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madprophet:
Na marine issue common pass now..

It's very very rampant.

Make God help us ni

SweetCunt97:
Splitting the money will make his family hate his wife.

bukatyne:
I am wondering what you are going on about here.

Everyone has dropped their own perspectives and advised him to talk to her as he doesn't even know his babe's standpoint on this.

If I agreed with your first post, we would not be here right?

Ok, I agree with you.

Let him share the money N50k each or N25K each for both parents.

bukatyne:
@Bold:

But you can agree with other posters that reflect your beliefs and perspectives.

We will all bring our perspectives and beliefs to the table. We have also advised him to talk to her first. Worst case, if they don't see eye to eye and can't compromise, they end the courtship.

If they agree, he updates us and we move on.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You can as well use the DM.

bukatyne:
If the in-laws see him as their son, they would not burden him with unnecessary demands as he is trying to build a young family.

They will be grateful with the gifts he sends periodically.

Ishilove:
I am not comfortable with Synagogue because the church is 'gbogbo ero' and they won't go in-depth into your case. What Uya needs is one to one ministration.

Takotsubo:
Chorismate

What hubby and I do is send same amount to both sides of the family. You send 50k to yours and she sends 50k to hers with scope to help out if any side is more needy at some point.

It's easier this way for the sake of fairness and to prevent any budding feelings of resentment.
Your parents will never be more important to her than her parents. No side of the family is more deserving.

This method only works if you both contribute to a joint account and then plan together on ALL expenses.If you're doing your thing with money and she's doing her thing,then it's no one's concern how much you send or how much she sends.

You cannot be sharing a joint account with equal contribution and then tell her to send less to her folks because she has brothers.It doesn't sound right .

So best to discuss it now very plainly,how much you bring in,how much she brings in, joint account or not, your estimated joint expenses ,savings plan, THEN how much parents will receive.

Good luck.

hunter21:
Thanks so much

bukatyne:
What if the girl's parents still working?

Should he deprive his parents of the required N50k to give his in-laws (who has surplus) N25k?

They still need deep conversations to understand their financial goals.

Chorismate:
I think 25k won't do alot on my parent's side. Like you said, i will weigh this decision and ensure it does not have adverse long term impact.

Chorismate:
Hello Everyone

I am about proposing to my Fiancee but one thing came to my mind.

As a single adult, I have formed a habit of sending my parent specific allowance every month (N50k). Is it ok to continue that when married?
I am asking because my wife may say since I am doing that for my parent, why won't we do for hers.

BTW, she is working.

What's your thoughts please

SirMichael1:
And jesus didn't offer nothing. He had to offer something before satan came. You're here offering nothing and you think yourself worthy to be tempted? You're delusional.

Again, shut up!

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't have friends.

muyoge:
Where is RUUD GULLIT on the list?

SirMichael1:
You've not given one solution. I have. Instead, you're strutting here, claiming to be a prophet when you can't proffer solution. You have the time and strength for mumble-jumble and also claimed to be spiritually enlightened. Yet, Jesus spoke to the pharisees and the nay sayers, not minding if they make jest of him.

so once again, shut up and let your ignorance die a natural death on this thread!

jomoh:
They will actually be there for life of steps are not taken.

I’ve killed and killed.

When they’re moving around the person needs to do wet cupping(Hijama) or donate blood cos they need dirty blood to be able to move.

They’re are mostly guided by external forces that keeps them there.

SirMichael1:
Stop speaking grammer, ancestor. She's right and you truely weren't making sense and you still are.

SirMichael1:
Lol. I have something moving in my stomach. Is it a marine spirit.

please don't make that lady gut her stomach looking for what isn't there and what isn't true.

jomoh:
Hmm

Nuttella:
She wants you to interpret the dream you you are here beating around the bush.

bishopjoe02:
It is marine spirit sis, if it started when you were younger, you probably inherited it from one of your parents.

but if it started when you were sexual active, it mean you slept with a guy that have marine spirit who initiated you unconsciously, the guy might not know or he might know, some guys might got it from another girl who is oganje, why some inherited it.

check well sis, by now, you we have something moving in your stomach.

In summary you either inherited it from one of your parents, if started when you are younger or get it from sex if started when you sexual active.



When church open, visit any MFM branch, ask of there weekly deliverance program.

If it was gotten via sex it less easier to deal with, but it is hereditary, it is continuous battle, in all b ready to fast.

But you are not a Christian, a traditionalist, you know what to do.

Nuttella:
Oga interpret the dream here or you keep quiet.