₦airaland Forum

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I'll take a rain check on this next time

Nonsense,so this is Tinubu's idea of ACN giving Nigeria fresh air right?

Genbuhari3:
this is not United States, agreed. we want to make it better than the united states! if the pressure we put on the cabal and the national assembly to make goodluck acting president becomes a constant in our national life, then any issue that touch the life of the people will scale through.

the question for you, is the removal of immunity right or wrong? leave the messenger, deal with the message!

Rasputinn dundee,

the response above is not for you! you dont deserve one, pls

Now I see you're either an ignoramus or a half baked literate at best
What do you mean by leave the messenger and deal with the messagewhat do you know about the immunity clause.It's purely suicidal to canvass for a blanket removal of the immunity clause as governors and all other public officials will no longer have time for their job but will rather be in and out of the courts day in,day out.
What we should call for is an amendment of the immunity clause to only cover protection from civil suit,while protection from criminal suits that pertain to murder,embezzlement of funds etc should be discarded

BTW;Begging the question has never been the solution to any problem,so be objective and admit that your lord goofed

RSA:
Lol! I got you there!

Yeah I'm in Jozi,Parkview to be precise,its all good.

How interesting do find Randburg if I may ask Ras?

You,almost got me.LOL
Yea you know it's right in the centre of Jozi so for me it's close to everywhere,esp Sandton where my biz partners are and of course Bright water commons is a stone's throw from my hotel so i don't even need Mr Delivery when I need me some Nigerian delicacies

Don't mind OBJ,he was just taking a swipe at Gbenga Daniel

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Never mind,I think that's the para-military c.um security conscious part of me speaking

Genbuhari3:
RASPUTTIN the grand father of dundee united

Wetin rasputinn do you
Am I the father of Buhari??(as I recall he is the only Dundee united gunning for the seat of president)

Genbuhari3:
Well, Obama promised health care reform and he implemented it through the congress!

Stop insulting Obama by mentioning his name on a Buhari thread

BTW,did you not observe that even the majority membership enjoyed by the democrats in the lower house,Obama found it REALLY difficult to have that bill passed

Massive gaffe
This is the reason we dont need this political illiterate anywhere near the precincts of a governors lodge,not to talk of,,,,,
He's still incurably dictatorial and deluded.How does he figure to do that in federal houses that are bound to be controlled by the opposition even if we decided to toy with the remote possibility of him winning the presidential polls and becoming president from April?

Dunce

MRbrownJAY:
satanic offer?! at least we know whats your stand on the issue, lol!

Wont happen,we're both chronically staright,plus it's against the natural design of God

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Dayo wetin dey do you,you no even fit call her bluff,kai

Outstrip:
well at least you guys are talking. I feel he is not telling the whole truth but I think you should keep talking. He might be confused and maybe he thinks fessing up will make you think of him as less than a man. If you love him then work on it. It will get better.

Obviously from all the comparisons with her dad,the husband may be unsure of his ego.@ OP has to let her husband know; in words and actions that her hubby is the most important and most valuable man in her life and that she'd stand by him always.She MUST tell him that she'd never compare him with her dad anylonger,and that anytime he has anything on his mind,he should feel free to share same with her and that she wont think any less of him.This is the ONLY thing that will heal the man's bruised ego and enable him to truly stop seeking for listening ears outside and truly see his wife as his confidant and worthy ally

bogoshipo:
thanks to all for the advice.

@mutter
u have it all wrong. i went looking because i lost confidence in him, i do not expect him to turn against his family. but i have a strong family man in my dad, i just felt he did not handle the situation as my dad would. my dad is the best father and husband i know. not the typical skirt chasing naija husband. so my fault here is that i compare his reactions to things with my dad. my husband is aware of this fault.

MS 101:NEVER EVER compare your husband with ANY MAN,worst of all your father
Are you nutsGirl you need to do a lot of soul searching,from what you wrote,your husband may be surpressing so much negative feeling arising from those comparisons,could this be part of the reason he sought for another listening ear to confide in since the one he's supposed to have is the same one driving him nuts with nerve wracking and friction inducing comparisons with your dad .


BTW:MS stands for Male Psychology

Angolobabe:
my husband must be very lucky then, young wife,very functional at home ,cooks good,takes care of our 2 kids and hardworking and earn good plus goodlooking ,takes care of myself and dress good and good on b.d , mmmmmmmmm now i am begining to see my value ,wtf his blessed .
So yes a man can have both at the same time.

Let me call your husband to confirm

Keep it up girl,I'm sure your hubby appreciates you

chaircover:
In answer to your question - Hired Househelps/nannies NO
Hired Staff - Yes

That settles that

chaircover:
You mentioned the word ungrateful in one of your posts and I am telling you the reason why you judge them as being ungrateful is because it could be that you look at what you are doing as a favour to them and therefore expect some type of "thanks" from them.

I have a better plan;strictly professional now.They do their job and get their pay,no more holidays for them(except the one they'd make home to their folks),it's only the gifts/presents that we wontCAN'T withold,my wife and I are hooked on giving

chaircover:
what I am saying is this; if you can afford it, do the best you can regardless of whether they are appreciative or not. You are sowing a seed.

