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PhonesRe: Help Please: How Can I Retrieve My Powerbank. by REALretep(m): 2:51pm On Jan 01
You should have immediately complained to the bank manager
Car TalkRe: FRSC!!! There Is No Such Thing As A Lexus Jeep by REALretep(m): 7:56am On Dec 30, 2025
janfeeson:
FRSC Making a statement on the unfortunate accident involving Anthony Joshua mentioned a "Lexus Jeep". This is been mentioned verbatim in the international media. It is a Lexus SUV or SCV, not a Jeep. Jeep and Lexus are two different car manufacturers.
You just exposed your ignorance...both you and the mod that moved this to front page
You think you are brighter than the international media that broadcasted this.
A simple Google search or dictionary check would have helped you
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Tunisia: AFCON 2025 (3 - 2) On 27th December 2025 by REALretep(m): 7:14am On Dec 28, 2025
StoryHaven:
I just kept telling myself its just a game. And even saying the world won't end if we lost. Just to calm myself.
Football get one kain spirit wey de follow am
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Tunisia: AFCON 2025 (3 - 2) On 27th December 2025 by REALretep(m): 11:14pm On Dec 27, 2025
My heart was pounding after the penalty goal
Kaiiii...I thought I had overgrown this 🤦
BusinessRe: How A Nigerian Is Defrauding Others On Crypto P2P Platform, Bybit! by REALretep(m): 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2025
yesloaded:
never accept transfer from anyhow account except the registered name

report to bybit as well

you can as well teach the guy bitter lesson if you wan go extra mile
Bybit may likely not do anything because he didn't heed their warning not to accept payment from any account bearing another name.
There is a reason for that clause
FamilyRe: Interfaith Marriage Crisis: Family Pressure And Wedding Options by REALretep(m): 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2025
olayinkabank:
Please Nairalanders, I need your sincere advice. I am confused.
I have been a member of this great platform since 2010 when I was in secondary school (SS2), but this is the first time I am seeking advice here. I was quite active and popular on the platform from 2010 to 2014, especially in the sports, politics, and education sections though I just created this new account today.
I am currently engaged to a lady. We have done the introduction—both families have met, and we have collected the marriage list. The wedding is planned for late March next year.
My fiancée is a Christian and from the Igbira tribe, although she understands Yoruba more than Igbira. All her siblings are married to Yoruba spouses. I am a Yoruba man and a Muslim by background.
Initially, her family strongly objected to the marriage because of religious differences. However, after much persuasion—and after my fiancée threatened to harm herself if she was not allowed to marry me—her extended family members who are Muslims intervened, and the family reluctantly agreed.
On my own side, my mother also objected at first. She dislikes my fiancée because there are rumors that her elder sister did money ritual. After much pleading, my mother later accepted the marriage.
For context, my fiancée’s parents were originally Muslims but converted to Christianity before they died.
The main issue now is that my fiancée’s siblings, especially the elder ones, are insisting that we must do either a church wedding or a court wedding. They say a traditional wedding alone is not acceptable.
As for me, I work with a financial institution and was converted to professional staff last year. I also run a football viewing center and a betting shop. My fiancée just finished her tailoring apprenticeship (freedom). She is a graduate but currently unemployed, and I am planning to open a tailoring shop for her.
Because I am the one providing almost everything financially, I feel a court wedding may not favor me in the long run. At the same time, my parents will never accept a church wedding, especially since my father is the head of a local Asalatu group.
Please note: I am not a religious person. I consider myself agnostic—I believe in a Supreme Being but not in Christianity or Islam. However, neither my family nor my fiancée knows this, because they would likely see me as evil or someone possessed.
My fiancée has agreed to convert to Islam after the wedding, which makes my family happy. Personally, I don’t really care about that because I believe more in humanity than religion.
Now I am confused and stuck between:
Her family insisting on church or court wedding
My parents rejecting church wedding
My own fears about court marriage
Religious pressure from both sides
Please, I need honest and mature advice from Nairalanders. What is the best way forward in this situation? especially to those who have done interfaith wedding before or in an interfaith relationship?
Have you and your fiancée discussed these your fears about court marriage?
If both of you are on the same page on these matters, it will be difficult for any other person to succeed in preventing the union
Foreign AffairsRe: UK Manchester Police Foil ISIS Plan To Kill Many Jews & "Bonus" Christians by REALretep(m): 6:19pm On Dec 26, 2025
Islamic extremism is an ideology...a belief system...and thus cannot be eradicated.
Constant surveillance to identify and eliminate them is the key to bring it to the barest minimum
RomanceRe: Dear Men, The Double Standards Are Real by REALretep(m): 5:31pm On Dec 23, 2025
Yeeh
Blunt but true
PoliticsRe: Dangote Threatens Kaduna Businessman, Kailani Mohammed With ₦100 Billion Lawsuit by REALretep(m): 10:01am On Dec 23, 2025
We all shaa know that Dangote is king of monopoly

