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@tope 2000. you seem to have a lot of experiences. I am sure you might not have had sex on a first date but rather a fling. comon just admit it, I have been reading your threads and I think you have a lot to your personality, comon let the cat out, admit you are adventures. thrill us all pls

wow. its so hard and bad to know that a lot of people are damn hypocrites, do you know wat women actually like? a very bad guy in a good attractive man. someone who would do things other than the usual. like a perfect bad guy. no woman likes an original routine though its preferable for principle guidelines but if a guy on the first date who is smashing and good with words can non verbally talk them through a very emotional time into bed and its great after that, trust me they will keep they would keep that moment strong and love that foreve.

women love that on first dates, but the problem is doing with and feeling good about it and not guilty especiallly if the sex sucks or the guy is very immature and acts funny after all, otherwise I love to let you know that most women get their best fantasies accomplished that way, women you know what I am talking about, J. girl what do u think?

Hi there fellow Niairalanders, please I need your help massively, I have been trying to complete the application form for uniben post ume examination but uptil now the site is not opening, please if you can help me out do send me a mail on the link I would use, my email address is righocream@yahoo.co.uk

The deadline for uplaoding is fast approaching and I need to get all done before then,
Thanks

Hello, please I need your assistance in this. My girlfriend really needs a JOB and she is at the momment doing her NYSC and so since I am a member of the Naira land club I decided that I would place an advert to assist her here, please if there is any job opportunity for Glo, mtn, or bank jobs for freshers please do contact me.

she read English education and came out with a 2-2 , above all speak English, Yoruba and Agbor fluently and should be rounding up in the next 5 months, please I really need assistance.

contact: righocream@yahoo.co.uk
08035903630

Diamonds my name

Hello, please I need your assistance in this. My girlfriend really needs a JOB and she is at the momment doing her NYSC and so since I am a member of the Naira land club I decided that I would place an advert to assist her here, please if there is any job opportunity for Glo, mtn, or bank jobs for freshers please do contact me.

she read English education and came out with a 2-2 , above all speak English, Yoruba and Agbor fluently and should be rounding up in the next 5 months, please I really need assistance.

contact: righocream@yahoo.co.uk
08035903630

Diamonds my name

Guy its better you stop now, think about your wife and your kids, what could happen if your wife finds out? she would just loook less of you, besides she would secretly start to do her subordinate since you think you are the only one that has urge and all,
look back from where you have come from and loook forward to being happy in future,

get your mind off the woman or start counting the day you are doomed,

best warning, room please offer him more,

@Timoni.

he is just some weak man, heheheh!!!! I think he has run away seeing that he aint game to real gamers, I want him to understand this that I am not in anyway trying to diss the fella though but one thing is for sure, when next he is trying to make a point he should try as much as possible in his own minute point of view cut his dreams or utopia to his size and not share his self induced dreams of what women think about him with the room. I guess he is a blunt and fake ass playa wanna be!

no hate man just putting the records straight,



@BIG_BUMPER

so what do you think about that babe? you need more? ooops hope he dont get mad

I have another problem here. I made a passport in 2004 with an age of 36 years and gave my agent to get me a visa to London,who applied as an individual who wants to travel either through a company or something. which I was refused me visa, the following year I made another passport but this time with my real age was used but a different place in the uk not london as I intend to further my education, the thing is that the pictures are slightly alike and just that the ages are different and the names are with a difference with an additional name but the signatures are the same. but the current passport goes with my real identifty as I intend to futher my education and I had to use some real information now including my dads fat account and his company status. do you think anything can ever go wrong? or did I just do ot right? do you think the embassy has some cute device database that can easily detect my name once entered into the computer records? also I want to know if I would be issued a visa as I was supposed to resume today 29th of januray for enrolement and further clearifications at school and the embassy is delaying me making things hard for me as they said that I should keep on trying the embassy to see if my application has been sent to the VAF1 office so that I can go over and pick up. do you think they would say that the time space is short as though I cannot get a visa, I submited my application on the 10th of January this month 2007.


lastly is it tru that countries defer in respect to London. like in other countries in the uk is easier to get a visa than that of apply to a country like London

@phoenixman

nice you have some good thinking also, you must really be a player or you have the instincts. I beleive that you would not have a problem with over = sabi so called women. you have a good c.v in respect to dating, you too much.

