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Danzakidakura:
how i wish you will help the other brother too,so that he wont be mistaken a stone to diamond.

Sorry I won't do that

emkz:
Bro, in a year's time, you'd be grateful that she's no longer in your life. Someone mentioned that no matter how much you try to upgrade some of them, they'd still act their class, while another said a woman who leaves you for another man is undeserving of you. You have done your best. It is not until you sacrifice your life that someone can see your value. Pack your love and give it to someone deserving.

For every badly behaved girl, there are ten well-behaved girls. I can assure you. Some of them are on this forum. I know because I interact with them.

I make mistakes. That's my own problem

monichannel:
Op, you be real mahn

Do give us update as it unveils, many will learn from you

Nothing else have happened since last night. I will update when there is any

GeniusWannabe:
Based on how you narrated this, you're a real gentleman. Some twisted minds would say you never really loved her for not putting up a fight (not literally).
Expecting a thread from you about her asking for forgiveness and reacceptance lol.

When I said I have moved on, take those words for real. I will update her next moves

ambassadorgozie:
bros i admire your maturity, pls take heart
i will like u to keep us posted abt it
don't entertain any emotional blackmail or wotsoever from her

Believe me I won't

SouthSouth1914:
She want your girlfriend in the first place. If she was, she wouldn’t follow that guy to the club at night after you catching her during the day. I love your sense of firmness! We all here know you are deeply hurt, but that’s life! You need to move on same way she did. Cheers

I have already moved on.

luvyaself95:
so funny manipulator at her game again.

It won't change a thing

colorsofrainbow:
as in...U are a BRO,not some d!cks that would have come here to start asking what to do

I just want people to learn and always be on the look out. I have taken my decision before posting this last night

obi4eze:
I just feel compelled to reply because I like the way you handled the whole thing. Very mature and without much emotions or sentiment. Thumbs up bro! I must commend your maturity a lot.

We should be spiritually and physically alert concerning the issues of marriage and getting a life partner. It will go a long way to help our future and forget anyone telling you to start sleeping around or sleep with her as a form of payback. It doesn't help at all.

Thanks.

Thanks. I have respected her body all along.

alphaNomega:
Good thing you found out early. No hard feelings



There is no formula for this thing. Even the ONE you choose can still mess you up.

You did not have to block her after viewing her WhatsApp status, that's a díck move. Your choice though.

I'm comfortable that way

snitchbitch:
if this story is TRUE, then good things are knocking on your door!!! Take heart man!! Hoes plenty pass these days!!!

If it's true I caught her or what exactly?
If not that I respect people's rights, I have their pics and videos with me

backbone503:
No give any girl the privilege to rubbish you. And when she opts for another guy, wish her the best, and carry on as if nothing happened. And infact, nothing happened.

I'm stronger than this. This one too will pass away. It's already past

KiidaACE:
Reading this just made me feel so angry for you bro ...
I've always had a serious problem feeling and returning affection.. I'm like so distant emotionally, Most times end up driving everyone away with my attitude..

Reading stories on this forum and now yours also?
I'm really starting to believe i don't have a "problem".. The way I'm wired might probably be my biggest blessing from God..

I honestly don't know how you feel right now but one thing I can say is you're one very matured dude.. You handled it like a real gee should..

Believe me, it would've been way more easier for her if you'd just blown up right there and then but the "silence" and "walk away" shit? Meehnn, you best believe her status about wanting to commit suicide cause the sound of silence in matters like this is most times deafening..

Just cheer up okay?? There are still good ones out there.. You dodged a bullet, take that as a positive..

Thanks very much for your concern. I have never been a relationship type. I went to uni and came out without any relationship wahala. It was after service I chose to give it a try. My greatest mistake. Stay single till u are ready for marriage a d just pick one. U will never ever regret it

chigoziri2403:
God really loves you, all things work for good,
You wont understand what you escaped.

