₦airaland Forum

hot topic hey, i, for one, would be jealousy. n datz bcs m a guy and i have had bestfriends who wer gals before hey.
but i should admit, it's not always a bad thing just dat there is a greater possibility that something obvious but undisclosed could be going on or might go on sometime to cum.

Its betta 4 yo 2 knw wat yo wnt in ya lyf as well as tryin' 2 folow ya hrt cuz d ultimate choice yo'l make will affect ya whole life, you are the one responsible for its consequences, However, if you fall for people that easy I wonder what kind of person you are coz you are still going to meet more charming guys in your life. If you decide losin' your boyfriend coz yo think the other guy you just met is better than your guy, you'll probably lose the new guy for that reason as well.
So, I would encourage you to continue with ya relationship and sacrifice thereof. Compromising is not always a wise choice. but it's all up to you.

@ Sagamite, I think you have set a certain starndard for girls 'offerings' in relationships.
Kindly bear in mind that you, you and only you, are the only one who knows what you really want. No one will, in any way, completely satisfy your predestined standards whilst they don't know what you want.
Furtheremore, i don't think that you can offer yourself WHOLE [/i]comfort[i] and [/i]romance[i], maybe just a part of it, if any at all. However, if you still think that you are still 'self sufficient', then maybe that should sponteneously suggest that there's no reason for you to be in a relationship yet. And that should not mean that girls don't offer anything in a relationship, but rather, you still can provide yourself with EVERYTHING you need. Finally, I would advice you to be out of relationships - until gainful opportunities arise (and that's the time a girl will deem necessary in your life). And when that time comes, if it will ever come anyway, clarify your needs to your girl, so she can know what is expected of her, and that's when you'll start enjoying what God's special and limited creations - girls - can offer in relationships bro.

Maybe i've nothing to say about this question since it focuses on Nigerian gals.
But girls in general offer almost everything a guy might require. They contribute to the relationship with everything that they have - money included.
In case they don't have money, a pure and loving heart, accompanied by romance, comfort, trust and love itself are sufficient. And I think that's what girls offer. Didnt mean to take sides

Shoo,

controversial question hey

But i lyk d statement, "Yes, you can find a life partner in Nairaland, It depends on how matured you are to manage a romantic situation with a lady on this"

try sth dat is mor convincin bro, otherwys no1 is gvn in 2 ya funny jkes

i 5nd it fair 4 a woman 2 b maried by a man who made ha pregnant at d first place.

nt ol pplz r lyk yo! n if u r truth tellin dt u did it n it worked owt, dn u wr lucky, o shall i cei "u r lucky o a o lucky gal" ?

However, i think yo jst wana mislid pplz. n 1 otha thing, most of us as guys wl neva LOVE a gal we jst slept wit jst lyk dat, no matter hw fancy n kind our words may seem! watch owt ladies;

Shoo!
u r bn stereotyped bro! d fact dt u hv badluckz which make yo d8 tired grannys doesnt necessarily imply dat ol nigerian gals go 2 marriage wn dey r tired nor sthn funny like dat.

Maybe you ryt wen you cei any gal, will suffer heart break! However, i think you the one one who'll suffa more
"cuz it sims as if you are too patient to your gals, how can you continue with a gal who was tellin' yo dat she's no longer a virgin and she had sex with someone else while you datin her mara? 'cuz i think she was just tryin to tell you to dump her but you didnt,

Oh, I'm vry sorry to hear that,
Maybe that's what you want 'cuz the things you just brought about on their own conveys that the guy has no love for anyone.
He is simply desparate, maybe for sex or something else we dont know, however, if that's were you chose to posts your love, well, continue.
Who knows,maybe one day he'll love you, and maybe not.
If you really want love, hapiness, peace and joy, go look for someone else and quit in such rubbish immediately.

My girlfriend's best friend always tells me that she's still in love with her ex-boyfriend! When I ask my girlfriend, she denies and don't even hesitate if i can ask her to go with me to her ex-boyfriend to ask for the truth, However, her best friend persists on telin me that her affair with her ex exists.
Who's probably right?

In reality, no man is nice, believe me.
If a man tries to pretnd to be 'nice' on his chick, if she's clever she'll know that he's pretendin' and many girls if not all don't love guys who pretend!!
Rather be 'bad' but being yourself, though one or two may dump you for that, you'll get someone who really loves you though, and you'll know that she really loves you!!!
Again, ladies are not ever 'nice' and they know that, that's why they'll dump every gay who poses to be a mr nice guy.

aoowaa!!!
Jst leave hr 4 sum otha ppl.

THe only reason you are datin a yung gal i think is bcs u are shy to propose girls of your age.
Prove me wrong by leavin her alone and find a gal of your age!!!

Can i get a hot Nigerian girl who's in S.A

Te topis should have been, "why does my man cheat and lie", or better, "why do people cheat and lie".

There is only one solution to your problem, and thus quittin' with immediate effect before itt's too late 'cuz its already late.
tryin' to change someone who cheats is definately impossible!!!
And one other thing people should be careful of is 'ex' 'ex' 'ex' 'cuz there is still a great possibility for people who were in love to be back again in love due to feelings and lot of other things

Man, i'm really concerned about your matter.
Could we try to solve this problem via e-mails? I promise you that i'll be with you in my prayers.
I think it will be far much better if we try to use e-mails!

My e-mail address is kaapstal@gmail.com

XP is far much betta.

Well, i think every1 wil bear wit me dat Vista is a flop.
Vista is a disgrace and goin 2 it is, as a result, a waste of time.
But lets still give Microsoft a fair chnace as they are bringing about a new operatin' system - Windows 7.

XP of course

I just bought a new laptop, 160 G.B Hard Drive and 1 Gig RAM. It was usin Vista basi then I Changed to Vista Business thinkin that I woud be safer!
That was even worse, Vista's security is pretty good and it's looks are fancy, but then, there is more to a computer than the looks!
That's why i'm w8n 4 Windows & while usin XP. Vista denies many programmes, some even function poorly and you can see that U r jst 4cn it!
In Games it's even worse. Furthamore, vista is very slow, slower than XP service pack 1!
Couldn't be bothered to go to Vista anymorre