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Which part of no do you not understand?

Ok there are all levels of wrong with this story. Nine years in a relationship and he gets nothing? So while she advances herself what will he be doing? Waiting to hit it? You need to grow a pair.

Don't ask a guy question's you don't like the answer to. Having 1 previous lover does not make a man honourable neither does having 50 make him a slut. Most women always equate sex with love.
That's were problems begin.

Focus on rising your children they come first, if you were meant to be with someone it will happen in its own time. Desperation is not attractive.

Find a new girlfriend.

It's about being realistic and being balanced. Love does not pay bills but at the same time solitude is suffocating. No one wants a wife with no ambition the same with women as well. If a person is having you choosing then that person does not have your best interest at heart.

To the blind ones ....it's an empty bottle and it's called humour! Get over yourselves.

What attracted her to you in the first place? Surely you must have seen her without makeup at one point? If not then you need to focus your attentions elsewhere,you offended her there is no getting around that. Maybe looking at women who don't have 3kgs of makeup and the whole of Brazil on their head might be your thing. Make up is meant to enhance not hide your face.

Respect her wishes,and stop being selfish not every woman wants to be put in a situation where they choose between friendship and a man. And you should stop putting her in that situation. Besides if your male friend or brother started getting friendly with your ex will you be open minded about it?

He assaulted her regardless of what he perceived she did.

4th wife in this day and age smh!!!

Many women forget that men are humans too, they feel the same level of anxieties and apprehensions just as women. We all have the same heart and have the same blood that flows in our veins. As for ignoring calls and not texting because you want a man to miss you more? Singlehood is calling

Make sure she is into you as well, before you start doing all sorts. Unrequited love is toxic.

Too much time on his hands

You owe her honesty, that will be your biggest gift to her. There is nothing that is as horrible as being stuck in a relationship with someone you do not love. You owe your improved life to her but that does not mean you have to be held ransom by that act alone. A loveless marriage with children is not a healthy environment. I am sure you will get a lot of stress from family and friends as is evident by some of the comments here but you deserve to be happy and so does your girlfriend.