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Daeylar:
Submissive wife in this century, na wa.

Taking care of your own house, a house you live in. Taking care of your own children, cooking your own food is too much for you to do, mtcheww
It's mandatory, whether you like it or not,

The wife will get a job, while you sit down and think you can choose if you will take care of your own kids or not. Story.

All that you mentioned are jst gon be done at freewill by d husband
And who said I'm gon sit and watch her get a job,what we're saying here is dat she's gon be working and d husband will be working too,and dat regardless of dat job of hers,she still shouldn't forget the fact that the house chores are her own dutysolely...I might render help at will...
Stop saying it's mandatory ma.

All that you mentioned are jst gon be done at freewill by d husband
And who said I'm gon sit and watch her get a job,what we're saying here is dat she's gon be working and d husband will be working too,and dat regardless of dat job of hers,she still shouldn't forget the fact that the house chores are her own dutysolely...I might render help at will...
Stop saying it's mandatory ma.

dovelike:
OK. Tell me how you think it should be please. I really want to know

smiles,there's nothing to it..
it's jst natural,there's nothing like gender or marriage equality(90% of guys,myself inclusive)sees it as nothing bt pride and unsubmissive act from the wife..
you wouldn't expect me&my wife to be exchanging roles for house chores jst kos she's working too,bt d husband can help at will tho...not seeing it as mandatory or one of his own duties...

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

Girl,your future husband is gon hate yu for ds statement,trust me...
it's obvious you're soliciting for equality in marriage,jst change ur mindset kos dat'll easily send yu bck to ur parents house after some kids probably...
Rubbish.

baba17:
guy pls in order nt to abuse d nairaland policy pls text ur mail or phone number in order to enable me send d booki codes daily to you. but i hav one simple policy of pay after u win. D prices are
500 for 2 odds
1k for 4 odds
2k for 6 odds
3k for 8 odds
pls guys if u knw u wont pay after u win,pls dont post ur mail or number.
finally indicate ur interest of ur desire odds thanks.

08170578338
no harm in trying,since its pay after win

NwaChibuzor504:
Four boys? That home is already in shambles

2ndly after 4 kids, she won't be tight below again. Let her husband just discard her and marry a younger agile blood so he can live a happy man for the rest of his life.

3rdly that husband is very ugly. No wonder he transfered that genetic traits to those helpless offspring.

4thly they are too black for my liking. Well I cant' blame them coz they are afonja. After the _abokis , afonjas take the royal crown of blackhood.

NwaChibuzor504:
Four boys? That home is already in shambles

2ndly after 4 kids, she won't be tight below again. Let her husband just discard her and marry a younger agile blood so he can live a happy man for the rest of his life.

3rdly that husband is very ugly. No wonder he transfered that genetic traits to those helpless offspring.

4thly they are too black for my liking. Well I cant' blame them coz they are afonja. After the _abokis , afonjas take the royal crown of blackhood.

Wasted sperm...smh,may God replenish ur dad of ds loss..

I would go for Kiss Daniel tho the next undiluted talented young musician

foolinlove:
So what if it has? I don't like sex. Wish I was still a virgin and could be so until death.

see one of em here guys
I'm sure you'll even be begging guys to kpansh yu when yu get hot,we sabi una

Jodha:
Read my post again...and correct yhurself...

Nothing contradicts my understanding in wat yu posted....yu were jst 2sided
d part I was referring to anyway was where yu said "is he d first person to send a girl to school"?....it's nothing but an ungrateful comment,thank yu,peace out

Jodha:
The guy is a psycho ....nah him be the first guy to train girl for school?...

He should be burnt alive...wah rabbish....

Killing her is way too extreme...although the lady should have told him she's no longer interested earlier... But that doesn't give him the right to take her life...

In as much as I don't agree with the man decision of killing d girl....yur first statement makes me realize ao ungrateful some girls like yu can be...He used d man resources and money to purchase her own dream,and now dat she's gotten it,the man suddenly became unfit for her calibre..
The man got it wrong the moment he forgot d fact dat"No girl is worth hustling for" except you're not expecting any reward....Rip to her tho

Rolex67:
The silly act of folding N500 into a girl's hand after visiting as Tfare should stop in 2017, guys take note.

so ao much would yu like?
like 5k for Tfare?

FunkyAlhaji2015:
Because she cheated doesn't meann she has to be abused like that. The man should have approached the court with evidence for nuptial annulment. The husband ended up acting more stupidly than the lady

Ori e ti daru

amahthelma:
Lovely reply to that stupid follower.....that's y some fools find it hard to excel in life cause they hate it when others progress and shine........she for even curse d idiot generation

Aunty,y yu kon dey take panadol untop another person headache na,yu too take am personal abeg...
nonetheless,she was pained kos d guy really hit d nail on d head...sooo painful
lwkmd

HajimeSaito:
Let us debate on Nairaland. WhatsApp is too convenient ly private. If I'm going to debate a dawahist, I would much rather prefer to do it on a public forum like Nairaland so that the whole world can be an audience.

