Espada10:
But to fair..the men then ,were the real men who do not tolerate bullshit..most weren't even that rich but they do not give a fu** and they were respected.. ....isn't that ironic... nowadays, all we see are weak, over romantic ,beta males..like the one I saw crying because he is getting married or what can I say about those on Nairaland that ask stupid questions like "another guy bought an iphone for my fiancee ..should I end the relationship". ..smh

A lot of men respected the women they married too.

Were more responsible than the joke of a Man many of these nairaland baby boys are.

If you are a "real man" ; and you pick right, your woman will respect you naturally, effortlessly and happily

just saying tho

Lol see the easy thing summarised as take care of the home and don't be the source of his stress.This century phew they will say they want this o but it's a lie do this and they still leave you.lol

oyb:


The good old days when Ishi was seen and not heard, and her place was in the kitchen and then the other room; and her only time in the board room was kneeling under the table.

To be Frank though, that article speaks solely to privileged white women of the time. Blacks were not earning nearly enough for single earner households, and the culture of black male incarceration was starting

I thank the Lord that those days are long gone. I can't imagine living in such an era

feminist won't be happy about this ;Dfeminist won't be happy about this

'Be Gay ke Agege ni

dovelike:

OK. Tell me how you think it should be please. I really want to know

smiles,there's nothing to it..
it's jst natural,there's nothing like gender or marriage equality(90% of guys,myself inclusive)sees it as nothing bt pride and unsubmissive act from the wife..
you wouldn't expect me&my wife to be exchanging roles for house chores jst kos she's working too,bt d husband can help at will tho...not seeing it as mandatory or one of his own duties...

Eleribu girls nowadays won't know a thing about this

Bluffly:


You've forgotten, you had a great grandfather, grandfather, and dad and likewise as in-laws or to be in-laws, whichever the case is

A grandfather that lays a rule to treat a grandmother like a maid is stupid

Remmythe:

smiles,there's nothing to it..
it's jst natural,there's nothing like gender or marriage equality(90% of guys,myself inclusive)sees it as nothing bt pride and unsubmissive act from the wife..
you wouldn't expect me&my wife to be exchanging roles for house chores jst kos she's working too,bt d husband can help at will tho...not seeing it as mandatory or one of his own duties...

Submissive wife in this century, na wa.

Taking care of your own house, a house you live in. Taking care of your own children, cooking your own food is too much for you to do, mtcheww
It's mandatory, whether you like it or not,

The wife will get a job, while you sit down and think you can choose if you will take care of your own kids or not. Story.

desreek9:
This is funny, i see only guys commenting above and applauding the tips cos it sure is massaging their masculine ego lmao

So y'all want to tell me there was no divorce during those times or 1950

You think we dont have products of single mum and dads now

You think every couple in 1950s had the opportunity to even see a newspaper talk more of reading it to know things like this

I bet some of your parents were still babies in daipers(no napkins) or were not even born as at then


Continue feeling like kings ooo, be waiting for ladies to worship you

Divorce has always been on the difference is that back then there was a stigma,but now you treat the woman anyhow she is out of the marriage and there is no much stigma attached to it.

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

Go girl,go girl,go girl.

shaybebaby:
Good thing the date said 1950. That was then, this is now.

That shît should stay where it belongs, in the archives of a dark dinghy room where it'll never see the light of day again.

Shay shay has spoken!

Gwilld:
The antidote for divorce is finally out... Men and women are equal, but in marriage the man is always the head. U can't have 2 captains in one ship. God has made the man d head and that is it.. Women want equity but not in sharing responsibilities, especially in terms of finances. Women who are feminists are just directionless and causing useless fuse

That was then this is now if you don't want a partner then you are not ready for marriage.It worked for them because then women were not educated or working not now when women do all these.

desreek9:
This is funny, i see only guys commenting above and applauding the tips cos it sure is massaging their masculine ego lmao

So y'all want to tell me there was no divorce during those times or 1950

You think we dont have products of single mum and dads now

You think every couple in 1950s had the opportunity to even see a newspaper talk more of reading it to know things like this

I bet some of your parents were still babies in daipers(no napkins) or were not even born as at then


Continue feeling like kings ooo, be waiting for ladies to worship you

Yes, a Man is Masculine and naturally egoistic. A woman not ready to recognise this will end up a divorcee.

Yes, there were divorces in those days, but not common like today, and I'm sure you know it, but you are only trying to cover up a shame.

And yes, the man is a king. In fact, a woman who isn't ready to treat her husband as a king shouldn't get married.

You want the man to treat you like a Queen, but you don't want to treat him like a king? What manner of selfishness is that? You forgot that you can only be a queen because he is a king.

dovelike:
When men worked while women stayed back home. Today women are also working. Who will look after them as well?

Back then, women did menial jobs to support their husbands income or to keep busy, but today women are pushed to get educated and get a well paying job too because ''men'' now want educated women. Then when home duties slack, men will complain. These demands on women sometimes are insane.

Some men are just looking for someone to baby them and clean up after their lazy self.

