When age catches up she will come looking for them

lebete3000:


It didn't even take me one person alone. I've given almost every woman in this world a chance and have come to the conclusion they're all fvcking the same. I don't think I need to wait till I go through the whole 4 billion women on earth b4 I come to a final conclusion.
Life is 2 short for all those radarada abeg

Maybe it’s you that has the issue have you thought about about that?
Fishing in the same waters yields the same results regardless of the type of fishing tackle used

Neymar1095:

There is no love without sex and vice versa

You have much to learn

What kind of woman? An immature one who is quite insecure. That is not a good combination.

Why is her clothes even an issue? It's her choice not everyone is going to wear swimwear especially in a religious and conservative neighbourhood how is this even issue? How many here have worn a swimming costume on a beach?

Are you black?
This is a question I am asked often and I have no idea why?

Most have felt like that if people were honest about such matters
but all it takes is one person to make you change your mind

Gamesmart:


Do you equate sex with love?

Not necessarily but most confuse the two

So please someone assist me, now that I know this piece of information what am I supposed to do with it?

I frighten men.

judeefcc:
i respect that , you are honest , more meat to ur yansh amen

Do you like him or do you like the idea of being his girlfriend? He might have flaws that you might not be able to see because of how you view him. Get a second opinion in a subtle way. Is he single to begin with? What does he like doing? What do you have in common? When you know and are sure, say hello and talk about general things ... see how that goes. See maybe if you can go out with other friends and take it from there. Guys can be shy as well you know.

The part (s) that move.

judeefcc:
you girls eh, forget all these talk , if una like guy man express road no go open reach una, all these drama are for guys you don't trust or like

Sure

Women do as well ...... it has many names sugar mama, side chick number 4, girlfriend with benefits( yes the women who are supported by men and have no source of income besides what's below). Women pay for sex as well.

What you describe is a definition of someone trying to use you. But then some people like to be philanthropic maybe you are one of them. What loyalties did she show you? If you had not made it would you be hearing from this woman?

Why should it be about what a guy is hoping to get? It's matter of individuality. Not all men are bad and not all women are saints.Waiting for marriage does not make you a better person than say the guy who does not. What should be judged is your respect ,continued physical attraction, support, love and compatibility.

fyneboi79:
sisbros abeg follow that road for your front comot from here abeg. Its Sir judging by the name.

Sure......

You are walking into this with your eyes open. You have done your research so to speak the matter is yours to decide. No one asks for ill health. As long as you are sure that this is not an issue that you will bring up later in your marriage then do what your heart tells you. You could easily have ill health yourself if the tables were turned. What would you expect from the woman in your life?

fyneboi79:
Good point! But as a Nigerian lady,I would like to hear from the ladies the easiest tribe of Nigerian men a lady can turn into "Mugu20".

And what makes you think I am neither Nigerian or a lady? You assume much madam.

Benard94:


Your point is out of point.. We are not going outside the black race

So why did you include this point?
"Note : I am not a racist but I want to know the grunt behind that mentality."
Anyway it's a juxtaposition of ideas on what beauty is, which will always bring us to the issue of race. Much fairer individuals from other races tan to look darker and the ones who are darker engage in processes that make them fairer. It was never about the west , as black people we practice some sort of caste system based on melanin levels. That's the issue.

He might be lacking in some formal education but that does not mean he is not clever as he clearly is quite capable of succeeding in life. Education is subjective having a stack of degrees does not guarrantee anything. There are 9 billionaires who never finished secondary school.

I did not know insomnia was sexist.

It's not a concept that exists amongst black people it's exsits amongst other races as well. The concept of beauty is skewed.
By the way if you are not impartial it defeats your argument.

****
No one can help you since you have decided to be the human equivalent of the IMF ( even the IMF has limits)
Carry on donating your funds to this unworthy cause.

Are you going to base a relationship on misconceptions and stereotypes or are you going to base a relationship on compatibility and individuality?

Parenting does not come with a manual therefore what works for one child is useless for another. A child needs discipline and boundaries to thrive discipline in moderation. Spanking your child once in a while is not detrimental but if you find yourself doing it daily then something is not right. Not disciplining your child at all is abuse. We all have friends or family who have children we cannot stand yes those children that when you visit or when they visit you ,they leave you with homicidal thoughts simply because the parents have neglected their responsibilities.
I had a friend who stopped talking to me because I expressed my concerns after I found her daughter ( aged going through by handbag. It turns out this was a regular thing. I was not confrontial about it. All I asked was for the mother to address the behaviour. What's going to become of that child?

doveweed:

Is this all you could come up with as advice? SMH. @op, please hold on to the things you've heard and seen. Never kill the love in your heart, so that when she comes around you won't struggle to be the man that chased her. And if she's not the one, someone else better than her will appreciate you for who you are. You come across as a great and good man. How I wish I had a sister, I would have hooked you up, maybe @Raina80 could help.

I have 5 brothers and no sisters at all.