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MaziOmenuko:
Lol...you really have to redefine this insecurity so I'll understand it better.

Does caring and protecting the one you love count as insecurity too?

shadowgwalker:
point of correction please, it is Christmas and not Xmas ... the x was to cancel that word 'Christ ' cos haters were scared of the name above all names.

modelmike7:
This is a very serious issue! I really feel your pain girl, I won't like to start castigating you for the heinous act you commited by cheating on your guy, I will only like to comment on the solution to your predicament, the only thing you can do is to keep begging him and let him know how so sorry you are, (tho I know how I will feel assuming it is a girl that did that to me anyway), tho assuming he even let u know he has deleted all, what is the assurance that he hasn't transfer it to another medium while making you believe he doesn't have it anymore? It is a very dicey situation you have put yourself into girl. I just pray he is the forgiving type, if not, I really feel for you for the consequence of your unfaithful act. I pray he forgives you and let you move on with your life, cos if not, I know some very crude actions some other girls will take to cover up this kinda act, it could actually take lives, which I don't pray this escalate to! So just keep begging him so he can have a change of heart!!! Some holes aren't just loyal!!!

emusmith:
As the custom was, is and may continue to be: Pretty ladies are proud, arrogant and domineering.

NOTE: BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER! what I call "pretty" might not be what you surname it to be... Everyone is beautiful and perfect except for our Eyes...

Diamond, when viewed from different angles take different forms. enh enh...

Below are some cogent, "considerable" and reasonable reasons why you should date a PRETTY LADY, yes Pretty Lady, with the intention of marrying her at last...

1. Abraham, Isaac and Jacob all loved pretty women.
E dey bible gan! If Abraham na my Papa, why I nor go follow my papa footsteps?

2. Beautiful ladies don't have so much to bother about.
Their physical appearance is solved already. They only need to cater for their mind (reading, which some of them detest. ) and their spirits...as the case may be...

3. Pride, most times, is synonymous with pretty ladies. And, if that pride is properly corrected and controlled can birth Healthy Self Esteem.

4. Beautiful ladies with Sound Brains #clears throat # look more attractive, inviting and charming.

5. Not a few pretty girls are often shy, insecure and "introvertish" in nature. Some of them have Trust Ish...Even with this ish, if this temperament finds a cushion in your bowels and get some pampering from you, will make them love and trust you wholeheartedly...

# some of them are V's so their first must under go pressure to gain her trust#

6. No wealthy man would chose a not-so-pretty woman over a pretty one. haha!

7. Holy Angels in Heaven are pretty. Aren't they?

8. Beautiful ladies aren't rude and presumptuous as maligned (falsely painted) by some guys today. It is even the opposite (if they feel so) that are already angry that all the nice guys (like us) have been taken by these pretty chicks.
You need to observe their attitude in the bank, e.g.

9. If you really believe you deserve the Best out of life, then I agree with you that you deserve a Pretty Lady.
"He makes all things BEAUTIFUL..."

Why settle for less

10. You stand the chance/ privilege of bringing into the world cute kids.
Don't pretend it doesn't matter because it does.

11. Statistics has it that Romantic Stage in every marriage doesn't exceed Two Months, at most Three...But with a beautiful lady (THAT POSSESSES A BEAUTIFUL HEART ) it can linger for years.

12. If you've been nodding your head to all the aforementioned points...
Note that you will learn to be patient, meek and mature. It Adds these virtues to you automatically.

Some of them feel like they are Lacasera, sorry, Cinderella therefore you've to always cuddle, pet and pamper. And Yes, they are in a way, because your "Pick up lines" before they accepted your offer made them believe so.

Guys:
Approach the most beautiful!
Dare the impossible!
Climb that mountain!
You can do it!

Thank me later...

Good luck!

emusmith:
Thumbs up. bro. You're just my type. I love reading... I love English...

parrotibaba:
"Fear her not,who can maga-rize u when u r in abundance of wealth but fear her who can maga-rize you even when u lack wealth"..._____ Parrotibaba

kurt09:
This is a real story of a young Ex-Unilag girl who
passed away last month. Her name is Lola. She
was hit by a car at Oyingbo on her way to work at
Apapa. She was working with MTN. She had a boy
friend named Emeka, a banker who was recently
transferred to Abuja. Both of them were true
lovers. She spent half of the day and most night
talking with Emeka on her phone. Lola's family
knew about their relationship. Emeka was very
close to Lola's family in spite of the tribal
differences. (just imagine their love.) Before she
passed away at LUTH, she told her friends:"If I
pass away, please bury me with my cell phone"She
also said the same thing to her parents. After her
death at LUTH, the attendants couldn't carry her
body to the mortuary. A lot of them tried to do so
but couldn't. So they went to call a priest in
church who had the gift of communicating with the
dead. He sprinkled some salt and water on the
body and started speaking to himself slowly. After
a few minutes, he said:"this girl is missing
something". Then her friends told them about her
intention to be buried with her phone. They asked
them to bring a coffin, and then they opened it and
placed her phone inside the casket. After that, they
tried to carry the body which could now be moved
and they carried it away easily. Everyone was
shocked. A day later which was Lola's birthday,
Emeka came to their house with gifts but was so
shocked to receive the news. He couldn't believe
because he still spoke with Lola the previous day,
He then tried calling her phone again in their
presence and behold! It rang and Lola picked it and
they were chatting. They called the priest to come
and intervene and when he came and prayed for 5
hours,It was revealed that MTN is everywhere you
go. Chill! Don't hate me yet, because I'm also
looking for the idiot that composed this......lolz.
But u like gist sha!Oya pass it on!

