Rexhenrex:
lol...i don't date girls who are dull view my d.p the lady there is a final year medicine student in Singapore all the ladies i have dated are pretty and physically attractive and thanks for your contribution tho

Rexhenrex:
thank you sir,would put this into consideration but the sex aspect i can't,

rosalieene:

what kind of relationship is this!!. You might not call each other even for a week! Holy SHIIT !!
communication is the key! For a person like me, communication is one of my love languages, its very important in a relationship. Anyway, you both understand yourself that's why we are all different.

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

9ja4show:



Leave him , his girlfriend is getting proper calls from anoda guy; let him be playing with his girlfriend ! He will only get to find Out on Facebook that the girl is married ..let him be claiming 4th year and still strong

rosalieene:

lmaooooo..... true talk!!
Emperorlee, this guy just made some sense. In general, 99% of girls like attention. You don't need to choke her with calls but you can always call to say 'hi' at least once a day
if you really love her, you will always want to hear from her. 9ja4show has said the obvious!!

EmperorLee:




99%? And you know this because? All I know and am saying is about myself. I don't know about 99%, I don't know any fuchkin 9jashow, I don't know if my girlfriend is fuvkinh getting married this fuvking Saturday and I don't fuvking bloody care. If she marries another it simply means she is not destined to be my wife.

rosalieene:

hehehe..... take it easy man

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

EmperorLee:



Hehehehehe. I just don't like it when someone intrudes into my relationship life, I only sited it as an example to the Op and I didn't ask anyone for their opinion about it. That 9ja guy just show begin yiarn dust Shey na hin relationship abi shey na hin girlfriend wan do wedding




How you dey jaare Rose? You remember me like this?

Rexhenrex:
I Am Very Confused What Should I Do?


[b]For sometime now i have been trying to hide this problem of mine,but now i can't hide it any longer because its really getting out of hand i just had to muster courage to type this because a problem shared ,they say is Half solved.

whenever i see a girl i like i would want to get her and assure my self that i will date her and eventually marry her i will also tell my friends that once i get her am not going to date any other lady.but when the lady agrees to date me after highest a month i would get tired of her and break-up with her. the longest relationship i ever had was 2months and it made me feel bitter when i heard a guy saying he is in the 3rd year now with his g.f i was just wondering how he did that. its really not funny i told my bestie bout it and she said maybe its because am an introvert and its because i don't have sex with my g.f so it gets boring for me and currently am dating a girl but am getting bored again as usually and i really love this lady but i fear i will soon break-up with her again and i don't want this to happen...pls how can i enjoy a relationship without involving sex ??

Matured minds please its really important and perhaps others might benefit from your advice also.thanks![/b]

emerged01:
It is better to remain single until you are ready to marry and have sex.

misspicy:

[b]Hi Henry
I believe in understanding the root of a problem,correct me if I'm wrong.
@the bolded,trust me its all in your mind,the environment,peer pressure,what you noticed an elder doing while growing up/how people you look up to tend to treat or handle relationships,is just what you are acting with,so,your mind is conditioned to feel tired or fed up after just a little time.

eg,a male friend told me that "men are supposed hate ladies immediately after sex/intimacy (outside marriage)".(that was his mindset due to peer discussion,boys night out talks etc) but he found out,he always love her more instead,and even though,he thinks he should hate her,he will be the one introducing the cuddling after sex.

So my dear,I think you need a reorientation on relationship,all these advice will not work unless your purge your mind of the foundamental persperctive of what a relationship should be like.

I was once like that,always breaking up with my boyfriend over every slight misunderstanding(I had the believe that a guy must not offend me,I am doing him a favour by dating him,etc) until the day my then boyfriend, warned me that he is not going to beg me as usual,he will just breakup too,I realized there and then that I really didn't want to breakup with him,since then,I learnt to iron issues out by communication rather than threaten breakup.

If you don't find all these advice useful,please don't force yourself,to avoid breeding comtempt for your girlfriend,instead,go for medical help,a relationship counsellor will know what to do[/b]

IamLEGEND1:
your bestie is a girl?
I give up.

chigoizie7:
Op we are on the same page. Just that I am a lot better than u are.

I have sex in all my relationships,

The only other different is that I pass 2months, but never 9months.



If I tell u how many girls I have dated from the time I started till now, u will call me ashawo, sadly, I never double dated in all my relationships and I never cheated on any girl.

My only problem is that I get bored along the line, it doesn't last for me too. No matter how hard I try, most of the girls(good girls) involved in all those my stupid rubish I called relationship are still very good friends with me, maybe most of them understood the kind of person I am. I never really hurt any of them in the course of our dating, I just wake up one morning and then decides it's over and that's it. I don't know, maybe because whenever I want to go into relationship, I always have it @ the back of my mind that it will eventually lead to marriage someday, I mean, I don't go into relationships for the fun of it. I hate wasting people's time, so once I see some traits I ain't looking up for in a wife, I just get bored and feel it's a waste of time fooling around, and I will just call it quits.


Then I realised that I was never ever really ready to be in a relationship.



Me too, I neeeeeeeed help, what could be the cause of it?

IamLEGEND1:

E no matter......coz in the end,when push comes to shove,you go still knack am.....so the issue of bestie na tale by candlelight.
But I'll advise you dump the girl you're seeing....relationships no be for everybody.
I hit & run all the time and I've never been happier.
No responsibilities,no expectations.... my life Is awesome.

IamLEGEND1:
Sé un poco de español.....I have no idea why I stopped learning honestly.na Booz of one babe sef wey I begin dey learn the thing ........ But now

Richiy:


Is it the case of love isn't enough? Because I cannot understand why else you will let someone you connect with that well go away

jaybillionaire:
lol I can feel ur pain with dis, especially with the last smiley. By now u should know dt dis guy seem either to be lying or so happy to av let her go lol

Rexhenrex:
yea a very pretty girl any problem?