obinna5000:

@topic
WHAAATTT!!!
I disagree.

I disagree too, that's y i posted this. i was shocked. what r they really thinking?

Thanx all 4 ur contribution. sighs, life can really be complicated

The Pride:

You got love-sprung to one of the hawkers that asked you out?

Diva1:

Hmm, betting on u 2 see how tasty. Would try it but with liver, no kidney.

it's nice diva1 with liver. i bet u on that, u wud like it.

sara j:

I think she is really fit and if I was a man she would be my type. I think you you're all jealous because she's a white,blonde good looking woman. You racist pigs!

who r d racist pigs no 1 said she isn' fit but for top 10 sexiest woman in the WORLD don't think so.

lady kool:

@poster
are u sure u were looking at the right proper FHM 100 sexiest women in the world cuz heidi??
she is sooo anonying and even lauren is sexier than her!! she and her useless husband

yep, google it. it's not even her personal life but look at her physically, rnt there much more beautiful women all over the world than this?

spikedcylinder:

To Americans, the world begins and ends in America.

So annoying. It pisses me off. they should say in America not the world. and what they classify "sexiest" in d world is so ugly.

hackney:

Speidi : the most annoying couple in the U.S.

She is not top 1billion sexiest girls in the world.
Americans can be very stupid some times.
Some of them think that Scotland is INSIDE England.

She's not even prettier than anybody in her show.

really stupid. have nothing against them but when it comes to beauty, sexy, they dont know what they r talking about. they feel like they r the world. how can heidi be is it no.9 or 8 sexiest woman in the world?

there's time, praying, improving urself, meeting and dating other people, almost everything possible but you still find yourself thinking and still wanting that person. What else would you do or what other option?

tpacalipse:

@poster
why shuld any body b scared to talk to u or even to ve ur number. ow come u know that geneveive who is even a godamn LovePeddler doesnt get disturbed every day by anybody.
u re fukcing proud no matter ow much u pretend not to b.
coming from a rich home dont mean shit
ur parents may b as broke as those fukcing mechanics by morrow while those mech culd b any gadem thing by morrow.
get hold of ursef asshole and stop feeling bad cos low people are trying to b ur friend.

Keep ranting if u don't know how to use ur brain for understanding.

faakay:


hmmmmmmm, don't be too harsh on her, you are getting it twisted

I understand what the poster is trying to point out.

thanks, he doesn't even need 2 understand

It depends on the level of intimidation but yes i agree that some women even if confident can be intimidated by an attractive man.

playah P:

I TOT U SAID THAT THIS IS YOUR FIRST POST ON NAIRALAND??
HOW COME ITS 17 WHEN I CHECKED, first lie

r u sure u r ok? yes this is my first post. I didn't say this is my only post.

topup:

Hi, Reggie, you're very pretty .

It's simply because you've kinda got the girl-next-door look. You appear friendly and sweet, probably have dimples as well, and probably walk with a smile on your face. You look approachable, and that's why people approach you. Same thing happens to me, but I'm just nice, nothing worse that feeling to bring a guy's ego down, not all of us have the choice in our social status or economics so in order to be greatful, we should all try and treat all people the same.

At least this way you have more choice .

We can never pick who we attract , I've been approached by a 35+ year old man (when I was 17/18) and even at younger ages in highschool, builders have shouted across the street.

I think the issue is our approachability, if it really bothers you, you can put up a front, walk fast, don't smile too much, but then wouldn't you develop those frown lines on your lovely face .

Thanks top-up and u r pretty urself. yes i'm going to change my approach towards them , not being rude but also let them know their limits.

Gaggi:

Most of them have thousands of posts and are always online. When do they have time for their imaginary boyfriends?
Girls, please tell us you're lonely let's find a solution for you. I could hook you up, seek and ye shall find.

How do u know they are always online? if u aren't always online urself.

I want to say thank you all for sharing and contributing to my question.

Due to misunderstanding, break-ups, not being compatible, infidelity, and other relationship blunders, what is the longest you have ever stayed or been apart from your loved one- husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend and gotten back together to make it work?

Due to misunderstanding, break-ups, not being compatible, infidelity, and other relationship blunders, what is the longest you have ever stayed or been apart from your loved one- husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend and gotten back together to make it work?

Was looking thru the top 100 sexiest women in the world 2009 and Heidi montag was No.8 in the whole world. How can? I think Americans should be saying sexiest women in America and not the world. What happened to other women in different parts? Does she really look sexy?

Gabry:

This type? Again my dear. U are not answering my question. What is wrong with bringing back a local boy? And must they all be something bad in your point of view or wetin? I dont clearly understand what is bad about a local boy and I would appreciate it if you could tell me what is it.


Im confuse naa on what does she mean by local boys and what bout them. . .

local? honestly i'm even feeling odd explaining such because some people here are looking at it like i'm feeling too big, proud or belittling people which i am not.

v3nom4eva:

@reggie

Please don't look @ it that. . Since you're from a classy family n all that, if you EVENTUALLY do fall for one of these guys, u could "toosh" him up to your standards, i mean. . .errmmmm. . .i seriously don't know what you're on about here??

