TrapQueen77:




I hate when I call my boo and ignoring my call

TrapQueen77:



I hate when I call my boo and ignoring my call

ndcide:
I've always dump ladies who don't reciprocate. Maybe because I'm not the emotional type. I remember spending thousands of naira calling a lady, when I evaluated the thing, I stopped. I remember going on outing with a lady, even when we got to our various homes, I had to be the one to call. I was like, we went on an outing, expense on me. i ensured you got home, then I left for my home and still had to be the first to call. Not even a thank you call. in fact, the thank you came when I called .

I say no be jazz. Dumped her like a bad habit shap shap.


No time. for wasted efforts.

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear especially Nigerian girls. Their brains seem to be wired with same cable.
For sometime now a female whatsapp friend of mine(we've never met b4) told me how she's been liking and having facial contact with a guy but d guy isn't making any advancement. So I encouraged her to be bold and talk to him respectfully, he should be mature enough to understand. So she went to meet him yesterday. She said she was under tension Bcus she's so damn scared of rejection. In my mind I said "hmm now u know how guys feel when they walk up to a girl they like so much and all she says with her blatant mouth is 'I'm not interested".
But she was lucky d guy is mature and accepted her friendship. But to my surprise when I asked today that how is your flow with your new found guy? She said "l purposely refused to see him or call him today and didnt pick his calls so that he'll miss me". And I was like WHAT! Someone u just met yesterday... Don't you think its too early for emotional frustrations
So this is my conclusion.... Anything that has to do with giving... Whether gifts, love, complements, feelings, women have no understanding about it. But they know everythimg about receiving money, gifts, complements, feelings etc. They are always on the receiving side not on the giving side. And if they ever be on d giving side for once, they'll demand for so much in return like it was never free just like this lady I described... Demanding for attention just in less than 24hrz after expressing a feeling to someone
What a life!

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear especially Nigerian girls. Their brains seem to be wired with same cable.
For sometime now a female whatsapp friend of mine(we've never met b4) told me how she's been liking and having facial contact with a guy but d guy isn't making any advancement. So I encouraged her to be bold and talk to him respectfully, he should be mature enough to understand. So she went to meet him yesterday. She said she was under tension Bcus she's so damn scared of rejection. In my mind I said "hmm now u know how guys feel when they walk up to a girl they like so much and all she says with her blatant mouth is 'I'm not interested".
But she was lucky d guy is mature and accepted her friendship. But to my surprise when I asked today that how is your flow with your new found guy? She said "l purposely refused to see him or call him today and didnt pick his calls so that he'll miss me". And I was like WHAT! Someone u just met yesterday... Don't you think its too early for emotional frustrations
So this is my conclusion.... Anything that has to do with giving... Whether gifts, love, complements, feelings, women have no understanding about it. But they know everythimg about receiving money, gifts, complements, feelings etc. They are always on the receiving side not on the giving side. And if they ever be on d giving side for once, they'll demand for so much in return like it was never free just like this lady I described... Demanding for attention just in less than 24hrz after expressing a feeling to someone
What a life!

RadicallyBlunt:
My dear especially Nigerian girls. Their brains seem to be wired with same cable.

For sometime now a female whatsapp friend of mine(we've never met b4) told me how she's been liking and having facial contact with a guy but d guy isn't making any advancement. So I encouraged her to be bold and talk to him respectfully, he should be mature enough to understand. So she went to meet him yesterday. She said she was under tension Bcus she's so damn scared of rejection. In my mind I said "hmm now u know how guys feel when they walk up to a girl they like so much and all she says with her blatant mouth is 'I'm not interested".

