Family › Re: Generator Wahala Please Help by Raymondluv(op): 1:04pm On Nov 01, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Generator Wahala Please Help by Raymondluv(op): 1:02pm On Nov 01, 2016 |
talk2alabama: What sort of oil did u buy? What type of generator do you use? I use SAE 40 Conoil Golden super Motor oil |
Family › Generator Wahala Please Help by Raymondluv(op): 10:42am On Nov 01, 2016 |
This morning i wanted to start my Generator and it not starting.please am worried and i put oil last week I was using it yesterday night all of a sudden it just went off I tried starting it that night but no way even till this morning no way,I would have called an engineer but it raining outside please guys do you know the problem?? |
Crime › Re: How Do I Catch This Phone Thief? HELP!!! by Raymondluv(m): 8:51am On Oct 08, 2016 |
pussygotlips: Good day nairalanders,
i know this great forum has been helping people in various way and I think is now time for me to be help too.
straight to the point: yesterday my phone got stolen inside commercial bus but luckily I installed anti thief application that whenever new sim is inserted it will automatically sent the new number to my friends phone. now that I have the thief phone number I need a format on how to go about recovering my phone.
thanks in advance. drop is fone number here |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Too Proud To Apologise by Raymondluv(m): 7:10am On Oct 07, 2016 |
mrk74: I do feel that I’m a very lucky man to have a very compatible lady as my wife. We love each other so well and I strongly believe we were meant for each other. However, I have one issue. When she has issue with a suggestion, request or complain she may agree without stating or discussing her objections but will simply not take the suggestion. Sometimes she will out rightly disobey me. The result will be me complaining severally and eventually getting upset. We hardly have issues, but when we do it’s usually because of something like this. We had dated for about 3 years before marriage. We had no issue in our 1st two years. Not that there was no complain at all but we easily made adjustments to accommodate each other. But there were several instances of this kind of issues in our 3rd year and I was seriously bothered. We had a very serious misunderstanding still from this kind of issue few months before we got married. At a point I asked her if I’m difficult and she told me that I nag. It was very embarrassing but when I the dictionary definition of nagging again which states that “(of a person) constantly harassing someone to do something”, then I agreed that I did nag. Then I realized how easy a partner’s action/inaction could make the other to nag.
Just before we began the process towards marriage I had to extract commitments from her for us to avoid this kind of issues in the future. I had explained how we could have handled situations like this better and the fact that she shouldn’t make it a big deal to apologise and she agreed with me. We got married on 30th December 2015 and we have not had issues since then till few days ago. I told her to stop using an item for cooking due to the health challenge I have with the item when it much in the food. I had previously asked for her to avoid putting too much of it which she agreed but she will fail on about 2 out of 9 meals. It was when I realized she can’t moderate it appropriately I asked her to stop and add it when she eats. She agreed but still won’t stop. I then told her not to have the item in the house at all. She agreed but will still buy it and hide. Even though I had noticed the presence of the item on meals for a while but I got to find some that she had recently bought and hidden in a locker. When I confronted her on it she only argued and asked if I had noticed it being overused recently. Even when I pointed out how bad I felt about her disobeying me she will not see it as a big deal.
I’ve been cold with her for about 2 days now (We talk, but not with the typical high spirit when we are both happy). Yesterday she told me that I have been behaving abnormally and I have not told her what is wrong. Then I used the opportunity to remind her of how she has been disobeying me including that of another incident that I had just refused to be upset about. All she said was that she had agreed to stop which I’m not sure I remembered her saying so. But even if she did, how is it different from the previous instance she accepted but began to hide the item. I believe she should apologize for disobeying me but this is something that she won’t do. As far as she is concerned, she had told me she will stop and expects us to move on and there is nothing to be addressed any further.
Fellow nairalanders, what do you think about this? Is an apology for disobeying me out of place?
