pc guru:

Being nice is good.Some boys and girls are just too stupid to know what good even if it hits them in the head.As a good boy.I see no f@€k-reason why i should be bad to keep a girl.There's dinstinction btwn a nice guy and a wuss.But being too nice is gay.

ur problem is u are too educated, these girl dont need that kind of level headed thinking guy, trust me i found out the hard way in kindergarten

Do it my way its kool and safe. Get two wifey(one good,one bad). Wot y'all need to do then is alternate partners depending on how frisky you are feeling on a particular night.

^^Isn't polygamy cool?^^

a widower ko. blackwidow ni

You said that you and the mother didnt get along Plus a widower would mean that you two were married which isnt true

My friend go sleep. My memory is awesome

Those ladies are making the biggest mistake of their life.

ThiefOfHearts:

a widower ko. blackwidow ni

You said that you and the mother didnt get along Plus a widower would mean that you two were married which isnt true

My friend go sleep. My memory is awesome

yes, yes, tell us more

Is that not true? Why do girls chase guys who treat them like shit?

Its a regular occurence to see a girl going helplessly after a guy who sleeps with her friend, steal her money and even beat her up. The moment the guy calls, she melts

PITY

Maybe you should being nice to her

It doesn't pay to be nice sometimes.

I have been going through the response of people but none has describe the real meaning of nice guy or bad guy. Before I can say any thing, I would like someone to tell me what it really means by being nice or being bad. From my own perspective, I think girls don't like bad guys. They only like someone that can get going when the going get tough, someone that is brave to face any responsibility, someone who can keep the atmosphere lively even when there is nothing to discuss. Another reason for standing on my views(girls like good guys/brave guys), no girl would like to shear his man with another girl. If she truly love the guy, she will like to keep him for herself alone. By trying to stop the guy from being a casanova, she is planting some good behaviour inside the guy.

Throughout my years of life, I have never come across a girl who said "Hey look, I love a criminal, murderer,rapist, I am looking forward to date one.

My next question is this, if girls really like bad guys why do bad guys also complain of their girls cheating on them?

Finally, I believe that if you are a "REAL MAN" girls must surely love you. By real man, I mean knowing what you want and going there to get it, being a driver and not a passenger, knowing the right words to say and the right time to say it.

its funny cos my ex b.f (broke up cos he was tlking marriage in bk then in sec. school) is like my best friend nice and everything but i just don't have dat kinda feeling for him i wish i did sha cos i'd have be d perfect match

Nice guyz Dont provide any challenge.

Nice guys are yes-men. beautiful ladies dont like yes-men

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I like nice guys. I don't run away from nice guys. You have to date all sorts of people before you know what you want; that's true to everyone. The "jerks" know how to manipulate feelings so girls think they are nice, but really, they've just been manipulated. Nice guys don't know how to manipulate feelings so they usually don't get the girls until these girls that got played develop their Bullsh*t meters.

its interesting to know that there are nice decent guys out there, i thought all guys are the same, going after whts under the skirt of a lady, when a guy is nice and friendly, u as a lady will be more comfortable with the guy, its good when u date someone u look onto as a friend and as a lover. than a total stranger.

All the nice guys in the house keep it up.

i pray to come across one someday.

cheers.

Most girls dont value nice guys. They would rather fantasize over some thug they met at the club.

sexyLeamon:

I like nice guys. I don't run away from nice guys. You have to date all sorts of people before you know what you want; that's true to everyone. The "jerks" know how to manipulate feelings so girls think they are nice, but really, they've just been manipulated. Nice guys don't know how to manipulate feelings so they usually don't get the girls until these girls that got played develop their Bullsh*t meters.

GBAM!

Crude Oil:

Most girls dont value nice guys. They would fantasize over some thug they met at the club.

To be sincere with you all, nice guys only make good husbands, not boyfriends. MOst of the time, single ladies need bad boys to hang around and flex with. Ladies, am I on track?

In reality, no man is nice, believe me.
If a man tries to pretnd to be 'nice' on his chick, if she's clever she'll know that he's pretendin' and many girls if not all don't love guys who pretend!!
Rather be 'bad' but being yourself, though one or two may dump you for that, you'll get someone who really loves you though, and you'll know that she really loves you!!!
Again, ladies are not ever 'nice' and they know that, that's why they'll dump every gay who poses to be a mr nice guy.

simple answer because they nice guys re BOLOs, I hope u know what i mean,

is like when you"re plain, real, natural, yourself, simple, not forming/pretending the real you is like some girls dont like it. they prefer guys that wear sun glasses, trousers going down, thug, aggressive and rough. i know what am talking about.

you cant meet a women being yourself, is not going to work it needs bit pretending. otherwise you just remains signle for life, Deji sunday

@ngel0v3 couldnt agree more

nice guys are tooo sentimental,dem too dey dey like ajebo,girls wann hard guys

well, they say bad people have all the fun! LOL

as for me, i will go for the nice, sweet, quiet guy that will blush whenever he sees me and text me "good morning" over his bad brother any day.

my sisters and friends are the opposite. girls do want action. They want a fantasy. i don't know why. i just found out my best guy friend, as sweet as can be, has liked me for years but I wasn't  feeling him. just not very attractive.

that's another thing, bad guys tend to be playboys and all about their hair and clothes. but any woman with wisdom will go for the nice guy.

Re: Why Do Ladies Run From Nice Guys
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I like nice guys. I don't run away from nice guys.  You have to date all sorts of people before you know what you want; that's true to everyone. The "jerks" know how to manipulate feelings so girls think they are nice, but really, they've just been manipulated. Nice guys don't know how to manipulate feelings so they usually don't get the girls until these girls that got played develop their Bullsh*t meters.

amen to that! bad guys  play silly games. who has time for that crap?! and bad guys are always arrogant. Arrogance is a huge turnoff!! 

and all this junk about bad guys being a challenge that ladies want? PUH-LEEZE, he needs to recognize that I am the prize to be challenged. only a nice man will do that.

Being nice is fine, but it's not everything girls are looking for.
If you are nice, and also have education, a good job, well-groomed, a certain degree of assertiveness, and the list goes on and on,
Occasionally being nice all the time can be annoying to your partner, and don't be too nice to many girls when your girl is around

how can be a bad guy ? in other word how can go about it ?

how can I be a bad guy ? in other word how can I go about it ?

@poster
makes me wonder too

purchase the bad boy manual on amazon.com

y would u wanna be a "rude boi" as jamaicans say?  

@africhika your reason well. keep it up, Deji sunday