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"Do not bother with the children bickering on this thread..."

Look at that statement yourself again and again and conclude whether, in practical fact, those comments are effective enough to help you do your "best to avoid this kind of situation next time." They are inflammatory and disrespectful and aren't the appropriate strategies to further de-escalate an already-dying situation by a Group Leader. Sir, it is rude, and they might just cause further unending problems. I don't know about others, but I am going to pretend you never said that. I have tremendous respect for you. But we all deserve to be treated the same.

Omobendel came in and obviously did a good job to de-escalate the brouhaha. Then, here, look at your own contribution.

"Best time to bond with your family, why bother with someone on a faceless forum.

It sure bothered you, you had to respond pretty badly. Understandably, a poor judgment I must admit, sir.

Enjoy yourself, sir, the only true family man on the VISA Section of Nairaland.

seyewest:
If I can like your message twice I would.
Bro do not bother with the children bickering on this thread, it shall pass soon and we will do our best to avoid this kind of situation next time.
This is the best time to bond with my family, why bother with someone on a faceless forum.

Lol, funny dude. They gonna kick you out here first.

mattfeuter:
Cc: Justwise

It's a fairly good epistle. I sure had a good time reading it.

Enjoy

OmoBendel24:
One thing I strongly believe is that Afonja is likely here in the midst with another moniker, the quarrel here is just too much, he's the major one with so much energy to dissipate like this.

I also know that he definitely can't be groovychick, every other person quarrelling here these past few pages could pass for a "suspect" per Afonja new moniker, including @Rago.

I think Rago lost the plot the moment he didn't know to concentrate his energy on getting down with Afonja specifically. The goodwill he enjoyed here at some point was as a result of his standing up against the "bully" Afonja, almost nothing else. Learn to exit the stage when the ovation is loudest.

Demicoker used to be a gentle person before oh! I saw that idiotic attack on the Canada Visit Visa thread, I typed a response to him already but just decided to let go on the day, I understand the pains that caused you and I blame you not for all you have been doing to get back at him. Downside is that I feel you long ought to have relaxed yourself and gather firepower for when he comes back from wherever, you are wasting "bullets" on wrong targets, they may even end up no longer sympathising with you when the day comes, don't lose your goodwill.

@all, una happy "quarantine" oh! I really do hope we all, especially our leaders, learn this time around, I really do hope. This may signal the beginning of our doing things right in and for Nigeria, I mean by the time we survive this period, else I will conclude that these leaders are the real "demons", walahi! Nigeria may be great again it seems now on the surface....

May we all be protected of the Most High God, we will come out victorious and much more bettered surely! Regards

Lol. U no serious. Wetin you wan find go America? Do you have a business tie? Or na the same vacation vacation chorus?

Anyway, U have learned quite a lot today from me already. You and I both know that.
Winks

slashthroat:
Yes i am! If they give me i take if not i remain.
Can you post your rejection transcript so i can learn anything learnable

Make i use your favorite words " knock yourself out buddy"

Lol u looking for a US VISA? OK carry on no Wahla.
But honestly u be one big olodo. Sorry oo
Lmao

slashthroat:
Professor Georgetown Dreamer, you are an imposter, liar and your pants on fire.

Shift make people whey get visa talk to us i beg.

U no serious. Weak guy.

slashthroat:
Professor Georgetown Rago Dreamer wants to wriggle his way out with nonsense grammar

Knock yourself out, buddy.

mattfeuter:
WTF, You’re still speaking english!!!! Can the mods pls ban this guy?

Courage is owning up to your story matter how queer or unpleasant it might be. There are immense benefits of having and demonstrating vulnerabilities. People who aren't vulnerable or who don't choose to show their vulnerabilities have no capacity for empathy.

See, with all due respect, people need a good education. We have a silly mindset.

HAHAHA, ur not serious jor

Enjoy yourself

slashthroat:
Will you ever at least apoligize for the lies?
Then we can probably start believing anything else you say

LMAO HAHAHA

ALRIGHT

slashthroat:
I did not mention you Mr Georgetown Dreamer lol. Guilty conscience? It gotta be
Don't share anything. i believe nothing you write anymore

Lmao. Be deceiving unaselves with fake life. Bunch of hypocrites. Real men don't give a damn about their past. We live into the future.

That's courage!

Cheers, man.

Nabuuuuu:
I am a SHIM, aka Bobrisky. Rest guy, abeg rest. Save your energy for when Afonja makes his appearance for part two. It's been nice bantering with you though. Take it easy and bye

Hahaha, I couldn't have replied. I'm a bit busy. But I'm just glad I treated you with a modicum of respect. I couldn't have done nay better. Don't u think.

Enjoy, buddy.

slashthroat:
You are lucky you did not respond. I would have exposed your life history here. This is what i do for a living.

Relax dude and take a break for real.

Hahaha yes ooo that's some of the stuff I did back then. Crazy fun life. Men, it was crazy. But look I'm not proud of it. But looking back, Comon, great God. I'm incredibly thankful for the life I have today.

