My dear Op, you sound very sensible, what are u doing with this kind of person?
Politely tell him u dont have the money.

Report to your pastor and pray very well.
Dont leave your home, to take care of 3 kids is not easy....
Go and test yourself..

Op, this is a very complex situation because this issue bothers on trust.
You have confirmed she is a good woman. Listen to your pastor, pray to God to give u a forgiving spirit and to remove every hurt.
Treat her right so she can relax and maybe take in again.
Still consider adoption, lots of people get their babies when they adopt.
Continue to pray and may God help you.

Madam, i don't usually comment but let me sincerely advice you. You need to put money aside for your exams without telling your hubby. That is the only way you can pay for that exam.

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@op, it must be very tough for you, one thing is very clear from ur story, your husband is under a spell. If u are still sleeping, its time to wake up. You need to pray very seriously. Pls dont fight anybody again, its a spiritual war not a physical one. Pray and pray, join women intercessory prayer groups like daughters of destiny ( www.daughtersofdestiny-ng.com). May God help u, Amen.

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As much as i try to ignore this story, my conscience will not let me....
@Op, kindly forgive the men/boys that are replying you because they can never understand how women think or reason. They won't understand the pain

I feel your pain deeply, but i can tell you categorically that i personally will be devastated if my husband visit porn sites.

You have written that you are a catholic that means you are a Christian.

I will advice you thus;
1. Pornography has a spirit behind it, so you cannot wish it away or complain it away. You do not wrestle against flesh and blood...pls get down on your knees seriously
2. Treat your husband with kindness and love (will be difficult without God's grace) because he cannot help himself.....

Pray seriously because, the next anger will come, then resentment and bitterness.
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zaralady:
Hhhmmmmmm...dis one is strong!...my dear my good advice is to stick to ur bf, reason because a guy who is comfortable dating u while u re a relatnship ll someday cheat on u while u datin him,secondly, he is selfish, for him to ask u to dump ur bf for him...gal Dats not a good person to me...my dear u got urself into dis mess....wen I was datin my bf I got a crush on an extremely lovin guy who wouldn't mind datin me while am datin my bf, but I knew wat I wanted...am not a cheat and I cnt leave my bf for someone else...because u love ur bf doesn't mean u wnt love odas....u jst hav to control ur emotionals...don't cheat in a relatnship if u cnt stay, jst leave!...u had better dump d oda guy and stick to ur bf else u ll end up loosin both, I was in dis shoe before and wat I did was dump the distractin guy and focus on my bf tho we re no more but I didn't regret my actions...y not confess to ur bf abt wat has been going on and as him to forgive u, @least dat is a test of love....u don't need to follow ur head without ur heart or heart without ur head all u hav to do is do the right tin....do the right tin gal and it includes not cheatin on ur bf..i cn tell u since Ave been in relatnship I hav neva cheated on my bf before...not even once, be prouud to b among the decent gals

I second what zaralady said. It's important you stick with your boy friend, the other guy is just distracting you. Pls be focused. All that gliters is not gold....

Obj is angry that he is no more relevant....good riddance to bad rubbish!