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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Chelsea UCL (2 - 3) On 12th April 2022 by RedMac: 8:24pm On Apr 12, 2022
macho44:
Check My Siggy For 2 Sure Stream Links grin
is it not t.melivegoal... its not playing... just keeps loading endlessly
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Chelsea UCL (2 - 3) On 12th April 2022 by RedMac: 8:12pm On Apr 12, 2022
abeg na make una give me link to watch this match live
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Real Madrid Vs Chelsea UCL (2 - 3) On 12th April 2022 by RedMac: 7:34pm On Apr 12, 2022
i need a link pls
HealthRe: Depressed. Might End My Life This Night by RedMac: 6:20pm On Apr 11, 2022
Miner13:
you know what? this table you're seeing is turning.watch your steps and voices.op the dead don't feel the pain but what of your relatives that you think doesn't love but really do? only that situation around them make it look like nobody care for you.cry your depression out and pray to whatever you believe.giving up will mean you're a double looser
OP my advice to u is to man up ... You will keep hearing words like ... Talk to someone when u are depressed and when u share ur problem, everyone will avoid u like a plague (telling u that ur problem is not up to theirs)... See if u don't take responsibility of your life (and if u think killing urself is the right step, then go ahead)... Things rough for we all, man u and move on...
FamilyRe: This Picture Says A Lot…God Bless Our Mothers by RedMac: 6:09pm On Apr 11, 2022
God bless our fathers...
HealthRe: Depressed. Might End My Life This Night by RedMac: 5:50pm On Apr 11, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Remaining calm in the midst of adversity is a sign of great spiritual strength, whatever is going on in your life right now please hold your peace. There's hope for brighter tomorrow. All will be well dear.
Story
HealthRe: Depressed. Might End My Life This Night by RedMac: 5:49pm On Apr 11, 2022
Ok fire down
EducationRe: What Course Would You Have Studied In School If You Could Turn Back Time? by RedMac: 2:17pm On Apr 11, 2022
Financial accounting or Banking
RomanceRe: Why Is It That Most South Girls Only Visit Men When They Want Something Active? by RedMac: 10:33am On Apr 11, 2022
PoliticsRe: 2023: “I Will Cut Down The Cost Of Governance If Voted Into Power” Peter Obi by RedMac: 10:27am On Apr 11, 2022
It's easier said than done... Just as it's easier for this man to be calling two 2 billion dollars...

Pay little or no attention to the commenter above me

FamilyRe: I Just Killed A Baby Snake by RedMac: 8:02am On Apr 11, 2022
Chiden:
shocked shocked cry cry cry
I do play with rats and cockroaches and mosquitoes in my house... We chat and live peacefully... Snakes don't like my town, if not they would have been among my friends grin
FamilyRe: I Just Killed A Baby Snake by RedMac: 7:35am On Apr 11, 2022
Chiden:
I only saw one on the fence.. I'm soooooo scared right now
Why are u scared... Just walk up to it and talk with it... Tell em ur name and chat with em... This creatures are friendly... U people just like killing them ... Say no to killing
FamilyRe: I Just Killed A Baby Snake by RedMac: 7:31am On Apr 11, 2022
Make una kill all of them o ...
PoliticsRe: Abuja-Kaduna Train Attack: Terrorists Release Fresh Video Of Kidnap Victims by RedMac: 7:29am On Apr 11, 2022
What a pity... The government will not even listen to their cries cos it's non of their business
GamingRe: Sold out by RedMac: 6:25am On Apr 11, 2022
Do u do easy buy or installmental payment pls
CrimeRe: Am I Too Soft, Gentle, Kind... And Being Taken For Granted... by RedMac(op): 9:51pm On Apr 10, 2022
Taywon:
Rule no 1: avoid familiarity...