He fights with his last breath to bring competitors to their knees
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Soldiers Released From Burkina Faso Arrive In Ghana by REALretep(m): 9:11am On Dec 20, 2025
This government and misinformation na 5 and 6
PoliticsRe: Bandits, Armed Groups, Militias, Political Enablers Now Terrorists – Tinubu by REALretep(m): 9:37pm On Dec 19, 2025
The fear of Trump

The Trump effect
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PoliticsRe: I Am Confident State Police Will Be Created To Improve Security - Tinubu by REALretep(m): 5:21pm On Dec 19, 2025
Pootle:
english teacher something must drive the actions of man, be it trump or nigerians my boss your president acted shikena
Good Good
Your comprehension is now good.
This is a better response
CareerRe: How Do I Handle A Toxic Workplace I Caused Myself by REALretep(m): 5:16pm On Dec 19, 2025
Thisisa:
Well I cause this myself

I trusted this set of people now they turn against me
Which mod moved this to front page. There's no story here na


Seun coman c oo
PoliticsRe: I Am Confident State Police Will Be Created To Improve Security - Tinubu by REALretep(m): 4:47pm On Dec 19, 2025
Pootle:
whichever way you put it he acted and if he did not we all will still complain. so in main time we should logical with our criticism
It appears you have difficulty comprehending English cos you just went off-point

The pressure from Trump is obvious on your boss
PoliticsRe: I Am Confident State Police Will Be Created To Improve Security - Tinubu by REALretep(m): 2:32pm On Dec 19, 2025
Pootle:
apart from hate tinubu is doing what the past presidents shy away from.

am not his fan but a fitter him may have done better than what we getting now, but the little we have seen so far apart from saboteurs left and right the country could have gone places
Tinubu no send you and your state police
He's only doing this to avoid Trump wahala.
PoliticsRe: NDDC: Court Orders FG To Publish Forensic Audit, Grants Agency Independence by REALretep(m): 8:20am On Dec 17, 2025
Judgement given after almost 4 years

I wonder when Nigerian Judiciary will start giving timely judgement
PoliticsRe: Why Captain Ibrahim Traoré Is Playing With Fire By Detaining Nigerian Soldiers by REALretep(m): 11:53am On Dec 14, 2025
Ahhh...no more 40 characters
PoliticsRe: Why Captain Ibrahim Traoré Is Playing With Fire By Detaining Nigerian Soldiers by REALretep(m): 11:53am On Dec 14, 2025
Nigeria is the aggressor here.
You can't send your military to violate the airspace and land in a country you are having diplomatic issues with and then claim emergency landing.
I don't believe this emergency landing crap.
Both aircraft and personnel are definitely going to be grounded for a long time unless Nigeria plays top-notch diplomacy. Military intervention is not an option
BusinessRe: CAC Mandates POS Registration By January 1, 2026 by REALretep(m): 2:21pm On Dec 09, 2025
Shouldn't this be a matter that CBN can easily enforce instead of CAC carrying the matter on their head
PoliticsRe: Wike’s Wife In Trouble Over Undeclared U.S. Citizenship, Florida Properties by REALretep(m): 9:22am On Oct 22, 2025
Wike's dynasty on the verge of crumbling.
It's almost impossible for him to escape this... especially with the petitioning in the US
CelebritiesRe: Drap Tap Visits Charles Okocha In The Philippines, Gifts $20,000 And Luxury Wine by REALretep(m): 2:54pm On Oct 02, 2025
[color=indigo]Showbiz and Entertainment
If you know you know...
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My characters don finish
Christianity EtcRe: Righteousness Speaks By Pastor Chris by REALretep(m): 11:37am On Sep 28, 2025
[color=indigo]You will keep struggling as a Christian to keep God's commands until you realize you can't do that by your own power. You must continually and sincerely go down on your knees, telling God you can't keep up and asking for his help.

