Southern Sudanese are dark ... like the beautiful model and quite tall
The world of fashion can't be inclusive how can it be when runway models look like victims of famine? That industry has a skewed view of beauty far removed from what we as black people( most ) consider beautiful

Cheap most of the times tends to look exactly that...Cheap

Looks moody as compared to what? What look befits a funeral pray do tell?

Religion can be manipulated by anyone, it's a case of finding the right words to suit your goal. What about the fact that an adulterous spouse can bring AIDS to the bedroom what then forgive and forget?

[quote author=contactmorak post=50588592]Food items are majorly meant for consumption, but it will surprise you to know that aside what the majority of us use them for in the Kitchen, some individuals have found another strange use for them. In view of the recent viral Miss Anambra Sextape in which she is seen using a Cucumber to satisfy herself, an act which beat many people's imagination. It may however interest you to know that the Cucumber crop is only one among several food items Nigerian ladies and other nationales have sexualized. Newseveryhour.com takes a look at these food items. Note, by using the word sexualized, we mean that they either use these food items to satisfy their urge or carved a sex image for the item.


1.Cucumber: When i think of this item, salad comes to mind, but when some ladies think about the Cucumber what comes to mind will be obvious when you watch the recently leaked Miss Anambra sex video. That's all i can say


2. Banana : This has long been in existence as a sex object and sex image among ladies. Don't be surprise many ladies use it instead of the Cucumber. Plantain can also represent for those who likes it bigger. Have you noticed how many Nigerian musicians often boast in their songs of having a big banana and threatening to give it to the ladies? Same with every other food ites We will mention in this article . They've been sang about by musicians. We all remember D'prince' song "Take Banana, till you go you" The song was all about banana and the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission had to ban it.

3.Sugar Cane: One cannot really say if ladies use the sugar cane to satisfy themselves in the bedroom, however one thing we know for sure is that this innocent food has been extremely sexualized globally as many female singers talks about their craving for a fat, long sugar cane while the male artists too boast of having the sugar cane.

4. Carrot: Carrot is sometimes used as a sextoy by ladies. It's a known fact among the ladies. Though most of them wil not be honest enough to tell you. It is a close alternative to the banana.

5.Cassava: This is infact trending in Nigeria at the moment especially among musicians who are tired of using the word "banana". Tekno recently used it too in his hit song "Pana" when he says, "Baby pana, dem say you like cassava (I get e big cassava)." You can often hear ladies talk about guys who have small cassavas and the guys with big cassavas. However, this is not to say that the ladies use the real cassava to satisfy their urge. But hey, what am i even saying? Some of the ladies of these generation with their insatiable appetite for sex will even use a gun, not to talk of a cassava!

The reason these food items have become object for sexualization is a topic for another day. However, If there is anyone you think should make the list, kindly indicate in the comment below...

Bottles
Electric toothbrushes
Anything that vibrates
Candles
The back of spoons
Bedknobs
Pillows
Side of mattress
Men .... usually the safer option ( most of the time )

Can you just summarise all of this?
Thank you in advance

And the question that begs to be asked is this. What is the difference between these two women such that one was exalted while the other was vilified.
1) Money! one has a lot more than the other in fact stacks of it..in fact $150 million
2) Kim Kardashian lives in a society where shame does not mean anything.
3) Kim has made a living from orchestrating scandal she uses the media and and thus a lot of sheep just follow
4) In Africa you can never get rid of a label ... your great great grandchildren will bear that stain.

Gender is fluid and a social construct your sex on the other hand that's stationery. Actually it used to be now men can become women and women can become men.. .....There are things biologically (sex)we can't change that's the status quo.

I have run out of meddles today .....will get more soon

[quote author=rokiatu post=31952081]1 bad odour of any sort.

2 1 minute two minutes and three minutes men. They be Cumming, when you just start getting wet.

3 lack of forep.lay. some people don't even know how to romance.

4 selfish lovers. They cum and they are done.

5 been too cold aka not been vocal enough, not been passionate enough. Not been nasty and active enough.

6 a sexual partner that have no clue what they are doing. Omg this is such a mood killer. Some guys be even missing the pu..ssy hole.


7 bad kissers.


8 farting.that shi..t can get awkward.


9 when you are about to cum and the damn penis. .s goes down... nooooooo!!!!!! Pleaseee nooo!!! Actualy that is what i said once,I was begging the peni..s "please noooo dont do this to me pleaseee" This is number one actually it hurts so bad. Instant mood killer.


10 boring partners.

Thank you !

Pushed you? How ? You chose and the thrill of illicit encounters is now proving to be addictive. Two wrongs have never made a right. There is no marriage here I feel for the children.

Should have added getting rid of "The Female Advisor Friend" who will be referred to as FAF from hence forth. FAF is up in all your business ,wants to tell you how to find and keep a men yet has been single longer than you can count on your fingers and toes. FAF disapproves of any guy who shows interest. You listen to FAF more than your parents, in fact FAF's word of gospel. See if a guy manages to overthrow your FAF marry him immediately.

And the list of men you should avoid? That will be handy too

MinorityTribe1:
You look like a confirm side chick and husband snatcher as in the likes in Nollywood movies . Let's not use this opportunity to all act saintly, They are worst things happening in christians homes.

I am coming after your man

Birds of a feather have to flock together otherwise it won't work.

Your own self inflicted guilt is what's weighing you down.

Are there laws and regulations that state otherwise? No it's a state of mind marry whomever makes you happy age does not necessary come with wisdom.

slimthugchimee:


you you went back 8years ago to bring back this thread

Yes and so?

The lady brought this to this forum because she needs advice not to be judged. How is cooking a meal going to address the issue? Madam I don't know you but this is what I will have to say. There is more to just burning food here. Have you asked him if everything is fine at work? The early days of marriage can be stressful he is getting used to being a husband and it's not easy on new wives. All the expectations of that role weighs heavily on our shoulders. Is everything alright at work? Marriage comes with a lot financial responsibilities. Talk to him don't accuse him or blame him as he will become defensive. Marriage does not come with a manual, you learn as you go. Wish you luck.

Your period is not a disease that you need to "nursed" by a man! Not all women have the same experience I admit that but come on! Premenstraul i want it like all the time so all this stuff about treating me like an egg does not work. I get a little irritable , I get moody but I don't want to be nursed