Ahmed0336: I won't lie, I married my wife so she could help in adjusting my then way of life. She's so spiritual and me? Na Nafdac Approved Fornicator Bro, I studied her for 7years + and I just knew that I needed someone like her in my life if not na express I dey. Glad I did and I will say that's the best decision I have made in my life. Almost 18years in marriage now
I pray yours too will be the same NAFDAC approved statement is funny
Yankee101: What of 419, round tripping and cheating your old employer you worked with as a banker? There’s a reason you’re called cowboy banker.
Any thief with opportunity can accomplish what you did. Not everyone has the soul or strength to be a thIef and hardened at the same time
For Otedola to come out and say you basically cheated him out of transcorp, what of the many many you did it to that don’t have a platform? We’ll be calling out Nigerian elites, no more sweeping under the carpet. You and Dangote should be in jail
This comment is false: “Any thief with opportunity can accomplish what you did.”
Most thief will rather take to women, clubbing building irrelevant projects and in some cases marrying extra wives. God don bless this man. Wealth has some little tricks attached to it. The honest truth is all what you mentioned against him is not enough to make him this wealthy else other thieves and hired assassins would be among the richest in the country.
easzypeaszy: My salary back den wt a private company was 15k but my take home was 75k monthly. Usually level 8 in Lagos get about 125k so the take home can be 155k if na Buhari dan man will nvr listen. All of use are insulting Tinubu now bc dude is frm the South.. Northern leaders don't care like Buhari
Is buhari a human being? We talk of people with conscience and you are mentioning buhari. Please, that part of the history of Nigeria will forever will erased if it were possible.
helinues: But all what you listed are the measures the current government is being taken. The past government claimed we consumed 61m litres or so per day, now, we are hardly at 26m litres per day, remove the subsidy paid in those litres which most of the fuel won't even make it to Nigeria.
Our neighboring countries citizens are even feeling the removal of fuel subsidy in their country than Nigerians. NNPC, NNPL, Oil marketers, market regulators would all be looked into
If that’s the measure he’s taking then it should start by removing the GMD and board of NNPC. Inject new blood into the system and allow them build up a system. Not allowing the same fraudulent persons to manage the system that they seek to change.
yarimo: by massive rigging, bago was just lucky KANTIGE of PDP is an elder stateman who wants peace. Even chanchaga lga that bago once represents is now represented by Mallam cashier of PDP
I was surprised also on his winning. What about Nasco, is he still in the state?
Zxcvbnmghtr: So what difference will it make apologizing? Some people just like making unnecessary noise. Almost 95% of Nigerians were against the removal of the subsidy in 2012 simply because we did not trust the government of the day.
Omihanifa: Azman petroleum should forever be grateful to president buhari because they guy really helped him. Buhari gave this guy and AYM SHAFA crude lifting contract. Since them his fortune increased. From AZMAN AIR, AZMAN FARMS now AZMAN UNIVERSITY
Wow no wonder AYM shafa just de build filling stations everywhere.
Seb4luv1: For those of you who think all Pastors are scammers because their prophecies about the presidential election failed, listen to this YouTube video, There are still prophets who speak the mind of God. Prophet Frank gave the exact result as Apc will come first, Pdp second, and Labour Third. Rejoice Nigerians, for Tinubu regime will transform the economy six months after his swearing-in. A way that will amaze everyone.
Again, he said the mind of God, the governor of River State will be decorated by his opposition party, and that appointment will lead to a major job creation for the niger delta but we should pray for his health.
Apst Osayi Arome, Prophet Janfar among others saw it and said it. It’s not a shock to those who follow where light resides.
Dsalvo: Please stop talking like a defender of criminality. Yes Matawalle may have his own case to answer but this does not mean he cannot give his opinion on Emefiele's actions which are a monumental disgrace I don't think has been seen anywhere in the world in recent memory.
Emefiele undermined the integrity of the entire monetary system of Nigeria. Do you understand what that means and how seriously such is taken worldwide?
No greater crime than that at national level because any country with a rogue central bank and saboteur central bank Governor is doomed to implode 100%.
Emefiele, working for very selfish and irresponsible people, supervised the monumental loss of value of Naira against the major trading currencies of the world destroying so many small to medium businesses to the unspeakable detriment of Nigeria.