YOUR DESIRE TO SEEK GOD'S KINGDOM MUST SURPASS EVERY OTHER DESIRE
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Foreign AffairsRe: Macron calls Trump after Presidential motorcade blocks streets, walks to embassy by REALretep(m): 11:52am On Sep 24, 2025
boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMdiHpJyTAo

French President Emmanuel Macron experienced an unusual moment in New York when police blocked his movement to allow former U.S. President Donald Trump’s motorcade to pass.

The incident forced Macron to walk to the French Embassy, drawing attention from onlookers and sparking reactions online.
I don't understand why the press refer to Donald Trump as former US President.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Issues An Ultimatum For NATO Countries On Russian Sanctions by REALretep(m): 8:02am On Sep 15, 2025
Can Trump succeed in emasculating Russia?


5 more characters needed
PoliticsRe: We Met our yearly revenue target In August, Let Trump Do His Worst - Tinubu by REALretep(m): 8:05am On Sep 03, 2025
This man has been fully deceived by his lieutenants just like during the time of Buhari.
Stable economy indeed.
You are taxing life out of your citizens and you are bragging about it when unemployment rate and inflation have skyrocketed.
Smh
PoliticsRe: FG Admits Financial Crisis In Foreign Missions, Pledges Reforms by REALretep(m): 7:12am On Sep 02, 2025
I'm waiting for the government/APC lapdogs to come and defend this one
EducationRe: Looming Crisis In Universities: Professors Earn ₦633,333, Senators '₦21 Million' by REALretep(m): 6:53am On Sep 02, 2025
DMerciful:
Thats a shortsighted way to resolve a problem. All the eating of one election cannot satisfy the hunger of tomorrow
Keep deceiving yourself sir as you downplay the truth.
Congratulations to you
EducationRe: Looming Crisis In Universities: Professors Earn ₦633,333, Senators '₦21 Million' by REALretep(m): 8:00pm On Aug 31, 2025
DMerciful:
University professors rig elections for politicians then turn around to complain!

Action and consequence are equal and opposite
I think you should think of it this way:
University Professors are impoverished by politicians and are then paid hugely by the politicians to rig elections
HealthRe: My Wife's Serious Fertility Issue Is Affecting My Mental Health by REALretep(m): 2:12pm On Aug 13, 2025
Ketamine9000mg:
Follow Dawnomike's comment above.

There are actually worst cases of infertility than yours. With the right steps, this can be addressed. Imagine if it were to be severe case of PCOS or non obstructive azoospermia(no sperm cells), it would have been a different ball game.

Please and please, don't go into traditional medicine. You will waste your time,money and probably expose your wife to harm. They usual preach things like delivering fibroid without surgery or making it to shrink with herbs, na scam.

All will be well brother.
I don't know what you mean by traditional medicine or your experiences in that regard but I know a woman whose fibroid was shrunk with some herbal remedies and she was able to conceive and give birth
LiteratureRe: A Knock In The Night by REALretep(m): 10:18am On Jul 23, 2025
merits:
Yes she should have kept it to herself.
[color=indigo]Lol. You think it's easy to bear the weight of such secret alone

Intriguing storyline...
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RomanceRe: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by REALretep(m): 3:25pm On Jul 10, 2025
Xso666:
Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.

Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.

Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.

Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.

So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.

So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.

Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.

Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.

Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused.
[color=indigo]If this story is true and you are still confused about letting her people know about her disgraceful conduct, then I don't think you are ready to face life head-on. Maybe you too are guilty of cheating hence you are treating this matter with kid gloves
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PhonesRe: TikTok Building New Version Of App Ahead Of Expected US Sale by REALretep(m): 8:13pm On Jul 09, 2025
Unbiased1:
Most of you are really uninformed. If Tiktok is banned in the US, the ban applies to all App Stores. You will no longer see Tiktok on Play Store or App store irrespective of your country of residence and you will need to download the US version of Tiktok.
[color=indigo] This is not true.

Each country regulates her cyberspace.
US does not regulate other countries' cyberspaces... It's illegal.

Tiktok ban in the US will only apply to the US including its presence in App Stores and Play Store in the US. It will still remain active in other countries unless US uses political pressures to coerce other countries to ban the app
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