Rule no 2: Learn to say No
i swear i must follow this rule, i must try to be a little bit hard to some persons in this life
CrimeRe: Am I Too Soft, Gentle, Kind... And Being Taken For Granted... by RedMac(op):
immortalcrown:
Their sins are theirs and will attract punishment on them. Your own sin is your own and will attract punishment on you.

If what you have said is true, you have not offended God in your dealings with those people. But doing some things in the future out of anger might mean sinning against God. So be careful. Two wrongs might make a right before man. But two wrongs never make a right before God.
often times when i think of how to punish evil people that pay evil for good... like this school proprietress, i remember that which says "Lord how many times shall we forgive those who offends us... seventy seven times seven times"

but this people do wickedness intentionally, its just like they feel good doing it... how can i work for you and you don't want to pay, and you are comfortable... its more like saying to themselves, he's not human or a lesser human before us... he can't get to our level, so lets oppress him
CrimeAm I Too Soft, Gentle, Kind... And Being Taken For Granted... by RedMac(op): 9:31pm On Apr 10, 2022
Good evening everyone...

I was not too sure of how to construct the title of this post... But i want you guys to help me clear something here...

Generally i am a gentle, kind, humble and in fact known to be a quite guy... but recently i look at activities around my life in the past 3 months and i noticed i am being taken for granted cos of how gentle i am...

first scenario: when i moved into my new self contain apartment, i was welcomed joyously by the already existing tenants there, there's this old man (old enough to be my father anyway) instantly he became the closest person to me in the compound, he would tell me everything about how things are being done, how much to pay for each utility bills, we were going on well as neighbors, no problems... then i traveled for some days, and when i came back, he came to knock at my door and said "my pikin, you travel, i said yes... then he jokingly said when you dey come like this you go buy bread come for papa, i smiled at him and he smiled back, but before God and man, i was not happy with what he said (the bread aspect) i get irritated when people tell me or ask me "where is the bread you brought for us"... i let all these go, hoping this man was just joking...

two days later as i was coming back, just about to enter my house, he stopped me and told me how he has been at the hospital trying to save his daughters life that lost her baby during pregnancy, at first i was like how that wan take concern me, her husband no dey there... after so much talk, we parted ways... then something told me to help this man, that for him to bring up this issue to me he needs financial support, i went to his house gave him 5k... and he was very happy, he told his wife... she started her own, thanking me like i have given them 5 billion naira...

then this evening he saw me again after about a week or so, and said "my son i never see you for sometime now o, i told em, i traveled and he said okay, i just say make i remind u say nepa go soon ask for money o, i said no wahala... he knew i was in a hurry to leave his presence, and he provoked me by repeating those words (if you dey come like this you go just buy small bread come give papa) if not that he's an advanced man, i would have insulted him... these are the kind of things that makes people run away from old people... is he trying to take my being gentle and humble before him for granted and be milking me or what... please o... make una help me o


second scenario: There's this proprietress of a school i worked for, when i did the work for her she knew from day one how humble, loyal and gentle i was, as her staffs even testified to it... normally those who worked for her previously would demand for money before the work will be done, but i don't do that... she even asked me, and i told er, madam i don't put money before this work, i prefer to finish the work before i start asking for money, i believe she was happy and not hoping she has seen a fool... anyway i finished the work up to 95% level... and this woman all of a sudden decide to spoil a good relationship i had built with her, all because of how quiet i am... she paid me small amount of the money at the beginning and when i completed her job, i told her to give me the balance, and she stopped picking my calls... i was like what the hell is happening... are quite people really being taken for granted, why do some people like to be treated in a rough manner... i stopped calling her and let things be for that moment cos i knew there would be a time she would be the one calling me...

the time came when she would need a document from me to summit at WAEC office, and she called my line more than 30 times i refused to pick, she was shocked how i could do that to her... then she went on my Whatsapp to say There's God... i quickly replied her and said madam you took me for granted, i did your work and when it was time to pay me you stopped picking my calls, cos i probably don't matter to u anymore, i sent her the documents... but warned her i will still deal with her at another point if she don't pay me my balance... she has still not paid me (i don't disturb people to pay me my money)

now the time will come when she would need me to do something for her school, which will enable her student WAEC result be released, and if i don't do it she will have to pay a fine of over 100k before i would be allowed to do it again... i have made up my mind to use this to punish her for taking me for granted...