A religion cannot transcend its founder. If you dispute the ahadith, sirat rasul Allah and sunnah that I have quoted, please set the records straight..

internet is one place anybody can hide and say anything,I really want yu to see d light..
doing it in person with a dawahist will be d best option

HajimeSaito:
I thought we were all here to learn. If I have caused any offence, then kindly accept my apology, but I will never change my views simply because you disagree with them.

You might be right that there are Christian beggars. The problem is that I've never met any of them. All the beggars I have met all say "Bambi Allah" to me. In fact it was from the mouth of beggars that I first heard the name of Allah. I'm not insulting or mocking anyone. I'm just relating my personal experience.


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As for your challenge, if the likes of Ahmed Derdat and Zakir Naik could be publicly disgraced, then I have nothing to fear from any dawahist as I have already demonstrated.


May Jesus allow the scales to fall from your eyes.

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publicly disgraced by who if I may ask?
besides,d Islamic doctrine is not something we forcefully impose on nonbelievers,the dawah preachers might as well jst let nonbelievers dat thinks they're too wise and brings in irrelevant points to buttress dia points go...they already know the truth,it is yu who is hellbent on proving manipulated book(bible) dat is losing...Their primary assignment as commanded by Allah is to let yu know...urs is to listen and compare without being bias...08170578338,dats my digit if yu think you can flaw any dawah preacher...yu can burst me up on whatsapp and we'll arrange for a meeting with a dawahist.

HajimeSaito:
I don't get it. Are you saying that genuine Ahadith, Sunnah and Surat Rasul Allah cannot be relied upon?
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jst stop assuming you know Mr...
yes we all can see dat hadith yu posted,iono where you're bringing it from tho(bt if it's truly from bukhari as claimed),av yu ever asked an Islamic scholar to interpret it's real meaning for yu?religion quotes are not jst something yu read and assume you understand,yu need detailed description&explanation to understand their meaning....
there are many bible verses which sounds like Jesus was callous,such as when he declared that some people should carry d animals,properties,wives&children of some people and posses em(sounds like encouraging slavery)bt dats not actually wat he meant in dat verse...jst learn b4 criticising sir

HajimeSaito:
MY ENCOUNTER WITH A MUSLIM DAWAH PREACHER

I still remember the first time a muslim tried to convert me to islam. It was on a Friday afternoon about two years ago when I was serving in Ibadan North Local Government. I was on my way home from Bodija market and I was making my way through a crowd of muslim beggars who were begging for alms. I was about to flag down an okada to take me to Agbowo, when I was approached by a smiling young man in a caftan and turban. He greeted me in English (which surprised me) and introduced himself as Ibrahim. He then went on to tell me that he was inviting me to islam.
As he preached and waxed lyrical about the beauty of islam, I was smiling to myself. My smile must have encouraged him that he was about to win a soul because he began to talk in glowing terms about the wonderful qualities of “prophet” Muhammad.
Unfortunately for Ibrahim, he didn’t know that I was smiling because I was remembering all the negative qualities of his beloved “prophet” which are recorded in the Quran and the Hadith. I wondered whether I should continue playing dumb or whether I should honestly reveal all the embarrassing details I knew about “prophet” mohammad.
Should I let Ibrahim know that I was aware of how his beloved “prophet” mohammad slept with his own daughter in law Zainab and ended her marriage to his adopted son Zaid? Or how one night he visited the room of his wife Hafsat to have sex with her but when he found she was not around, he had sex with her servant Mary the Copt?
Or how his “prophet” loved having sex with all of his 11 wives both in the day and in the night time?
Or how the “prophet” of allah killed a Jewish man named Kinana after torturing Kinana to reveal where Kinana’s money was hidden and that after he killed Kinana, he insisted on having sex with Kinana’s beautiful young widow Safiya on the same day that he killed her husband?
Or should I tell him about how his beloved prophet was once possessed by demonic spirits after falling under the influence of a magician?
Or how his “prophet’s” version of the afterlife (life after death) consists of sexual orgies with beautiful virgins called houris and rivers of wine ?
But I never voiced my thoughts. ( I didn’t want to start a religious riot!) Instead, I waited for Ibrahim to finish. After he finished preaching he invited me to say the Shahada (Islamic confession of faith).
I then asked him a question: “Ibrahim, what do you see all around you?” He replied: “ A lot of people, mainly beggars.”
I asked a second question:
“Between me and these beggars, who needs allah more?”
He fell silent. I continued:
“You preach about the beauty of islam and yet we are surrounded everywhere with solid evidence of its wretchedness. Go and take care of your brothers and sisters in islam who are dying of poverty and ignorance and blowing themselves up for an uncaring god. Then you can get back in touch with me and we will have a sincere discussion on matters of faith”
I left my phone number with Ibrahim.
From that day, till the end of my youth service in Ibadan, even unto this day, I never heard from Ibrahim again.

