4Him, you can't be serious

lol. . .you got a kiss?

almondjoy:

We don hear! Please, the OP has given you the attention you need like he understood you desperately needed it Next!

_{The reason I do not do female crushes--their marrer no get end! Thank God I only have one daughter!}

lol. . why did you come back to "modify" your post? You posted earlier "We don hear! Next " why did you have to come back to edit?

lmao. . . orisirisi

chuckdee4:

Why don't u just shut up and stop making a fool of yourself, everytime u make a post u only end up justifying your low IQ

Rofl

OMO IBO:

but there's the other part u chose not to talk about which infact is the main reason for this thread. what is your take on oprah and family issues? u think she is the right person to dish out advise on family issues? i also want to bring your attention to the fact that most of the people she brings to show to talk about marriage and family issues are either divorced and/or never been married witht he exception of DR Phil.

whats your take on her inviting other castes of a hit movie then leaving out the main characters. (ice cube in barbers shop, ludacris (can't remember the movie) to mention but a few.

What's my take? I think she is great and doing a great job too. I don't think she's a hypocrite. You people should learn to understand when one stands by principles. She has every right to dish advice on family issues. She has been living with a man for so long and has mixed with a lot of people in this world. Single, married, battered, hungry, abused, poor, rich etc.
She might not be the best to give an advice but for God's sake it's her show and she has every right to talk about marriage issues though she's not married. What? she shouldn't give advice because she's not married? I hear u. Why don't you start a campaign and tell people to stop attending her shows? lol
Stop talking as if you haven't seen married people on her show.

She invites who she wants on her shows. Wetin be ya own na? She's not a fan of hip-hop 'cause hip-hop is full of negativities. I agree though that can't stop me from listening to them

Seriously, I don't think she's a hypocrite. There was one show she talked about drug addicts. She admitted she used to do drugs when she was younger and the reason why she admitted that in public was so that people won't think she is "holier than thou".

Oh well, that's my own piece o' cheese cake for Oprah

OMO IBO:

if u feel the urge to respond, plz do but u don't have to curse other posters.

Na so trouble deh start. Notin do you

Romeo, don't call my name again o. Silly boi

Haba, Doyin! As if they know to control themselves

almondjoy:

Bury my head where? Dealt with what ignorance? -----Fine. I am 80 years old and I got whooped by my 23 year old grandson . . . . ooooh . . . .I am dying . . . .someone please close ma casket . . . . . . Rubbish!

I owe you no apologies dear, but to the poster. So get over yourself! This is ma playground and I do not ever get tired. . . . . so do not hold your breath. . . . . Why are you making it your headache anyway? What are your motives? You make me laff! If this is what it takes to bury one's head then I can only smile at you. There is nothing in this world I have done to warrant me burying my head anywhere not to talk of on Nairaland. Do you see me hiding under a rock?

Rofl. . is it that difficult to accept your misdemeanour? You better be honest with yourself if with no one else . Owe me no apologies?? Christ! Where did this come from?

Why I make it my headache? lol Were you not the one who kept pouncing on the dude and I was pleading with you to let him be? Oh well, I guess I'm a lil' bit too sensitive when people declare their feelings and that's why I asked you twice to let him be, you pest! And you call it fun

Stop lying jare. Dude, rubbed it in your face well. Next time, you should get your facts right before jumping into lame conclusions. You trying to cover up your shame by being sweet and calling all what you said a jest. You must be a good coward And you call me fake?lol My motives? Stop being paranoid abeg

almondjoy:

I would not give any of you the slightest satisfaction. Juvenile or not--I love what I am! Maybe if I keep hanging around you, you could teach me a thingy or two about "maturity". What do you say?

I'm not saying you're not matured. I've seen your other posts on different threads Hence, "acting" juvenile don't mean you're not matured

You don't need to satisfy anyone or is your husband a member too. Very possible tho'

almondjoy:

Look, aren't you a nigerian? Lady koi koi means "little princess"! Meaning you need not be so uptight-and use your sense of humor more often! All I wrote up there, was in jest. If you do not find funny-tough! Get yourself another clown!

As if everyone on NL is Nigerian You want to tell me that you understand every street language in Nigeria? Oh well, I don't but can't obviously call "lady koi kois" a slang Find what funny? You're pathetic o

I ain't uptight, girlfriend. You don't know me well, even on NL

almondjoy:

I can say goodbye as many times as I want and come back as many times as I want--it is called freedom. Not under your lock and key!--My choice!

And yet you have the nerves to pick on, Pataki. Practice what you preach

morenike09:

and i thought this was a serious thread. . .

It is. You're the one who's not serious. Be patient and read at least the OP's posts.

_{Na wa o. This topic get as e be} . If a child doesn't look like the father/mother, who will he look like? Whatever you guys mean by wowo. A baby's innocence is enough to say he/she is cute

morenike09:

how old is she sef?

30

henry007:

is this a racist thread ? bad idea

You came late. We're now talking about 4Him's award.

4Him:

Best post of the yr nominee.

Are you the host?

morenike09:

LOL. . . .nothing o. . .so i guess the quote is either directed at mr.4 or at juliet's love?

The post was what Pataki wrote to "Juliet's love" indeed Found the content very funny but mean tho'

morenike09:

dnt mind if i ask, just what exactly did pahtahkee do to you?

