₦airaland Forum

erico2k2:
Brov you will make more money in western worlds in Dubai,this is fact, go and check, all the prince there schooled here got trained here in the Uk, as we speak I know of few schools set up by the emirates here in London,Thier main Biz is here.Dubai is a collection of wealth gained fru the years by the emirates and most coy go there cos of zero tax, I have been there loads of time.you are talking bout brand new car, ,my 21 year old colleague just bought a 2017 BMW M3 ,as far back as 2012 I bought a brand new Range rover @ £98k,buying a new car is not a measure of ones achievement in the country they find themselves rather how they enrich thier self in personal development and those around them.
for example,What quality of life are your kids having living in Dubai,your wife can own a car cant drive? list goes on and on we can go on and on

the car mentioned was in relative terms to Nigeria not the western world. You are rushing to reply without reading twice. Also I said Qatar not Dubai. Bros women drive here and dress the way they do anywhere. Living standard here beats that of the us by far. Where as a black man your life is threatened when pulled over by the cop.

erico2k2:
Bross talking about Abroad, If your abroad do not include the UK,US Canada forget it.you wont see settled people from these three countries complaining.

Dont say what you dont know without making research. As civil Engineer in Qatar, I and many colleagues from Kenya, South Africa, Europeans, America, Sudan and many more are doing very well here. If you are a skilled professional then you have no problem at all. I never in my life thought I will buy a brand new 2016 ride delivered on flat bed truck while in Nigeria. Medical is 100% free here even if its heart operation. So forget Canada, Us and UK.some of them are runing to the middle east. More so tax is zero here. So bros abeg boon the western world.

shervydman:
I don't just know why I dislike people that think travelling out of the country is an escape route.....heck, if u can't succeed in ur homeland, where else?
i'm not against them though......different strokes for different folks.

I am shocked at your question of where else? For skilled professionals? I tell you the where else plenty. What are you saying? Do you know howmuch a registered nurse earns in Qatar for example? Aside from expenses she or he can save 300,000 + naira a month. A civil Engineer here can save 1m naira a month in Qatar where I stay and work at the moment. So dont say where else. Except for those who gat no skill or education. Then I will understand your point. Where are the opportunities in Nigeria. The two professions I mentioned check in Nigeria how they are suffering. Who has skill can cut out if no job please.

fbtowner:
no


I like your thinking faculty. Just like mine.


Take my case for example.

All my male cousins had gone to Dubai. And we are all Graduates oo. And we even have up to 2-3 hand work each Take me for example. Im a certified Mobile and computer Engineer both hard and software. And also an Integrated plumber both domestic and industrial, also a graduate of Economic


Same as all my cousin. We all had same hand work.


To be sincere with u. I have not for a once envy their life over there. They have been asking me to come.


So i started thinking. Leaving my business where im my own boss. Leaving all my professions and become a security guard in another mans land doesnt seems like an upgrade to me. Though im not very bouyant here. But i know future is bright.


Most people out there are not that making it Most of them engage in illegal activities. Dont ever be carried away with those sweet pictures and selfies they take in fine places. Dont be decieved


And if u have a Benin friend. It wont help matter. Those people dont believe they are human unless they travel out of naija.

Please watch and listen to this in close door.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wumZv3pmERA

With your skills you will not be a security guard thats for sure. Forget the Economics you read. You ll not use it to get a job in the middle east, but your skill as a computer person and plumbing you cld be comfortably saving 500,000 per month. If you set your self a target of 2 years. Imagine your savings when u return home to set up your business. So please dont judge like that.

If anyone has contact of the girl or the whoever please make public here. This is injustice, intimidation of the poor and powerless...I cant judge or curse them but I am sure the day of reckoning will surley come for them.

OZAOEKPE:
Yoruba say na okpari... Its obvious he's going to beat you anyhow when you get married to him

Please please and please...Okpari is not Yoruba but Uhrobo, Isoko, Okpe...yoruba, Igbo and Hausa say them be more important than us, please no take from our small one give them again. I beg you well well. .

stephleena:
I can't believe any shit,coming from you disciples of lai Muhammed,if truly she saw,her husband then stops her from being with him??even if he's,in I.C.U ..she isn't doing anything tangible in the country.is either, she didn't get to see buhari, as claimed,or buhari is unconscious..

I wonder o...how can a wife visit her sick husband and return so soon as if dem pursue her? When I am have ordinary headache my wife will not rest until I am ok. This people have something they are hiding.

Go and buy black seed oil. Search the shopping malls. Or google it on where u can buy in your state of residence. This oil will clear all for sure. You can thank me later. Secondly be mindful of your personal hygiene. Thirdly you shldnt even think of bleaching cream. What was your intentions. Anyway go get black seed oil. And add Braggs apple cider vinegar if you have money to buy that one. Was the face, dab with apple cider vinegar with the mother. Then apply black see oil. Wish you well.

gabng:
You are the one who has no clue of what the news report is all about.

FOB Daura is part of Nigeria Army ORBAT approved by GEJ as C-in-C & Chairman Army Council in 2014 & implemented by PMB as ORBAT 2016.

