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Bluetooth2:
Common sense

A Niger delta man abandoned Jonathan yet decides to name his dog a northern name while an ibo lady neglected Ojuku and name her cat after a yoruba .

Other times you dont need the constitution to tell you what is wrong or right.

Assuming that what you said makes sense, which I dont buy, lack of common sense still isnt a criminal offence yet. My argument is against the authorities bundling him up and taking him in custody for 3 days. It is not just right.

Bluetooth2:
He was thrown in jail for naming his dog Buhari which isn't only reprehensible but utterly derogatory.

And who made it derogatory? You or the constitution?

I have said it before, Nigeria is NOT a country to be proud of. We have NO single respect for basic human rights. Why exactly was that man thrown in jail?

#igiveup

And the poor dog that did nothing

Toks2008:
Young lady please take a cold glass of water and a chill pill then answer this question in all sincerity.

If a 40 year old single mum or widow friend of yours comes to you to advice her if she should marry a married man who is asking for her hand in marriage...would you ask her not to?

If you have a never married 42 year old lady friend intending to marry a married man would you ask her not to but wait more for a single never married guy?

Waiting for your answer and how I wish Seun or lalasticlala can also answer this simple question.

Oh, you are still talking? As per your last mention thay I was trolling, I decided to shut your shrill voice out. Anyways, as per your question, I would never advise someone else to marry an already married and still married man. A lifetime of unrest and unhappiness follows which simply is not worth the hassle. Can you now stop talking? This thread is definately NOT frontpage nound.

Moz22:
be looking for trouble u hear..

I didn't start it

Teespice:
my maternal grandfather had three wives. my grandmother being the second wife.

I know what my grandmother, my mum and her siblings went through growing up. it wasn't funny at all.

All what you have written is simply theory. practically, it is impossible. as usual, you write like someone who knows it all. anyhow, it's the internet where anything goes.

all this talk is just what it is, talk. practice polygamy first let us see how successful it is from your end. who knows we might follow suit.

Exactly. The op should read this again.

Toks2008:
Polygamy and polygamous homes are too different things.

Many married men practise polygamy but they don't have a home with two wives.

Nevertheless it is important to look at the points raised and discuss them rather than directing any question to me.

My disclaimer says it all so learn to address issues objectively.

I should look at what you said but not the source? Toks, your issues in life are really deep-rooted. Just look at what you wrote again. You will see the crazy in it, I promise.

PayBoyXclusives:
Am an African man and traditionally i can marry as many wives as i can take care of.. NO WOMAN OR CHILD HAS THE RIGHT TO CHASE OUT ANOTHER WOMAN OR CHILD DECLARED A MEMBER OF THE FAMILY EITHER BY BIRTH OR MARRIAGE.. With all i know and as an African Man aware that am a Man i can control as many wives and children of mine with the right decision and punishment for whosoever wishes to challenge my authority as the man.. So YES I CAN RAISE MY KIDS IN A POLYGAMOUS HOME to be responsible and better citizens

You sound someone is arguing with your masculinity. Your post reek of the kind of insecurity that comes with the experience of polygamy. You clearly have unresolved issues with polygamy.

Moz22:
is that d concluding part of that poem?

Yeah. As we sang it then

Pouyan:
I barely had time for myself, I'm in a relationship with myself now, because I alone deserve all the love and care! Don't care about my ex + women in general are just so tiring to commit to em.

Another funny one upset she has moved on? Speak for yourself papi. Right now, I'm upset I don't have the latest iphone. I don't even know what she has been upto for 4 months now

one part of me kindof told me I planned for the break up from the very beginning.. I never made friends with any of her friends.. Now, it's so much easier.

Some people.. People like me deleted her number after the break up. It's called "MOVING ON"

I hate to break it to you, but you are NOT over your ex

PayBoyXclusives:
Well don't know about op.. but i was raised in a polygamous family,we had family issues sometimes but i believe every family does. WE ALL DISAGREE TO AGREE.. it gave me strength and the spirit of a hustler and now am suffering from too much success..

Would you raise your kids in a polygamous home then?

Toks2008,

I just have one question for you

Where you raised in a polygamous family?

The same way you took your time to research how polygamy will make life better for men and women, also research about how life is in a polygamous home.

And to wrap it up, take your time and read this somewhat realistic Nigerian novel "The secret lives of Baba Segi's wives"

Unless my 3 best friends, or 2 cousins suffer something like food poisoning simultaneously on my wedding day

Or...I choose to have my wedding in a remote location (Fantasy), in which case, I won't use a bridesmaid at all

Hard and smart work pays

Go Linda!

Because it hurts! And it makes you want to question your value.

You ask yourself....What exactly was I lacking? Am I incomplete or something? And if he/she left you for another person, you ask yourself what you don't have that the person has.