You keep going on N on about "local boys" like they a virus or somethin u juz can't hang wit. . .if you're allergic to them, SIMPLY find yourself someone your on the SAME page wit. . .darn!

that's y i wrote earlier it's possible with love but i'm not in love with any of them, not yet at least. they just happen to approach me too far. I have friends that none of these people can walk up to her not to talk of giving them numbers or such. i don't want to belittle anybody but some of u should understand me and my own point of view. i'm sure some of you too feel the same way but don't want to say.

Gabry:

My dear, why do you sound like ure all up for those rich guys instead?

I mean what do u see in the local boys which you think is a problem to you? Are they drug dealers? Murderers? Scammers? Gangstas? Mafias? Yaba Left Patients? Wetin?

I think u are being too choosy thats why u are no satisfied with whichever man that comes your way. U better learn to be contented or else u will regret it.

That was what i was trying to avoid, that i am not looking for rich guys or putting down people. From where i come from, i know they are human beings but are people that scarce that i should find myself someone of this type and bring home? i hope some of u will understand where i am coming from.

Gaggi:

@ Poster
U nor get level. Maybe you dress like a tramp. You're rich, you're hot, you're classy, blah blah blah.
Just prove it !!! Let's see ur picture.

So my pic will tell you who i am? well i will post my pic so u can have idea what i look like if u r so eager.

I went to a good school, I hang out with popular rich people.I was only referring givning an instance where I might just be strolling to a store and this type of guys approach me and even have guts for more, that's what bothers me, like are they not sumwat scared not like a god but like even giving me their numbers.
I am a nice person but i also know myself and limits and what I want. I have style, class and grace, which i'm sure perhaps i'm too nice and friendly that they feel so free to approach me without fear.

Beaf:

I don't want to be mean but, you can't even use the forum. What you've written is difficult to read and was difficult to write.
Damn! Guy's notice these things and the high class ones might think you're bush.
You desperately need to repackage.

Maybe u need a special type of glasses to read this. I'm new here and just learnt the easier way to reply.

estrella:

There is a principle that many people are aware of but ignore, you attract what you are or in your case,what you think, its like me, ive always felt young at heart and as a result most times,i find myself being toasted by boys my brother's age, young and bashful, there was a time i thought i didnt deserve anything good in my life menwise and i discovered i attracted the worse kind of me, its all about waht you think, its okay to be nice but its also okay to know exactly what you want, start thinking about the kind of guys you want to approach you and turn urself into the kind of girl who will attract those kind kindda pple, its all about the mentality
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thanks, i think i will have to put limits and not just about being too nice not to offend or bring down any1.

I have before, even at one point I was scared to go out, thinking someone was out there watching me around anywhere i went.

To davidylan- I did go to a private school has nothing do with gardeners or cooks

To deji2005- it's easier said than done, i'm not saying it's wrong anything can happen but b4 my parents how can i bring someone for example that does not know how to speak english well?

To beaf- i don't understand what u mean y supplying my number around, i neva mentioned such. i only said, they have guts to toast me and all, and knowing my kind of nature sometimes i could smile and say no, sometimes i just take it of course, i throw it away when no interested.

To mama gee- u don't know me so don't say what u don't know or r u poor?

To posakosa- I do go out to anywhere, everywhere, what i was really describing was like taking a walk for example with friends, strolling not necessarily social outing.

To Kingsleyinfo- i'm not judging anyone but i gave an example easier said than done, how does it feel especially me being the female/woman, different for a man, bring a guy to my parent that seems local or cannot speak english well or something like that?

To cold- don't make me laugh

To justkunmi- thanks, i know it's not pride but i also want to know my worth.

To bluespice- thanks for clarifying

why is it that one would look very beautiful in person but when it comes to pictures they'll look somehow?

not at all but why do they approach me in the first place? aren't they suppose to be scared for example, how many of these type of people would approach some1 like genevieve nnaji, just like that, ask for her number, toast her and all so easily?

I don't really always go to the wrong places, even strolling down or talking walks with friends or something, i still tend to meet these guys.


To negro- I know that's why i don't want to judge anyone but come on,

what does shenanigans mean?

Hi everyone on nairaland. This is my first post and my first time on here. My name is Reggie and I have a question to ask, hopefully i will get a lot of answers. This is my question.

I come from a rich family(not like dangote), just the average rich family and as for my physical, i am a very beautiful girl but my problem is the type of guys that get attracted to me. i am not carrying my self too high, but the type of guys that approach me even without fear. they say, i'm nice, friendly and they enjoy talking to me. that's fine but not for dating. like those mechanics on the road, cashiers at stores, market sellers or those tha cannot speak english properly or just local boys and of those likes,imagine giving me their numbers, and all. I sometimes answer them so that it won't be like i'm behaving like a queen. i know they are human beings, everyone should be treated the same but in my own case and where i come from, i feel i deserve more. i have met and dated guys too that are well to do but majority of the guys that get attracted to me, are not my type are the local ones. Why is this or what could b the problem. Looking forward to hear replies. thank you.

i also have another question, maybe i will open another page.