plz send more notes in here

Heya Serpei was trill at what u wrote.thanks alot man but the most thingis that i dont think i need them for possing.yeah my type of girls are not like too social type i need someone responsible,u know what i mean.Not the "open eye ones"!! well i think we all can gist more and find out more things.thumb's up to u all that wrote now.

nice all yah who contributed but i still want more advice

Hello nice man that pretty ok but i bet you a good date deserves another.So try making ur 1st date interesting.U cant say bkos everything body is knowing thire self,talking about future and other stuff then u will do the same NO!! it all depends on you,u can start with a very interesting topic

still want to know

Heya!!! girls in da room tell me what will u expect a guy to say or to do to you on a first date that will interest you

i will like to thank all of ya who contributed to this topic.Yeah i like all ya gist,but most of all i think am not the one that judge for my self.Girls,boys,old men,old women confess am handsome anywhere i go or enter.So am confuse the girls think i got alot of girlfriends.Lol, i even got a girl that is asking me out.but i wont say anything concerning that.But am still single.
Thumb's up all of ya.keep writting plz

na wa 4 una oo.So thats how u guys go about ur first date.That mean the girl will be tired at the end of the day.Goshhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men i mean having a date like in a Restaurant.So wat are the major topics you gonna hit out at ur opined?

Hello,
Please i want to know how i can take a flight to USA.I learnt one-way flight does not exist to USA anylonger.Then how am i going to rout my flight.Is it to board to South Africa or NIger or any african country?Please help me out and if you still know the price beter for me.
Thanks.
Raw

Hey ya'll, i know everyone have tasted this before as in having a first date with a lady, But i want us to talk more on the better way to entertain your first date with a lady or your 1st date with a guy.?

Yes Uju i got my pics on.Anyway i think guys are scared of ur ;ips maybe is just too damn wide,and make sure it does not stink.

Men na wa oo,so na me wendy deh strok like this.e pain me say i no deh online then.Anyway i took that pics with a webcam and its not too nice but i think we can bet to God that i will invite you to see me and say for your self.

lol, i guess u got a sister.
well just make her know u are seriouse and keep communication alive.always make her happy, and show her love!!

Hello,
i put in the pictures bkos some guys wanna see my face but that pics is not too good but i took it from my handy camera,

I got some more but i dont know how to display them here at the same time.Thanks.Any comment?

here plz ppl should say more things plz okie.i need more suggestions.thanks

that was wat i was poundering on,

just tell me plz okie.mine is wisper2onyik@yahoo.com

wow, well i think i was not lucky,anyway i will keep hanging on, can u give me ur yahoo id so we can chat now am online now for real.so we got to talk out things, thanks

mentally otherwise, i just want u to be matured and everyone in this Nairaland to know we are dating already and we glo with honesty, lol, what do u wanna benefit incase i did not mention,

Huh, there are alot of speculations concerning when a man shuld get married.Some say is 35 and others says 40 so i just kinda wanna know the right age.
Plz drop your suggestion,

Uju age does not really matter okie.Am just 22 and we can also get along.we dont know where our luck comes from.we can date here and get married in future.lol, hit me back,

Yes someone want to know if they combine Neco and Waec result together for admission? Please help out.

Uju How old are u?Am matured if thats what u are talking about?

Uju am a kiss freak can i date you or hook up with ya,what do u think?

yes they want u to take note of them and they fix gaze thire eyes on you,

is anyone willing or thinking about it?

Check this out,
1. Their pupils are enlarged when talking with you.
The human pupil dilates when someone is excited or is having strong feelings about something. You can gauge a lot about their interest by paying attention to their eye contact. We often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes.

2. They seem to share a lot of common interests.
If someone is engaging in activities that you like to do, or making an extra effort to be a part of them, chances are they're doing it just to spend more time with you. Take notice of how often they are asking or desiring to do things with you. If it seems rather frequent, it's a good sign they are in to you.

3. They want to spend time with you over weekends and holidays. With schedules the way they usually are for people, spending time on special days like weekends and especially holidays is a very clear sign that they are interested in something more than just hanging out together. All weekend invites are not only a great way to get to know someone on a deeper level, they are also a pretty open message that they want to see if this relationship has any potential.

4. They give you a pet name.
Pet names are usually reserved for someone you have a sweet spot for. If your potential interest has decided to call you by one, you're in a pretty good position interest wise.

5. They send gifts without a reason.
This is probably the most obvious sign on this list. If they've sent you flowers or any small gift, they are trying to let you know you've gained their interest. Now the ball is in your court to signal that you want to take things a little further.

6. They do little things for you.
Do you find your potential interest going out of their way to do favors for you? Maybe they offer to run an errand or go grab something for you. You can especially tell if they are interested when you are within a group of friends. Are thet only doing the little favors for you?

