NL makes me forget my issues love y'all

Ladies only watch out for guys with cash whether he is behaving like a teenager is no problem. I know a feller from Malaysia, has money I bet murder/drug money, and girls and guys are all over him. I know a lady who drools on him now hoping to tie the knot. God blesses every marriage? Money and too much of it, kill off the remaining good ladies.

At least he's sleeping with his ex and not some new girl he just met in the club!! Look on the bright side, he married you, not her. So your place's not threathened. The fact that you knew about it and still went ahead to marry him means you condole it to an extent. So stop b**ching!!

Ujujoan:

At least he's sleeping with his ex and not some new girl he just met in the club!! Look on the bright side, he married you, not her. So your place's not threathened. The fact that you knew about it and still went ahead to marry him means you condole it to an extent. So stop b**ching!!

WHAT

NL only adds 2 ur problem

Te topis should have been, "why does my man cheat and lie", or better, "why do people cheat and lie".

There is only one solution to your problem, and thus quittin' with immediate effect before itt's too late 'cuz its already late.
tryin' to change someone who cheats is definately impossible!!!
And one other thing people should be careful of is 'ex' 'ex' 'ex' 'cuz there is still a great possibility for people who were in love to be back again in love due to feelings and lot of other things

cos it's their God given nature

r231:


WHAT

Yes na, before nko?

Ujujoan:

At least he's sleeping with his ex and not some new girl he just met in the club!! Look on the bright side, he married you, not her. So your place's not threathened. The fact that you knew about it and still went ahead to marry him means you condole it to an extent. So stop b**ching!!

Ujujoan:

Yes na, before nko?

you are so funny and cruel. i am beginning to understand you. hope u are not AJ in disguise not that i expect u to out yourself so openly.

GEW:

you are so funny and cruel. i am beginning to understand you. hope u are not AJ in disguise not that i expect u to out yourself so openly.

Me? AJ?

I do admire her directness, but I detest her language!! I kind of lost track of her, what happened to her?

well no need of critiscizing you since you are married already. But the truth is that your husband is still in love with her GF. Inform his parents about it and if everything turns out to be worse just je je divorce the man. Afterall the bible permitted divorce when adultery is involved.

What was the topic again?, why do men cheat and lie? They do for only two reasons

1. They were created that way and
2. Because they can afford to (it is called a right)

Next question,

if you want to be happy learn how not to torch his phone and take your ears off his phone discussions. but if need your marriage to end continue looking at his text mesages .

blonde09:

if you want to be happy learn how not to torch his phone and take your ears off his phone discussions. but if need your marriage to end continue looking at his text mesages .

while i do not subscribe to your opinion i do believe there's some truth in it.

Sometimes what you see in a text message or hear while eavesdropping isn't what it actually is.

u must have obviously followed him cus of his money and now ure complaining!

190:

u must have obviously followed him cus of his money and now ure complaining!

Sharaaaaaaaap there! Does that justify him cheating on his own wife

lol

looks who's tellin someone 2 sharrapp

berra watch ur mouth U

190:

lol

looks who's tellin someone 2 sharrapp

berra watch your mouth U

or wat

hi

Eberay:

Thanks all,getting it off my chest has made me feel beta.I do luv my husband a lot, ,i knw he loves me too,but i just dnt undastand y men lie and cheat.Truely,dis grl in quest4 is truely a shameless f*"*ish fool,truely a shameles dog

Why are you calling the girl in question a shameless foolish, whatever you are calling her, is she doing the deed with herself Berra stop getting your priorities wrong and go and face your husband who is the one who should have remembered he is married

all i can say is that if you knew this prior to the wedding, SHAME ON YOU!
how can you marry a man that is already cheating on you and unfaithful? are there no other fish in the sea?
abeg you are wasting your time!
if the man doesnt love you and isnt commited to you, abeg what are you doing with him?
obviously maybe his ex does something in bed that you cant do, or there is something she has that you lack.
this guy is not serious. i dont see why you are continuing to hurt yourself over this.
before you know it, he will father a child with her, will you make another post then? then we will all say "I told you so!"

i havent read a post so daft like this in my life.
im not trying to sound rude but are you KIDDING ME?
after he is cheating on you, you still married him? and he REFUSED to cut off from his ex? he is still in love with her and its obvious.

women, why? cant you find another man. why marry a liar and a cheater in the first place.
do you not know the foundation of marriage? the marriage was long over before it even started.

Hello dear i hope you have not done something u will regret?
i must say you have to be careful with all these reply NL's are given you here.
the did is done and what u seek is a solotion to the problem at hand, but pls i have to ask you some question and pls with sincerity answer them. If you dont want to post them here u can send them to my box and i will send you my own advise or sugestion
1.what and what did u consider to make you dsition when u said (yes i will marrie you)?
2.do you have avidence or prove on what u said is going on btw ur hubby and his ex?
3.did u wedd in the church?
4.what dose his family see you or take you
5.Do you love him and feel actrated to him more than what he feel for you?
i know to some people these questions may not make meaning but as u beging to answer and we discuss then your eyes will be open to some truth that will give you the answer you need.
my mail i.d : king555walter@yahoo.com