We had agreed before marriage not to take our issues to friends or family which I strongly uphold. But at this point, I think we should get opinion of a 3rd party hopefully we can get an objective view on this and either of us can have make necessary adjustment for us to avoid this in the future. She reads selected items that lalasticlala pushes to the front page and I hope she gets to read this too. She will definitely know it’s about us. If I don’t hear her mention seeing it on nairaland, I will deliberately lead her to the thread.
----Modified---- I notice some comments are being directed on the food incidence as if that really is the issue. Please the issue has not always been about food. It's just these last issues that have been about food. There had been an issue with her using bleaching creams, one about her refusing to apply for a sponsorship of her project by an International organization which I pushed for mainly because of the exposure she could get. There had been one about applying for her MSc in a nearby University. Except for the bleaching that she just didn't seem to believe the level of risk involved with the bleaching creams the others she simply won't express her reservation or make objections but just won't act till it becomes annoying then you will know she was not comfortable with it. Meanwhile she had given the impression that she is act or was acting on it. Till date she still regrets where she is having her about to be concluded MSc which could have been avoided if she had opened up on time about her reservation on where I had initially suggested.
The issue is actually more about her not expressing her reservation on a matter and not apologizing when she realizes that she didn't do well. Instead of showing remorse she will simply say we should move on sometimes without even wanting to address the issue.
For those who think I'm controlling. I do let her make her decisions. But I do wish she can share her objections where I make suggestions that she is not comfortable with. When I asked her to get registered for her MSc I had asked her to do so in the Federal University that is about 3mins drive from our house. But that is where she had a BSc and she was not comfortable going there for her MSc. But instead of opening up on her reservation she was just lazy about getting the form and was making enquiry about it from wrong sources till I lost my patience and insisted she go by herself. The school is very close but she didn't even need to trek down. When she got there it was already late entry but I didn't mind. It was when she should have gone to pay that she now raised her reservation but initially hanged it on someone else opinion. I didn't insist. I even tried to assisted her in finding an alternative. But by this time it was only one school that still sold forms for MSc and that is where she is schooling now. Op please what type of product be specific for others to know the product she is adding since it health harzard so that other Nairalanders can know....pls wat the name of the product |
Crime › Re: I Was Almost Defrauded Today by Raymondluv(m): 5:12pm On Sep 24, 2016 |
warrenweste: Lol they send it to me regularly it's not a new scam just flag or if u wanna track him look him up online how can dat be possible if u wanna track someone |
Business › Re: Has Anybody Been Able To Change His Account Name With Bank? How Did You Do It? by Raymondluv(m): 6:15am On Sep 22, 2016 |
zunnurain33: yes bros. I have done my too, I changed my name, date of birth both on my account and my bvn. you need this application, affidavit, publication and valid Id card. is it possible to change name on BVN |
Business › Re: Has Anybody Been Able To Change His Account Name With Bank? How Did You Do It? by Raymondluv(m): 5:56am On Sep 22, 2016 |
pinkpearl17: Yes. I have. I used a court affidavit, newspaper publication and a letter addressed to the manager. pls madam wat kind of newspaper publication are u going to buy news paper from a vendor nd give to d bank? |
Business › Re: Has Anybody Been Able To Change His Account Name With Bank? How Did You Do It? by Raymondluv(m): 5:53am On Sep 22, 2016 |