There is this inner peace I feel now when I slept and woke up

lefulefu:
aghh marital rights .pls before u thinking of marriage with any lady u should know her inside out and know her friends as well.even though u guys had been together it seems u really didnt know the girl then.e no hard to know a girl wey dey play around with other men nau .there is always something secretive about them.abeg next time take time to know the girl cos if u dont u will just end up marrying a runz girl who will still sleep around when u both married.

I believe I didn't do enough to study her. She put up this great attitude and bought my heart and I cared less about other things. How she found her way to my elder sis's heart is another thing altogether. I pray she forgives herself

daddytime:
Na God help you disgrace her because your thoughts to her wards were pure and genuine.

It happens a lot.

She knows it

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Cuccitini:
Hope u add concrete to d cement of the break up so u wouldn't be feeling sorry for her

U think it's funny huh?

SalafRider:
Damn, heavy respect niqqa. No drama no nothing, when my ex text me that she was leaving I was like "Good luck". I was heartbroken but bleep it, my AZ never dissapoint i am over that sh*t already. I can't kee myself, its fun to be single believe me man, too much freedom comes along with it...

Freedom is really sweet. My silence is the beginning of my onw wrath. She doesn't exist to me anymore

sweetonugbu:
pretenders is the worst set of girls I hate, ask her a reason for her behavior and she will start speaking Latin. It's not easy but calm down and try to ignore her don't be angry even if you are don't show it, she will come back they always do, when she does that is when the real game starts and if you are a talented player like yours sincerely you will enjoy it.

Thanks but then, she won't ever get the chance to come a yard close. I'm not after what her body has to offer all along

Cuccitini:
Op pls dnt listen to any crocodile tears or any sermon dat has love in it if she come begging

I'm not a weakling. She knew there is no coming out of that. The breakup is cemented

backbone503:
Naso I be, broe. Any girl wer leave you for another guy no deserve your concern.

I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

Akanoaaa:
If the girl could follow him to party after you left there that means the lady had long broke up with you. you was only one dating yourself since. But thank God you finally free.

They were actually sitting outside and drinking at same place when I went there. They just went inside. It doesn't matter anywhere

0ppa:
I don't do relationships. I do marriage.

I have joined u

HarunaWest:
Sorry man....one of those lessons in Life..Some people no matter how polished you try to make em be,they will still act their class...Their Class is Permanent.

That's is it. At least I kept to my words. I assured her when we started that if they would ever be any cause for separation, that it wouldn't come from me.

sweetonugbu:
Nwoke na ife, these hoes ain't loyal, cheer up man. Some of them are too materialistic and has fish brain.

I'm just surprised because I make sure we share what we have. What if I tell u she waited for me outside the church gate this morning to collect some money for offering and ish

Mood11:
Thanksgiving Celebration for you my Chairman.
See as you Dodge bullet o

U can say that again

Mood11:
It's okay to feel bad.
But move On.

Run some tests too to confirm your health status.
Your own woman will find you.
True love will not elude you.

No sex or any sort.

HarunaWest:
You can Imagine...Nawa ooo...She ain't definitely ready to tie the knot

She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha

lefulefu:
so u were just a assistant boyfriend .hope u didnt waste all ur hard earned spending on her under the guise of girlfriend allowance .anyway sorry for ur loss and happy sunday.

Brother we didn't start today. It has bn rossy or so I thought for the time we have bn together. We were supposed to start marital rights by next month. Do u even know that the guy updated his whatsapp stories of pics and videos with her earlier this night at a club and I saved them. I would have posted them here but it's not necessary. I saved them for reference proposes

Mood11:
Thanksgiving Celebration for you my Chairman.
See as you Dodge bullet o

It's just unfortunate. I'm also happy because we were planning to meet the church board on 17th of December to be interviewed prior to marriage. Thank God we haven't met them. Ally efforts are gone just like that. I wonder what some girls actually want

kingkakaone:
I hope you have forgiven her even as you've broken up with her in your heart?

I just forgot her. That's enough

Quiver:
An easy and simple breakup... Enjoy the beauty of singleness mate

Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready