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Morocco0:
Please help me before I commit suicide

Graduated from Uniport in 2016

I have served but till date no job

Please help me..
I'm ready to come for any job interview in Port Harcourt and prove my mettle

I'm a graduate of History and Diplomatic Studies

Never give up on yourself, bro. You'll get a job soon

Mod I think this should make the FP. People need to be made aware of the activities of these human butchers.

spinna:
Post traumatic stress. Where is the police? Busy harrassing youths and protecting politicians

The police are in Ekiti trying to help their overlords wrestle power from Fayose and PDP

meezynetwork:
And he is busy with wedding preparations when his son was almost killed

Shocking, really.

cbnileowo:
funkeeeeeee.... ayemi temi bami

Biko interpret

unmask:
This is crazy....I can't just imagine how ritualists sleep at night

Ritualists don't sleep. Calling them animals, would be doing animals a huge disservice.

Let me commence with a solemn declaration. I believe, without any doubt, that all humankind is created equal and in the image and likeness of God. No person is superior to the other by virtue of family background, race, ethnicity or gender. So today’s article has nothing to do with the superiority of the male child over the female child. There is no such thing, or maybe it exists in the imagination of some people due to prehistoric and archaic prejudices.

We need both sexes to perpetuate humanity, so both are equally important. Put these male chauvinists making noise about the supremacy of the male child in an island without women for one year and they will run mad. I am only writing today’s article because God has given us the freedom of choice and if anybody has challenges exercising that freedom positively and you are in a position to help, please do just that.

Last week’s article, “Nigeria’s exponential Population” did generate much reaction on my social media pages. But one of the reasons given by a respondent for the exploding population did catch my attention. He said some couples give birth to more children than they originally planned or can cater for because they are looking for the “almighty” male child. This does not make sense to me, but a man has the right to make legal choices that make him happy. I have written considerably on this subject and will not duel on it wholesome today, but I will concentrate on naturally determining the sex of your baby.


Naturally preselecting the sex of your baby is no rocket science; it is the simple biology we all learnt in secondary school. Maybe, we just take it a little further. So it is painful to see couples unfulfilled, sad or breed like rabbits because they are looking for either a son or daughter, son most of the time. Today, I am giving an abridged version of steps (previously addressed in my column) that you need to take to naturally preselect the sex of your baby with stunning accuracy.


First, we must remember or know that the male sperms carry either X or Y chromosomes, while the female eggs carry only the X chromosomes. The egg carrying the X chromosome and the sperm carrying Y chromosome produce a male child, while the egg carrying the X chromosome and the sperm carrying X chromosome produce a female child. So a man determines the sex of a baby. You can now see that many husbands are just blaming their wives for results that they are wholly responsible for.


The sperm carrying the Y chromosome swims faster, but has a shorter lifespan while the sperm carrying the X chromosome is slower, but has a longer lifespan. If you want a male child, intercourse should take place just before or during ovulation. The faster sperms carrying the Y chromosome would get to the egg and fertilise it before the sperms with X chromosome make their slow and steady journey there. And only one sperm can fertilise an egg. If, however, intercourse takes three days (sometimes two days) or more before ovulation, the result will likely be a girl. This is because all the faster sperms carrying the Y chromosomes with short lifespan would have died leaving the egg for the slower sperms carrying the X chromosomes with longer lifespan to fertilise.


The critical elements here are ovulation, which occurs when an egg or ovum is released from the ovary and usually lasts for about 12 to 24 hours, and timing of intercourse. Ovulation normally occurs between the 12th to 14th day of a woman’s 28-day cycle, but like most human phenomena, there are no absolute certainties and it varies from one woman to another. Even within the same woman, there are variations. Many women find this unpredictability challenging. Such women can engage in charting, that is daily recording of changes in the mucus discharge from the vagina that is related to ovulation, to enhance predictability.


Please note that how long the sperm lives in the body of your wife after intercourse is determined by a number of factors. One, the vaginal environment is very important. If it is alkaline, the sperm carrying the Y chromosome can survive up to three day, while the sperm carrying the X chromosome can survive for five or six days. But if the vaginal environment is acidic, it is less habitable for the X and Y sperms and they die much earlier. That is why knowing the day of ovulation is very essential to pre-selection of the sex of your baby, because if you do, the vaginal environment, friendly or hostile, becomes inconsequential.


The other important factor is the health of the husband’s sperms. Studies have shown that the sperms of men decline both in quality and quantity from age 40. It is earlier for smokers. Lifestyle and the type of food you eat also influence the quantity and quality of sperms and ability to impregnate your wife. In fact, the egg does not accept every sperm that comes its way. It is very selective and attracted more to healthy sperms. This can be a challenge for men with weak sperms or low sperm count when they want to impregnate their wives, according to research findings.

You also need some discipline and cooperation between spouses if you want to naturally pre-select the sex of your babies. For a start, pre-selection is easier when the woman is practising natural family planning as against the use of artificial contraceptives, because artificial contraceptives disrupt the cycle of women, stopping ovulation or making ovulation more unpredictable, and you do need some level of predictability in the ovulation cycle to naturally preselect the sex of your babies


In addition, the couple needs to stay off intercourse for at least five days before ovulation. This is to ensure that residue semen in the woman’s body does not interfere with her vaginal discharge and create confusion. There are a number of natural ways women know they are ovulating: the thick slimy vaginal discharge which is like phlegm (catarrh, as some refer to it), some women feel a sharp pain on the side or lower abdomen when the egg is released, heightened sense of smell, breast soreness or tenderness, increased sexual urge and change in body temperature. Just in case you are wondering why I write categorically on the efficacy of this method, I used it to preselect the sex of all my children, boys and girls accurately, so I know it is effective.

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/07/naturally-determining-the-sex-of-your-babies/

A 17 year-old Secondary Student in Bauchi, Salihu Yahaya, on Friday narrated how he narrowly escaped the ‘slaughter slab’ of ritual killers in Kano. Speaking to newsmen in Bauchi, the student said three weeks after the gory incident, he was yet to recover from the trauma. According to him, after he was captured and taken to an undisclosed location, he and 18 other victims were dressed in red cloth and numbered, just as the first 16 people were slaughtered in his presence. “I was in front of our house in Bauchi at about 12 noon on June 23rd when some two persons in a car stopped and enquired about a bakery very close to our house. “I was heading to the bakery house at that time so I volunteered to join them in the car and show them the place. “Immediately I entered, I was hypnotized and lost my senses, only to find myself in a compound some hours later, along with 18 others victims, all of us dressed in red material that had been numbered, and our heads completely shaved,” he said. Yahaya said at that point, the beheading of the victims began in the presence of all of them. “We were watching helplessly as a huge man came along with his other accomplices, tied the hands of the first victim, slaughtered him and preserved the gushing blood in a container. “I was number 18 in the queue and when the 16th person was beheaded, the slaughter-man said he was tired, and therefore directed that the three of us remaining be kept in a room till early morning the following day (June 23rd) for him to complete the exercise. “At that point, I wished I had my turn that day because the sight was too gruesome and the trauma was too much to bear,” he told newsmen. However, luck came their way when by 3am of the D-day, the hefty man mandated to keep watch over the three of them complained of headache and went in search of ‘panadol’, leaving the room they were kept, open. “The three of us decided to take the chance and rushed out, only to discover that the house was the only structure in a bush and had no perimeter fence. “We ran long distances in different directions, until I fell down unconscious, only to wake up later in the day to discover that I was in a police station in Kano. “The policemen, who were so nice to me, provided me with food and a place to take bath, after which they collected the telephone number of my brother in Bauchi, which I have, off-hand, and alerted him,” Yahaya further narrated. The student, who is still looking scared and had to be persuaded by his brothers to grant the interview to newsmen, said the room they were kept was full of human heads and bodies of those slaughtered ahead of them. “As I am talking to you now, I am still seeing the face of the slaughter man three weeks after the incident and the scene of the gory happening will remain in my memory for long,” he lamented. He said he had not been attending school since his return from Kano because of his state of mind. Dr Yahaya Yerima, father of the student, confirmed the incident, but could not grant newsmen an elaborate interview on the issue as he was busy preparing for the wedding of his daughter, slated for Saturday, July 14. NAN

Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/07/how-i-escaped-the-slaughter-slab-of-kano-ritual-killers-by-whiskers-bauchi-secondary-school-student/

Nice sarcasm there!

