Health › Re: Man Alleges UPTH Denied His Brother Emergency Treatment Over Lack Of BP Monitor by reubenobi(m): 7:13pm On Oct 28 |
The money meant for an average Nigerian have been embezzled by people who couldn't take away the corrupt nature(sin) in them. If only they knew that every money they steal, they deprive people of their right. We will all give account. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Let Your Next Sexual Partner Be Your Spouse” – Nathaniel Bassey Tells Hallelujah by reubenobi(m): 6:11pm On Oct 27 |
Daniluv1: You dey mind them? Dem just dey put themselves for tight settings with their own hands God go just dey look them dey laugh 😃 GOD'S ways cannot be changed. You speak from the lust of your heart. Sin corrupts the heart. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Let Your Next Sexual Partner Be Your Spouse” – Nathaniel Bassey Tells Hallelujah by reubenobi(m): 6:10pm On Oct 27 |
Patd234588: I wish i can, but i am hooked on the sins of the flesh, i went to mountain of fire on sunday and came back home and watched porn and masturbated. I am in love with a child hood friend that is married and we plan to have sex soon. Yet i love God so much. I wish i can get married tomorrow morning and finally shame the god of lust a broken and a contrite heart, He would not forsake. |
Crime › Re: Banker, Chukwuebuka Nweke Jailed For Stealing From Customer’s Account by reubenobi(m): 11:19am On Oct 23 |
Deal with the corruption in you before it deals with you! |
Crime › Re: Missing Nigerian Tiktoker Sarah Lizzy Found Dead (video) by reubenobi(m): 3:41pm On Oct 19 |
Corruption in human... Jesus is able to take away that corruption nature in you. The thing about this corruption is that it keeps on growing. |
Crime › Re: Suspected Gay Boy Beaten In Ilaro, Ogun State by reubenobi(m): 2:51pm On Oct 19 |
The ones committing sexual immorality, adultery, scamming etc. thinks he or she is different from this man not knowing that same corruption in that man is same in them. They don't know that all will be judged together as that sinful nature is in them. Will you come to JESUS so that He can take away that corrupt nature and give you His Life? |
Politics › Re: Ex-Delta Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan Is Dead by reubenobi(m): 2:42pm On Oct 19 |
mablie: Whether present or past,I despise ALL Nigerian politicians
May he rest in pieces Do you think you are different from them. The corruption (sin) in them amplify every desire of man. Some is sexual immorality, masturbation, adultery etc. same judgement will come to all because of this nature. But praise be to JESUS He has come to deliver us from that sinful nature if only we can come to Him. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Rev. Father Patricio Sánchez Killed By Falling Cross During Mass in Ecuador by reubenobi(m): 10:23pm On Oct 18 |
Death can come when you least expect. Why don't you come to JESUS now that HIS grace is still available. |
Crime › Re: Two Women Caught Trying To Steal Newborn Baby From Hospital (Video) by reubenobi(m): 5:53pm On Oct 18 |
Sin amplify the evil desires in human.. it might be your turn tomorrow. Come to Jesus and let HIM take away that corrupt nature in you. The evil desires grows continually. |
Romance › Re: A Brother Needs An Advice. by reubenobi(m): 5:43pm On Oct 18 |
ManLikeL: Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?
I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.
I haven't really been the type to consider a serious relationship for a while now. It's just been a couple of sex partners here and there. We do it safely and keep things on a superficial level.
Now, recently, there have been demands and questions here and there about starting a family, especially considering that my immediate junior brother is done having children. His lastborn will be three next month, while the lastborn of my family is also done having kids. Her firstborn is already 10 years old.
I seem to be the only odd one out in this regard, even though I'm arguably more financially settled than all of them. Not to brag, please; I'm just trying to paint a clearer picture of the situation.
I clocked 35 in May, and it was as if everyone in the universe agreed to centre their birthday wishes around God providing me with a wife and family. Ever since then, the reminders from my folks have been pretty loud, persistent, and disturbing.
