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TV/Movies / Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by rammyty: 11:03pm On Feb 23, 2022
13th on Netflix
Romance / Re: Why Do most Nigerian Men Have This Mentality? by rammyty: 3:56pm On Oct 04, 2020
PoliticallyInco:


It is a lack of fundamental understanding of human psychology and the hypocritical denial of what is right and wrong because of economic and societal gender inequality. BOTH SEXES ARE GUILTY OF THIS.

From our ancestors in many species of hominids, and even early homo sapiens we originated from, the women were mainly minders of the offspring while the men went out to hunt. They take the risks and hunt, bring the kill home and then everyone eats. The women chose men based on how they could provide and cater for the family about to be raised. The women considered that pregnancy and child rearing was a risky affair hence the need for a strong and physically well to do male who could protect and provide during vulnerable times. He will kill game and bring it home to the woman. So instinctively, women choose men who are providers. Hence they want to be taken care of it is as simple as that. It is basic instinct.

However, this is 2020. The men must understand that based on instinct most women still think this way. They want to be taken care of. But brute strength is not what the women now seek or look out for in 2020. IT IS FINANCIAL STRENGTH THAT COUNTS NOW. With money almost everything is possible. So the women want a man that has money and will desire a man that has money. Most times it is when the money is there first that they now realize other things are missing. E.g. the man is not good in bed, the man is not caring, he is abusive etc.

Women too must also understand that this is 2020 and that the Sabre Tooth Tiger isn't around anymore. Hence they can and should go out and make ends meet. They need to be self sustaining and self sufficient. It is mental strength that counts now and not brute physical strength. THEY NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THEY CAN MAKE THIER OWN MONEY AND LIVE FINANCIALLY FREE. They go to school, get an education, think critically to set up a business by offering a service, or work in one and make their own money.

With respect to cheating, this a controversial topic. It is an individual thing. Some species are monogamous while many are polygamous. Humans are known to be polygamous mainly because they males derive pleasure from multiple sex partners. The males see the females as another game to chase and hunt. The more successful their hunting expedition is, the more it boosts their ego and creates satisfaction in form of high dopamine release. When another man chases their woman and gets her, it bruises the males ego that another male, a competitor, could win over their game and defeat them in their own territory and on their own tuft. This mainly has led to the promotion of the notion that Men can cheat but a woman should not. A cheating woman bruises the ego of the man so much that he looses self esteem. Meanwhile he enjoys cheating and the hunt for women. IT IS JUST HYPOCRITICAL DOUBLE STANDARDS.


Finally the traditional society,religion (created by man and promoted to keep men as leaders in the society), and other factors have made it in such a way that a woman must have a man and be married to be seen as complete. This was generally fostered by men who ruled most of these societies/communities. They made themselves the Grand Prize worth fighting and dying for, and the women too allowed this to go on for so long. "If you are not married as a woman at a certain age and stage in your life, you aren't complete" mentality. Marriage becomes a thing desired, covetted and prayed and fasted for by women. It becomes something they are shamed and afraid to leave regardless of how abusive the man is. The men have gotten it into their brains that they are even doing the women favours by removing the shame of being unmmaried from them. The society has pressed it into the brain of a woman that their role is to please and serve the man regardless of what he does wrong. Secondly the society has been discriminatory against women in many ways when it comes to employment, economic opportunities etc.

Unfortunately women will continue to be in this "prison" and "slavery" unless:

1. They start being financially independent
2. They remove that "I must marry" mentality
3. They stop seeing sex as a favour to a man
4. They chase their own goals and dreams and decide their future.
5. They stop seeing men as a prize they have won. Afterall they will mostly be doing the cleaning, child rearing, cooking, etc.


The only sensible reply so far. Not the defensive reply by nairaland small boys.

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TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 5:33pm On Jun 20, 2020
Please where can i download the white queen??
TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 9:15am On Apr 11, 2020
Illusioneffect:

are u feeling proud of yourself for insulting almost everyone on this thread and feeling high.
He is not actually the only one that realised u are just petty and every of your post is abusive

Seconded.

Though i agree with his view about Money heist but the way he dish out insult ehn, its like having a phd in insult.

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Properties / Re: My Landlord Wants To Evict Me Before My Rent Expires by rammyty: 2:03pm On Apr 03, 2020
Babalegba:
I believe you guys are trolling the thread. Afew of my tenants are teachers and one is an accountant. It took me less than five minutes to explain it also to the policeman among them who holds a WASC certificate so supposedly erudite nairalanders should not be this confused

I drop my pen.. lipsrsealed

You had me at teachers.

I wail for the country

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Properties / Re: My Landlord Wants To Evict Me Before My Rent Expires by rammyty: 12:31pm On Apr 02, 2020
Babalegba:
You are very wrong. I face this exact problem with tenants sometimes because I rent a few flats out but once I show them a calendar and tell them to start counting they agree. By the way I'm disappointed at the numeracy skills of many Nigerians

Babalegba, you mean you have been cheating your tenant with a month rent!!!

So if he pay March 17, the next rent will be due Feb 16, the following year will be due jan 15, another dec 14, another Nov 13 and so on

Aba!!! Babalegba

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Properties / Re: My Landlord Wants To Evict Me Before My Rent Expires by rammyty: 12:01pm On Apr 02, 2020
samwash:
This op, you go school at all
Did u paid for 13 months or 12 months ?
Pple like una go blem other pple for una own error

So much confidence for an olodo person.

People like you write exam confidently and wonder why you did not pass.