valdes00: going tru all dos stress jus to change ur bank acct name ..... jus go to anoda bank, open a new acct... withdraw ur money from the old one n start using the new one... lobatan... not possible |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Raymondluv(m): 7:34am On Sep 21, 2016 |
enochogaga: hmmm i cant really tell u how much now, cos location matter, but over here is 1500-1800 for the original one were is brush. located in generator |
Crime › Re: I Want To R.ape Somebody by Raymondluv(m): 3:54pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
BiafraudExposed: He was wrongly accused... People cried that day when she confessed... wetin dem do d girl |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Raymondluv(m): 3:45pm On Sep 20, 2016 |
enochogaga: is either is ur brush, or the avr, that all how much to change d AVR |
Phones › Re: New Release Tecno Y6 The Specs And Price Will Wow You by Raymondluv(m): 9:40am On Sep 20, 2016 |
Kingoflotto: I just got the phone and it's quite impressive the specs are
Y6 Specs Here are a few specs of the Tecno Y6: General Features Platform: Android 4.4.2 (KitKat) Processor: 1.0GHz dual-core Processor GPU: Mali 400 Memory: 1 GB RAM Colours: Numerous Colours Dimension: 140.2 x 74.5 x 10.6 mm Weight: - SIM Type: - SIM Count: Dual SIM, Dual Standby Display Display: 5-inch Touch Display, 480 x 854 pixels (225ppi) Display Protection: - Camera Rear Camera: 5 MP Camera, Video Rear Camera Features: LED Flash Front Camera: 2 MP Camera Storage Built-in Storage: 8GB Storage Memory Card Support: Yes Bundled Cloud Storage: - Network Support 2G GSM: 900 / 1800 MHz 2G CDMA 1X: No 3G WCDMA: 2100MHz 3G CDMA EVDO: No 4G LTE: No Internet & Connectivity GPRS: Yes, up to 48kbps EDGE: Yes 3G/WCDMA/HSPA: Yes HSPA+: Yes CDMA EVDO: No 4G LTE: No WLAN: Wi-Fi 802.11 b/g/n Wi-Fi Hotspot: Yes Bluetooth: Yes, Bluetooth 4.0 with A2DP NFC: No Infrared Blaster: No USB Port: Yes, microUSB 2.0 Messaging SMS/MMS: Yes Instant Messaging: Yes Push Emails: Yes Email Protocol: IMAP4, POP3, SMTP Entertainment Music Player: Yes, mp3, WAV, FLAC, eACC+ Video Player: Yes, MPEG4, H.263, H.264, XviD FM Radio: Yes Loudspeaker: Yes 3.5mm Jack: Yes Navigation Navigation: Yes, GPS with A-GPS Maps: Yes, Google Maps Sensors & Control Digital Compass: No Accelerometer: Yes Proximity Sensor: No Light Sensor: No Barometer: No Pedometer: No Heart Rate Monitor: No Gyroscope: No Fingerprint Scanner: No Iris Scanner: No Intelligent Digital Assistant: No Motion Sensing / Gesture Control: No Voice Control: No Other Features Video Streaming: Yes Active Noise Cancellation: No Wireless Charging: No Water Resistant: No Dust Resistant: No Image Editor: No (download at store) Video Editor: No (download at store) Document Viewer: Yes Document Editor: No (download at store) Battery Battery: 2350 mAh Li-ion Battery Standby Time: - Talktime: up to 13.8 hours Music Playback: up to 31 hours price 17000 pls how good is the camera quality? |
Crime › Re: Graduate Impersonates Kukah, Defrauds Oyedepo, Dantata, Others (pic) by Raymondluv(m): 9:14am On Sep 20, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]You won't go to the bank again na. It's very simple![/color] wat if u want to open another bank account nkooo it wont work because of BVN |
Phones › Re: New Release Tecno Y6 The Specs And Price Will Wow You by Raymondluv(m): 6:16am On Sep 20, 2016 |
Kingoflotto: Well you may not like it but the phone is OK and it handles apps flawlessly I play heavy games without lags and the battery is OK t the display is very sharp and crisp and its okay for a smartphone for daily activities I test camera soon in daylight are you still using the tecno y6 |
Crime › Re: Graduate Impersonates Kukah, Defrauds Oyedepo, Dantata, Others (pic) by Raymondluv(m): 10:10pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]You went to withdraw money and you realized you couldn't withdraw again and you went to the bank?
Very very dumb scammer! [/color] wetin u want make him do then??if it was you wat will you do in a situation like that |
Crime › Re: Graduate Impersonates Kukah, Defrauds Oyedepo, Dantata, Others (pic) by Raymondluv(m): 10:10pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]You went to withdraw money and you realized you couldn't withdraw again and you went to the bank?
