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My bet is on him to deliver

Bendtner wastes goal-scoring chances by default,however I have a feeling he'll still manage to score 'em important 3-pointer goals for us in this home stretch

larimo:
From what I read, its your attitude that might likely be pushing your husband farther. It may not mean that he does not have issues but your attitude is fuelling them even more.

Are you kidding me?which wife's attitude could push a husband to go have extra marital lovers outside;even up to ten?

It's out of respect for the OP that I won't describe her husband with some adjectives
However,Damysa your marriage or what you call your marriage is only so in language and not in reality,to think you dated this guy for four years  ,well you must  find out if he's married one of those his lovers secretly,if he has,then BEAT IT,if not then you really must do your best to solve this serious issue,seek God's face,there must be a respectable person known to you and your husband,go talk to them,if he's a christian then talk to his pastor,get him to commit to make changes just as you too in order to make this work.
If you try this once,JUST ONCE and he doesn't change,then BEAT IT,leave that man,he neither loves nor deserves you,else you may look back ten-twenty years from now and regret not leaving him now

Outstrip:
Honestly I think things will get much better for you guys. I think one thing people fail to keep in mind is that when times are hard is when you need to strive to be closer. Your husband does not see this. He does not realize that he is defining the success of his life by the success of a career. What if he never passes the board (God forbid) will he then say that he will be misreable forever? Or maybe he passes the exam then he has to start fixing the things that he did wrong that has probably gotten his marriage to a point where his wife sees a different person.

I will just be honest and say that I can understand his frustrations but what you should not accept is him making you feel like you are not a good wife. don't ever accept that and you have to let him understand that. The other thing I always hate to hear in marriages is saying you are sorry even when you know you are not the one at fault. Sometimes that works when it is not a big issue but when it is issues that are eating you up but you just say it for the other person to be happy then that is not healthy.

Bottom line do not give up on this marriage. It is just too soon. I think you can still make him see reason. Ask him what will happen after he passes his exams and start working. Would he not want a wife that is sweet and loving rather than a bitter resentful one? Tell him that you guys can have the best of both worlds by building on the one you have now regardless of the situation. The foundation is what matters. Above all be patient with this man. I think you have been doing a wonderful job. Keep it up and I believe you will be happy for it

Hmm,very sound,deep and objective,I'm so loving you now Outsrip

Ujujoan:
I remember my first kiss was with my cousin. I was 7, maybe 8. He should be in his mid teens then. Anyway, I came to their house and he conered in the staircase which is a bit dark, and kissed me. Not a peck, a full, lips on lips kiss, I think there was even some caressing! I was too confused to realize what was going on and honestly, I didnt know what he was doing. But I remeber having this feeling that what he was doing was wrong, but the whole thing was really confusing. I managed to get out of his embrace and he begged me not to tell anybody.

The whole experience is hazy, but I know I developed a deep seated hatred for him. I don't know if he even remembers what he did and sometimes I dont. But everyone knows there's no love lost between us!

Thank goodness you got out of his embrace before he could go further as I'm sure he woulda done if you hadn't done so

RVP has been out since November,Le Prof isn't sure he'll be back next month(to maybe play in about 4 EPL games),but methinks even if RVP were to be back next month,he'll be too fragile and match-rusty to make any meaningful contribution to our title challenge

On Gallas,how did a minor calf injury end up rulling him out for so long,just when we thought he was getting better and about to resume action,he sufferred a re-occurence,Dr Kit come and explain o . Seriously,we need Gallas back in the team as I shudder at the thought of what will happen if Sol were to suffer a major injury we'd then be left with Silvestre,who's bad news IMO,Sol himself has just been coping;barely coping  

That said,I wish all of them speedy recovery;especially captain FAB4 and Song.Ramsey gets a special get-well-soon

Until the present leadership of CAF gives way or is shoved aside,African football will be in double-step reverse gear

loyika:
Anyways, We should forget about the games the Chavs and Scum have left and concentrate on ours

You know that's impossible

Already looking forward to the West Ham game,me don jump Hull matta pass
About the West Ham game next Saturday March 20th,our chances could begin to get brighter next weekend as Manure plays Liverpool on Sunday 21st after we must have got our 3 points from the Hammers(hopefully with a massive GD) and they're likely to drop points somehow,so let's move forward

