₦airaland Forum

Whitecoal711:
He should bring his family back to naija,so they come and enjoy the reserve and economy with us
Radarada

angelboy01:
Omoh OG you too get brain. My ex been won run me this thing. When I went to her school they didn't allow me. Thank God ogba been dey my head. I take am to court straight and dem warn am if she tries it again na straight to jail. Naso she calm since. The man sef too gentle for my eyes.

dominique:
Imagine if the mother had not died and one of these children become a famous celebrity and wants nothing to do with him. He will go and start granting interviews and crying to the cameras that his children are avoiding him. How can you be alive and chose not to be actively involved in your children's lives?

All this talk about their mother blocking him from seeing them are bloody lies and utter balderdash. Did she lock them up in a vacuum chamber and made them inaccessible? You're in the same country for goodness sakes, why not take her to court if truly she was preventing you from seeing them?

She's dead now, you know she can't defend herself, you now want to use the same lame excuse men have been using for decades for refusing to be in their children's lives. Kolewerk!

Mikocake:
I’m having the feeling that Op feels the husband deprived her of her youthful life by marrying her off @22, but my sister let me tell you the truth, nothing dey street oo. I don’t know who might be advising or influencing you to feel inadequate in your marriage but there are no perfect marriage anywhere. I’ve seen cases like this and the women always turn bitter after leaving their husbands because they realize there’s no love in the street. Don’t leave your home to turn sidechick to someone’s else husband oo. All the problems you listed about your husband can be worked on. I think his inability in bed can be attributed to his habit of drinking alcohol which when cut out or reduced, will get better. If his father is still alive, talk to him about the situation or a male figure that he respects. And remember, please don’t cheat on him cuz once you do, kiss your marriage goodbye. Men who don’t cheat hardly forgive cheating oo

BodyCount:
Good.
Stop gathering BODYCOUNT like clothes you buy!!!
Many girls here never reach 25, but their BODYCOUNT don pass 25!!
Later, una go dey find god-fearing man yo settle down with, SOMETHING YOU DON'T DESERVE.

Haydens:
Best decision I made is to end any friendship I have with anybody immediately me or the person leaves what brought us together maybe in the university, school, nysc, business e. T.c provided that I'm not going to see you for the period of 1 year I have nothing to do with you again. I won't even call the person and if the person calls I won't pick his or her call because he's already a history to me.

Life moves on fast than having friends and be deceiving myself.

Lalami3232:
If to say Nigeria na county wey get head, this na very good time to take the bandits unaware and get them at their vulnerable moments. But you won't see that happen, rather we go dey completely depend on USA to always come to our aid. Next year, you go see these bunch of incompetent leaders dey allocate billions of naira for weapons and whereas nothing positive go come out. Oga your parents don already make the mistake of borning you for this country without any alternative, don't make that same mistake by giving birth to your child without an alternative passport of a sane country. Laslas, Nigeria would be fine again but the question is WHEN WOULD THAT BE?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/terrorists-relocate-after-us-air-strikes

Jennyclay:
Splash and milkose are my favorite

Solofresh2:
Most people are not vigilant at all
If I ever find myself with a sex worker (stranger) I can never sleep with my two eyes closed
I hardly sleep with friends comfortably talk less of a stranger to the point of stabbing me
It will never happen
Well she should be sentenced to death by stabbing

osuofia2:
Annie is not better than Natasha, He Tuface is unlucky with women. All the women in his life wants to possess and control him. I feel bad for him, he is too innocent for all the women coming his ways

Negroid001:
Thogan Hazard and Eden Hazard
Raphinha and Thiago Alcantara
Pogba brothers
Bellingham Brothers
Ferdinand brothers
Fabio and Raphael
Ayew Brothers
Inaki and Nico Williams
Fillipo and Simone Inzaghi
Donnarumma brothers

Winterhaven:
I think you have social anxiety disorder. (SAD).

alphonsojaybaz money don go:
Family releases 6-day burial rites for Wigwe, wife, son who died in air crash



https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/02/28/family-releases-6-day-burial-rites-for-wigwe-wife-son-who-died-in-air-crash/

MisterBanny:
I always kept wondering about this. I have seen many homes break as a result of marrying a woman who despises her In-laws, and treats them with levity and disdain, yet claims to love her husband genuinely.
A once happy family could be in total disarray immediately some women get into that family.
Personally, I think if u love your husband, such love should be extended to every member of his nuclear and extended family members and same goes to the Man. I believe that genuine LOVE is infectious and contagious. I have seen a lot happening In today's marriages that I'm already scared of getting married. People can pretend throughout the dating and courting period, but immediately after the wedding, the beast and monster in them begin to Manifest. It's scary.

Almost all married woman are guilty of this. But the men almost do not have any issue with Loving their wive's families.
It even gets to the ugly point that, the wife makes a decree that no member of the man's family must ever visit them to stay for more than a day or two.

spirul77:
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Taylor90:
You dey whine my handsome amiable president?

Is my T-Boy a joke to you?

My Economy Squanderer president wey dey use white substance brush teeth every morning

The only human wey him dentition dey spoil teeth whitening machine

My president that refused to patronize toothpaste rather opted for Nigerian made charcoal to boost Naira

Illegal1:
omoh........table dn finally turn,dis time nah man knack woman to death...no be only women go dey kill our comrade with knacking..

IconicR:
They should stop all these please, it's too early. Asiwaju should just increase minimum wage and distribute palliatives. He should not fail me please because I will have no option than to leave Nairaland after all I've said here 😂 , my enemies will not let me rest here over Asiwaju especially that craddock boy.

jeromestarks Your response is too harsh bro
May God forgive you
post=124751459:
Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.

IdiotOjukwu:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/muric-director-prof-akintola-retires-from-lasu-after-39-years/amp/

Reminderz:
if your wife doesn't listen to you, then she doesn't respect you... if your wife goes against your orders, then she doesn't regard you...

then what should you do especially when kids are involved? the solution is simple, if you don't want to divorce her due to the fact that kids are already involved, then get a second wife... if she doesn't change the way she acts after several attempts and warnings from you to get her back on track, if she doesn't do her responsibilities as your wife, then cease your responsibilities on her also and pay her less attention...

get a second wife and shift your focus.. your life is already filled with struggles as a man, do not let a woman whom you're feeding, clothing and sheltering give you HBP...

besides, you said she lost her parents at a young age, so maybe she has become "masculine" by trying to survive the situation she was in, so she doesn't see you as man enough to take orders from, it's either she sees you as weak or someone inferior to her to be respected... this is one of the issues a woman who wasn't raised in a stable environment or raised by a single parent mostly face.. you might not be able to change it... if you act weak and not masculine enough for her, she won't see you as someone worthy to be followed or respected...