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RomanceRe: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Ray360: 8:12pm On Jan 05, 2016
pweetychyka:
Nice advice give but ur grammar is too much!
Or do u want to be the "Patrick Obahiagbon" of Nairaland? grin grin grin grin grin
No mind me jare. how are yiu doing? happy new year!
RomanceRe: 20 by Ray360: 1:34pm On Jan 05, 2016
Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]This is front page material. Lol. [/color]
Bro, Long time. how parol na?
RomanceRe: For Men That Judge Women By Their Looks by Ray360: 9:24am On Jan 05, 2016
Decker:
We all make mistakes everyday. It's in our nature as humans. But that doesn't mean we don't make good choices.

Physical attraction is what's primary. You'd have to be first attracted to someone before you want to get close to her. Men have different tastes in women. So there is first an overall assessment of her physical features and it's the end result of that assessment tells him if she is his type or not. And more often than not, men are always right in their assessment.

Their are two types of worth. There is the material and outward worth, and there is the immaterial or inward worth. The outward worth is the physical beauty. The body, the face, the hair, the dressing. The inward worth is her good character, how intelligent she is, how wise she is, her sense of humor, her kind heart, her resilience, her optimistic personality and all that.

But more often than not, every woman is first accessed on her outward worth, then if she meets the proposed criteria, depending on who is accessing her, then will she be judged on her inward worth.

Let me paint this picture. Her physical attributes can be likened to a door that leads to people to "her worth" the one you are talking about. But that door has to look presentable and attractive first, to be able to convince any one who contemplates passing through it that there is something worth seeing at the other side.
bro, This notion and analysis of yours does not align with the current Nigerian society and the modern world at large. Going by your analysis above, Do you know that many, in fact majority of ladies or women fake their outward appearance which is deceptive and can erode the rational judgement of any man who sees them? this fakery baits most guys who place priority on just superficials with zero concern for other deep qualities which are what counts on the long-run. there are perfect make-ups that can turn a perceived ugly woman to a mermaid. Women can now enlarge any part of their body they feel deficient in. the breasts, the boobs, hips, thighs e.tc. The fact still lies that no man should judge the entirety of a woman by mere looks. the gargantuan height of fakery so common with some modern ladies these days when it comes to facial and body pulchritude is worrisome.
RomanceRe: For Men That Judge Women By Their Looks by Ray360:
The first features that strike you as a man in a woman are the shapes, curves, genitals and other body endowments. That's normal and shouldn't be denied. The attraction and judgement now lies by the gavel of the man which is a function of maturity, psychologically and intellectually. A man should be more concerned about the elastic qualities in a woman which are sacrosanct in the sustainance of a relationship with her. these qualities are her personality, intelligence, morals, ethics, culinary skills, how loving e.t.c
Also, There is a difference between a girl and a woman. A prime woman Knows all these.


BTW, you have a nice diction. OP.
RomanceRe: Relationship: She Assured She Wouldn’t Tell My Wife We Had Sex by Ray360: 8:41am On Jan 05, 2016
Chanchit:
Bro', he already said he has no self control. Op just enjoy it while it lasts.
If the woman he is cheating on is your sister, will you be giving this wishy-,washy piece of advice? How can you spur the OP to continue doing this? well, this shows you would the same thing if webbed in such situation. I still don't want to believe "All men are the same" . But it keeps tolling in my head like a belfry.
RomanceRe: Relationship: She Assured She Wouldn’t Tell My Wife We Had Sex by Ray360: 8:30am On Jan 05, 2016
I am overly gobsmacked at the Goliath height of your libidinous tendency. This is the principal reason why some ladies sing the saying "All men are thesame..." Your wife has a genuine reason for not being able to satisfy you like she used to. At least she is taking care of her father who is bedriddened with stroke.
Can't you be understanding? snh
RomanceRe: My Experience With A Girl That Convulses When She Reaches Orgasm by Ray360: 8:15am On Jan 05, 2016
Tolexander:
are you sure your sound system was not playing "Oya shake body" by Skale why forking the girl?
hahahahahahaha!!!
RomanceRe: Best Advice To Men For Life !! !! !! ! by Ray360:
[b]I so love number 6. let me add some.
# All ladies are not the same. you must have dated all the women in the world before settling for this hooey!

#Money Is not everything like they say. But if you are a man, Quash this silly saying. you need money more than CBN

#If at 29, You are still sampling and dumping ladies without the thought to settle down and plan your life, Then you are very useless and Unfit to be called a man

#Be a comforter and counsellor to your partner. help her champion her dreams to Rainbow heights with your support.

#Stop having unprotected sex. If you cannot control the tool of life, please, coat it with a sheath when Riding the Honeywell. STDs are real. safe your partner the trauma of unwanted pregnancy and a child which she may not be ready to mother


#Men, learn to work on yourself. improve! The fact is, You don't have to go wooing all the girls in your neighborhood if you know your worth. If you are not schooling, work! if you are not working, go to school. make sure your have something going for you. Stop being a mediocre.