Sowing a seed eh ,pastor chaircover please stop sounding like a scammist
Anyways,I'm the one that is in the best position to determine what constitues my best as per your post above

Hmmm,waooooo
Congratulations bro

BTW,you get mind sha to dey splash all those photos on nairaland

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Switch I agree with you that the Chavs will find it difficult liberating themselves from the fourth position,but let them beat Manure today

Yea,it felt good seeing the news on Al Jazeera.
This is the first time a Nigerian president has placed so much premium on the lives of Nigerians in diaspora by promptly evacuating them from war zones in the diaspora,it can only get better.

LoveKing:
You forgot to add Predictive

Dont you mean predictable,even if you meant that,you're wrong I tell you
Now you tell me you predicted he'd dissolve the exco he inherited from Umaru,sack Dambazzau,smash the oil block and defence contactors cartel etc

Beaf:
[size=33pt]Fresh Air 2011!![/size]

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Fine boy with divine destiny,unfortunately for your opponents,detractors and whiners on nairaland;THERE'S NOTHING THEY CAN DO ABOUT IT;you are ordained by God,this is your time,so stay focussed on delivering stable power supply,improved internal security and deal a heavy blow on corruption amongst others.I know you'd tackle all head on once you get our mandate come April,this is why WE WILL VOTE YOU IN AS PRESIDENT COME APRIL

EOS:
Give him all the qualities of a good leader, he has no plans/intentions to tackle or stop CORRUPTION. He has been in power for 4 years now and the rate of corruption is increasing every day. We need a leader who is bold and courageous to stop CORRUPT PRACTICES. Yes, it can not only be reduced, but stop. It is very possible when we have determined and serious minded leader.It is no longer issue of voting for a party as it used to be again, but the candidate in question.

Blatant lies like the ones above are the part of the reason corruption actually thrives in any society and not the limited time and political expediency we have now.

IMO,GEJ is tackling corruption,go and check with the EFCC,all the oil racketeers will seriously disagree with you,IBB and Dambazzau and other ex military top brass milking the MOD/FG dry would slap the taste out of your mouth in disagreeing with you also,that the man is not mouthing off doesn't mean he isn't fighting corruption,he's tackling kidnapping and power generation and distribution,don't forget fairly stabilised fuel distribution.

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You want the protesters to mistake him for one of 'em mercenaries?
Seriously,Bash Ali should retire already and stop making a big fool of himself by going cap in hand to just about any pig to beg for money under the guise of staging a world title fight in Africa whereas it's all a huge SCAM

Bash Ali= Shameless goat

mukina2:
16+

will be 17 years on July 22nd.

Blimey,I forgot this is Muki's presido,my dear sist if every other Gambian is not enlightened(of course this is not so)and without internet exposure,you have all the exposure in the world,so please start the revolution in Gambia(except you follow for Jameh govt)

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Please it's totally out of place to compare Tinubu with APGA,what has a party of fairly modest people got to do with a repressive,state-treasury-looting certificate forger like Tinubu

How on earth will a functional wife that has all the attributes you mentioned not be classified as ATTRACTIVE?,what attracts a husband-to-be to her wifey-to-be,if not the functional attributes you enumerated

@ Jenny



Your post was so sweet,touching,moving,gentle and very inspiring.I rejoice with you and pray that all the letters I'm expecting from the multinationals,state and FG will come quickly also so I can open a thread or form another nairaland oo

Seriously, i rejoice with you and I sense a kind of candour and sincerity in your post such that I believe God is just beginning with you,you'll surely get more letters of good news in Jesus' name,Amen.

I rise

MRbrownJAY:
^^^^^^ divorce?! thats the kind of "spice" that any man needs!

like the saying goes:" if you cant beat them, join them!" so i would UnCloth and join the party demanding that whatever services my wifey gets, i should get the same.

There's a thread here on nairaland where a certain girl said this was what actually happened to her.The wifey of certain man,lesbianised her first,she liked the act,so repeatedly went to the woman's house verytime the man left for work,however in this case,it was the wifey that invited her husband to join them in the act ,and the man couldn't even reject the satanic offer.What has happened to mankind

@ OP

I sense you're an existing nairalander but only created this new ID for the purpose of this thread,it all good.I'll follow up till you tell us that everything in your home front is okay,please NEVER,I repeat NEVER listen to those posters that have told you/that will tell you to divorce your husband or fight your in-laws,most of them have bigger heart aches arising from frustrations in their relationships,so they'll all too gladly want another person to join them in their boat;I know you wont do that cos you're a smart girl

God bless you and heal your marriage.Just forgive.

zeeleso:
Then why is the so called NPLF not pitching its tent with Buhari or ribadu

What is NPLF?,PLEASE

Winnergal:
-Talk to your relatives about your problems . . .

What good would that do than to polarise the family,make them percieve the husband with odium.Remember,it's the verbal abuse she said she got from her in-laws that triggered all these,so what if they settle ALL issues bothering her and the hubby becomes her dearest once again,she'd now live to regret ever telling third parties