Argue with your keyboard if you still do not have the presence of mind of learning.

when the guy said "no clue" you insult and name the game changer for you lot "GEJ" no mind them, mentioning that name as the one who approved it, true or not automatically makes your reasoning, points valid. God...I thought very hard to choose my words not to kind of use words that seems abusive but really a lot of you are misguided. You will through tantrums at me now. After you do just still remember how misguided you and your likes are. Some of you are already turning around like tha Aisha Yusufs and co...more are welcomed.

NgeneUkwenu:
Like Goodluck Jonathan-the ineffectual buffon....Like Donald Trump..

Two Useless beings!

I think you have a small problem. But knowing us Nigerians you will get upset at me for telling you the truth instead of self searching yourself. You have done a lot and I think it's time you get over just one man and move forward. Your passion for a working society is great and the hate, the ridicules, the insults and all that negative behavior can be channelled into something better. Just advice. You can throw me the tantrums now. Takecare.

Lifestone:
I thought somebody is going to disprove what the OP said rather than insulting him.

By now I guess you should know what this dirty post is all about- politics. Yes, thats just what it is, and the worst part-Nigerian APC politics. They can do or say anything to try to be relevant. The lies and propaganda they are capable of will shock you. The devil is learning where they are. Wike has told the world the nitty gritty of that monorail project...he put it to the people of PH if he should continue or not and they told him to leave it. Ameachi has answers to give before its completed. This thief and greedy poster Okocha will never tell you what he knows. Even the VP Prof. Osinbanjo who is not same party as Wike called him "Mr. Project" what does that tell you?

Please dont reason what these failed people of APC will tell you. They deceived a lot of Nigerians in 2015, I am certain that will not happen again because the breeze have blown and the behind of the fowl is seeing by all.

ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice

Listen...I ve not read comments of ppl to get an opinion of what I want to tell you...I am married for 10 years now so I believe in my opinion. On this issue you raised now...dont joke with it. Firstly your peace of mind is important otherwise on issues of infidelity, you ll just develop HBP and injure yourself for nothing if you dont take the bull by the horns. That means you should act like a man. Protect your wife from the pervert boss who thinks calling a married woman "my baby" is casual. Your wife is a human being and is fallable, just know that...perverts like the boss are experts in detemining and reading women to take advantage of them. Call your wife and immediately tell her your concerns, they re important. Tell her to immediately stop the job and desist from any further communication with the pervert boss. You put your foot on the ground and at the same time be cautious and let her see you re doing it for the sanctity of your union, I tell you its more important than the money you think she is earning to help you with bills and expenses. Dont joke with this very dangerous matter. Thank you.

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Get her black seed oil to give to her husband...let him take 2 spoons morning before breakfast, and two spons before bed...results are instantaneous. Thank you.

Billyonaire:
Common, take it easy.

Constitutionally, once you have served the punishment from your crime, you are considered to have paid the price for your action. Make the man no get life again because he broke the 13th Commandment ?

He, who has not sinned, Let him cast the first stone - Jesus, Founder of Christianity.

To be candid, Nigerians are the biggest hypocrites in the world, asisde that we are also very ignorant and arrogant. We come online and spew trash everyday. And as you said, who amongst us has not sinned in whatever capacity I add. And I also add, if one gets the chance to be a gov or president, will that person be a saint? only Jesus can do his job without blemish. They come online, with hatered, tribalistic tendencies and insults everyday. But in their own small corner are worse when no one is looking. I just wonder how the next generation of Nigerian youths will fail so badly.

NNVanguard:
Two wise people hardly make a good marriage but when one is a fool, that marriage becomes a made in heaven.

It's unfortunate our celebrities don't no the dividing line between marriage and scripts lines.

One should not be a fool permanently. its like when two dogs play one falls for the other and vice versa...sometimes the man plays the fool esp on domestic matters, the women wise pass us, sometimes too the woman ll play the fool...its like that...peace will abound. For example, my wife last night raised her voice at me for supporting my daughter over some school issue they both had...I knew she didnt know when she did it because she puts all her energy into our kids education and was frustrated over a small setback from my daughter, as she shout, I just turn fool waka commot there like nothing happened. later for night she came to apologize and...

In developed climes I think provisions will be made to meet the raised issues especially the traffic lights and confusion thing. That means in Africa where our selfish, clueless and myopic leaders have failed to used the vast wealth in Africa especially Nigeria to develop us and the nation but instead steal and lead us into recession, such luxury cars will not thrive here.

Icansing:
you are married and still masturbating,, take dx

You are just a mere mortal like me and everyone else...you will not understand. so I accept your lashing in good faith. Thank God you are not God, after you flog me finish God will help me change and become a better person.

For me I just want to remove immortality from my system. I am actually tired of porn, tired of masturbation, tired of lusting and imagining seeing different sizes and shapes of the female sex organs. I am tired. I am ashamed of my self because I am married with children. why do I still do this? It has brought me to ill luck in my finances, my spiritual goals and living in general. I strive to change and 1 month when remain clean I relapse the next month. Please God please help me. I want to be a better person. I want to be chaste, I want to serve and worship you. please Lord help me. I pray this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ my Lord. Amen.