For the first time in years, I decided to seek a proper relationship, unlike my usual superficial flings and sexcapades.
Come to think of it, I can barely go three days without proper sex. This detail should be useful later.
I met this very beautiful babe from my state. She's 27, a first-class graduate (I am too, actually), and I'm naturally attracted to every facet of intelligence, especially communicative and academic intelligence. She has both, and I'm superbly into her.
She can hold a very reasonable conversation without leaving you mentally exhausted. She's become an integral part of my life, and at this point, I think it's safe to say I'm deeply attracted to her and genuinely like her.
Worthy of note is the fact that I've enjoyed a very unusual level of peace with her over the past three months, which is absolutely unlike me.
I get correct anger ish, although I've learnt to manage it well. I'm not a violent person, but I pick offences easily, and most times, I walk away when provocations get too loud. More often than not, my walking away is goodbye. I'm so good at it.
But since meeting this babe, we've not had any ugly disagreements over these past few months. She's very calm, calculated, and receptive. These qualities have made me like her even more.
She has a reasonably good-paying job, but that's not even an issue. I earn well enough to cater for everything, but she's also financially independent. Gifting seems to be her thing, too, as she's spent quite a sum on gifts for me without expecting anything in return. I haven't even matched up to a quarter of what she's spent on gifting though.
For the first time in my life, I agreed to a no-sex-before-marriage relationship because she's a virgin.
I still dey run my games on a low, so this didn't really look like an ish.
Here lies the rub.
Just last week, she said she had a confession to make, and she opened up about being SS. Mind you, I'm AA, so, by the usual norms, this shouldn't be an issue.
But during one of our previous conversations, she had claimed to be AS and asked if I would be comfortable settling down with someone who was SS. I almost freaked out.
I'm sorry, but I've always wanted to have AA kids. With apologies to those affected, I've always believed that if I ever have children, I owe them the best possible chances at life, including heightened intelligence, beauty, and a sound genotype. I believe I have a reasonable degree of control over who complements my genes to bring these qualities to fruition.
I'm honestly very good-looking and intelligent, so why not get someone who possesses these qualities, too?
Call it insipid or vapid, but I could swear that life has already dealt some people heavy blows by limiting their options in their quest for a future partner. Unlike those of us with AA genotypes, who can consider partners across all the common genotypes without the same risk of having children with sickle cell disease, they don't always have that freedom. I wanted my kids to have that freedom and an avalanche of options, too.
So, when she asked me that question, I sincerely freaked out and couldn't hide my disdain.
This, in turn, stopped her from opening up until last week, when she could no longer hide it.
Funnily enough, I already like her to the point where I don't mind if she's SS, BB, or iPhone. 
But the fact that she lied is what actually turned out to be my ish. She's been a very straightforward person so far, and this particular issue has upset our fashioned norms.
I proposed that the no-sex-before-marriage agreement should be off if we were going to be together, and she agreed. But now, I'm beginning to think it might look as though I'm trying to take advantage of her at this point.
Brothers, what will you advise a brother? Am I being unreasonable? Considering the emotional supports people with SS need, how challenging can it be? What is the possibility that she lives long enough?