Creating SMEs, small to medium size enterprises, is always the aim of most nations because they are the lifeblood of the economies of many developed Countries. Emefiele directly worked to kill and frustrate our own SME sector. He is an evil and thoughtless rogue without any conscience or goodness in him.
Emefiele must be punished and seen to be punished very severely. It is a measure of how bigoted and casually criminal Nigerians have become that even one Nigerian can defend Emefiele never mind many who will begin senseless 'whataboutism' over his unforgiveable actions as you are doing here.
Never forget Emefiele's criminal actions put an entire nation in serious and grave trouble. Not one State alone.
How do you absolve Buhari of all you have accused Emefiele? All this was said against Ngozi Okonjo Iweala that Buhari will do her hell on earth but what happened? Nothing will happen to Emefiele, as he probably acted on the approval of Mr President.
Please i put up this post basically because of my elder brother. I sincerely want to know if i was wrong talking to him, or I could have just let him be. I wasn't myself ever since i talked to him, and i was somewhat having guilty conscience since then.
I have an elder brother, he's 38 years old and also the first son. I am the fourth child in the family of five. The second child is a female and she's married. We lost our third child, that's my immediate elder brother some years back, while i have a younger brother. I came from a humble background. Lost my dad while i was in JS 3, even before his death we had been hustling on a daily basis for survival, and we live happily as one big family. My mother, siblings and i do hawk daily before we could eat. All thanks to public school in Lagos, my family wouldn't have had the opportunity to basic education. We hawk daily after school, weekdays and weekend. My family was bred and brought up in Ajegunle.
Few years after the demise of my father, we struggled to pay house rent. We had to leave Ajegunle to a local and developing area. I didn't allow my family conditions deter or weigh me down. Never! I believe I'd make it in life legitimately without venturing into crime, fraud, theft etc. After my secondary school, i was into all sorts of labour work. I worked in factory, building site, cleared bushes, laundry man , just to save up and further my education. I worked for 6 years after my secondary school, bought a bike from the little savings i had and proceed to school through jamb. I gave the bike to someone who often deliver #6,000 weekly for the upkeep of my family. I was in year 2 when i let go of the bike, it was on a higher purchase and the agreement we have had elapsed. I hustled my way through school and graduated. I'm done with service last year but couldn't land a job, probably due to my age. I'd be 29 this year and most graduate trainee often request for age below 28. Although, i had a 2.1. I'm only managing in a pure water factory to make ends meet, keep soul and body together and support my family
I sat my elder brother down and talked to him. He has been hustling like every other person in the family but i don't understand what's happening. He didn't futher his education nor learn a handwork. He's 38 but still live under his parents roof. He has been doing conductor work for many years. The family had talked to him several times to look for something else. It's fine you are hustling as a man for survival but doing conductor for many years without thinking of what else to do is wrong. A family friend of ours who later got to know what he does for a living had advice him also.
The bus he was following, the driver had misunderstanding with the owner and he collected his bus back. My elder brother had been idle for months, doing nothing. He claimed he has gone virtually everywhere in search of bus he could be working with but couldn't get any. This is a family that we all had to bring something no matter how little to survive. I was talking to him as a younger brother. I asked him why didn't he heed to people's advice when they were advising him then to stop the conductor work and look for something to learn, if perhaps he doesn't want to further his education? He doesn't believe in Nigeria education, because he could count graduates without job or those with petty job. My elder brother wear almost rag as clothes. I had to give him some of my little wears I'm managing. He has just one slippers. We don't wear same size of shoe or sandals, we could have been sharing that also. He sold his phone to feed sometime ago and had been without phone. I was initially saving to get my mum a small phone but i had to give him the phone instead.
He was crying when i was talking to him. I understand the situation of things in the country, which i myself is going through. I was just trying to know what other things he could come up with. I am not happy seeing him sitting idle doing nothing. The fact that he's the first son and found himself in this condition at that age breaks my heart daily. My mum had been so worried about his condition. I had to convince her that things will be better. I don't want her to develop high Blood Pressure that could lead to her untimely death.
Please guys was i wrong talking to my elder brother?
