Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Issues An Ultimatum For NATO Countries On Russian Sanctions by REALretep(m): 8:02am On Sep 15, 2025 |
Can Trump succeed in emasculating Russia?
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Politics › Re: We Met our yearly revenue target In August, Let Trump Do His Worst - Tinubu by REALretep(m): 8:05am On Sep 03, 2025 |
This man has been fully deceived by his lieutenants just like during the time of Buhari. Stable economy indeed. You are taxing life out of your citizens and you are bragging about it when unemployment rate and inflation have skyrocketed. Smh |
Politics › Re: FG Admits Financial Crisis In Foreign Missions, Pledges Reforms by REALretep(m): 7:12am On Sep 02, 2025 |
I'm waiting for the government/APC lapdogs to come and defend this one |
Education › Re: Looming Crisis In Universities: Professors Earn ₦633,333, Senators '₦21 Million' by REALretep(m): 6:53am On Sep 02, 2025 |
DMerciful: Thats a shortsighted way to resolve a problem. All the eating of one election cannot satisfy the hunger of tomorrow Keep deceiving yourself sir as you downplay the truth. Congratulations to you |
Education › Re: Looming Crisis In Universities: Professors Earn ₦633,333, Senators '₦21 Million' by REALretep(m): 8:00pm On Aug 31, 2025 |
DMerciful: University professors rig elections for politicians then turn around to complain!
Action and consequence are equal and opposite I think you should think of it this way: University Professors are impoverished by politicians and are then paid hugely by the politicians to rig elections |
Health › Re: My Wife's Serious Fertility Issue Is Affecting My Mental Health by REALretep(m): 2:12pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Ketamine9000mg: Follow Dawnomike's comment above.
There are actually worst cases of infertility than yours. With the right steps, this can be addressed. Imagine if it were to be severe case of PCOS or non obstructive azoospermia(no sperm cells), it would have been a different ball game.
Please and please, don't go into traditional medicine. You will waste your time,money and probably expose your wife to harm. They usual preach things like delivering fibroid without surgery or making it to shrink with herbs, na scam.
All will be well brother. I don't know what you mean by traditional medicine or your experiences in that regard but I know a woman whose fibroid was shrunk with some herbal remedies and she was able to conceive and give birth |
Literature › Re: A Knock In The Night by REALretep(m): 10:18am On Jul 23, 2025 |
merits: Yes she should have kept it to herself. [color=indigo] Lol. You think it's easy to bear the weight of such secret alone
Intriguing storyline... [/color] 2 Likes |
Romance › Re: My Virgin Wife Now Something Else by REALretep(m): 3:25pm On Jul 10, 2025 |
Xso666: Hello nairalanders, I am new to this forum and I was introduced by a friend of mine to this forum to seek advice on how to go about my marital issue.
Here is the problem, I married my wife a virgin and as at that time she was almost done with schooling as I met her when I went to stay with a friend around her school area. So we connected and then I told her I had interest in her and I would like for us to be in a relationship so she agreed and we started dating.
Fast forward to 2024 she was done with school so I went to pay her bride price and then brought her over to Lagos where I stay and then we started living together as husband and wife.
Everything has been moving fine after I disvirgined my wife and I felt like I was the luckiest man on earth and I feel like I already made it in life because I believe as a man if you get a good wife then you have solved 80% of your problem the remaining 20% will be making money to sustain the family.
So of lately I notice my virgin wife became so addicted to sex that she barely can’t go a day without sex and I am ready to give it to her any day any time.
So I traveled for work sometimes around feb 2025 and I stayed 2 weeks over there so when I came back I decided to take a stroll with my wife to get something down the street so I noticed as I was getting something she greeted a guy that sells female stuffs in my street so immediately I turned to talk to her she quickly discharged the guy and then they both acted like they were not talking together well I was unbothered because I mean the guy is just a trader doing his business and maybe she bought something from him and so I suspected nothing. Not until I noticed my wife likes going out to get things and she would spend time outside and this is something she doesn’t like doing before so I thought she is getting used to the Lagos life and so she is enjoying herself now and comfortable now in Lagos. I never had any insecurities whatsoever because I don’t believe she could have anything to do with any man since I married her a virgin although I know she has high sexual drive but I still think she can’t do no such thing.
Fast forward to sometimes around June I traveled again but this time somewhere close to where I live so I told her I would be spending a week or more and so I left to work getting there we lodged and waiting for update as regards to why we are here so on the 3rd day the contractor called and said we should all go and come back that the job has been rescheduled till the next month so I decided to go back home that same day since it was not far from where I stay so I tried reaching out to my wife’s number but she wasn’t reachable so I thought her phone was off, so I boarded a bus home to relax and break the news to her only to find my house locked and my wife wasn’t home and her phone was not going through so I managed to open the door using my spare key and then went inside and took my shower then I went to the kitchen but there was no food to eat so I decided to prepare something for us to eat in the house. I tried reaching my wife again and still not reachable and it was getting late already so I was worried and was curious to know what happened to her because she’s not so conversant with areas in Lagos. So I decided to pray and take some wine while I wait to think of my next action.
Suddenly she messaged me and told me she has not been able to charge her phone and there have not been light in the house, so I asked her where she was and she told me she was in the house and then I told her to come on video call I want to show her something I got for her but she told me the ba3 will die that she managed to use this to call me so I know she’s fine well I told her there was no problem and she should do her to make sure the battery don’t die so we can communicate tonight. So I went outside the compound only for me to find my wife coming back that night with this guy that sells female stuffs down the street and she was so shocked to see me at home she shouted immediately saw me and the guy just disappeared from no where.
Till now I don’t just know what to do because I married this woman a virgin but she has turned something else and I don’t know if to tell her parents or handle this like a man within us here although she told me she didn’t do anything with him that he tried to have her but she didn’t but how do I believe that please guys help me move this to front page so I get more suggestions as I am really confused. [color=indigo] If this story is true and you are still confused about letting her people know about her disgraceful conduct, then I don't think you are ready to face life head-on. Maybe you too are guilty of cheating hence you are treating this matter with kid gloves [/color] |
Phones › Re: TikTok Building New Version Of App Ahead Of Expected US Sale by REALretep(m): 8:13pm On Jul 09, 2025 |
Unbiased1: Most of you are really uninformed. If Tiktok is banned in the US, the ban applies to all App Stores. You will no longer see Tiktok on Play Store or App store irrespective of your country of residence and you will need to download the US version of Tiktok. [color=indigo] This is not true.
Each country regulates her cyberspace. US does not regulate other countries' cyberspaces... It's illegal.
Tiktok ban in the US will only apply to the US including its presence in App Stores and Play Store in the US. It will still remain active in other countries unless US uses political pressures to coerce other countries to ban the app [/color] |
Phones › Re: TikTok Building New Version Of App Ahead Of Expected US Sale by REALretep(m): 12:22pm On Jul 08, 2025 |
Watcharena: if tiktok is sold to US Im deleting my account and all members of my house hold must do the same thing.
No more intellectual property rights or whatever it is ,US must not bully every one.
This is the little I can do [color=indigo] It's the tiktok version in use in the US that is billed for sale. Not the one you use here in Nigeria [/color] |
Politics › Re: Our Party Not For Sale: ADC Stakeholders Reject Aregbesola As Secretary by REALretep(m): 10:59am On Jul 02, 2025 |
[color=indigo]Tinubu is out to destroy anything opposition It wasn't this bad during Buhari's time to kill opposition [/color] |
Romance › Re: Secrets Men Should Never Share With Their Partners. (Photo) by REALretep(m): 2:03pm On Jun 30, 2025 |
[color=indigo] There's no one-size-fits-all rule in marriage.
What works for one can lead to doom in another. Marriage takes two to work out. Both partners must be committed. Find ye a spouse that both of you understand yourselves and you both want to build a family together [/color] |
Business › Re: Jeff Bezos weds Lauren Sanchez in star-studded Italian ceremony by REALretep(m): 10:43pm On Jun 28, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Congratulations to the couple I wish them a happy union [/color] |
Politics › Re: New Tax Laws: Side Hustles, Freelance Will Be Taxed by REALretep(m): 8:54am On Jun 27, 2025 |
[color=indigo]Laws are made and enforced only for the masses
40 characters indeed..... [/color] |
Politics › Re: This Is Not The First Time FCDA Is Building For INEC - Yakubu Clarifies (video) by REALretep(m): 9:17am On Jun 18, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Joke of a country
Typing at least 40 characters [/color] |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Issues Evacuation Warning For Israel's News Channels by REALretep(m): 11:34am On Jun 17, 2025 |
CJStarz: Wetin we go do nah? Tinubu mouth no reach d mata if not we for don send Shettima to mediate in d crisis [color=indigo] Na so nah We neva reach
This Typing at least 40 characters no funny  [/color] |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Issues Evacuation Warning For Israel's News Channels by REALretep(m): 12:25am On Jun 17, 2025 |
DIVINEEVIDENCE: What has the world done about the daily bloodbaths in Benue? [color=indigo] It's really pathetic... very awful 😭😭 We have heartless people leading us [/color] |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Issues Evacuation Warning For Israel's News Channels by REALretep(m): 8:35pm On Jun 16, 2025 |
[color=indigo]...and the world stands by and watch these two nations fight to the death [/color] |
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Romance › Re: I Need Your Advice, I Am Being Haunted By A Woman by REALretep(m): 4:33pm On Jun 07, 2025 |
Connected1: A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.