Very very dumb scammer! [/color] wetin u want make him do then?? |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 7:45pm On Sep 19, 2016 |
opethom: it's free and works perfect on Android phone is dat wat u use |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by Raymondluv(m): 10:09am On Sep 19, 2016 |
enochogaga: Am here to give you any answer about fault on ur generators, and how to identify original generators. pls I need help.let me explain it to you . It all started on friday when i wanted to make use of the Generator I put on the Generator set buy 7pm,buy 8:15pm the Generator light went off but the Generator was still on.I went out side I tried adjusting the plug wire no way i put off the Generator, on it back again light came on after some minite the light went off but Generator was still on I went out side tried adjusting the plug it came on and went off again..same thing happened on Saturday.I put on the Generator in the morning from 10Am to 11:15Am nothing happend but when i want to use it at night and i put on television the light we go off but generator we be on.I dont know what to do am using an ELEPAQ generator set |
Autos › Please Nairalander Help Me.having A Fault With My Generator by Raymondluv(op): 9:21pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
It all started on friday when i wanted to make use
of the Generator I put on the Generator set buy
7pm,buy 8:15pm the Generator light went off but
the Generator was still on.I went out side I tried
adjusting the plug wire no way i put off the
Generator, on it back again light came on after
some minite the light went off but Generator was
still on I went out side tried adjusting the plug it
came on and went off again..same thing happened
on Saturday.I put on the Generator in the morning
from 10Am to 11:15Am nothing happend but when
i want to use it at night and i put on television the
light we go off but generator we be on.I dont know
what to do am using an ELEPAQ generator set |
Technology Market › Re: Please I Need Help With My Generator Set Nairalanders Help A Friend I by Raymondluv(op): 5:29pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
psucc: Possibly, the capacitor is dead and need replacement. It's not costly except the Buhari's crisis and you can change it if a little tech inclined.
Failing the above, then the coil may be on line. how much to change the capacitor? |
Technology Market › Please I Need Help With My Generator Set Nairalanders Help A Friend I by Raymondluv(op): 5:01pm On Sep 18, 2016 |
It all started on friday when i wanted to make use of the Generator I put on the Generator set buy 7pm,buy 8:15pm the Generator light went off but the Generator was still on.I went out side I tried adjusting the plug wire no way i put off the Generator, on it back again light came on after some minite the light went off but Generator was still on I went out side tried adjusting the plug it came on and went off again..same thing happened on Saturday.I put on the Generator in the morning from 10Am to 11:15Am nothing happend but when i want to use it at night and i put on television the light we go off but generator we be on.I dont know what to do am using an ELEPAQ generator set |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 3:11am On Sep 18, 2016 |
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Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 3:10am On Sep 18, 2016 |
opethom: download ZPN and am using an andriod fone |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 3:03am On Sep 18, 2016 |
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Crime › Re: How To Avoid/escape Stray Bullets by Raymondluv(m): 9:01am On Sep 17, 2016 |
What if you are in a commercial bus or taxi and arm robbers shoot at the vehicle wat will you do? |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 11:27pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
nellybenn: Exactly what am looking for
Am doing something online so i need two account that will hide my location if u see am pm me or notify me pls |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 11:27pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
nellybenn: Exactly what am looking for
Am doing something online so i need two account that will hide my location if u see am pm me |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why You Should Use Incognito Mode When Browsing by Raymondluv(m): 11:10pm On Sep 16, 2016 |
Pls I need a good browser dat will hide my ip address so dat my network provider wont be able to track me any help pls? |
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Politics › Re: Is There Fuel Scarcity In Nigeria Again? by Raymondluv(m): 12:45pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
onatisi: I am just a normal man ooooo my bros when will the economy be better sir pls predict ooooh pls am serious predict am abeg I wan knw take get hope? |
Phones › Re: 5 Ways To Protect/guard Your Android Smartphone Or Tablet Against Malware Attack by Raymondluv(m): 2:38pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
Hello OP when ever I want to download APp or games from play store it always shows Trouble shooting storage error 501 error I have done factory reset still desame?? |