Never had a problem with him. What's the matter?

almondjoy:

You see it as insolence--I say charisma! What a pessimist your are. Good thing a have enough confidence in maself not to see me through your eyes! You fail! No body is using ma ID of course! What am I talkin' about? I will tell you. People like you go about--wanting to be politically correct at all times. Well, we know what happens to those--frankly boring!

You see it as charisma, huh?Good for you. Let's just say you have the charisma to be insolent. lol . .

You said goodbye to this thread so many times that I've lost count but you still here.lol. . You said he irritates you but yet you still come back to prove Heaven knows what.lol

You didn't know where to bury your head after a 23 yr old dealt with your ignorance/vile conclusions and now you trying to be all sweet and 'motherly'.Duhh! lol

Yes, I always want to be correct at all times if possible. You prefer to be wrong sometimes? Sorry dear. I can't say I haven't been 'bad' on Nairaland but it has never been about being "correct" or not. It's something different. Seun can tell you

Btw, where did I go wrong with this dude's issue? Both you and I are basically saying the same thing just that the way you went about the whole issue was inappropriate. Am I being "politically correct" again?

almondjoy:

See? What did I tell you? I said he will come back for me! Did he call your name with all your sme-sme! Now! For your information--that is how I handle ma marriage with lots of fun.
He called me[b] Joy![/b] He even has a pet name for me!

Good for you. Abeg, stop acting so juvenile. I'm sure you're in your late 20s or early 30s

almondjoy:

Don't mind all these babes here pretending to be "lady koi kois"! Very fake. As you can see--I can prove it. Most of them are still single, searching and free to mingle--so how them no go talk nonsense. Even after you have gone, some are still playing good girl!

Ohh! I'm so hurt lmao I'm defnly not married. I don't know about those who are searching to mingle I ain't fake, girlfriend. I am just me. You don't know me so why say I'm fake? The fact that I pointed out what I felt was wrong with you/posts don't mean I'm playing the good girl. I'm being real and if you're "real" enough, respect that and quit being unnecessarily silly

What's "lady koi kois"? lol

.

lol. . d'u people ever give up? Dude has made up his mind. He just told us that he'll update us on his wedding plans. Haba! make una cool down na

_{"Can you even reason at all? I told you are not fit for an intelligent discourse, so what else befits your status other than throwing yabbing around. Unfortunately to you, you see it as the acumen of intelligence"}

lmao. . .4Him, you a clown. Efuah, leave him na _{funny people}

almondjoy:

In what way? I did not even use one single profanity. You are complaining! Name one embarrasing thing I did other than delete the insultive post I really should not have put up here?

You make it seem as if insolence is a thing to be proud of. Wait until you tire

almondjoy:

Nonsense! All this one you are doing here, if this bobo where to choose a wife from all of us on this thread--males included, he will definitely choose me. He will come back for me. As you can see he came back specially to address just me---because I was on his mind. That is how you know people who are marriage materials--you cuss yourselves out and make sweeeeeeet love later. Nothin deeey happen! He will never forget me for sure.

Are you okay? what you talking about? Damn! _{*It must be someone else using her ID*}

I hear u

Moneybag and Richyblack,

4Him:

Thanks though . . . u'd make a great wife too.

Ain't u a darlin?


Efuah, I agree with you

LMAO!Joy, u must be having a throbbing headache by now Your behaviour on this thread has been very embarrassing, seriously. I hope you don't handle your marriage in the same manner

gentledove:

he attends a reputable church in Ibadan - Livingspring and he devours the ladies there like never before.

Too much info.

Dremoney, u too funny

Dude is free to marry at whatever age. If his parents consent and the girl's parents are okay with it, then he's good to go. Besides, the dude didn't say that the girl has dropped out of skul and never intends to study again

She might still continue with her education after their wedding. Haven't you seen fathers and mothers at 40+ doing their undergraduate let alone a 19 yr old? And he never mentioned anything about having babies now.

I've seen "matured" couples rushing to file for divorce even after their second marriage. This marriage may work out for them or may not, just like every other marriage.

I agree they're still young but if they want it and really love each other, then good for them. It may be hard for them at some point but I'm sure their parents will assist them. I don't think it's as crazy as we think it is. Sometimes, one keeps waiting to be "matured" to make the right decisions but end up in misery.

_{Still not sure about his reasons though.}

blue-sky:

I am a little surprised that the parents are ok with this, is the girl nigerian?

For reading sake people, she's not Nigerian! Why don't you read before you post? She's freaking Bri'ish!

blue-sky:

Another thing i find shocking is that u both have been having a long distant relationship, you don't live in the same country, let alone the same city, so how would you know if you both can cope seeing each other everyday?

Where did you get all this from?

tpia:


@ R-Dynamite: free will as opposed to forced marriages. Some girls do marry quite young due to their parents or guardians wishes.

May be you're talking about the very wretched, hunger and poverty plagued families??

Whether or not the marriage will work out is not the issue. Marriages fail these days without mercy. The issue is HIS own personal reason to get married 'cause from what he's told us, it appears he's scared that he's too young, doing it to please the girl etc. I don't see how these will propel a man to get married in this day and time.

tpia:

In Nigeria it might be relatively rarer for a young girl to want to marry so early, of their own free will.

Wetin this one come mean