I like your sense of reasoning and rational decisions I beleive that you execute, nice one. PLAYA!

My judgements fall in life with yours and I totally agree with what you meant by saying,
Absolutely NOT true! There are some girls you date and all you think about is when to sleep with them. There are some that sex takes a complete back seat and you are more interested in making her happy and taking her for keeps!
It is false to assume all boys are the same. Any girl who is eager for sex on the first date is out of my window by the third date!

Asking me how many kids i want on a first date will make me sit up and take you more seriously! It works well for me!

but what I do not go along 100% is that some men take advantage of good girls, infact that is their major drive and turn ons in life, they are more into good girls and love to debauch them of their naivity. also no matter what a man his if he is a bad guy he would always have pussy on his mind nothing changes that from what he wants on a first date except if the woman he is with is more confident than he is then be sure that he would cat away in defence, what do you think

@Big BUmper

Sorry I thought that you were the owner of the post and that you were male and not until I checked your last post and found out that you were just replying Tmoni's post, sorry for that aweful mistake, well Timoni' I guess the post was yours,this goes to you okay why dont you read it up and get a grip on life,

@Big Bumper.

I must say that you are so good, where on earth did you get all those experience from>?I would have sworn that you were a guy not until I checked your profile. wow you are some lady, I must confess I had to read up all your posts and I found out that there are a few people in this site whom I respect their judgements immensely and I guess I can take advices from them as well.

I envy you a great deal. keep up your good thoughts and sorry for thr@Big BUmper

Sorry I thought that you were the owner of the post and that you were male and not until I checked your last post and found out that you were just replying Tmoni's post, sorry for that aweful mistake, well Timoni' I guess the post was yours,this goes to you okay why dont you read it up and get a grip on life,

@Big Bumper.

I must say that you are so good, where on earth did you get all those experience from>?I would have sworn that you were a guy not until I checked your profile. wow you are some lady, I must confess I had to read up all your posts and I found out that there are a few people in this site whom I respect their judgements immensely and I guess I can take advices from them as well.

I envy you a great deal. keep up your good thoughts

@big Bumper.

I think you have a problem really. I can solve that for you. I have a feeling which tells me that you have an inferiority complex in your nature. it tends to make you think that you are a pro in dating and leading women in your life and that is okay but what is not okay here is that you make a fuss about it.

I will give you the answer to your worries, I see you as a worrior. yes a worrior in local leagues, the problem is that you date abnormally normal women which are not in your class. you maye be better than them psychologically or maybe higher in social class or probably restricted yourself to ugly and defenceless inferior complexed women who have no other choice in life for a man to lead on than to wait on you as a perfect rescuerer and a romeo long awaited, what do you think? after waiting for you for so long and you finaly give the greenly and want to back out and they let you out of their life? you must be joking,

Lastly I would like you Big bumper to move higher to sophisticated women and not just losers or no confident low i.q'ed ladies and do some league of your match instead of taking advantage of less privilegded societal ladies and coming to the forum to post some bravados about your weak self. get a life, its men like you that give guys like us a bad name.

peace oout!!!

[quote][/quote]@oggboy

I could really need your help OGGBOY.

I am to resume in january 29th 007 and I applied at the embassy on the 10th of this month 2007, well I am waiting for my passport status and I keep calling the vis office but up till now they said that I could call back next week which would probably mean from 3rd of Febuary.

I intend to school in scotland and its a business school with a fee of 3700 pounds for a study time of 18 months full time hours. I hjave paid a deposite of 1000 pounds and also accommodation of 1000 pounds.