Simple, a wife is a wife, definitely, but if she is going to be actively involved in providing for the family too, nothing stops you Mr. husband from putting the kettle to boil as well.

men did not start the demand or the pressure on women to be educated, women forced their way into education and the workplace true feminism,then men had no choice buh to accept women that way and have gotten used to it,now u women are saying we are pressuring and making demands on women?? women are funny

LadyGoddiva:
Bullshit
If that was the norm of those days, the dirty, scumbag and useless men of today don’t deserve such treatments abeg.
Thunder fire any idiot who expects any female of today to do any of this shît!

I know many women who still treat their husbands this way. I'm even surprised that some people think its uncommon here. its very normal especially in Yoruba land I'm based.
female of today. if you don't want to do all these to your husband,you can stay single then or expect divorce or your husband bringing in another wife that's willing to do all these

WHOcarex:
Hippocrates everywhere. Why una dey update una phones and apps? Why una to stick to the old version? They want women to work so they can assist with bills. Saying, its not easy these days for a man to handle the responsibilities alone. But ask them to assist with house chores, you are a feminist. Ask them to treat you with respect, you are demanding equal right.

I should follow the rules some stupid men laid ages ago just to glorify themselves

King my ass

When the time is right dem no dey tell person. Na your body go tell you when you're a divorced, hopefully childless and perpetually bitter old wrench at age 50+.

akeentech:
HOW DO I GO BACK TO 1950 PLS?

You can go to America and look for scientist they can give you a time machine and you can even go to 1759 self in those times self the women were even servants so better for you.

Ishilove:

I thank the Lord that those days are long gone. I can't imagine living in such an era

The days are coming when the woman will worship her man again and the man will also love his wife.

WHOcarex:
A grandfather that lays a rule to treat a grandmother like a maid is stupid

That means stupidity runs in the family because he must have given birth to both female and male children. It's in the gene which will obviously be affecting his generation

khalhokage:
Na so, it's a good thing we're past that archaic period.

Wife not slave.

What are you for real?

The recent marriages we do have these days don't last as devious has taken the order for the day... Most especially the ladies who lack respect to their men are problem to themselves....

Our ladies are to be courtesy and maturity, while men re to be taught faithfulness, endurance and leadership

Xisnin:
Tips to slave for your husband.
It could be partly justified then because many of the men were sole provider.
But the jobless youths of these days want to be worshipped because they are men.

Well many of the "jobless" youths of today are in that situation because the jobs meant for them are unfairly allocated to women who are mostly comparatively less qualified and less competent. No thanks to bottom power and the so-called gender equality movement.

At least those days, men got the jobs because men always need the jobs more.

Funny.

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hedonistical:


When the time is right dem no dey tell person. Na your body go tell you when you're a divorced, hopefully childless and perpetually bitter old wrench at age 50+.

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Unfortunately for people like you. All these scare tactics don't work again,
See the way he is saying hopefully childless. See the kind of bitterness in his heart, no wonder he is looking for who will be bitter with him. LMAO

You people want to bring zero to a relationship while expecting to be treated like Gods but when women don't put up with such nonsense you become bitter.

Wake up, we are in. 2018,
Divorcees are getting married, women above 50 are getting married, heck women are even choosing to not marry and to not have kids.

Better move with the times, before you are the one over 50 lonely as Fuçk and without kids. Unable to find a good woman, because you're Still crying about all these women who won't kiss your ass

MrPresident1:


The days are coming when the woman will worship her man again and the man will also love his wife.

Point of Correction. No human is to be worshipped. only God deserves worship.

Baffupdrizz:
That was the golden age, before fat ugly women started the feminist movement to claim that all gender roles should be reversed and that cooking is slavery.

What a pity!

It is not a pity we thank God for democracy,liberalism,education and even feminism.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Divorce has always been on the difference is that back then there was a stigma,but now you treat the woman anyhow she is out of the marriage and there is no much stigma attached to it.

And why would a man treat a woman anyhow?

hedonistical:


Well many of the "jobless" youths of today are in that situation because the jobs meant for them are unfairly allocated to women who are mostly comparatively less qualified and less competent. No thanks to bottom power and the so-called gender equality movement.

At least those days, men got the jobs because men always need the jobs more.

This is another interesting angle to the discussion.

Remmythe:

Girl,your future husband is gon hate yu for ds statement,trust me...
it's obvious you're soliciting for equality in marriage,jst change ur mindset kos dat'll easily send yu bck to ur parents house after some kids probably...
Rubbish.

It is not equality but egalitarianism and besides it is their house and not the husband's only.

Daeylar:
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Unfortunately for people like you. All these scare tactics don't work again,
See the way he is saying hopefully childless. See the kind of bitterness in his heart, no wonder he is looking for who will be bitter with him. LMAO

You people want to bring zero to a relationship while expecting to be treated like Gods but when women don't put up with such nonsense you become bitter.

Wake up, we are in. 2018,
Divorcees are getting married, women above 50 are getting married, heck women are even choosing to not marry and to not have kids.

Better move with the times, before you are the one over 50 lonely as Fuçk and without kids. Unable to find a good woman, because you're Still crying about all these women who won't kiss your ass

Waow!
So Daeyler can actually speak!like this