BanevsJoker:
Actually, she accepted it by faith. She was doing the Niger Delta a favour when she accepted the gift of an oil well. Corporal works of mercy.

Stinking wealth. Well, you can't blame her for taking the chance when it came. But she should stop making it seem like the oil well fell on her path as she walked to the market.

You're a thief

Typical Yoruba marriage.

He ought to be a pype, but has been rather fortunate so far in his career. I like the dude.

feodan:
Pls am in need of 30k, i promise to return it by ending of this month. Pls where or how can i be borrowed. I will return it be ending, i live in ibadan...
pls urgent answer !

Yorubas are never ashamed of begging

newsynews:
more

Ghanaian men na mumu sha, no be today something.

Eskdale:
If you think Simi is not beautiful and cool then you have to rethink cos this photo of hers is bomb and will change your mind.

cc;lalasticlala,seun,mynd44

Beautiful how? she looks like that avatar character

onadana:
I know how it feels.Lost my dad August last year to cancer.At a stage i was wishing him dead..the pains he suffered was so unbearable to see a man as solid as a rock reduced to nothing. The sad fact..there is absolutely nothing you can do.

i share in your pains, bro. Lost my mum last year to that menace of a disease.

MyPWisINCORRECT:
Pastor Fatoyinbo just use preek mess this babe up.

your family pashtor lol

lmao damn!!! you cracked me up big time.

taylor88:
We tired of hearing all these quits






No be anybody him soap finish





Him go rush come nairaland say he quits

He can't be accused of being good looking.

Memphis357:
All these actresses wey just full social media so.....
Dia toto go sweet to f**k ooooo... Apart from Tonto Dike's.

Carefully read what you wrote, and give me reasons why whoever gave birth to you wouldn't consider you a waste of space.

Talk2Bella:
one told me I was gonna build his church, I was 17 at the time, maybe he was hoping I'd steal mum's money hahahahahahha, when I introduced him to my step dad, that one used cutlass to chase him.

another one, instead of jejely inviting me to his church he started with threats of how if I don't come shiit was gonna go down....... Nigggaaa I ain't even religious

oh I remember another one, was just coming back from an interview at Maryland entered bus and one baba started praying for me, in order not to seem disrespectful I began to say amen, when baba finished praying he told me my bill was 500 naira, it was like I had just been struck by lightening loooool, omo I told him you should have asked me for money na, anyway I don't have 5h I think I gave him 100 naira or so

most of them are from white garment churches (no offense)

them plenty sha but no be that one de do me this morning......

currently at Adamasingba stadium Ibadan since early morning apparently Governor Ajimobi wanted corpers here to witness this Independence day celebration...... I weak

If I told you I'm also Ibadan based now, it would seem like I'm looking for an opportunity to "toast" you.

Nutase:
Haters.com. make una go hug transformer.

Haters how? But she's "worwor" na.

MrBigiman:
Thanks. So far I have managed to save 800k. I told the lady we should try and budget 500k, so we still have some change but she claim I don't value her and says I should step it up to 1.4m. She also say I must buy a ride, DAT she can't be married and trekking.

Flee bro! That's not a wife but a schemer.

These days I have little sympathy for men in uniform because they're equally as blood thirsty.

It's typical of nigerians. When in position of authority, an average Nigerian would oppress and intimidate others.

mikejj:
shabi muslim girls no they shake men.amina kilode for there.

My brother, hypocrisy everywhere!

We need an interpreter ASAP!

Nomfanelo99:
why on earth would I even waste my precious time fighting for a jackass .

Don't quite put it like that.

What was he doing in Borno in the first place? May his soul rest in peace.

Buhari is like the devil- he came to steal, kill and destroy.