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All I could do to ur comment is to shake head to ur level of ignorance...
yu know nothing about the Holy prophet Muhammad(saw)...christians jst assumes they do know....none of dos leading xtians can stand any Dawah preacher and dialogue on religion matters,they won't even know when they themselves will start seeing the beauty of islam....
yu claimed that yu asked d preacher to preach for beggars first,dude,we dat are reading ur comment ain't stupid na...
wat has dat(d beggars issue) got to do with the issue on ground,do yu know ao many Christian beggars are on d road too?being rich or poor does not debunk the fact dat Islam is d only ordained religion by God...
if yu think you've got a chance to stand any dawah preacher and defeat him as you've claimed,pls let's hook up...God might want to use me to help yu see d light.
ma sallam

SweetJoystick:
Nice, my only issue is the theme. You can't be against tithing as a abolished doctrine and still advocate tithe outside the church. Can be any other challenge but tithe

Things should be done according to the scale of preference Mr....God lays more emphasis on giving alms in d holy books than paying tithes...even the tithes are supposed to be used for d betterment of d life ofdos in abject poverty,for dos people who nids money for medical treatment...bt dis useless self proclaimed men of God diverts d funds to their personal accounts...
Everyday we'll be seeing on news dat somebody nids 1million for some kinda operation...most of ds people attends rich pastors churches...

This guy dat I'll calmly finish if words are to be dictated for us to spell out...is abusing my country?
thunder faya em ancestors

KevinDein:
Absolutely right, at the emboldened

Dunno why d securities at yabaleft psychiatric hospital are always careless,how on earth do yu get to escape the sickbed...yu gotta return Mr,you're chronically getting mentally deranged gradually,I hope yu don't enter market square soon

KevinDein:
I'm not a Barça fan, Just a neutral who understands football enough to know that Messi is planets ahead of Ronaldo. He has the likes of Kroos, Modric, Marcelo (all of whom I'd pick ahead of the tap in specialist) to thank for most of his ballon dor.

Every sane human knows Messi is the GOAT. only Real Madrid and Man Utd fans argue otherwise.

You're not the type one should argue with..
jst imagine the trash yu jst typed,so we who says Ronaldo is better are insane right
yu even said yu would pick d likes of modric&kroos ahead of Cr7...dat jst displayed d level of ur hatred for cr7...
wat would yu say of dos instruments(xavi&iniesta) messi used to claim most of his ballon d 'or'?...b4 kroos&modric even dreamt of joining Real,cr7 had started dominating already...jst stop being fo.....

KevinDein:
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That's all what Ronaldo does these days. He's not even the best player in the city of Madrid.

Really,get ur facts right before you conclude bro...
Ronaldo has scored more goals outta d box dan messi since he joined Realmadrid from united too,he's scored more goals in d box than messi since he joined madrid...
My problem with most barca fans is dat they like idolising messi bt plays down the significance,greatness&extraordinary qualities of Ronaldo...
Messi is no talisman to me,he's normal,he's got many limitations.

szen:
For my nairabet peeps, remember ...

Na so una take hype arsenal last week like we're d underdog...
Mancity can never win ds match,jst kip calm and watch,they'll be lucky to get a draw sef @old trafford today

justseyi:
Great one bro, which state are you running the program?

www.studentvillage.one

@ ilorin,Aodac precisely

currently running the program,and our final exam is jst 2months to go...d program ain't easy truly...bt it helps a lot,you're definitely gon be an outstanding student when you get to d university after being through with the program(dat's of kos for a serious student).

No they're not on d same level anymore
wake me up when messi wins an international trophy with Arg,like copa america too...
then we can now compare their stats and decide d best among em.

AmoryBlacq:
"Portuguese Tony Pulis" if you go school you suppose know I met JM. besides Watford don't park bus that United average club job! second cue!

yes...yu met(meant) maurinho indeed...lmao,I like it when people like yu(ITKs) Bleep up ehn..

BlowBack:
Visiting a high school and taking pics with cheer leaders...

Is this how low the Ooni has become?

it's always hard for people who don't acknowledge other people's progress to progress in life ooo(just a piece of advice)..
change ur tribalistic thinking.

FortifiedCity:
Just shut up. I don't even understand you

fool,how can you understand?
when you're senseless

FortifiedCity:
......and Buhari never acknowledged or sent condolences.

What a President!

see,curses dey follow yu o,to d extent dat yur common sense gan run leave yu..
must yu always blame Buhari for everything?yur common sense didn't even tell you that d president might have done something underneath,must he always publicize every shameful tragedy?may God help you regain yur lost brain ooo...buhari hater....senseless citizen