All insults, curses, and whatever are welcome. T for grateful. you are happy sleeping with women that you are not married to thinking that's how it ought to be. There are consequences of every actions we take. Deal with that corruption that lies in you first else, it will be an open invitation for the devil to come in when you want to get married. The two shall become one is when you are married but now, you have become one with every woman you go about sleeping with in the spirit. My advice for you is to repent! |
Crime › Re: DSS, Military And Police Arrest Imo NYSC Kidnappers by reubenobi(m): 9:19am On Oct 18*. Modified: 9:34am On Oct 18 |
I read here people saying kill them others saying burn them. The corruption in them made them to kidnap, the corruption in you makes you to commit sexual immorality, masturbation, cultism, adultery etc. what makes you think you will be left out on the day you will give account of your sinful ways? Jesus have come to deliver us from that corruption in us. You are no different from this NYSC kidnappers if you continue in your sin. |
Romance › Re: I Cheated On My Wife!! by reubenobi(m): 11:29pm On Oct 16 |
The corruption you don't deal with before marriage will follow you into marriage. Cut it off before it cuts you off.. but there is hope and that hope is in JESUS. |
Crime › Re: Chaos In Ajah, Lagos, As Man Steals Toyota Hilux & Injures Many People by reubenobi(m): 11:07am On Oct 14 |
You see this corruption in man, it grows daily. Things you think you can't do you begin to do it.. but JESUS alone can deliver us from it!! |
Health › Re: The Brevity Of Life, Enjoy The Present As Much As You Can (Video) by reubenobi(m): 6:11pm On Oct 13 |
A life lived here on earth without JESUS is not a life. |
Crime › Re: Man Buys 120 Buckets Of Paint, Discovers 46 Contain Water Instead by reubenobi(m): 2:33pm On Oct 13 |
Corruption inside of human. Everyone of us has it but the goodness is that, JESUS has come to save us from it if only we can come to HIM. Will you come to HIM or you will allow that corruption to continue growing? |
Romance › Re: I Tried All Business But Failed - Only Olosho Worked For Me - Lady by reubenobi(m): 9:46pm On Oct 12 |
That's the corruption inside of her speaking. And it grows daily if JESUS doesn't take it away from us. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by reubenobi(m): 12:11pm On Oct 11 |
Amwitty: Ok give us biblical and scriptural backings to everything he said. go and watch his video to know what he stands for. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Here’s What You Need To Know About Apostle Arome’s Trending Moment by reubenobi(m): 10:08am On Oct 11 |
If you are a true christian and you hate this man, then something is wrong with the foundation of your believe or your mind have not been renewed. |
Celebrities › Re: Madam Saje Knew About Some Women I Dated But Never Told My Wife - Yinka Quadri by reubenobi(m): 8:47pm On Oct 10 |
The corruption in man. It's so deep!! |
Celebrities › Re: Reaction As Nigerian Lady Flaunts Business Built From “hookup” Earnings (Photos) by reubenobi(m): 12:10pm On Oct 08 |
If only she knew that her being alive is GOD'S grace beckoning on her to repent. If only she knew!!! |
Crime › Re: AAU Lecturer, Mathew Uwuigbe Dies In Hotel 'After Meeting With Sex Worker' by reubenobi(m): 9:16pm On Oct 07 |
The corruption in man(sin) create in us evil desires of different kinds. But the good news is that, JESUS have come to set us free from it! |
Crime › Re: Woman Sells Her Twins, Steals 19 Children In Oyo, Caught By Police (Video, Pics) by reubenobi(m): 4:11pm On Sep 09 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Good-bye Sex With EX Before Wedding, Not For Born Again Sisters And Brothers by reubenobi(m): 9:51am On Sep 06 |
Lakside1955: I was shocked the day my ex that wants to get married called me on Friday night, a day b4 her wedding, and told me we are having sex tonight, that her husband already gone for bachelor party, and she knows they prepared 2 girls for him, and she wanted to have sex also b4 wedding with me, that I should meet her at one hotel like that, saying i’m the only one normally handle her well on bed, omo I declined o, cos I can’t do such, my conscience won’t just gree.