My bank statements and some id cards of where I worked and letter stating from my employer, my letter from sponsor which is my dad and he wrote the letter stating from a local government recognised kingship area in Delta state stating that he was a ruler with the logo and letter heading from the local ruling council along with a fat account which I was instructed not to open but summit that way, tell me will they verify all these documents?

I need your help. do you think I might encouter any difficulties? did I do something wrong somewhere? I am really scared though. help me out on this.

[quote][/quote]@oggboy

I could really need your help OGGBOY.

I am to resume in january 29th 007 and I applied at the embassy on the 10th of this month 2007, well I am waiting for my passport status and I keep calling the vis office but up till now they said that I could call back next week which would probably mean from 3rd of Febuary.

I intend to school in scotland and its a business school with a fee of 3700 pounds for a study time of 18 months full time hours. I hjave paid a deposite of 1000 pounds and also accommodation of 1000 pounds.

My bank statements and some id cards of where I worked and letter stating from my employer, my letter from sponsor which is my dad and he wrote the letter stating from a local government recognised kingship area in Delta state stating that he was a ruler with the logo and letter heading from the local ruling council along with a fat account which I was instructed not to open but summit that way, tell me will they verify all these documents?

I need your help. do you think I might encouter any difficulties? did I do something wrong somewhere? I am really scared though. help me out on this.

I can't tell you how to find out what a guy wants on the first date but you can always tell who is going to be a royal pain in the butt:

--If he keeps picking up calls during the date (the clown would apologise, but he would still answer his countless amount of calls)
--If he keeps talking about cars(especially if you are not into cars)
--If his favorite topic of discussion is football.

[/quote]--if he takes you to a place that he has visited with his ex/es
--if he didn't ask you what you would like to do for the date.[quote]

@desiree

Seems you are a whole lot of experiences , you seem to have been with clumsy and lousy men before. well I agree with you, I know how some men can be so selfish and arrogant not even thinking about the likes and interests of their dates,
buit which ever way, do not ever compromise your happiness for just some loser by making you seem you are inferior or desperate. its okay to ask such a question but what matters most is asking it at the right time, right gestures and right rhythms, make sure you concentrate more on pulses and gestures and not showing to easy that you are observing when you want to ask your much awaited question.

Goopd luck

In favour of phoenixman

I agree solely phoenixman for what you have contributed in this post. there is really no need reading other posts by other columnists and posters. The question is quick and fast to answer. From my basic experience I have had with girls, I have noticed that you have a better advantage of getting what ever you want from a woman if you come out and say what you want from her.

If she ask you the golden question what you want from her and you indeed just want a stand and nothing to it. then you admit it to her that you just want sex and tell her why you want sex instead of a relationship. while you are at it, this is your chance to market your self and let her know the reasons why and also tell her how good you are in bed and what you can do and how long you can last.

Also I want you all to know especially the women that on a first date with a man, he could be good and so cool, the other cool be so direct and fast to ask for pussie, I do not think that is a problem I must say that you have to commend the latter because he has the nerves to say it and thus he could be realistic whenever there is really something worth going for you as he would be most open minded and let you have a feel of what he feels if you eventually have a relationship going.

Lastly. I know this from all views and experiences. when you meet a guy. in the heat of good discussion between you two in a period of 10 mins atleast, a guy is able to say if he would be with you for a long time or just after he hits you or just after he fools you into a relationship. so babes I want you to know this no matter the time it would take to hoard your pussie, a man would run if he wants to run away do n ot put the time factor as a determinant. some guys would not mind waiting for as long as 4 years, atleast your beauty is worth it and maybe your pussie but once they hit that spot and hit it so many times then they just fade out and get a woman less than you are.

so just be real and flow with the thrills, so many people who are successful in relationships today will never tell you the secrets that occured when they met thier hobbies of partner. perhaps on their first date they were real and went with the flow of the thrills and ended up the most inexplicable adventure of their lives, persona depends anyway,

last words, just be real and ask questions that you think means alot to you, and guys do not be afraid to answer what your heart chooses, its okay you just might not know what goes on in your ladies head, might click you know,,

@ PTB

But nine years!!!