So.. Well, As a typical naija lady, what have u done. Now, hold that thoughts! Hahaha.

I'm going to enjoy myself. I hope u relax and do the same.

groovychik:
No sweetie, we definitely do not roll in the same circle. In 2015, you were begging people to tell you ashewo joints in Ibadan, In 2016 you were putting up your number looking for dick enlargement pump. In 2019 August, you were looking for Ibadan hook up. So basically you have a mini winny and cannot get any girl to hook up with. Which explains your disdain for girls you can never get. Stay safe buddy, protect your self during this period. Enjoy making use of your fingers and soap at this most difficult period in history. Namaste.

I got busted real badly. Are u still sending PMs. Hahahaha

slashthroat:
Busted. Apoligize for your lies and take a break.
You don't have any visa. Bw humble

Hahahah that's very true. U very right. I thought it was something I needed back then. I hadn't gotten married at the time. That's men for you. U sure ur a guy. Sure I have done quite a bit of stuff that I'm today not proud of.

Trust me, I have a pretty good life now.

Enjoy

Nabuuuuu:
[ oh no you didn't? Touch down. Someone that entered Nigeria uni with all the strikes in 2015 at 29 years is suddenly a professor in Georgetown. I swear I no go leave nairaland.no

quote author=groovychik post=87950833]No sweetie, we definitely do not roll in the same circle. In 2015, you were begging people to tell you ashewo joints in Ibadan, In 2016 you were putting up your number looking for dick enlargement pump. In 2019 August, you were looking for Ibadan hook up. So basically you have a mini winny and cannot get any girl to hook up with. Which explains your disdain for girls you can never get. Stay safe buddy, protect your self during this period. Enjoy making use of your fingers and soap at this most difficult period in history. Namaste.

Alright.

Enjoy yourself

slashthroat:
Sir you are a big liar very big one. I tried to give you benefit of doubt. You require a J1 visa to be a visiting scholar. I looked at the requirements of Georgetown and they matched with that of the state department.


Validity Period

The amount of time that you can stay in the U.S. under your J-1 visa is dependent on your specific program, though the maximum is usually seven years except under certain circumstances. Here are the validity periods for some of the programs listed above:

Teachers, scholars, researchers, and professors – five years.
Medical grad students – seven years.
Professional trainees and government visitors – 18 months. Some instances allow you to stay for up to two years.
Camp counselors and summer workers – four months.
Nannies and au pairs – one year.
Employees of the International Communications Agency are an exception, as they are sometimes able to remain in the U.S. under J-1 status for ten years or more.

https://maincampusresearch.georgetown.edu/process/visiting-researchers/application-procedure-for-visiting-researchers/#

https://www.immi-usa.com/j1-visa/j1-visa-extension/

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/study/exchange.html

I don't know why people lie stupidly claiming what they are not when they should be grateful for what they are.

This fellow cannot even talk about how he went from 100 level in 2015 at the university of ibadan to PhD in 2019
You are just ridiculing and embarrassing some of us that actually have postgraduate degree in Nigeria. This is really embarrassing

With respect to doing lots of research on universities now, do you wish to do online or physical?
For ur online PHD--they are very, very good. Try Lammar, NCU, UNIV of Maryland, GWU, Georgetown, and Liberty University which I think is good for you on account of your love of GOD LOL

slashthroat:
It's F1 . I'm doing lots of research on universities now
Your visa is B1B2 right and you can go on vacation on that too. Am i right?

Yes, I guess ur very right. b1/b2 yes..business/have fun lol. However, are you aware of the dynamics at POE. They gonna grill you and be ready to provide clear responses. You cannot lie.

slashthroat:
It's F1.
Your visa is B1B2 right and you can go on vacation on that too. Am i right?

Having a 2-year valid visa doesn't imply you CAN stay in the USA for 2 years. It is the guys at the Port of Entry that determine how long you stay, which normally is just 6 months. If you wish, you can apply for a student visa. Is that H or F or something?

slashthroat:
They usually give standard 2years for b1b2 did you get less than that?

Validity...not so long. However, they've moved the whole event to a later date which I do not know right now. They were in communication with me a few days back, and they said they're looking at summer 2021. They aren't sure yet ooo. No wahla, lots of fun to do and probably other spots to vacate in, in the interim.

Please, let's chat again.
Bless you.

slashthroat:
Thanks for your breakdown. I am into info tech and interested in Management Info Systems.
Sir how many years is your visa valid for?

hahaha, I have a lot of pity for you. 'feel sorry for you. I was showing restraint given your gender in a country where a majority of its men treat you like objects and pieces of garbage. You have just validated that sense that's had of you. You should bury your head in the sand and think about your future. We don't roll in the same circles. Heck, I would not want to.

