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Illegal1:
omoh........table dn finally turn,dis time nah man knack woman to death...no be only women go dey kill our comrade with knacking..

you're a BAD boy

IconicR:
They should stop all these please, it's too early. Asiwaju should just increase minimum wage and distribute palliatives. He should not fail me please because I will have no option than to leave Nairaland after all I've said here 😂 , my enemies will not let me rest here over Asiwaju especially that craddock boy.

you're funny bro

[quote author=jeromestarks Your response is too harsh bro
May God forgive you
post=124751459]Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.[/quote]

IdiotOjukwu:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/muric-director-prof-akintola-retires-from-lasu-after-39-years/amp/

Educated illiterate

Reminderz:
if your wife doesn't listen to you, then she doesn't respect you... if your wife goes against your orders, then she doesn't regard you...

then what should you do especially when kids are involved? the solution is simple, if you don't want to divorce her due to the fact that kids are already involved, then get a second wife... if she doesn't change the way she acts after several attempts and warnings from you to get her back on track, if she doesn't do her responsibilities as your wife, then cease your responsibilities on her also and pay her less attention...

get a second wife and shift your focus.. your life is already filled with struggles as a man, do not let a woman whom you're feeding, clothing and sheltering give you HBP...

besides, you said she lost her parents at a young age, so maybe she has become "masculine" by trying to survive the situation she was in, so she doesn't see you as man enough to take orders from, it's either she sees you as weak or someone inferior to her to be respected... this is one of the issues a woman who wasn't raised in a stable environment or raised by a single parent mostly face.. you might not be able to change it... if you act weak and not masculine enough for her, she won't see you as someone worthy to be followed or respected...

you're right bro,the same thing in facing,my woman didn't respect me ,despite all my trying and been responsible

Sincerely she's a loving woman to me to the best if my knowledge,though there might be some misunderstanding,which is normal,yes her response when I challenged her was that,she do that because of her kids, because she knows that I do carry girls,and unfortunately if one get pregnant for me,I might decided that I'll marry two wives or maybe I decided to bring in another woman tomorrow and she'll be maltreating our kids .she said that she don't wanted to labour in vain, because she also advices me to buy land then when I have money with me ,but I didn't listened to her,though she lemme to know about this land when I have financial issue,so she confessed to me that she have a land and we should sell it,so I can use it to start a business.but now as things getting better,she still introduce me to another land,we going to pay for that within 12 months,we both just started paying for it,but my. Question now is that since she know that I'm now a changed person,that I'm no more womanizing,why did she still continue to buy the second land in her father's name and not my own surname ?

Does her father have a personal house?
Did she previously ask you to build a house for her parents and you refused?
Do you have issues of money with her?
Is trust missing in your marriage?
What kind of company does she keep?
Is your family harsh to her?
Does she feel insecure in the marriage?

Ask very valid questions to ascertain her reason. Check your conscience too

If she has no value reason, then know that your wife has horrible ideas.[/quote]

Please I need help on this issue.
My wife that we've been together for 13 years with 4 kids bought a landed property in her father's name,though I know that she achieved this thru all the money she saved from me .
Is it right or not,please wise people I needed someone to shed light on this .