I mean. . .do you all plan on having kids?

I really don't know what to say about this, I'm just wondering if you're up to her emotional level and things


I guess you have a hint about what I actually went through, I was more than an emmotional level for her. infact she always suspected me of having it with another woman which was really most figment of her imagination. She was trying to get off her emmotions as though her past relationships with her ex I guess,, why is it strange? did you know that she never knew my age, not even till now. I think she thought I was abit or couple years younger maybe like 2 or 3 but I guess I was more than she can imagine, well I think she thinks I am like 29 or 28

@FEELGOOD.

There's a limit 2 age gap between spouses my brother. because u like older gals doesnt mean u should get married to your mama's mate - that will be pushing love too far.
your testimony about your girlfriend is not enough reason 4 your obsession with them mamas. Youngies also do same


seems like you havea problem somewhere. I only gave a few lines of advises but since you did not that you can atleast give yours also. I am in no condition to convince you about why I think he should marry whoever he wants to. but I am here just to give him examples and reasons why we love the older chicks better ootherwise the younger ones just are somewhat shy and will hardly let you know what is going on in thier minds.

you can say that I am obsessed. I can easily bet that you are in no present relationship or you have never had any experience so please find somewhere to throw your frustration and annoyance and if you need help just ask the whole room and we would be sure to help you out ,

have a nice time aighttt!!!

@COCO

my new yr resolution was to stop swearing but what the f u ck are you talking about ??

when i was a teenager i was quite confuse and had several boyfriends,and i am not a lesbo !!!

and i am sure as hell do not want to be in a bed with no one other than my man.

you a freak


I understand that you are not a freak, you had several boyfriends and all and that is okay as a teenager and you were not a Lebian. what I can tell is that I have just heard that you were not a lesbian but cant you say outritghtly that you have not considered doing that with a fellow chick

@COCO

sweetie all i see is one confuse teenager, it is not my place to judge her.

and what three some are you talking about

I think I was talking about her getting her boyfriend and those other two guys she says likes and to tel them to help her out all in a room. guess none of them would object if she is that cool with it, could end up having an all three sex outfuit together, she is twisted and thats a reall twisted way of getting good sexual relationsions. I know this cos I have done this several times and it was cool. just depends on how u can express yourself and not be secretive or shy, just be yourself and no matter what people feel about you I beleive that I do not give a Bleep. I just say what I fee at the point intime and let you judge , but actions comes after which I never regret,


I think and know that she has some attributes of a lesbian. or she must have had a lesbian lover or attracted to some lesbian but she is trying to swing into a non gay life or what they prescribe as normal life, most lesbians have this feelings cos they are confused about their sexuality, dont get me wrong, I think she is reaching a ood stage inlife when she can realise her sexual preference and that is cool with me,

I use to dae a lesbian and these are not new occurances she posses. I know that she has fantasies of having a three-some

@COCO

what do you mean speak like a teenager, dont you read inbetween the lines ? look at what she says, you only consider what she is saying and not what she is feeling, I feel a certain connection with what she is saying, not everyone has what she has right now, she is really diversed in her emmotional feelings and this can be psychic in nature, she says she is in love with someone and feels something for another , yet she thinkis someone likes her, not everyone is able to explain how much they feel or express it I see hers as no exception, I think she is more into relationships MULTIPLE than she can remember, this is to her, check yur mind and see if you prefer to have it a three some,

coco you are unbeleiveable

I see dancerina, there s no problem which you ever have a the momment or before I just think that you have a misplacement of personality which I woud love to advise should be corrected, well I think that you have a multiple love affair which is quite normal. I want you to know that its okay as many people practice this in the western world and which is gradually growing and existing here in Africa,

why dont you tell these guys that you have been into and invite them all in a plac and a same venue. get a good gang banging with them. I am sure after that you would have a very healthy sex life and better relationship. I think you are a wonderful fantasizer and a humorous woman, do this please and get back to me. if you want my direct contact I can give to you in the next post, I can advise you more on this and how you can go ahead and have a blissful life having it