7. They tell friends and family about you, or they introduce you to them. If they have talked about you to their friends and family, you can be assured you are on their dating radar. If they feel comfortable enough to introduce you to the family, you're probably looking at a potential romance. With this sign you have to gauge each situation individually. If they have a really open relationship with their family, it may not mean anything special. However, if they are usually closed off with them, they are definitely ready for something more.

There are many different ways someone will show you they are interested. You really need to take the whole situation into perspective and be aware of which method they are choosing to communicate their interest

I think this is better a little so giv me ur own advice too.
Do NOT become involved with another person if you are currently committed to someone else. Don’t bend the situation to justify your actions. If the person you are with expects you to be with only them, then do that.

If you become interested in someone else:

Cease all contact with them until you have resolved the problems with your current relationship.


Find out why your interest towards your current partner has waned.
a. Are you spending enough time with each other?
b. Are you looking for an escape or a start over type relationship because of too much bad history?
c. Has an outside interest allowed you to think less of your partner?


Decide whether this is repairable.
a. Have you talked about your problems?
b. Can you find a solution through an outside source?


If repairable, do what is necessary to properly fix your current problems and take measures to avoid them from happening again.


If not, repairable, leave your current relationship.
a. Do not see the person you were interested in for at least 30 days after you are on your own again.
b. If you still feel you may be truly interested in starting a relationship with this person make sure you take things slowly and that you have truly discovered what factors contributed to the demise of your previous relationships. You don’t need to keep making the same mistakes repetitively.

1. Their pupils are enlarged when talking with you.
The human pupil dilates when someone is excited or is having strong feelings about something. You can gauge a lot about their interest by paying attention to their eye contact. We often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes.

2. They seem to share a lot of common interests.
If someone is engaging in activities that you like to do, or making an extra effort to be a part of them, chances are they're doing it just to spend more time with you. Take notice of how often they are asking or desiring to do things with you. If it seems rather frequent, it's a good sign they are in to you.

3. They want to spend time with you over weekends and holidays. With schedules the way they usually are for people, spending time on special days like weekends and especially holidays is a very clear sign that they are interested in something more than just hanging out together. All weekend invites are not only a great way to get to know someone on a deeper level, they are also a pretty open message that they want to see if this relationship has any potential.

4. They give you a pet name.
Pet names are usually reserved for someone you have a sweet spot for. If your potential interest has decided to call you by one, you're in a pretty good position interest wise.

5. They send gifts without a reason.
This is probably the most obvious sign on this list. If they've sent you flowers or any small gift, they are trying to let you know you've gained their interest. Now the ball is in your court to signal that you want to take things a little further.

6. They do little things for you.
Do you find your potential interest going out of their way to do favors for you? Maybe they offer to run an errand or go grab something for you. You can especially tell if they are interested when you are within a group of friends. Are thet only doing the little favors for you?

7. They tell friends and family about you, or they introduce you to them. If they have talked about you to their friends and family, you can be assured you are on their dating radar. If they feel comfortable enough to introduce you to the family, you're probably looking at a potential romance. With this sign you have to gauge each situation individually. If they have a really open relationship with their family, it may not mean anything special. However, if they are usually closed off with them, they are definitely ready for something more.

There are many different ways someone will show you they are interested. You really need to take the whole situation into perspective and be aware of which method they are choosing to communicate their interest

Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways, there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best way to approach a break up is to offer the person, to the best of your ability, a clean and clear separation. While there is no definitive way to do this, hear are a few guidelines that may help you.

#1 - Specific Reasons
Don't let them wonder what went wrong. Give them the exact specific reason why you want to break up. It will give them an opportunity to really evaluate what they've done to contribute to the demise of the relationship, and hopefully apply their knowledge to their next one.

#2 - Where To Do It
If you think they will be terribly upset, try a public place that will afford you some privacy, but will deter your partner from possibly "acting up." If at all possible, try to do it some place you can be alone to really talk things through. Avoid places that contain happy memories from your relationship. You don't want to spoil them.

#3 - How To Do It
While following guideline #1 is important, you also want to make sure you are not damaging their ego either. Make it clear to them that the relationship isn't working for you both because you expect different things from the relationship, or that you've reached a line that you don't feel you can cross back over. Take extra care in your choice of wording, but never lie.

#4 - After The Break Up
Your first meetings after a break up can be strained, at best. If you don't feel you'll be comfortable being around them until your emotions are more under control, try a cold turkey break up. Agree neither of you will have contact with each other for an agreed amount of time. Make sure you agree on the set amount of time during the break up process, or the ideal of remaining friends after may diminish.

Your other option is to try a sliding scale approach. Agree to only call or see each other once or twice a week, and slowly narrow it down from there. Agree not to talk about certain things like wishing you were back together, or whether you are seeing anyone new, etc.

If you must remain in contact with them because of school, work or family it is important to remain mature about the situation. Don't run out and date everyone. Allow your partner some breathing room and time to digest their newly found situation. Also, avoid gossiping about what went wrong. It just makes everything ugly.

Whats ur say Ya'll,