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ubunja:
when 50 Shades Of Grey broke records??

Are you drunk?

Nope, I'm a teetotaler.

That aside, 50 Shades of Grey is not the same in the same category with the _shit you watch that perverts your mind and inspires the bullshit you post here.

emmaodet:
you are 100% right bro.
too much lies, funny enough there is a married man that asked out my wife in the church and i know few looking at her lustily.
one thing have realised is dat people close to you are also the ones who want to back-starb you.
my family doctor, church family friend etc are some of the people close to me that have asked my wife out, its an unfortunate world out there

Now that you know. Ensure to keep your affairs private so that such people dont drive either a real or proverbial knife in your back. Good luck. May the Creator protect us.

emmaodet:
I don't know what is happening to me again because ever since i joined nairaland and started reading some threads and comments on nairaland, following people like ubunja and co, my life as never been the same again.
I thought social media is just a place for fun but it seems what we hear/watch and see as a way of shaping our lives.
Am a very quite, gentle and respected person in the church and my area but things are really happening fast that calls for concern.
Am in a church organised family whatsapp group with alot of respected families but of lately have been more or less an outcast in the group.
Last week, they raised a topic about Love and why people were commenting positively about how they love their wives and how their wives stood beside them when they were poor, i entered the forum and took the whole topic to the opposite direction. I told them about how Love is not enough to hold a relationship because most ladies will leave when no more money or they see a better option.
The forum went hay wire, cut fire and things went south.
Yesterda, they raised a topic about hiw not to condonea cheating partner and as usual i came into the forum and pointed out the fact that only if they know the high rate of infidelity, a large percentage of marriages will crash instantly.
Ever since my first issue, i noticed a lot of them are really avoiding me like a plague because i was raw, harsh and blunt unlike my previous self.
Ubunja, the manipulated man and pther topics of infidelity as really changed me alot and presently my wife is concerned about me because she said my comments were wild, different, raw etc
Am losing my mind pals, don't know what is happening to me.

Cc
Martinez39
Larryking540
Franchasng
Mekenz
Ubunja
Pansophist
Pocohantas

You are just saying the truth as it is without pretence.

emmaodet:
I don't know what is happening to me again because ever since i joined nairaland and started reading some threads and comments on nairaland, following people like ubunja and co, my life as never been the same again.
I thought social media is just a place for fun but it seems what we hear/watch and see as a way of shaping our lives.
Am a very quite, gentle and respected person in the church and my area but things are really happening fast that calls for concern.
Am in a church organised family whatsapp group with alot of respected families but of lately have been more or less an outcast in the group.
Last week, they raised a topic about Love and why people were commenting positively about how they love their wives and how their wives stood beside them when they were poor, i entered the forum and took the whole topic to the opposite direction. I told them about how Love is not enough to hold a relationship because most ladies will leave when no more money or they see a better option.
The forum went hay wire, cut fire and things went south.
Yesterda, they raised a topic about hiw not to condonea cheating partner and as usual i came into the forum and pointed out the fact that only if they know the high rate of infidelity, a large percentage of marriages will crash instantly.
Ever since my first issue, i noticed a lot of them are really avoiding me like a plague because i was raw, harsh and blunt unlike my previous self.
Ubunja, the manipulated man and pther topics of infidelity as really changed me alot and presently my wife is concerned about me because she said my comments were wild, different, raw etc
Am losing my mind pals, don't know what is happening to me.

Cc
Martinez39
Larryking540
Franchasng
Mekenz
Ubunja
Pansophist
Pocohantas

Yes @Emmaodet, you are loosing your mind. Save yourself now when you can still feel that something is awkward. Check my two articles on the topic:

(https://www.nairaland.com/6043976/redpill-should-not-women-hating

https://www.nairaland.com/6052265/both-redpill-feminism-consequences-atheism)

I will soon make another article on how Nairaland Redpill is turning from useful school of learning to a full blown cult.

Firstnebo:
Yes @Emmaodet, you are loosing your mind. Save yourself now when you can still feel that something is awkward. Check my two articles on the topic:

(https://www.nairaland.com/6043976/redpill-should-not-women-hating

https://www.nairaland.com/6052265/both-redpill-feminism-consequences-atheism)

I will soon make another article on how Nairaland Redpill is turning from useful school of learning to a full blown cult.

Thanks brother, will check the two threads out.

@emmaodet, good morning sir, I'm a 28 yrs old young man who is working as a bank marketer earning #150000, I'm still living with my parents at these my age, I see my life and I see a failure, my parents are average earners who believed that education is the pathway to success and prosperity, they didn't prepare us their children for the future economy of inflation where starting family requires above average capital even if you are renting to give your children decent standard of living, children are not meant to suffer, so public school is out of my vision for them, especially primary and secondary as I myself didn't go to such, i only went to public university, sir i know you are relatively successful that's why I'm asking for your opinion, I want to quit miserable job and start yahoo or any illegal venture, it's just that i have not had a reasonable plug that would aid me in that path,I'm angry I'm not a billionaire, i don't have nice clothes, nice cars, nice houses, economy is not smiling, how can one raise a family with such odds and I'm talking a family with 2 kids not even 3 as i want to give birth to 3, I have even had suicidal thoughts about my miserable life, I'm like the economy and Nigeria as a nation is hostile for poor and average men, I'm really ambitious, i want to pass on my genes, since you are a father, it means that you are bearing the cost of living as a man, the life of a man is hard, if you do not have any political connection you would suffer, please sir help a brother out with any link, job, advice

I don't want to remain poor

RedpillAdviser:
Good morning sir, even if you are renting to give your children decent standard of living, children are not meant to suffer, so public school is out of my vision for them, especially primary and secondary as I myself didn't go to such, i only went to public university, sir i know you are relatively successful that's why I'm asking for your opinion, ,, how can one raise a family with such odds and I'm talking a family with 2 kids not even 3 as i want to give birth to 3, I'm like the economy and Nigeria as a nation is hostile for poor and average men, I'm really ambitious, i want to pass on my genes, since you are a father, it means that you are bearing the cost of living as a man, the life of a man is hard, if you do not have any political connection you would suffer, please sir help a brother out with any link, job, advice

I don't want to remain poor

I'm a 28 yrs old young man who is working as a bank marketer earning #150000, I'm still living with my parents at these my age, I see my life and I see a failure

Please, stop this. You are not a failure. It is the situation of the country and the world at large that has caused this.

my parents are average earners who believed that education is the pathway to success and prosperity, they didn't prepare us their children for the future economy of inflation where starting family requires above average capital

W e can't blame our parents. Many of them didn't forecast a world like this will happen. They married for Love and mostly not for money and they were contented with what they had unlike us, this generation.

I want to quit miserable job and start yahoo or any illegal venture, it's just that i have not had a reasonable plug that would aid me in that path

I will advise against this bro. I know you are angry and somehow getting desperate seeing there is no way out on your current path and no solution in sight. I had been there before.

I'm angry I'm not a billionaire, i don't have nice clothes, nice cars, nice houses, economy is not smiling

Smiles........i quiet understand your frustration

I have even had suicidal thoughts about my miserable life,

It is not uncommon to many young struggling Nigerian men/boys.

About Advice. I am short of words currently about your story.

Give me some time, like a week to ponder on all what you have wrote.