It is not really about the prospect of not dating anymore, but the aftertaste.

Stupid stupid stupid

Like you!

Nusaf:
Hahhahahahahahahaha. Fruitless attempt to change theme. We, and other regions need prayers but certainly not from the street. Just look at who is talking of prayer. Kikikikikikikikikikikiki Kikikikikikikikikikikiki. Abeg no even try am because ur prayers na curse and what we need is prayers and we know where to look for prayer warriors.

Em....? Excuse me? Do you realize you sound like a mad person? I was here expecting a mature response and this is what I got?

Take your wahala and go abeg.

Nusaf:
Keep ur prayers to urself cos we don't need them.

If for one minute you think I am praying for you, you must be listening to the wrong prayers

Abeg swerve off my mentions

Nusaf:
More than ten cases involving rape, gang rape,robbery in ur place was reported today. Don't pray for that one, but keep praying for the north. Even the 6 yr old that was raped by a hiv positive adult is a blessing to ur people, so u can pray for more of those blessings. Hypocrisy is when ur problem stares u in the face but u busy are solving the problem of ur neighbour.

If you have nothing better to say, please keep quiet

Are you always present when I say my prayers? How do you even know my place? People like you have not only lost their hearts, they are about to lose their humanity too.

glossy6:
#prayforthenorth

after

#prayingforthesouth

Aunty you can pray for the two of them

This one is so lucky his story made it to the news.

The real truth is that there are thousands of this type of kids in the north. A lot of them don't even know their birth parents as they are transferred from state to state. They usually end up begging to keep body and soul together.

I wish people will understand the enormous ignorance and poverty that goes on in the North.

For every fine and wealthy northern girl/boy that we see on the internet, there are thousands very less fortunate ones.

#prayforthenorth

SirWere:
Quora is filled with professors, master students and really really intelligent people.

Besides, It has such a vast array of people, from different countries; each a leading figures in whichever field they specialize in.


You obviously can't compare it to Nairaland

Of course I am not comparing it in the sense of responses and user engagement quality.

I am looking at it based on its progressive nature. Quora has a platform that is appealing and comfortable and user-friendly. Nairaland on the other hand, though small, has refused to be progressive in any way. We still have basically the same platform outlook after such a long time. No new features, no modified features, everything is just the same old boring way it has always been.

Anything is good enough until it chooses to br stagnant. Then, it becomes mediocre.

juicydiceyjoe:
Never use JAMB to judge anything; it is an exam filled with too many irregularities.

Emmm

Read my last sentence again

kwaso2:
Amebo

I bet you dumped her

kwaso2:
Well, You wouldn't generalize. The only lady I had met from here was real, pretty, objective & homely. She travelled through two states to my location. Without asking for kobo. Even d food we cooked( when am happy, I cook for fun) she opted to buy what i didn't have in d kitchen with her Mooney. I even hosted her in a self Con and lied of not having a car all to dissuade her. Just was turned off cos she is not as educated as I appreciate. Just be smart, good girls are everywhere. Shine ur eyes. Continue

And what later happened to that girl?

I never knew I would ever say this....

But this is the endtime truly

jaybillionaire:
lol I can feel ur pain with dis, especially with the last smiley. By now u should know dt dis guy seem either to be lying or so happy to av let her go lol

There could be other reasons too oga, you never know

They better return that boy to his mum, or give him a chance to choose. Nobody, I mean, nobody, can replace a mother....as long as the biological mother is still alive tho

KAYD007:
why makes it looks like he intentionally drop them like its hot?

man shouldn't stay in a relationship out of pity...lest it turns to hate.

Because I have been there, and I know just how it feels like

obiorathesubtle:
Lol.. Kindof.. She always wanted more tho.. More love, more attention, wanted things her way.. Very slow to adjust.. Stuff like that..

So.. I guess so..


But I'm grateful to have known someone like her, she taught me a lot of things.. She made me realise parts of myself I had no idea about..

she humbled me to the ground! Damn!!

Not to make a fuss o, but these are normal problems people can have. I am sure you have some too. So, in conclusion, that is not the reason for the breakup.

It's all good sha. Good morning.

obiorathesubtle:
I'm still trying to find out o.. But I'm sure she's happy where she is.. I was a handful, I know

Is it the case of love isn't enough? Because I cannot understand why else you will let someone you connect with that well go away

Op, obiorathesubtle and emperorlee have given you really great advise. Consider it seriously.

I am going to come from another angle. I am not trying to reprimand you, but just what do you think will happen to the girls you just dropped like hot coal? You drag them in just to leave them broken? Even if you don't consider anything, please consider these girls. Don't purposefully leave a trail of broken hearts behind you.

Fin advise: If you are not absolutely sure, do not even start it at all.

Obiorathesubtle, that story was so touching I'd really wanna know what happened