This girl still called me like 2 months after that we should see privately claiming her husband is not satisfying her well at all, saying she used to sleep off after just one round, girls that normally goes 4-5 rounds with me b4 she meet that rich guy you are happy breaking divine covenant instead of you to begin to ask for mercy from GOD. |
Politics › Re: Offia-Nwali Accused Of Ordering Abduction, Stomping On Young Man’s Head by reubenobi(m): 9:38am On Sep 03 |
NIGERIAJAGAJAGA: Nigerians like using unnecessary power once they have it. what makes you think you can't do such as well. You really don't know what resides in you except GOD show you mercy. Jesus have come to deliver us from that power of sin that create evil desires in us. |
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boy Holds Victims’ Photos While Heading For Ritual by reubenobi(m): 11:00pm On Sep 02 |
NGArmyTerrorist: Lol, I don't discourage people towards their faith. Follow whichever way that is comfortable with you, death is for everybody. My great grandma lived up to 130 years before she died, she doesn't know what jesus is. there is only one through way! How can someone who doesn't have the light in him know the way? Jesus have come to give us a LIFE that will help us to live a life that is pleasing to GOD but men love living in sin that's why they always find one excuses to give. |
Crime › Re: Police Officers Run As Drone Records Extortion In Osogbo (Photos, Video) by reubenobi(m): 3:42pm On Sep 01 |
Bridget95: Corrupt phoolz in black the sin in them makes them to do things that you think is corrupt. Have we bothered to check what that sin in us create that is not please to GOD? yours can be something else and to GOD it is corrupt. |
Crime › Re: Police Officers Run As Drone Records Extortion In Osogbo (Photos, Video) by reubenobi(m): 3:38pm On Sep 01 |
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Crime › Re: Man Who Dressed As A Woman And Lived With Female Roommates Caught After Months by reubenobi(m): 2:52pm On Sep 01 |
ExAngel007:
sin will create in you evil desires! But the good news is that, JESUS have come to deliver us from it all. Will you accept HIM or you will continue in your sin. It can be your turn tomorrow! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Acts 1:8 Is Not About Power - It's About Knowledge by reubenobi(m): 4:22pm On Aug 31 |
MaxInDHouse: You're just here to argue blindly why not quote God's word to support your premises if truly you understand it?
I told you God never gave anyone who is not an Israelite in Bible times the privilege to perform miracles you can't prove me wrong.
I told you after Jesus such gifts stopped even among first century Christians after the destruction of Jerusalem you can't prove me wrong.
I told you the reason why it's so you can't prove me wrong but just arguing because of those deceivers telling you lies. When they are sick they will use your money to fly abroad for treatment but when you are sick they will tell you to come for miracles and gather actors to make you feel there is power to do so.
Well i never came here for aimless arguments i have proved my point but if anyone as in ANYONE wants to prove me wrong the Bible is there and you can also mention the name of your church where real miracles happens in the hand of your PASTOR!🙂 why should I continue arguing with you when I know that nothing I say will matter to you. Since you claim all stopped, are you now saying 1 Corinthians 12 vs 8-10 is not in your Bible? Was Timothy an Israelite before he was giving gift by the laying of hands of the presbytery(1 Timothy 4 vs 14, or was it by faith in Christ Jesus it came to him? You cannot experience miracle because your heart have been shut from it. Even if it's done in your face, you still won't believe. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Acts 1:8 Is Not About Power - It's About Knowledge by reubenobi(m): 3:31pm On Aug 31 |
MaxInDHouse: Please are you talking about the office that has produced no fine fruit among you people? Matthew 7:16-18
Well knowing the office of the Prince of Peace {Isaiah 9:6} should help to teach you how peace supposed to reign among all his disciples globally! Act 1:8 you cannot see the fine fruit when your heart is dull of understanding. I just pray you will be set free from this stronghold of delusion you are in. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Acts 1:8 Is Not About Power - It's About Knowledge by reubenobi(m): 2:56pm On Aug 31 |
MaxInDHouse: I'm 100% sure that there is none after the destruction of Jerusalem in the first century God never gave anyone power to perform miracles again because the people who supposed to benefit from it has been dispersed from that land.
You people aren't ready to STUDY God's word instead it's signs and wonders that's pushing you from one deceiver to another. Matthew 16:4 I just can't stop laughing at your ignorance. You really lack knowledge about the office of Christ. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Acts 1:8 Is Not About Power - It's About Knowledge by reubenobi(m): 2:36pm On Aug 31 |
MaxInDHouse: If you're not interested in the truth i am not forcing it on you that's why i only quoted the OP not you. So if you can't mention the church that is performing real miracles and not just actors it's better not to engage me Sir!🙂 So, your problem now is finding the church that is performing miracles, But not finding the pathway of the truth. |