What he needs is deliverance. There’re battles contending against him. Just address the spiritual and watch things change completely.
Blankstare: Regardless of their workload, the conpss salary scheme is the most satanic salary structure you can ever imagine. Tell me how much workload an average NNPC staff does that the ministry staff doesnt... and entry NNPC is about 300k, ministry staff 56k. If this is not government deliberate corruption, what do we call it?
I’m not against the salary increase, just not happy with nomenclature of peculiar allowance and the excuse that it was done because of economic hardship. They would have just said salary regularisation or something that means balance the salary structure.
seunmsg: A lot of government workers are underpaid quite alright but some are worse than the others. A graduate who is employed as an ASP II in the police force will receive about N120k net every month while a graduate recruited into the civil service on CONPSS grade level 8 step 2 will get a net of about N58k monthly before the increment. With this increment, he will still go home with about N85k way below what his equivalent in the police is getting.
Do they do the same work? Why not say NNPC or FIRS staff should also be paid the same with lecturers or even the conpss. There’s no place in the world where there is equal pay because there are differences in job requirements. Is the current economic hardship not faced by all? This selective system is just another wicked angle of this evil government.
Difrent: Yes they could have those things because they dont waste billions on petrol subsidy....they instead have effective transport system thats affordable. The moment we stop petrol subsidy, some of these things will become achievable
Lies. You guys should stop this talk please. Do we have people with conscience in government? Do we? You are only looking for more funds to steal
ravensckar: Mr. OP, first of all, I sympathize with you on what you're going through in your marriage. May the Almighty God take absolute control.
Secondly, what you mentioned that your wife is doing to you is typical of most Nigerian women. Withholding sex, not cooking or showing you attention. It's their oldest control mechanism to keep their man in check. It's just that your wife took hers too far. Funny enough, there's not a single man in Nigeria whose wife didn't use these tactics on him, the smart ones always turn the tables and the weak ones always succumb. Kindly spend more time with your dad (if he's still around) or some of your guys who are married let them give you the OT.
My advice for you is simple; find your wife's thumbscrew and use it to counter attack (turn the table). I'll tell you a short story, hopefully, you can learn a thing or two from it. My wife for example, when she started her own 'kolomental' back then. She won't cook, she won't clean the house, she won't give her best during sex. It's always one complain or another. The most painful part of it was the food, every other thing I can bear. I sat her down and spoke to her, nothing changed. I sometimes don't eat at home just to express my displeasure. She didn't bulge, rather, she mocked me and told me that I'll die of hunger. I reported to her parents, nothing changed.
Then, I spoke to my dad about it and he gave me the OT. I started chatting and receiving calls from one particular number. I began to spend quality time outside my house, she still didn't bulge. I took it to another level by subtly making her friends and family members become aware of my new lifestyle. Fear catch Hanty and she quickly surrendered. It was that moment I found her thumbscrew; my wife is very particular about other people's perception of her marriage. She hates to give others the impression that her marriage is going through something. She's that type of lady who doesn't want her friends, family or even the neighbours to ever think that her husband doesn't love her dearly. That was it, I found her thumbscrew and the dick measuring contest was won by me!
Since then, I now know what drives her, what motivates her and what unsettles her. For example, if I want her to knack very well. I'll stop over at her shop on my way back from work, buy her chop chop and we'll both be eating it outside. Gist with her outside, help her sell her stuff and be doing touch & do. You can be sure that night ehn, she will finish me on the bed. And in the same way, if she offends me and I want to treat her Bleep up, I'll just stop over at her shop with a frown on my face or attitude. Instantly, Hanty will start to dey beg.
In summary, every woman has a thumbscrew. Your job as a man is to figure out your wife's thumbscrew and use it to the fullest. If you do that, you'll change the dynamics. And in seduction, he who has the initiative has the power. You need to take that initiative!
PS- marriage, business, sports, & politics are ARTS. To succeed at it, one must learn the intricacies.
Based on what you have said and the fact he stated that the wife adjust herself in the presence of her family members, it then means that’s hers also.
Guyman01: Both LP and PDP candidates are Christians from the same zone but I think that they would have used the LP platform since Peter Obi won Nasarawa with a good margin in the presidential election even without BVAS transmission