@ ALL GOONERS

Hey guys,what're y'all still doing on this thread,this thread is history man,let's go back to our home thread and talk about the West Ham game next Saturday March 20th,our chances could begin to get brighter next weekend as Manure plays Liverpool on Sunday 21st after we must have got our 3 points from the Hammers(hopefully with a massive GD) and they're likely to drop points somehow,so let's move forward

I disagree with Gen Bali that the useless GOC in Jos i.e Saleh Maina is just an idiot,I think he's more than that,he's a criminal and murderer

Dr Kitaun:
Mannone, I would love to be in post somehow soon, Almunia and Silvestre are 2 players I ALWAYS FEEL DONT HAVE THE WINNING AURA ESP WHEN PUSH COMES TO SHOVE.

Oh c'mon Doc,don't get superstitious now

However,I think we're done with Silvestre,at least for the season

Dr Kitaun:
I cant agree more.

Plus u sound more like a closet gooner these days?

He's welcome,apart from that Ibime is one of the few peeps from chavland that have remained objective despite being surrounded by dozens of exact opposite-minded people in that fold

Who are these people referring to Gbenga Daniel as excellency,what's excellent in a tout,drug addict,adulterer and savage brute

Dr Kitaun:
Phil Brown's lucky FAB4 was out injured; BLOODY NITWIT!

A big irritating one,Phil Brown
I could send a sniper after that foo.l,just to shoot off his mouth
Also I'm so not liking that useless Ghanaian right now,I mean that useless Boa-tongue

@ Muki

Where went you,little wonder I didn't see you the other night I was @ Kombo mama Mary

Good to see you again hon  

Dr Kitaun:
Coitus of course!

Which one be coitus again oo

@ Pappilo

Real GOONERS don't roll up on fellow GOONERS the way you did.We all know what's at stake and we can do without the HBP

Beating the Hammers was no biggie,chelki's banana pill are in front

edoyad:
Come on gooners, that ref was sh¡t today. Only in the EPL does an off side result in a penalty and Clichy does not. That ref took the confidence out of our boys and Wenger has to make serious noise about that. Loo kerstwhi at what Boateng did, weren't those supposed to be two straight reds ?

I'm tired of the incompetence of English refs,I mean they've fallen so low and incompetent that their erstwhile favourite gaffer,Alex Faggotson has had to complain about them

3 points to The Arsenal,et's take our push for the EPL title,one game(3 points at a time),till the chavs and scummies begin to drop points

chelseabmw:
Turnbull will be as good as cech, hilario needs to be sold to west brom

Hilarious is making way for Redbull,hmmm na West Ham sha so no shaking

Anything short of a complete crushing of the Hammers by the chavs will be a dissappointment

Easy points for the scummies

Now that Nzeribe has been dumped in the dust bin of political Siberia,he has realised that all of a sudden he has become very irrelevant and no longer gets allowance for going to sleep in the senate,he has decided to rant and attract attention

Are they just waking up to the reality that including those that raped our democracy in presidential pensions is tantamount to tacitly approving of their coup d etats??

Aside from the need to grab all three points in all our remaining matches,we have to win this one cos Phil Brown is a complete jackass

BlueDiva:
Losers deal with it.

LOL
Losers,I'm unaware any nairalander was nominated.Don't you hink Eto'o woulda been a fair choice,sentiments apart

hotchic:
hi
i`m sept 3rd

Hi Hottie,your lone buffday mate on this thread is Meta4

Don't be a stranger on this thread now

omoh25:
September 25th

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Take care darlyn

Horlazuncanmi:
23rd is my day.anyone that share thesame date with me should search for me on facebook.(Arije Ololade olaone)

Hi,sorry for the delay,your 23 Sptember buffday mates on this thread are Franklinog,Scubagirl,Mikelbay,Toksdam,Efetoma,Raregem004,nisot23,Morzook,Belbicken,conquerorb

Holler

slimshay:
^^^basically means you put in 1000 u get 40,000. Some small here and there i dont get myslef but thats the basic logic.

Oh,I thought it was gambling