The truth of the matter is the outside world from Africa don't see gestures in greeting as a sign of respect. What they see as disrespect is when you raise your voice over a disagreement or you argue blindly. when they sneeze or cough they don't even want you to say 'sorry' or 'bless you, or ,ekpee o, and stuffs like that. When you get used to it too you will notice it's a better way sef not to pay too much attention to respect...just do your job. khalas.

omolola15:
E don red for am..... Aspiring governor forging documents. Imagine what he would do if he's the governor.

This trend of us these days reading news and passing judgement immediately makes no sense at all.

Smooyis:
Well she has done her best for her nation and her conscience. It's immaterial if she's not appreciated at this juncture. Who has Nigeria ever so appreciated. We should stop narrowing issues down to tribal prism all the time.

On the contrary Nigeria has helped the convener of BBOG, she is now chair of NPA. Or is that not some form of appreciation?

Jibril659:
Let her worry about that. face your life

my friend please don't be silly. The happenings and goings-on in a country is subject to discussion by its people's. if you have a differing opinion to what the poster or writer has please state it and we ll understand. Why are you bent on having us not talk abt issues...? #strange

waleadex:
In my opinion it's too early to call PMB a failure. He seems to mean well for the country and he's got a plan or formula. In about a year to or at the end of his tenure,the score cards are there for us all to mark.

**Edited**
We don't have to insult ourselves when we have to register our opinions. I made my submission after critically considering some factors. You need to be logical and perhaps reasonable when making your criticism,unlike the unruly ways some guys quoted me. Really,I am not a party person,I am in no way associated with PMB's party and I am personally not happy with our current economic situation. My point was/is,after his 4 years we have the reserved power to decide if he's to stay or leave. I am really not pained or disturbed by the insults passed on me by those of you who abusively quoted me. We are still friends and I do adore you guys. Cheers!

I like your objective argument and the way you said you considered some factors before your submission, however, let me also let you know that the world today most especially developing nations like Nigeria does not and can not wait for close to 4 years or 4 year on the dot to judge performance from government. There is something called indices which means the prevailing or current signs to judge the way it will end up. PMB as the current indices show is a total drawback and waste of Nigeria and Nigerians time. He has and is taking us so backward by the time his 4 years is done going by the way things are now we ll be so lost it Wil take us another 50 years to recover.

HungerBAD:
OP.

Every time you put a story here,we have to remind you to put your source.

Now put your source,before the grown ups here will comment.

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As far as I am concerned,Dogara should be impeached and a new speaker put in his place.

Dogara was not suppose to be the speaker,he "SARAKI-ED" his way to the speakership,and even if we forgave him.

These allegations from Jubrin,are just too weighty for us to allow him to continue holding his position. As an APC man,I know there is more than an iota of truth in the allegations against him.

This is not the reign of the PDP,where corruption matters are treated as a family matter. It is time for Dogara,to honorably step down.

Gbajabiamilla,it is your time to shine and bring sanity to the house.

Forget the reign of PDP. Open your eyes and ears and then realize that APC and PDP are one and the same thing. Massive corruption is still ongoing as we speak, the current witch hunts disguised as fighting corruption is to divert attention for easy impunity, nepotism, corruption and crass failure on the part of another clueless president and his government.

Lamzee:
You will still visit another hospital, cos me wey be Laptop Engineer, how I wan take give you advice

I think you mean technician, which is not a bad profession at all in itself. Thus, in this situation you need not comment or make sacarsm because na serious matter be this...my prayers for the lady anyways.

Asokoro2:
You should ask before cutting off the head.
We kill every creeping things in Nigeria, even the non venomous snakes.

Hunger is much more in the head than what you feel in your stomach.
Poverty mentality--kill and eat, eat, and eat!

It's time we stop this trend of condemning killing of snakes. It's natural and biblical that man and snakes are eternal enemies. You see a snake under your bed, your first reaction is what? Be honest. To kill it or pet it to come out and take it to where? It's not poverty mentality please. If I kill a snake I ll burn it and dispose it, for those who eat the meat, it's only logical that food don come for free. what u watch on discovery channel or animal planet are professionals studying, otherwise an oyibo man see snake in his house, he ll make attempt to kill it, trust me, if he can't do it he ll call the animal service ppl to come take it out.

ibe9ja:
Please how do you say..."ZOO" in Arabic?

حديقة حيوان

TonyeBarcanista:
Let them go to court

So this is the 3rd report as the post reports, what is\are the result or outcome from the 1st and 2nd reports? no conviction yet on either, does this mean for the next 3 years all PMB will have achieved is to temporarily lock up all perceived opponents who has not decanted to the APC? Because it's obvious nothing is coming out from these hullabaloo of a probe cum arrests.

boss1310:
am only concerned about ufuoma.hmm that's how I want a woman to look not all these fat nyash everywhere

look or your woman and comot your eyes for other women with their fat nyash...some people like am. don't degrade a woman no matter her looks...