But she was lucky d guy is mature and accepted her friendship. But to my surprise when I asked today that how is your flow with your new found guy? She said "l purposely refused to see him or call him today and didnt pick his calls so that he'll miss me". And I was like WHAT! Someone u just met yesterday... Don't you think its too early for emotional frustrations

So this is my conclusion.... Anything that has to do with giving... Whether gifts, love, complements, feelings, women have no understanding about it. But they know everythimg about receiving money, gifts, complements, feelings etc. They are always on the receiving side not on the giving side. And if they ever be on d giving side for once, they'll demand for so much in return like it was never free just like this lady I described... Demanding for attention just in less than 24hrz after expressing a feeling to someone

What a life!

ndcide:
I've always dump ladies who don't reciprocate. Maybe because I'm not the emotional type. I remember spending thousands of naira calling a lady, when I evaluated the thing, I stopped. I remember going on outing with a lady, even when we got to our various homes, I had to be the one to call. I was like, we went on an outing, expense on me. i ensured you got home, then I left for my home and still had to be the first to call. Not even a thank you call. in fact, the thank you came when I called .

I say no be jazz. Dumped her like a bad habit shap shap.


No time. for wasted efforts.

TrapQueen77:




I hate when I call my boo and ignoring my call

Rexhenrex:
Its because they feel they are too fine na....bae hardly calls upon i call atleast every evening worst of all she walked up to me,as if thats not enough she will see me online and wait for me to msg first if i msg then we will chat if i don't then we won't, after a month i calculated the whole thing mehn i just made her a side chick when ever am bored i just remember her.....the main one can call and it shows she care,ladies call ur b.f or someone else will do it for u.

RadicallyBlunt:

Hope you consider how he feels when u do same to him. Turning down d advances of someone else breeds a deep feeling of rejection and thats what you girls enjoy doing

OLAJADON:

But you know that you ladies are fond of this act more than guys?
Quite a number of you believe that a guy should worship you, when he does not call you everyday, then he does not love you. This was the reason I decided never to call a girl yesterday, have called her like 50 times all she does is flashing what kind of attitude is that?
Moreover my father is not the owner of go, and it a relationship, it suppose to be a give and take thing, love is suppose to be shared equally

LorDBolton:
Well that's for dudes who put women on pedastals sha.

Even when wooing I rarely chat-up or call, especially when there's nothing to say.

Why will I call when all I wanna ask is 'how was ur night'? Or how was ur day?

Equally hate babes calling on some 'I just wanted to hear ur voice shit' like serzly??

Don't call me unless u got an information to pass across or a request to make...

It's ur friend/family members bday, you not feeling too hot, you just missed your period :oyou thinking of coming over, confused on what to choose btw two biz/career/edu alternatives etc

Not baby I miss u calls

TrapQueen77:





same with the men….i believe that theres no relationship if theres no communication…some men out there are playing hard to get as well…i once dated a man who likes me to call him all the time…and when he is mad of something, he will pour his anger on me, screaming on the phone and cut the call for no reason...

ndcide:



This is also wrong. Communication shouldn't be all about passing information or making request. Sometimes you interact and build rapport. It's in there you discover very important things about the other person.

I call my family members, not because I have information to pass or request to make. We talk to be close at heart.

Affection is about having positive interest in the minute things of the other persons life. So a lady / guy who wants to bring the other persons into his/her world must be lavish with communication.

Anyone who is proud or selfish about investing in communication is a turn-off

OLAJADON:
Have dated quite a number of girls(also have friends that have experienced the same) and I noticed this trait among females generally, they are fond of expecting the guy to always be the one to be calling always when you try to ask why they don't call, they give reason like they out of card or any lame reason
It a relationship not a death sentence, I think the love should be equal between male and female... You know we guys also want to be appreciated.
So guys in the house what your say on these?

TrapQueen77:




I hate when I call my boo and ignoring my call

Omonigeriarere:


I doubt it if you have really met the love of your life: she will even call you as if she dey work with MTN. Another point to note is that if you are too predictable, you will loose your value in the face of ladies.

God bless my bae.

OLAJADON:

Exactly, have dumped quite a number of girls because of this simple act, they have this mentality that a guy should always be the one worshipping them

Rexhenrex:
haha...you know right i can't be constantly calling and texting a girl caise she looks good i look good too ....lol

TrapQueen77:



I hate when I call my boo and ignoring my call