I just don't know, do Nigerians really love to deal with tough people... often times i have heard people say quite people are often more dangerous, and with what am about to do, i might just be one of those quite people that are dangerous to deal with... first with that man asking me for bread as if am a yahoo boy and this school owner
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus : Who Is Robert Powell That's In Every Nigeria Home? by RedMac: 2:03pm On Apr 10, 2022
An actor
RomanceRe: Look Where I'm Living by RedMac: 1:22pm On Apr 10, 2022
You are not doing bad
Christianity EtcRe: Can You Explain This Picture? by RedMac: 12:44pm On Apr 10, 2022
Photoshop
RomanceRe: How Do You Feel Sexing Ur Partner by RedMac: 8:41am On Apr 10, 2022
Our mumu no too much...
Christianity EtcRe: The Gospel Singer Mrs Osinachi Nwachukwu Was Beaten To Death By Her Husband. by RedMac:
This has often been the problem of many women (emphasis on Nigerian ladies)

Now let me explain...

That they say u have to endure, persevere... To stay strong in ur marriage, does not mean u should die in it ... Many of us thinks prayers can really change a man... (What a pity)...

Nothing pains me more when a man beats a woman he calls his wife or gf... And then u hear the lady say I still love him... These bolded lines fit make me give the lady second round beating

Anyway kudos to her for a religious life... May God bless her more for all her wonderful songs...

Her only offence here was that she chose to remain with an abusive man, thinking prayers and worship could change the man's heart... It does not work that way... She should have walked away from the marriage...

RIP ma'am
BusinessRe: What Side Business Can One Start With 500k by RedMac: 9:29pm On Apr 09, 2022
Chai same 500k wey some people dey blow up in a sitting...
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Contemplated Suicide? by RedMac: 2:59pm On Apr 09, 2022
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Everton Vs Manchester United (1 - 0) On 9th April 2022 by RedMac: 1:04pm On Apr 09, 2022
man u will turn this game around and win 3:1
CrimeRe: Suspected Yahoo Boy Dies After Money Rituals In Ogun - PHOTO by RedMac: 11:41am On Apr 09, 2022
at 20 i was still reading for my 2nd jamb, at 21 i sat for my 2nd post utme, at 22 i finally got admitted... at 26/27 i would eventually graduate... now in my early 30's am still struggling for a legit and stable source of financial income...

What will make a 20 year old who should probably still be in the university be craving for quick cash is beyond my understanding... if its actually because of girls... then he's a fool... there is so much to achieve in this life with the right steps...

he should rot in hell joor... mumu boy...
CelebritiesRe: Obi Cubana Donates 40M Naira, Hosts His Secondary School Classmates(video) by RedMac: 6:51am On Apr 09, 2022
And dem no tell me o... Wicked people ... And Na me dey open book for Cubans to copy that year o... What a wicked world
CrimeRe: Man Stabbed To Death In Delta After He Won N15 Million Bet by RedMac: 6:37am On Apr 09, 2022
RIP First of all

... You see ennnn, this issue of security now lies in the hands of each and everyone of us ... As the level of security is dropping daily so also should be the level of trust we have with anyone who's around us...

A good number of people u call friends don't mean well for us...

Lastly, avoid bragging... An average Nigerian man gets bittered when u brag in his presence, jealousy and envy sets in... Always learn to keep a large part of ur life private... (Ur success most importantly)

Where the eyes of God's mercy will not reach may we never go there ... embarassed
RomanceRe: A Nairaland Member's Confession About His Life by RedMac: 12:11am On Apr 09, 2022
So what exactly do you want the entire nairalanders to do for you now...

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