To help you,

Jan 1st - Dec 31st - 1 year (365 days)

April 18 - April 17 - 1 year (365 days)

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TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 10:10pm On Sep 26, 2019
Who else is devastated suit has ended.... cry cry cry cry

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by rammyty: 4:28am On May 11, 2019
Magnifico2000:

Yeah.. it was a reunion. Sansa has balls now to talk to people anyhow.
Recall when she told Jamie that I wish I would be there when they hang your sister. can u imagine. what insolent, Jamie should have slapped her for being rude.

Nothing insolent about it. They are both a trueborn children of a noble houses whose power is more enhanced in their stronghold. Jamie is in Sansa stronghold at the moment. She can even have him killed
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh: Olakunle Churchill Is A One Minute Man by rammyty: 7:04pm On May 01, 2019
Ooohhh... A lot of frustrating men on this thread oo... Chaii
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by rammyty: 1:30pm On Apr 22, 2019
While bran may claim he's not angry at anyone, I bet he couldn't say that about littlefinger. The whole stark clan hated him

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by rammyty: 10:04am On Apr 22, 2019
All logical reasoning of the starks towards Jamie lannister during the trial will fly out the window if they learnt he is the one that causes bran fall. They will not be able to forgive that.

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TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by rammyty: 1:08pm On Apr 13, 2019
Anita01:
Drop your numbers to be added to the game of thrones season 8 whatsap group
Now our watch begins

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TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 3:37pm On Mar 02, 2019
Mikelo93:

If you are not watching suits then you are missing one of the best series. Robert Zane is gone embarassed
If you are not watching suits then you are missing one of the best series. Robert Zane is gone

And Harvey finally give in to his feelings for Donna. Hope they did not end the season there
Career / Re: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by rammyty: 7:22am On Feb 21, 2019
ogedanny:
unless you want d softcopy while you print it yourself

I will like the soft copy too. Please send to adefilaomotayo@gmail.com
Career / Re: ICAN November 2023 Diet Exam - Let's Meet Here by rammyty: 7:28pm On Jan 11, 2019
ogedanny:
unless you want d softcopy while you print it yourself

Please help send soft copy to adefilaomotayo@gmail.com. thank you
Politics / Re: Patience Jonathan, Others Ask Court To Unfreeze Her Accounts by rammyty: 6:39am On Oct 30, 2018
Mama peace, where is Papa peace

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Politics / Re: The Only Candidate That Can Save PDP From Defeat Is Dr Bukola Saraki by rammyty: 7:45pm On Sep 04, 2018
Pavarottii:

And the people that are handle it about 80% are not kwarans?

Just like all other federal university across states mostly consists of people of the state.

how does the school justify saraki as a better presidential candidate

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Politics / Re: The Only Candidate That Can Save PDP From Defeat Is Dr Bukola Saraki by rammyty: 7:24pm On Sep 04, 2018
Pavarottii:

Tell me a better school than university of ilorin wen it comes to quality?

Unilorin is a federal school not state. Get your fact right

Saraki ko, ole ni

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Politics / Re: Restructure Or We Resume Attacks - Militants Tell FG by rammyty: 9:35am On Aug 27, 2018
Issorite
TV/Movies / Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by rammyty: 9:59pm On Mar 15, 2018
Is the winds of winter book out and online, if yes will appreciate if anyone can send it to me
TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 9:48pm On Mar 15, 2018
koice:
Sneaky Pete

Phew! The 2nd season more than delivered. I didn't expect it, but, it somehow superseded the brilliance of the 1st season, made it look like amateur hour. The characters are more freshed out, better character building than the first, more intrigue, more action, and more suspense. 2 more episodes to go and I'm already craving for the 3rd season. I'm kinda regretting rushing through this one. This is the kind of show you take your time on, savour every moment, prolong it as long as you can, because when it finally ends, it's gonna be missed for sure. You're gonna feel a massive void it left in your heart that would take some doing to be refilled.


Please where can I download the season 1
TV/Movies / Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by rammyty: 9:48pm On Jan 06, 2018
Anyone What site can I download korean film and how heavy is the mb. Thanks
Education / Re: Sights From The University Of Ilorin by rammyty: 8:09am On Nov 29, 2017
Those hating on this thread are those that were denied admission by unilorin.....The pain is unbearable for them cry

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Celebrities / Re: "Tagbo's Ghost Appeared To Me Today & Gave Me A Message" - Lady @digwe by rammyty: 5:22pm On Oct 19, 2017
lobatan.....Attention seeking mofos

Please when Dj Olu appears to u, let me know what he say

Biko hmmmn... its important

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Fashion / Re: Photos Of Contestants For Queen Of Igboland Pageant! by rammyty: 11:31am On Oct 19, 2017
And my vote goes to Ugochi Asiegbu kiss kiss kiss


Less is beautiful
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Comforts Davido Over Recent News About His Friends' Death by rammyty: 8:56am On Oct 13, 2017
the real questions is "Does Davido knows about the death of his friends"

Cos if he does, No prayer from any baby mama can redeem his soul.

He might get away with it as the rich are never guilty nor punish in Nigeria but his soul will be punished

If he doesnt know anything then Amen to your prayer BABY MAMA
Politics / Re: Diezani Alison-Madueke Loses 56 Houses To FG, Court Orders Permanent Forfeiture by rammyty: 1:24pm On Oct 11, 2017
56 houses!!!! Chineke shocked shocked shocked

This is why most politician cant declare their assest before and after office.

They are ashamed of their own looting.

Vanity upon vanity

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TV/Movies / Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by rammyty: 4:15pm On Oct 09, 2017
Freciprocal:
grin

LOL... pls what is the name of this series

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