go of her....I suppose with that u need not worry what it is with babes and marriage thanks.

wow, I cudnt agree more

Mskrisx:
@ op if u feel she is only good enough for shag and not for keeps,then,I suggest you let go of her....I suppose with that u need not worry what it is with babes and marriage thanks.

wow, I cudnt agree more

Hullo NL. This has bn a puzzle to me....y are wimin so freaked about marriage. u break their virginity or u have quality courtship with em and then they ask whats ur future plans. Much of today was spent by my gurl talkin on and on about wat an ideal marriage between me and her is gonna b.
pls Nl, tell me about wat is it with babes and marriage na!
hv a gud night ya all.

Big4wig:
When people hurt you over and over, think of them as sandpaper. They scratch and hurt you. But later, you’ll be shining and polished, while they end up useless..op c how useless u sound..mtshww

nyc words bro. whered u learn those from? fighting temptation s...Beyonce nd cuba gooding starring. .

Nice girls died a long time ago; all these chics alive now are opportunists, they all fall in love for reasons to them, and they will be gone when the smoke clears.

Guys, when a girl suddenly falls in love with for no damn reason, and she's screaming 'marriage' - please, run as fast as you can. Chics can NEVER be trusted; if you believe her bs love and reciprocate that bs; you're on your own because she's gonna mess your life up.

There are two rules to the game:

- NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A GIRL.
- NEVER TRUST GIRLS; GIRLS ARE THE BIGGEST LIARS SINCE LUCIFER.

I let my guard down once; got emotional and fell in love with this girl that's always telling me how much she loves me and how she would do anything for me. It was so crazy that if I tell his girl to jump, she would. She was everything you would describe as a "nice girl" - but two years down the line, when I finally decided to give her a chance, and reciprocate the love - then, she showed her true colours. Damn, she turned me into a stalker and almost messed my life up.

Phuck bytches for real, I'll never believe that love shyte. I prefer a girl that tolerates me; gives me the chance to do whatever the phuck I wanna do; and don't expect too much from me than that love bs.

heck, I like ds guy. so blunt. so frank. so candid. m a big fan dude

thats the problem with Nigerians. we create divisions by foolish stereotypes and categorization

JOETYNO:
So poly na Secondary School abi that U couldn't sum it in your Segregational Research?


We Nigerians are inherently laden with self-discriminating and ethical division.

Clueless research from a biased Nigeria dividing mind. Mtcheew!

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#Disclaimer: :@ @OP, I was nt in any little way insulting U, just felt U should fasten ur seatbelt and dive into concrete-complex research before presenting anything in a multiple involved sector, to avoid harsh quotes. Merci.

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