EroticAngelina:
so make person no de eat chicken again??

ronald4lif:
I am trying too hard in restraining myself not to use foul words on you and I hope I achieve this. Without mincing words you destroy your relationship, you unbeknown or ignorantly drove your man away and shut the door on him. I mean who tell their potential spouse such things about their past? Everyone has that thing that we may never want our prince/princess charming to know about us. It was completely irrelevant to tell, there was no pressure whatsoever to do so. I mean men marry non-virgins everyday and never cared who and who they had f*cked, if the brides keeps telling their suitors who they had f*cked many weddings will be called off. Its nothing to do with you f*cking married men, his reaction would have been same even if you had told him there were your fellow students you flirted with. Men knows chances are high that their women may have had a dirty past but would rather not hear about it, once they know it never gets off their mind especially when making love to her. My advice to you is not to bother him, whichever decision he takes is what you deserve. But just so you know be ready to always have him rub it on your face the rest of your life at any given little misunderstanding, that's if he goes ahead with the wedding plans. I am sorry no sympathy for you. An igbo adage says ife onye ara melu onwe ya kariri ife omelu ummune ya which translates as what a mad fellow does to himself its worst than whatever he does (shame wise) to his relatives. I am not in any way referring to you as being mad but your actions was a mad stuff. All the best anyways!

venivedivici:
Na when I see the number of people wey dey view this thread I realise say we plenty wey don fall. . .




NO MORE MR NICE GUY

jkpretty:
As far as i'm concerned its a two way thingy. BOTH SEXES DO. Ladies are just too emotional and i hate the way they express way too often. Guys die silently

rago:
u dnt gerrit

eleojo23:
You guys tell someone 'be a man' "be resolute" yet you get upset when someone stands his ground and refuses to conform easily to other people's beliefs. So what do you think that is on your part? Don't you think it makes you guys 'men' who get angry and emotional just because they are unable to persuade someone else to conform to their thoughts? Shouldn't a 'man' be able to handle the fact that someone did not buy his opinion without him getting upset?

eleojo23:
I know. Life doesn't go on a straight line and things don't always work out the way we expect them to. I'm not looking forward to having a perfect woman or marriage. I'm however looking forward to a marriage that will thrive despite the odds.
Thanks for dropping by.

DigitalSignal:
How am I wrong? Is there anywhere in the post that I stated that men and women are wired the same way and have the same genetic makeup? Or did I say they respond to love and attraction the same way? No, bro.

What is suggested in the post is that given what makes each gender to cave in to the intimate desires of the other, the guys give in more easily than the ladies!
A combination of factors make a lady responsive to your advances while it takes a girl very little to get a guy dancing in his birthday suit with her!




I may want to agree with you but, are you saying that because men are polygamous, highly sexed and the desire for intimacy is intrinsical in them, they can do nothing about it and can’t say “No” to a lady's advances, or even pretend they don't want it?
What happened to self-control?

When something is readily available and the amount can't be controlled, as what is it referred to?



No, I'm not saying men are silly; it's just how weak some of us are in this regard.
Anyway, after the marriage what happens to him? The polygamous nature will disappear?

The truth is guys fall more easily than ladies!

andyallor:
Oga I disagree with your comments
Only men who look for justification to lay with everychicks insight becos they feel they are men are just plain dogs (no offence intended)

that cud not b farther from d truth. I dnt think real men think they must lay with every chic.

Only the wise men will look at sex as something more than just plain sex because the hormones and other bodily chemicals gets out and mingles to form pleasure and its not ordinary pleasures that's why its called intimacy.

gal, lemme tel u, 4 most men, 4 a lot of us, sex is more than just sex. sex, d desire to get laid is ingrained in us men. sex is a deep part of us, *Andy*.
we cant help it. we r who we r...and u cant run away from who u are. but b4 u nail, I do grasp d idea of self control. its incredibly hard..it is esp wen d green lights come from wimin....
ask Adam in d garden of eden, ask David with Bethseda or smth. go ask bill clinton with monica lewinsky, ask JFK with merylin munroe..d list of great men letting their guards down, giving to women with ease is just endless.


Let me use this animal for example , wolf: do you know that a male wolf only mates for life and when it finds its female they stay together till death parts them. Know this, the male sexual drive is way more than the human male's.
So why can't human men be like that?

I dint no about that incredible sexual nature of wolf..but I wudnt want us to be compared with wolf in sexual practices. its just is ridiculous. we r men, with highly developed brain and billions of nerve endings strewn all over our body.

I even have male relatives that just laughed at me when I thought men are polygamous in nature, because they don't think that way.

Andy, they r just being modest. m telling u..they r just acting like cute uncles and bros who wanna b seen role role models.
the urge is there my friend. However, they just might b blessed to incorporate always d attitude of self control and discipline.
they work so hard to act 'proper' during those trying times. ok?

So please change your mindset on it.

misszainab:
Who says women go gaga cos of marriage? I'm not a fan of marriage.

holyboss:
What is marriage

We don't talk abt it here in france

Obalende:
When the girls are prime, they do shakara, after prime, they want marriage. But by this time most men start seeking out younger babes. only babes that feel they r about to expire start seeking marriage - at least in the present day world.

ireneony:
am not freak about marriage