#A real man is not that gigantic and broadchested man with 6 packs spanning the entirety of his stomach and a deep scary voice. No, A real man is he who knows his weaknesses and strengths and can maximise his strengths. A real man is a man with purpose and goal! A real man is a man who can shoulder responsibilities and not cow like a yellow-bellied swine. A real man is a man who can think like a rational human and make things happen.


I rest... [/b]
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Start Dating?? by Ray360: 7:40am On Jan 05, 2016
SMH. you are too young to delve into the web of romance. face your studies. Being in a romantic relationship saps emotional strength and can be a major distraction if one is not ladened with the wherewithal to manage the likely ups and downs.
You are 17, you are still a toddler when it comes to romance. I am sure you have seen tales of woes that has bedeviled many relationships as evidenced by the topics on this forum. majority of these people are above 20, yet they are still facing these, let alone a young budding girl like you.
If you are in Uniben like your profile suggests, face your studies! exam is by February and there are still a lot yet to be covered. cheers!
RomanceRe: How Do I Date A Nigerian Lady? by Ray360: 9:22pm On Jan 04, 2016
YourMain:
Your mother is a Nigerian lady. Use her as a baseline of what you think of Nigerian women. If you've had a bad experience with 200 Nigerian women blame those 200 Nigerian women. Not over 80 million of them.

Don't discriminate against your own race. Like it or not you are Nigerian. Your mum is a Nigerian, your sister is a Nigerian woman, your aunts, nieces are Nigerian women.
I admire the echelon of intelligence that garnished this post. It is highly ridiculous and gobsmacking to lampoon or write-off a race as a result of the inefficiencies of a few.
It's a fallacy. Op, Nigerian women are lovely and adorable, They lead the league of cultured women in Africa. they are hardworking and loving.
Get a good Nigerian woman and thank me later.
RomanceRe: See What A Woman Did To Her Husband's Mistress(photo) by Ray360: 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2016
Eyaah.. She couldn't contain it any longer..
RomanceRe: Sometimes I Feel I Should Be Alone Forever by Ray360: 9:02pm On Jan 04, 2016
All men are not the same. Just pray for a doting husband who will love you until the world ends.
Also, make sure your worth as a whole is deserving of such golden man.
RomanceRe: What Does It Mean When A Girl Invites You Over To Her Place by Ray360: 8:57pm On Jan 04, 2016
It depends on the nature or type of relationship between you two before the invite. If it's a girl that has been admiring you and lives alone, Be very careful! it's the devil's invite
PhonesRe: Mark Zuckerberg's Epic Response To Darlene Loretto, A Facebook User by Ray360: 8:31pm On Jan 04, 2016
Such intelligence! thinking laterally, Is being a nerd now a sine qua non before one's inventive and creative acumen can be productive? Are all Inventors nerds?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Amazing Way I Got A Job With A Poor Grade by Ray360: 11:04am On Jan 04, 2016
Your story really touched me. I bursted out in tongues when I read the line where you picked papers on the floor, I knew that was the genesis of the breakthrough. the little things we actually look down are The things that matter most.
EducationRe: UNIBEN STUDENTS ADMISSION THREAD, 2015/2016 by Ray360: 12:40pm On Jan 01, 2016
Ebayray:
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Otibho80<i miss u plenty>embarassed.
Emodee.

Lastly,ma humble self Ebayray grin grin grin grin.

Oh! Lest i 4get, all memberz of dis great UNIBEN thread known n unknown.
Ohh! Thanks aplenty! I will tongue your name in my closet prayers. God bless you too! It's been aeons!

I hope body and soul are in harmony? Happy new year!
RomanceRe: Flawlesrebirth, I Love U No Joke by Ray360: 11:07am On Jan 01, 2016
lol..
RomanceRe: New Year, New Wahala: Advice Needed Please by Ray360: 11:02am On Jan 01, 2016
I was about commenting until I saw where the story was lifted from. I rest!
RomanceRe: Yes\no by Ray360: 10:48am On Jan 01, 2016
I am quite Stupefied and startled at how you Crossed over to the new year with this echelon of stupidity, immaturity and gross inanity.
RomanceRe: Yes\no by Ray360: 10:45am On Jan 01, 2016
TrapKNNG:
I feel you're irredeeemably stupidd!
hahahahahahaha!!! oh my!
Poems For ReviewRe: NPC End Of The Year Thanksgiving Cypher. by Ray360: 10:39am On Jan 01, 2016
Mr IIaykorn, please, add me to the group. I never knew a poetry group existed on nairaland
Poems For ReviewRe: NPC End Of The Year Thanksgiving Cypher. by Ray360: 10:20am On Jan 01, 2016
morganacanta:
The sky will darken again tonight
Sending the frail wind shierking
Shivers of expectations looming
For tomorrow is ever so near .