Enjoy yourself and be sure your safe. Will you?

groovychik:
I sent you a message request on NL, please respond. I feel responsible because you were trying to defend me, but you need to understand that peasants need a place to pour out their frustrations with life and their opinions does not bother me, it makes me feel like I have done a good deed for the society. If you keep on responding to these pigs and YES, I mean it literary, then you are a bigger idiot than the two. STOP. Ignore them for 24 hours and see how they scamper back into the holes they crawled out from. Try it my friend. Ignore for 24-48 hrs and they will get tired and maybe, finally get a life.

Hahahaha, yes, I got busted. Really got busted. Are you happy now so we can have some much-needed rest?

groovychik:
Busted lol

If you want to embark on a doctoral degree, passion isn't sufficient. be very prepared. US universities are Oga in this PHd matters. Unlike what we have here and in the UK, You are going to begin with taught courses...more like masters degree education..while they are educating you on the rudiments of research methods and various research designs. This is in preparation for your dissertation.

The school fees are high to the heavens. but ur going to enjoy it so well. Chai. By the way, are u in the social sciences? What phenomena would u like to explore for your research?

slashthroat:
Sir be proud of your achievements if they are real. I would if i was you and be grateful to God almighty.
Why don't you want to talk about it? I see it as a very big miracle for a first degree student enrolled in 2015 in a public university in Nigeria to have a PhD within that sane period and lecturing.

I sent you a pm if you wouldn't mind teaching me that way. I have a masters degree and want to do PhD outside

Thanks for the well wishes

Congratulations!

slashthroat:
Sir i did not insult you so please respect yourself.

How did you cheat the system? Did University of Ibadan allow you convert your 1st degree to PhD? I want to know because i am interested in schooling in any G8 country .
What temperate region?



I am still researching and looking for schools. I have everything sir because my life is in God's hands.

Lol, you would believe that I cheated the system? Academia? I advise that you be reading sarcasm into the words I make public.

On a serious note, I would prefer not to keep talking about this. Please, I wish you well in your educational endeavors.

Enjoy.

slashthroat:
Sir i did not insult you so please respect yourself.

How did you cheat the system? Did University of Ibadan allow you convert your 1st degree to PhD? I want to know because i am interested in schooling in any G8 country .
What temperate region?

That is the culture in Nigeria. No sense of decency. Check a lot of other boards in the forum, you would puke.

Lee310:
Let there be PEACE

I'm sure most of the people talking back and forth here are older than me, but right now I feel we should all mature up and let it slide.
Two wrongs doesn't make a right... Please I beg on behalf of everyone offended.

Thank you and God bless.

God bless Nigeria. God bless America.

hahaha, I probably had different plans. is something wrong with that?

WHat do you have? Still looking for one?

slashthroat:
Prof,
how did you become a visiting scholar when you just started a 100 level in 2015? Your writing style, spelling and diction seem queer for a " visiting scholar"

Since you claim you have the visa, will you still be purchasing a one-way ticket then hustle for return when you reach there? Now that you have so much money.
I am not beefing just asking questions Sir based off your past comments.
Your response will be highly appreciated for future applicants like me

Hahaha, I probably cheated the system. How so easy it is to manipulate the system in that temperate region?

Queer diction? ur very right about that. I suck. I would prefer to suck with folks like yourselves. If you know, you know. hahahaha

slashthroat:
Prof,
how did you become a visiting scholar when you just started a 100 level in 2015? Your writing style, spelling and diction seem queer for a " visiting scholar"

See your life? Haha, lmao. I went the second time and I got it. Getting a visa today is now largely dependent upon things that you cannot even control. A single insignificant indiscretion. GEORGETOWN was devastated and sworn into action immediately. In fact, they had to move my event a bit forward. I got back to the embassy, hahaha smiling. VISA is with me big time. Have you got one? I'm a visiting scholar at Georgetown. You know that varsity? Heavens forgive me, you would only be dreaming of stepping in there, let alone get to rub minds with the school faculty officers. A huge achievement. Again, see your life.

Buddy, what do you accomplish daily? I just got outta bed. I had been up since 1 in the morning. Went to bed at 5.BY 2PM today, I'm earning what you would never earn on a 6 month's salary. When school was open for naija, I never had the chance to do what I now do and earn what I do.

Well, what do you do and how do you do it?

Nabuuuuu:
You work in academia. Na your time dey molest students. Visa you no get, money you no get yet na here you wan die put. Pervert.

Nabuuuuu, see your life. I let public opinion hang you. I let people to talk, who like to talk. It makes it easier to find out how so 'decent' they are.

in the interim, continue with your sex*st remarks. ur on ur own.

Enjoy.

Demicoker:
Once a fool,always a fool...in 2020 someone is still going about gender..what has gender or preggy status got to do with back and forth on nairaland..you didn’t know I was a woman yet you jumped into the situation.
Never seen this level of senselessness
So you for argue with me if I be man..sense Is far from you “shim”..
I called you shim cos I don’t care about your gender..Next time you don’t poke your nose in matters that don’t concern you..dunce!