I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.
Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.
Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.
We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.
Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.
I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it. [color=indigo] First, you are not in a relationship currently which means you are available for any willing serious lady to shoot her shot.
I think you may be confused because if you were 100% certain you will have nothing to do with her, you wouldn't have accepted putting yourself in such a precarious position as a job with her brother. She will most likely stop at nothing to ensure she keeps you as her man.
So, the answer to your question lies with you. What do you actually want? If you know what you want, then you know what to do [/color] |
Travel › Re: Why Many Nigerians Still Face Visa Rejections Despite Meeting All Requirements by REALretep(m): 7:17pm On Jun 05, 2025 |
stacyadams: How can we fix the country when we have the likes of hellanus who defends failures and continue to adore failures  [color=indigo] They are paid by the politicians to defend them nah. They are only instructions, unfortunately. We still have a long way to go as a country [/color] |
Travel › Re: Why Many Nigerians Still Face Visa Rejections Despite Meeting All Requirements by REALretep(m): 8:53am On Jun 05, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Until we fix this country, we will keep being a joke to the rest of the world [/color] |
Politics › Re: Life Is Improving In Nigeria, Tinubu Says by REALretep(m): 7:50pm On May 29, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Impoverished...not improving [/color] |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Gets Buhari’s Praise, Advice At Midterm by REALretep(m): 8:08am On May 29, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Can anything good come out of APC [/color] |
Politics › Re: Reps Approve 10yr Security For Umar Audu Over Benin Republic Degree Scam Exposé by REALretep(m): 8:53am On May 21, 2025 |
[color=indigo]The lawmakers were elected to make laws. They should enact a law safeguarding investigative journalists if they are truly serious about this. Such resolutions, though commendable, are not binding on the security agencies [/color] |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump orders 100% tariff on all movies produced outside the US by REALretep(m): 12:02pm On May 05, 2025 |
[color=indigo]He will definitely backtrack on this in the coming days [/color] |
Politics › Re: Train Attack Victim Meets His Kidnaper At Kaduna Mosque by REALretep(m): 7:17am On May 02, 2025 |
[color=indigo]Truly, Government has a hand in this unending insurgency in the north [/color] |
Politics › Re: Putin Offers Nigeria Weapons, Expertise To Counter Insurgency by REALretep(m): 7:08am On May 02, 2025 |
[color=indigo]No be this same Russia de well weapons to insurgents and other people? This reminds me of those that create computer viruses and still produce the antivirus...all in a bid to make money [/color] |
Romance › Re: When You Cum, You Come To Your Senses by REALretep(m): 10:24pm On Apr 20, 2025 |
[color=indigo]In life, we learn in either of two ways...soft way or hard way [/color] |
Crime › Re: Kidnapper Of 12-year-old Girl In Rivers, Traced To Enugu Prison by REALretep(m): 5:15am On Apr 20, 2025 |
[color=indigo]We still have a loooooooong way to go as a country
Just imagine [/color] |
Crime › Re: 3 NDLEA Officers Shot During Raid On Abuja Building by REALretep(m): 4:11am On Apr 19, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Gunshot wounds in ribs and back suggest the officers wore no bullet-proof vest.
Nigerian government no de disappoint. They don chop the money meant to purchase protective gear for officers [/color] |
Politics › Re: Rivers Administrator Ibas Summons Governor Fubara, Deputy by REALretep(m): 9:57pm On Apr 15, 2025 |
[color=indigo] Nothing wey Musa no go see for gate [/color] |