But tomorrow is not just tomorrow .
Is a new path untertered
Like the first blush of spring
The opening of a pink petal ,
Of hopes and dreams unrealised .

We have trudged tirelessly
Encounterd different obstacles
Our hope in jeopardy .
Our tears ever so fresh..

But tomorrow is not just tomorrow
Is the reawakening of dreams .
The restoration of faith
The sound of a new beginning.

For we have fought the good fight .
We have stepped on torns .
We have battled our demons .
And yes we still live .
To awaken our tears filled eyes .
To the bright light of a new beginning.
We welcome you 2016"
With the way you played down the first poem on this thread, one would expect a masterpiece from you. I am not a critique as such wing of art leaves sour taste to be desired and can thwart the burgeoning confidence of the feeble at heart. Mr, your pen is still young! as evidenced by the tasteless piece above!
RomanceRe: thread closed by Ray360: 5:17pm On Dec 31, 2015
Please, modify this story. The kwashiokored diction is quite pathetic. polish the story. bro.
RomanceRe: Any Girl With More Than One Boyfriend Is A Prostitute by Ray360: 11:04am On Dec 30, 2015
Agreed. Balance it! there should be gender parity. any guy dating more than one girl is also a prostitute.
RomanceRe: What Is Your Ideal Girl Or Guy. by Ray360: 10:58am On Dec 30, 2015
If you are above 25 and the qualities you still look out for are big boobs and plentiful backside, with zero concern for certain deep qualities like intelligence, morals, Motherly creeds and attitudinal beauty, then you are yet to be weaned from infantile nipples.
in corroboration of Decker's points, There is a phase of life you will attain whereby those superficiality you used to drool over will keel low for manly reasoning to assume a foothold in your life. I have friends who used to fantasize a lot about how and where their wedding will hold.
Some had nursed metaphysical hopes of hosting their wedding in airplanes and places of immense beauty, but when they came of age and started huslting for money and daily victuals amidst a draconian and excruciating economy, they made-do with lowkey weddings. You may never get all the qualities in him or her, join forces with him or her in maintaining harmonious equilibrium.
RomanceRe: Ladies Open Your Ears, If After 3months He Failed To Propose Pls Dump Him. by Ray360: 10:10am On Dec 30, 2015
Very shallow, abysmal, and utterly nonsensical way of reasoning.
Going by your moniker, do you think marriage is for Playboys like you? 6 months is not even enough for courtship let alone marriage.
I was expecting to read cogent points sandwiched with facts only for you to come up with this hooey you have up there. Marriage is a lifetime commitment which requires understanding from both parties. rush into it and you will fly out
RomanceRe: Can You Show A Lady Love Like This? by Ray360: 9:10am On Dec 29, 2015
Trapnews:
Where's the love bro? I pity the woman wey go marry you. Not all ladies are bad, stop the hatred. There's a lot to that picture.
God bless you for this reply. I didn't want to quote Decker because it was his opinion. that picture is just true love at play. Being angry with one's partner but still having that bond and attraction intact. Not all men can do that.
RomanceRe: My Brother Needs Help, His Girlfriend Wont Marry Him by Ray360: 8:47am On Dec 29, 2015
One thing you must know is this, Marriage is a life-time commitment. Nothing can work without her consent. just move on.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Hold Sex As ACE Or Joker In A Relationship? by Ray360: 2:48pm On Dec 26, 2015
I like relationships that are explicitly spelt-out. Before you two dabbled into the web of romantic bliss, Did she agree to premarital sex? (which I am against in any relationship) You said you don't give a big deal about sex, why are you asking her for it then if you don't fancy it?
Well, the society we live in has bastardized the creeds we once held virtuous. If your phallus cannot hold still due to your restless libido, then get married.
RomanceRe: Mr. Sex-starved Marriage by Ray360: 2:42pm On Dec 26, 2015
hmm
RomanceRe: Ratings For The Top 5 "Wisest" And "Most Foolish" Romancelanders. by Ray360: 11:15am On Dec 25, 2015
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

To all who hold breath in existence!

Happy luck greet your post-natal clan
Wrap the year with smiles at the tail of its terminus
throw all frowns by the Stilting pit
Woo Luna with the buds of your smiles
Swivel all worries beneath the bower of the baobab
All bask like fireflies in deep thickets of night
Let your ribs peel with laughter like the evergreens
like those Aromatic prairies of enchanting grins
Mind not the spoils from dark past
Man in poetic spirit should beam with Felicity at last
The paddle lies by your strides, sail to shores of called tides
Ding dong merrily on high!


Merry Christmas to all Nairalanders!



Ray360
RomanceRe: Top Ten FEMALE Romancelanders You Should Forget About Seeing Them In Real Life by Ray360: 9:41pm On Dec 24, 2015
Uniben student indeed...

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